₦airaland Forum

festacman:
It is not matter of choosing who over who. It is matter of keeping everything in its place. It is matter of giving everyone from siblings, husband, extended family members, friends, work boss and colleagues to pastor their due as SOCIALLY BALANCED being living in the human society.

Now you come! If everyone understands this, then we will have a peaceful society. But the truth is, everyone wants to go past their boundary,thereby creating rivalry.

festacman:
Female twins siblinghood can't die with marriage since they share the same origin. A MENTALLY BALANCED female twin joins a man's family in marriage but maintains a healthy bond with her twin sister but relates legally and conjugally to her husband in a positive way. No SANE man who marries a twin female will discourage her wife from bonding with her twin sister because he knows what he is entering from first day.

So, should your wife choose her twin over you her husband!

festacman:
A woman marries into the man's heart and household to add to the man's family lineage. So she has no business choosing the family she left over the family she joined. If my wife is so DAFT as to choose her family over me, then there is no marriage. She moves back to her family.

You see! You are speaking with two sides of the mouth. Didn't you consider that when you said sibling bond is stronger than marital bond. Refer to your post! What if your wife was a twin, and she chooses her twin over you her husband?
Or is there an exception because she is a woman?

festacman:
What led to this argument was somebody who said that marriage bond is superior to sibling bond and in this case twin-sibling bond. My stand is sibling bond is implicitly superior.

How will you feel if your wife choose her family over you?

festacman:
If marriage covenant is stronger why do couple divorce. Look, brothers and sisters can fight but are connected from the same chromosomal mix forever. FOREVER!

But they are still married and not divorced. They are one!

AfonjaMuslim:
Your Yoruba wife isn't your blood

The two became one when they got married!

See them disgracing their gender!

ShipChina2naija:
Person wey no see her husband for almost 11years,,una no want her to sort herself out sexually ,,.. Its only when you find yourself in same situation you criticized others for..then you understand why most times you need to be rational in judging people....

Dear op,,pick yourself up,,no go think die.na pickin you born just the way your husband also gave birth while being away.,,Explain everything to your husband..you are not gonna die,,any modaf*cker in your situation would do what you've done....and to your sister that wants to blackmail you,,she can go fu*ck herself.. Since she doesn't wanna think like human being.all because she covered you. ..let her do her worst ..just make sure you got something doing to take care of yourself....

What i dont understand is if the people insulting you wanted you to re-virginise for 11years without sex like your hubby wasn't fuc*king someone else where he was.... All of you raining insult on her are very stupid...

They are very stupid! The man was busy umpregnating women over there and left the wife unserviced

Some men are just so weak! If she had regard for her husband, she wouldn't dare do such terrible thing to his daughter. A man should have a strong hold on his home!

Poshriel:
Its midnight and the angles moving about
Therefore I pray for everyone looking for the fruit of the womb. I use the ooni as a Point of contact and I say by this time next year all of you shall be carrying your babies in Jesus name. Amen.

Pls hit like to agree and key into this chain prayer

Amen

Racoon:
We move! Since nothing has changed yet they are threatening people demanding for good governance and end to brutality/oppression/terror while corruption continues unabated.Screw the government.

Hope you are typing from the protest ground?

jornwhite:
Is it wrong for families to try ensure women stays in there marriage, even the court people run to for divorce don't just break marriage as quick as social media judges , "the emotions are all too high". some of una still be children you just talk as if marriage naa 100l boyfriend & gurlfriend parole.
Domestic violence has negative psychological effect on children likewise divorce, which is why most times wise people try to seek resolution.



when the pastor said for better for "worst" what do people think worst could mean.

It is 100% wrong for families to insist couples stay in abusive marriages were their life is threatened.
"Dead body no dey judge case"!
We still haven't forgotten 'Mariam Sanda' s case and a few others.
Besides, you have been blaming the woman for calling out the man on social media. You are no different from her because you have been spamming the whole Nairaland with the history of the woman's family. Talk about pot calling the kettle black.

clarocuzioo:
I can't marry that type of a girl. My family will disown me.

Nobody can bank roll me.
I.dont even know the husband.

Why is she bringing this to the social media when families are there.

The same family that would advise her to remain in the marriage until she gets killed. Didn't you read the part she said it is not the first time he is beating her. What makes you think the family is not aware. Go your separate ways if you both can't tolerate each other. Their children would be scarred for life if they keep witnessing such toxic behaviors.

clarocuzioo:
The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.


There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.

But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.

Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.

Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.

This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.

If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.

Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.

Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.

It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.

For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.

NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now.

Are you his mouth piece? Besides, why are dragging her whole family into this. Who is bankrolling you? You go about on all thread posting this shit. Or, are you the 'panel beater' husband? Say no to domestic violence! If you can't cope with the marriage, abeg go your separate ways!

Openbusiness:
Investigative clues: Gin + energy drink + sex

Analysis: gin can cause heartburn and energy drinks increases blood pressure, while sex causes fatigue and irregular heartbeats

Probable cause of death = high blood pressure, heart failure with possible choking asphyxiation

Conclusion: gin + energy drink + sex = deadly combination

Weldone! Nairaland Doctor, you are doing well!!

AuntRose:
And the husband or perverted man marrying without control isn't an Olosho? Btw who centralized the word 'Olosho' to the ladies only?

Hypocrisy at it's peak!

It is' Brolosho' for the men!

QuinieR:
I have gotten already I bought Hisense top loader Front loader are expensive

Post pictures of the one you bought. What's the review so far?

SilverNorGold:
My brother, read properly - one of the reasons, not all.. And no, we won't tolerate such nonsense here. Nigeria is not US/UK.. And who told you God is not angry with America? How God operates is different. And how he chooses to punish each country is different too.. Don't expect a monotonous punishment for all.. Everyone will be punished uniquely and at the appropriate time.

When God Almighty punished Israel for their sins - sins committed by some Israelites - there were many nations living in worse sins, at the time, that were not punished alongside the Israelites. However, it doesn't mean God wasn't angry with them.. Just that their time of reckoning wasn't ripe.. At some point, God even commissioned some of those sinful/pagan nations to punish the Israelites - who were more righteous than they - for the sins committed by some/most of them.. Does that mean God was happy with those sinful/pagan Nations? No.. His ways are different..

Same thing is happening to Nigeria.

Just say you don't believe in God and move on..

God bless Nigeria.

God's PA, weldone! You are doing well!!

ggood:
Good one Tonto Dikeh didn't do her homework well

Na that Churchill guy come deceive her. Even made her pay for her own bride price . Strolls out of thread!

Romanoff:
Those eyelashes can sweep a massive compound.

The day I vowed not to use it again is the day I was flapping my eyes like pepeye.

Women dey try o.

The last time I used one was on my wedding day. Although not as long as this her own. It was on our way home from the reception that I pulled it out in the car and tossed it out the window ! I cannot go and kill maself on top artificial beauty!

soulstalker:
Good morn, landers
i urgently need the elders advice on this issue.
My two years old son will always prefer to sleep on the floor(tiled) than the bed. We both sleep on the bed at night but by the time i wake up in the middle of the night he's already on the floor. Even if i carry him back to the bed, he will still return to the floor, i complained to people around me, they said maybe he doesn't like heat, but we have an ceiling and industrial fan in the room that can blow destiny away. Am really confused aswear. Sirs and ma's, pls what could be the cause and what can i do to make him stop it?

Once he is asleep on the floor, just roll him to a corner and spread bedsheets before placing him back on same spot do he don't catch cold.

She should be fished out! Ugly Arrow!

Mr. MACARONI, "YOU ARE DOING WELL"!

Op don Score goal already! Happy Marriage life!!!

Friend22:
I am really afraid of ladies of today and the way they feel entitled to a man's wealth.

Stop using having kids as basis for your argument, it won't sell.

From the post, Duncan mighty was simply stating that neglect of mother over a girlfriend who can dump you at anytime should not be your outmost priority rather give your mum the same comfort she battled hard to give to you when you were young.
My experience with ladies has made this fact known to me that ladies of this generation are not to be totally trusted .
You lack most of the things our mothers had and you feel a man owes you his life for marrying you?

If I decide to gift my mum a car,while we(myself and my wife) have a car it should not be an issue.

You women can leave your husband without thinking twice when conditions changes, but a Mother will never abandon his son no matter what.
And you are there comparing them?!

That is a lie! If it were true, you won't be seeing baby factories everywhere. Some mothers even sell their babies for peanuts!

Duncan should make us understand what he means by 'woman'. Is it wife, sidechick or girlfriend?

majamajic:
I said 95% don't , but in East Africa it's very common , when your girl visit in east africa u need to spray extra duve. Kogi and Benue are the closest here with 90% , in South East it's about 99% against . Kwara is about 93% highest in SW , Calabari is about 97% highest from SS , for some reason I will leave core North

Na wao! Minister of sex affairs

Zzor:
No threat or anything of sort, it has been a lot of pamperings from the family, I cried so much the day i was on phone with the daughter, the mum already told him that she will only released the daughter to him when he gets married, now little mimi sees me as her soon to be mother. I really don't know how i got this far in all these

You are beginning to fall for this their trick. You will soon open another thread on how you have been scammed! These Niggars have upgraded their game,

Zzor:
Good morning to you all, I know i would get a correct advise and steps to take here over my mistakes. I met this man who lives and work in the US on one of the social media networks and we became chat buddies, strictly platonic and nothing more, he told me how he lost his wife to cancer some years back and have been unable to remarry, he told me about his only child (a girl) who lives with his mum here in Nigeria, I get to know much about him from our chats and I realized he has not seen his daughter for some years now and there was no communication with his daughter for almost two years. The reason was that the mum told him never to call her again since he has refused to remarry and will only speak with him when he has found a wife, he's the only child of the mum and they are from a very wealthy home, the mum is eager and so desperate for more kids from him (you understand how our mothers behave on issues like this). During one of our conversation, he suddenly asked if I would consider him for marriage and I replied with a solid No, he then begged me to play along as he intends Introducing me to the mum as his fiancee just so he could speak with his daughter, he sent me crying videos of how he misses his daughter and how his mom kept to her words, I sympathized with him and saw the eagerness and somehow I agreed to speak with the mom and play along so he will achieve his aim of speaking with his daughter. The next day his mum called and I could hear the excitement in her voice, she was so happy and didn't even care of other things, she spent more than an hour with me on phone and told me alot, by this time I was already scared but can't withdraw. That was the beginning of this whole problems, his mum now call me on daily basis, through her I have spoken with aunties and uncles of this man I haven't even met, recently she sent someone in my location to check on me and she brought really expensive gifts for me,she wanted to visit me but I somehow was able to convince her that she should wait till her son comes back which is next month. I have complained to this man of how he got me into a trap I didn't bargain for and he keeps begging and sending crying videos and telling me to do this for him so as to establish once more a good relationship with his mom and daughter and that when he comes back, he will sort out everything. Now this whole thing has really weigh me down, I don't sleep well anymore, I've lost weight and my heart skips each time my phone rings, my mum keeps asking me if anything is wrong but I can't get to tell her, I'm depressed already. Please help me with advise on what to do and how best to remove myself from all this. Please don't bash me and I'm not a good writer too, pardon me.

If this is not a script, then listen and listen good!
That family is about to scam you. The man or his fictitious mom will soon call you that their so called daughter had an accident. You will be expected to help bail them out with an outrageous medical bill, of which the idiot scammer will promise to pay back on his soon visit to Nigeria.
Open your eyes wide and cut off all contacts from them. A word is enough for the wise!

People from that region should be on the street protesting by now! But, no! They would rather protest against one blasphemy against their prophet that happened somewhere in the other side of the continent... Who cursed these people with foolishness?

NwaAmaikpe:





When I see a couple and see their kids....I already know which one of them is a weakling in the other room.
It's obvious Davido is passionate and very good in bed and that's why all his kids look like him.

I have postulated a theory that says that it is not about dominant and recessive genes but about performance at conception.
Go and check it; a child always looks like the partner who worked harder on the day the child was conceived.

Always trying too hard to be funny

dairykidd:
Omor cooking moin moin for the first time.following instructions from here n those stupid YouTube videos. Did everything as instructed used corned beef n smoked fish. And used couldn't get leaves or cans so i used those little nylons...

First off the nylons began to swell up i had to remove some. Even at that still couldn't close the lid. Later some begin burst inside the pot as if it wasn't enough it began to get burnt... mtcheeew i just wasted my efforts. This is the only thing i could get out of the cooked ones

All those describing the process like its easy.. make una warn una selves biko

So fvcking annoying

Sorry dear... You could double the nylon next time, and always check for water at the base of the pot while cooking.. You can also line the base of the put with old newspaper.