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BlueRayDick:
Amala and ewedu + obstacles

Jeez! Kuku kee me!

Dyt:
Elewa agoyin tide oo

My all time favorite!Just the right combo with dodo!

Erin Ijesha Water falls, a beautiful place to be!

Blackmann001:
Siblings family is different from husband.....most good working wives hate their husband...

Women that cater and assist family are the struggling one..huzlers..not really paid working ladies....schooled paid working ladies..only want to marry,they hate their husbands

Fallacy of hasty generalization! How many working class women have you met?

shugasofttouch:
In a nutshell u want an already made woman. I'm sure if it were to be a woman seriously looking for an already made man you would have insulted the living daylight out of her. Intelligent, smart, educated lady, yes but working class guy u mean u can't help get her a job or help start/grow her business. Truth be said I fit in your characteristics but honestly I prefer being single having an affair with you talk more of marriage. The fact that you wia quick to defend yourself that despite being a working class lady, you would take responsibility for the home is already an f9 for you

See as you use style market yourself!

Blackmann001:
Its easier said than accepted...my main guyz elder bro has a 4 big pharmacy stores at akure.(you shld know how the revenue flows na)....he also wanted a working class lady just for the personality...sh is a very clean banker..

He buyz every big needed food stuffs at home..bag of rice,tin tomatoes cartons, beans,garri, big oil, detergent, etc...and still drops 4k daily for food.

Can you believe that the day he failed to drop it.a working class banker wife..gave him food with one meat citing money not enough..and couldn't put enough stew for the small house help of the house...that day.gen had issues and he called repairer home DTS house he spent all his money at hand.. Cuz he doesn't return with money except food money...

Bro u no may not get money rich dix guy.....has three cars..built 3commercial houses at akure,(Igbo's guy from Enugu state). Has up to 15 sales persons..on a daily revenue of 200k...

But that small attitude vexed him and he confronted the i-too sabi wife..who started doing logic.. Dt day ,he hated the lady..and 3months later they were divorced cuz the lady refuses to apologise say he is the man and shld regularly provide for family...

The lady earns 90k from the bank!

Is that enough reason to have stereotype on 'working class' ladies? What about the 1001 working class ladies that are single-handedly shouldering their family's responsibilities?

Fear will never allow baby Freezer speak up against the Northerners. Na only pastors body him dey flex muscle!

Abouwaza:
Yes but the officer wey wan catch me sef dey do Yahoo so what?

Na person wey dem catch naim be Thief!

Abouwaza:
You got a problem with that?

Nope.,but you are likely to get issues with law enforcement...

Abouwaza:
Endsars now
And to those fools shouting reformsars, endyahoo

You are just ignorants, little did you know these sars officials also do Yahoo, yes one arrested me last month and was telling me cashapp wa oo, I dey load cc too
I was like wtf!!
U need to see the app on this guy's phone and he collected almost all my working apps that day
I saw him last 2 weeks at the barber shop and guess what? He bought a new muscle whip.

The thing is if you like curse all yahooboys all you like, the rage at which the thing is trending right now in our community, you and I are related to a Yahoo boy one way or the other
So think very well before you wish your family bad
Peace
#Endsars

So, what are you saying? That you are a y boy?

RosyIsBlessed:
Imagine!! Criminals have hijacked this protest. Sars that has already been disbanded.

Op this is Lagos tho. Stop misleading people.

It's a peaceful protest! Where are the criminals in the video? It's not the first time our government is giving us audio promises

icuminpiss:
The picture wey I see na edit them edit davido join?
Abi na my eye?

Didn't you hear his croaky voice? May his voice was edited too �

AllOfUsAtManna:
having sex with this girl won't be bad

Are you a lesbian?

Culled from Ola Bisi's Facebook page.
If SARS could do this to a military officer, imagine what they have been doing to civilians for years.
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MY SARS EXPERIENCE:
By Ichie Chukwuebuka

As the issue of SARS trends, I find it very pertinent that every evil those criminals are known with are laid bare. Having said that, I am of the full support that the Nigerian police Special Anti-Robbery Squad be completely scrapped.

My story:

I know that many would be surprise to read that I've had an encounter with SARS, but it is what it is; the vulture is not an edible meat. If this place is a jungle, they're just in the league of wild dogs & nowhere near the gang of the kings of the jungle.

Last year, my cousin & a very good acquitance, a noble gentleman and an astute gentleman called and informed me he got news that SARS arrested one of his boys who's handling phone accessories business for him, he told me that the boy was said to have been taken to SARS detention facility at Ikeja police command. Asked what the accusation was and was told that SARS raided the boy's business line, arrested him and picked him up with the accusation that he bought a stolen phone. My cousin told me in clear terms that he was afraid of visiting the SARS detention site at Ikeja as many of his business associates who has had similar accusation who visited the facility were summarily detained along with their boys, brutalized & tortured along with their boys and were billed huge sum of money which family and friends must raise & pay before they're released. Upon this concern, I told him that I would follow him to the SARS office & see what the accusation was & how things could be resolved.

On that fateful day, I followed my man to SARS facility, we were made to drop our phones, even after I introduced myself, I obliged; I've learnt the art of diplomacy over time. I met with the said commander/leader of the squad that made the arrest I was there for, calmly, I sorted to know why the boy was arrested and all the details involved, of which the man narrated to me but not without being brash and uncout all through. At a point, I inquired how they tracked and arrested my brother's boy on the said stolen item he bought and the SARS man ordered his boys to bring "that criminal" from the cell, shortly, a very malnourished skeletal young old man(he was young but appeared old and dieing) was brought out to me, given series of slap, club hits and matchet slaps and was told to tell me what happened, the man fidgeting gasping for breath faintly said "na me thief the phone come sell am give am" (exactly his words) the SARS man now thundered at him, "you no go talk say una shoot the woman kill am? “ the man managed to give some nods as he was pushed away amidst kicks and beatings. Add that right there in my presence, I witnessed all manner of torture being meted out to detainees, men kept shouting & groaning in pain, at intervals, I heard commands like "break his hand, tight the rope, shoot his leg".. And single shots of gun that followed. At a point, I requested to see their over all boss, the OC, Officer Commanding SARS, but the man I was talking with told me clearly that I couldn't see the man, that anything we had to discuss on the issue starts and ends with him.

I knew clearly that the man that was talking to me was not happy with my presence in their premises on that very issue & the explanations he was making to me was a privilege they don't extend to "ordinary people" He made this remark to me severally, both as an act of courtesy, reminder and warning.

After presenting the supposed criminal who admitted to robbing and selling the stolen phone, SARS man emphatically told me that he was done with me as he had explained the situation to me and that I should allow my brother to see them to find a way to resolve the issue. My cousin followed him into his office and after some minutes, he came out and told me that the SARS man told him that he should pay Seven Hundred Thousand Naira to them in order to "die the matter" release his boy & his goods they confiscated. I couldn't believe my ears. I sorted the man's attention, he called me into his office & at this point, he was becoming more abrasive and hostile, he warned that he had respected me enough & that I should hands off on the matter and leave them to do their work. I told him that since it was likely a criminal case the way they presented it, that they should do due diligence, investigate further and find out the link between the young man who purchased the said stolen phone & the supposed criminal, wether it was just a random purchase or he was actually a collaborator, that in the line of establishing the fact of the matter, that was what they should do but they're rather demanding for ransom in hundreds of thousands of naira. I made it clear to him that the money they demanded won't be paid, that if they're interested in the case they should do due diligence & prosecute it to the fullest. At this point, this man became livid, it was as if he was stung by a venomous scorpion. There was no kind of threat this police man did not issue me, he told me that right there they could shoot me, frame me up and send message to my people that I was the gang leader of a notorious armed robbery squad, that I uses my influence as a military man to lead them in a series of armed robbery attacks, & that they would make the man they brought out from prison who admitted to the robbery to add me to his story as a military man who is the leader of their armed robbery gang. He called his boys and ordered them to cock riffles on me, that if I do anyhow they should shoot me, he equally told them to beat the hell out of my cousin and throw him inside cell where his boy was, and all hell was immediately loose on my cousin there in my presence, AK47 rifles, pistols and Sub machine guns (SMG) were cocked and roundly pointed at me. I've never seen something as brazen as that. They actually anticipated a violent response from me but I maintained calm in the midst of the chaos. I was just shaking my head, letting out a smirk and a smile while reminding the SARS man that he didn't know what he was doing, while he kept daring me to do anyhow and see what would happen. On the other hand, my cousin who was being brutalized and being kicked away into detention prison kept shouting amidst his pains and calling out to me not to fight; and of course, I never intended to fight. (that thing line between bravery and suicide) Was I afraid? Never, even though I knew trigger was very ready to be pulled at me, i knew what was witholding a shot or shots was my reaction to the whole malee.

I then told the SARS man that it was okay, they should do what they wanted, I would take my leave and they would hear from me. It was late in the evening, I left. This experience was the insult & embarrament of my life, I've never in my wildest imagination imagined that I would find myself in this kind of insult. To be frank, that night, not even a single sleep crossed my eyes. I made drastic effective decisions, plans, contacts, I called a police commissioner friend, a biker friend and a perfect gentleman who once headed the ikeja SARS (I still imagines how he headed such evil empire) He pleaded with me to calm down & promised that he would make sure everyone involved in the insult & assault is identified & made to answer for it. Within 10mins after speaking with him, around 10pm, the officer commanding SARS (OC SARS) Ikeja called me and introduced himself. He told me that my friend, his senior colleague called him and narrated how I was badly treated at his command, he pleaded and apologized and asked me calm down & suspend every action I wanted to take as he would make sure his officers involved in the act were dully punished & made to make retribution.

I actually didn't stop, in the morning, I went to my command and lodged official complaint on the issue to the my Military intelligence unit and Military Police and also informed other necessary relevant authorities. One thing that the charlatans at the SARS office never knew was that every damn thing that transpired between me and them was duly recorded & the evidence resounding. I shared this with my police friend & I believed he notified or forwarded same to the OC SARS which made him to put across the night call and pleaded that I soft pedal on any action I wanted to take.

I went the following day to the SARS office as was invited by their over all boss. He actually lived up to his words as upon my entrance to his office, all the officers involved in the case were marched into his office barefooted & without belt to hold their trousers, my cousin was also brought in and he confirmed that he was tortured and forced to cough out Two Hundred and Fifty Thousand Naira in the night when I had left and he was locked up. The OC made them refund the money immediately there and then, ordered that all the confiscated wares be brought out and handed back to my cousin's boy while they were released immediately. He assured that he would institute disciplinary action against the erring officers and had them duly punished, I equally informed him that the case was already officially reported to my people and we would be taking official steps on our own towards the issue, an aspect he feverntly pleaded that we jettison with the promise that the disciplinary steps he had initiated would deal with his erring officers accordingly.

To cut an already very long story short, there were several other negotiations and pleas that were considered both privately and officially before I dropped the case.. But among them was not the fact that my cousin would later tell me that these SARS bandits later contacted him privately from the address he gave on the statement he was forced to give in the night of this incident & threatened him that if his military brother pursued the case to extent that it made them to be dismissed from their work, they would track or had their colleagues in the job track him no matter how long it took and assassinate him. A threat that made him to continued pestering and pleading with me to drop the case, reminding me that he had recovered everything that was taken from him & we should let go. A threat I came to know months after the issue was already supposedly resolved and abandoned.

~ A true life story (My police friend, my cousin and his boy are all in my list and will probably read this, it's just for considered confidentiality sake that I didn't mention them)

SARS shouldn't be reformed as I don't believe there's any kind of reform that will straighten the kind of terror and criminal elements in that outfit. They should not just be banned but banned and designated a terrorist group.

#ENDSARS

BBBmall25:
My Wife Have No Reasons To Cheat. Beside I'm Married. Let Me Tell The World Something, When We Newly Married, My Wife Took Advantage Of My Religiousity To Wrecked Harvock In Our Marital Bliss. I Have To Beg Persuation Inorder To Have Anything. Sex Was A Battle At Time, Complaining About Anything Just To Be Left Alone. So After Getting Tired Of Settling The Issue In The Church And Before Her People Withn 1yr And 4months Period, We Hit The Court And Disolved. But Then Again, We Meet And Start Our Love Again And She Started Started It Again, Boom, I No Waste Time I Start Calling Exes And New Back, I No Even Respect Her Presence Again, Na So I Go Dey Flirt.... Bros Matter Long! Now Na Me Dey Do Shakara O! If U No Like Am Dat Way, Go Back To Ya Papa House. Man Just Pray U No Jam One!

cheating is wrong on all sides! Whether it's from the male perspectives or female. If you can't remain faithful to your partner, no need getting married and putting the innocent partner through emotional torture. If you can't be faithful, remain single and turn community dick or pussy!

BBBmall25:
No One Justified That! But On The Hand, If U Know What Possibly That Innocent Man Went Through In Silent Before It Resulted To This Now. She's Saying The Man Side Now, Pls. Let Her Tell Me Her Saintimonous Sister Side Biko!

See them justifying reasons why men cheat. I hope you will find reasons to justify your wife's infidelity when caught with another man?
Iranu!

Gisbourne44:
Hello house
Good morning

My girlfriend told me on the 17th of July that after scan, she was 5 weeks and 3 days pregnant. (Two weeks before this day, she took the test with the pregnancy kit and it was positive so I told her to do a scan and tell me the exact age of the pregnancy. She went for it and the doctor said he couldn’t see anything yet that she should come back in two weeks. Two weeks after that is 17th of July and it turned out 5 weeks and 3 days pregnant)

The last time prior to this date we had sex was 4th of June and that sex ended almost immediately it began because we had an argument that morning and while I wanted us to have sex she turned me down

On my way out she called me back that I forgot something. I came back to get what it was she called me for but we ended up having that short sex and while it ended abruptly was because after the 6th thrust she told me she was on her period

So I ejected and went to the shower to clean up

We both did.

Before this day the last time we had unprotected sex was 31st May


Now after the 4th of June we had issues that lasted till 16th of June and that was the next time we had sex

Now she told me on the 17th of July that she was 5 weeks and 3 days old

So since she made me believe I was the only one she was seeing

I accepted it and said I didn’t want an abortion

We both agreed to keep it

After I informed my mum about it, she was initially angry then she became open to the idea and welcomed it

And she said it’s not time yet to tell my dad about it which we both agreed

Three months later

I asked her again what the best time to tell my dad was and she said now isn’t bad

She told him and he got really angry and said the girl should go for an abortion

Then he changed his mind and said if we decide to keep it that it would be after a DNA if it’s mine that we would take custody of the child so she can move on with her life (I know how difficult it would be for a girl, so I decided to not listen to them and still do what I have in mind)

Since from the onset I made it clear it’s not a yardstick for marriage and that we should keep the child and I would shudder my responsibilities

Now the reason my dad and mum are no longer in support is because first she isn’t a graduate, her parents are no longer together and she stays alone in an area my dad feels 89% of girls there are runs girls and not fit to start a family with

So when all these were going
They asked a number of times for her number

I didn’t give them

But they actually investigated and got the number which i wasn’t aware of and it shocked me when she called and said they messaged her

Still I stood by her
My dad collected his car he gave to me saying it’s because I was mobile she kept the child and that she saw I was doing okay she also decided to keep it

While all these were going on

I told her in confidence that she knows we have gone through a lot and that the way my dads investigation is going

That if there is anything she is yet to tell me about her past or so

That she should do that before I hear it from anyone else

She told me that asides the one she told me before that there was none

I believed her

Only for me to find out that on the 12th of June

The period the age of the pregnancy tracks to

That she slept with a man (how did I know)

She was suppose to give me a gift that day she didnt turn up and her excuse was she was with her friends sister in the hospital and that I shouldn’t be angry

I believed her

And the thing is five days before this day I have her 10,000
Infact I try my best to support her with cash so she doesn’t go outside

She isn’t working so I expected in the absence of tfare and other work related expenses 10k should be enough for at least 8 days

Now after moving past all these

I was going through her mail cos she wanted me to do something for her

I saw an alert of 5k which she received on the 12th of June

The day she was absent and her friend had to deliver a gift

When I asked her she said her friend sent her money

I told her I would investigate

So I asked her countless times

She said she had sex with the guy who sent the cash but it was the early period of our relationship

I didn’t buy it

I dug further and discovered it was through she went out with the man that day and the 5k was like payment for sex they had (even after she found out I had discovered the truth) she still denied it

Not knowing I had asked her friend(roommate) where she was that day and their truths were conflicting

So the friend told her she should say the truth

That was when she started crying and all saying that she didn’t know how to tell me and all and that she is sorry

My annoyance with this is she slept with him and it yielded 5k

An amount I have never given her before

The least is 10k

And that night she slept with him

I sent her 20k which she returned telling me it was an insult that it was like I was paying her for the gift she gave me

So I sent her my account number and she sent the money back the following day which I sent back two days after that cos I had it in mind to give her the money

I forgave her for cheating
Rented a place for her, furnished it and she moved in

I spend 75% of my time after work with her

So I told her that I know if she sees the outfit she wore to see the man that it might trigger something that we should both trash the clothes, bra , shoe infact everything she wore to see him that day

She agreed

She brought everything out and the top was the only thing left

I saw the frustration in her face so she just pointed one outfit and said that was it

I confidently told her that’s a lie like I was there

She now owned up and said she is sorry that she is just tired

I said she should be happy doing this not angry

I should be the person getting angry

Not her


And she had told several lies in the past which I forgave her

And each time she promised she would never lie anymore and that she would change

Infact all her lifelines she usually goes to to beg me are all exhausted cos at each point she tells them she would never lie

So once another lie comes up

She moves to someone else to beg me

And at the moment

She has no one else to beg me

Cos she has assured all her lifelines that she would never lie to me again

My decision to tell her to keep the pregnancy was because I thought it was mine

But from the look of things
I’m still not sure

But right now I don’t believe anything she says anymore

Cos she lies a lot

And it funny she cheated the same period she got pregnant

A girl I was ready to standby

Gave up the car my dad gave me for her

All the landed properties he gave me were also recovered

All these I did because I liked her and didn’t care much about those assets

Not like I cared before

But it would have made things easier at least

My mum hasn’t spoken to me in two months because I decided to stand with the girl

My dad as well the same thing

And yet few days ago she still told another lie

I have never liked the idea of a child growing without both parents and for that reason I wanted to stand by her

But right now I feel like just standing by her until she gives birth

And then after that

We would just go our separate ways
And if she decides she wants to keep the child
Fine

I will try my best to meet with my responsibilities to mother and child if the child is mine after a dna

Pls I need an advice

Would I regret the decision to be with her if I decide to forgive her and go on (of which the paternity of the child is still yet to be determined)

Then at this stage I wouldn’t want her to do anything stupid so it doesn’t affect her or the baby

I’m thinking of correcting my mistake not adding to it

Pls house I need advice on this

Thanks

All these long epistle would have been saved by using a CD. How do you guys comfortably have unprotected sex with ladies you are not married to? Don't remember to go for STI test.

bobowaja:
Nice one

#EndSARS before it end youths

Another point is hunger strike. If the issue of food prices is not addressed, the govt might have something they can't control in few months cos not only the youths will protest, everyone - old or young will come out. Food is one of the essentials of life and and taking it out of people's reach is denying them right to live

This is one point everyone is turning a blind eyes to.

An egg is about N50 for one, and you want us to eat it? Make it more affordable for people to purchase before you do your campaign!

Kamdil:
I was in your shoe bro, just same story. I have a baby mama who was acting just exactly like yours. I abandoned her with my son and stopped sending her any money. She got pregnant for another guy and delivered a baby girl for him. Now she contacted me after about 5 years and asked me to start taking care of my son again that the load on her is too much. Today I pay his school fees, send him money for his monthly upkeep. The same amount I was sending then that she insults me on it, is same amount I am sending now and she thanks and prays for me like never before each month she gets the alert. You know why! She has tested another man and realised that it isn't as green as she thought it was on the other side.

Excommunicate her, and face your hustle, build yourself, and someday she will realise how foolish she has been all these while

Good advice! Where are the guys shouting team "baby mama"? It is not rosey on all sides AL we pray for is for understanding spouses and plenty money to keep our heads above waters!
Op, double your Hustle and give that lady a break for now.

tolakush92:
I hope my bro and his family are safe

I was still in BARUWA IPAJA last week


Rip to d dead

Don't you have their phone number? Give them a call!

Davash222:
As a man, getting married, especially to a Nigerian girl, is one of your greatest mistake you’ll find difficult to accept. This marriage of a thing is just a game orchestrated by women to trap men down. Adam and God was paddy until Eve came.


Stay away from Nigerian girls.

Was Eve of Nigeria descent?

Kccheechy:
First of all, how old is this girl and lil frog?? Why is she leaving with the boyfriend? Doesn't she have a family?

Help me ask o!

God bless the team of surgeons and the financiers.

OlawaleBammie:
Pls ignore my grammatical blunders, my diction is not that alluring.


I lives and work in one of the South South states, So this last Tuesday I just decided to pay a very needed visit to Lagos, on getting to Lagos I felt good and feeling alright.

But on Wednesday I noticed I was feeling feverish but I did count it worthy cus I don't normally fall sick and even when I do, I don't take drugs or concoction cus am sure it will peter away.

I was wrong tho, this fever had other idea so I had to buy some drugs (malaria, and typhoid wateva wateva) I used it as directed, I felt relieved a little but not totally.

And to the reason I created this thread .....

My right side of my body is feeling well but my left side of the body is not ok. this is what I mean

1)My left eyeball is paining me seriously .

2) My left ear(tru to the inside) is paining me

3)My teeth are not excluded, the molar, premolar, and the canine are paining me seriously but the right side of my teeth are good.

4) My left nostril , I have catarrh in my left nostril and this mucus coming out from there smells, maybe offensively but I know it smells, thick and yellowish in colour.

Pls doctors in the house what could cus this, who have experienced this before??

Because me am afraid oo.

It could be acute sinusitis. Just see a doctor. Speedy recovery!

Quota system...

J111333:
I read the two letters and I think your wife neither left nor dumped you. It seemed she only left temporarily to hustle and take care of your family better than you currently do. When women are pushed to the wall by hardship, some of them go to the extremes to salvage the situation and it looks like that's the situation here.

If your story is true then all you need to do is follow the instructions in that letter, wish her well and hope she doesn't soil her hands badly on her quest for solution.

Stop crying up and down like a baby, will ya.

If she left to go and Hustle she wo t leave her wedding ring behind. I pray this family finds flavour soon, and the wife to have a change of heart and come back for the sake of the innocent kids.

For real? So they would have preferred he committed suicide. Are they arresting him for surviving the suicide attempt or what?

oldtimersince06:
I had to create a new account to post this.

So, my husband has beaten me 3 times prior to yesternight. I had said if it happens again, I'm going to leave. Last night, he punched me in my face severally and pushed me hard that I sprained my knee.
My concern are my kids. My older child loves his father so much, while the younger one loves me so much. The kids love each other. Do I take my younger child and leave this marriage and separate my kids, or do I leave them with their dad or do I take both of them and trust my older child will be fine without his father?

He has apologized severally this morning but I'm done. He is emotionally abusive on a good day. I can't count the no of times in a day he insults me. He threatens to Kill me and kill himself. My dad doesn't talk to him any more. Let me tell you why.

He didn't have a car at the time, and would go with mine. He was meant to pick the kids up, while I was also waiting for him to pick me up from work. At about 7:30 pm, I called him again asking for when he would get to the kids school and he told me he was busy(Busy here means busy drinking). The school kept calling me, the teachers need to go home. 8 pm, I picked an uber and went to pick them. My phone died and I couldn't charge it till I got home. As I turned my phone on, his call came in and I apologized, that I had picked them up but my phone went off. He said he was in the school and was looking for the kids. I kept on apologizing. He promised to deal with me on getting home. He then called my mum and was shouting at her on phone(he does this regularly). My dad stepped in. He tried to understand the issue. He told my dad, that I disrespected him and that if it was his subordinate in the office( He's in the para military) that disrespected him, they would kill the person and nobody would find the dead body. My dad then said, but she's your wife and not your subordinate. He shouted at my dad and dropped the call.

I go through a lot of emotional stress on a daily basis. I need to leave for my sanity. He's a great father.What do I do about my kids? Matured responses please.

I can see you making excuses for him. "he is a great father". A great father wouldn't abuse his children's mother to the knowledge of his children. He is damaging the kids psychologically. And besides, you would soon lose your self esteem.

This baby is Ned in Regina's skin.

johhhnn:
Poverty doesn't buy happiness either! No dy use all these stupid quote motivate yourself

You are savage! Ha ha ha...