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obasi101:
Lol all dis gals sha. Currently on vacation in aba.. met her like Today, two days later we had sex... I was shocked! Twas a free sex tho.. but I threaded with caution in my own way. Barely 3weeks later, she called, telling me she z not feeling too well ... Bla.. blast.. blaaa...! I smiled n asked her wats wrong.. says she THINKS she z pregnant n it was mine..dat she needed money for an abortion.. I Told her to keep d baby.. once she puts to bed, I ll come pick my child up.. since she was sure it was mine.
Fellas since after I Said this words to her, she z stopped bothering me with calls about abortion money Like she was doing bfr, she even had to block my line, even on WhatsApp too, cux I keep trying to reach her to know how she was fairing cuz I have coinscience.

NB: Guys be careful of dis ladies.. most of them try to tire each of us down with fake pregnancy tales or try to enstrange us with another mans baby.

I wonder why guys dread pregnancy more than STD's? Later they will be forming over wise! Imagine having unprotected sex with someone you are meeting for the first time, and you are feeling like you won a trophy.

Righteousness89:
SCIENTISTS are Baffled..

WORLD LEADERS are Rattled..

TECHNOLOGY is Confused..

WORLD INHABITANTS are Helpless..

THE SAINTS and THE WISE are Fearless...

The Saints and the Wise Understand that all these Happenings are the Endtimes Prophecies and Signs Given by our Lord and Savior JESUS Christ.
They are busy, Ensuring Purity, Holiness and Righteousness on all Sides.

The Saints and the Wise are Preparing themselves For the BLAST of The LAST Trump aka The RAPTURE! The Greatest Event that is Set to Hit the Earth

AND
Bubu is 'SHOCKED'!

Bkayyy:
Try to reason from the husbands angle

Are you sane? Will you let same fate befall your female offspring?

Estellie:
Afia efere

My favorite.

Deprofessional:
The only Hausa land that the Fulanis could not conquer is Borno state.

Mai Idris Aloma with his warriors fought the fulanis to a stand still and roundly defeated them.

That is why the fulanis in a bid to destroy Borno, foisted Boko haram there.

FOOD for thought!

Goke7:
Kemi said unprintable things about pastor ibiyeome, what did freeze said about the same pastor ibiyeome pls tell us

See for yourself!
https://www.nairaland.com/4372621/daddy-freeze-calls-bishop-oyedepo

Baby Freezer Don buy market! They will give him the kemi Olunloyo treatment.

Crenzywilliams:
I deeply have a problem with abusive men, I strongly opposed the abuse of anyone, girl, boy, woman or man by anyone.. that said, I strongly believe bringing such sensitive and private family issues to social media is really wrong. There's the place of the extended family, religious heads and if it's still not handled properly to the traditional ruler. Bringing her dad here is only going to create more enemity and hate in that family. Not everything should be brought to social media. The internet never forgets.

She most have considered all of the above you mentioned before towing that path. If bringing it to social media will bring an end to it, so be it!
22 yrs is no joke! She must have seen enough.

SirMichael1:
Hello Good afternoon Familanders. This is very long, so please bear with me.

I’ll start from the root. Well, in my church, there’s usually a committee for the married men where most times we can proffer solution to the issues or need of the church members and other times organize get together monthly within us (married men) just to foster unity. Since we're like 20, different men host the get together. Therefore, it's spaced out for 1year and 8months.

It all began last Sunday when I was chosen to oversee the next get together which comes up this Sunday after church. When we (my wife and I) got home after church, I told her about it and she immediately asked, “who would do the cooking”? I was taken aback as the question sounded strange. I replied her saying, since she did the cooking the last time, I figured she’d do it this time.

She got angry and said there’s no way she’ll be going through the stress of cooking for 18 to 25 men and that I better know what to do concerning who’s going to handle the cooking. I tried to calm her down and reminded her of how I assisted her in the kitchen by pounding the yams while she made the soup -two soups actually and that I was going to help her this time. Yam is quite expensive so we’re not pounding this time, just Semo.

She remained adamant and said there was no way she would do anything, that the work stressed her so much and she won’t partake in any cooking and that I better go find anyone to do the cooking. Thing is, I understood the fact that the work was stressful for her because she was 5 months pregnant then and it was her first time.

Yesterday at work, I kept pondering about a solution and a thought struck me. I called her from work and asked her, "how about I get one of the women at church to offer you support?". She blatantly refused and still held on to her words.

My mind hasn’t been settled since morning because I got hold of a caterer and she told me that she’ll charge a thousand naira per head, that is approximately 20k. Truth is, the get together came at a wrong time and considering the prices of drinks, the cost of the food stuff, meat, ingredients, etc. I really can’t afford a caterer right now.

I’m at a cross road now. I don’t know what to do because it’s causing a rift between us. I thought of bringing a church member to assist on that day without informing her so she wouldn’t surprise me and leave the house but I fear that if she comes, my wife might not join her in the kitchen and the woman will begin to feel a certain way (thinking of how ungrateful we are). Then again, who will purchase the food items? I’ve just been confused. I really need insights.

Note: I said I'll help her make the swallow, she just needs to make the soup.

Op, you can negotiate with another caterer to come make only the soups at a lower cost. Do the market runs and get a family member or friend to help out, while you make the swallow yourself. Don't postpone the meeting, and also don't give people the impression that all is not well between you and your wife. Later, after the meeting you settle the issue amicably with her. It is well! Marriage comes with different challenges. Shalom!

LegendsCoded:
Nairalanders i hail thee.

I'm seeking for help on behalf of my neighbor's wife and her kids, her husband(our landlord) beats his wife and kids everyday(I mean 7 days a week nonstop). This man is usually drunk, I'm really concerned and really pained, as i type now he's beating his wife and has locked them out. I tried some Google searches but it's not helping. Please this woman and her kids needs help, but hat can be done.

Thanks

If you are in Lagos call the number below :
OPD Lagos 07080601080

Op, let me help you do the maths. Since you had the basic ingredients at home, she could have bought let's say, pomo 200, panla fish 400,ugu 100.Total 700
She could take egusi or ogbono from home.

nedu666:
Nope. There is no expense, you are not expected to pay anyone. Moreover when you get there, you will see people in similar situation as yourself. Don't let it slide at worst they either refund your money or replace the product.

Op, I suggest you take this advice! At least give it a shot.

area74:
It is better that we read the thread properly and my opinions.

I never said that parents should not call their daughters or sons but the point is on the frequency of the calls and the the need to allow couples to chart their ways independently without family interference.

I made it clear that everyday calls usually lead to parents having direct knowledge of what's going on in the family and that may lead to directly or indirectly influencing the activities in their homes.

Personally as a father, once my daughter or son gets married, I want them to live their independent lives without having to monitor them with calls as if they are kids. I will always be there to guide them if my advice is needed and occasionally check on their well being.

This is my personal opinion and view to such situation.

Then couples should learn not to divulge every details of their marriage to a third party. The responsibility to protect your family from external interference lies on the couples involved.

The fact that you are married to her doesn't mean she doesn't belong somewhere. She is still someone's daughter. You married her and didn't buy her! I think this your thought stems from being insecure.

Akposy:
My noodle, homemade boli (I used the oven) and roasted abi na grilled sharwa fish.

Happy Sunday

*Modified

I see some people use sardine in making noodles. Why not buy sharwa fish. It is very sweet, the only issue na the bones. A full sharwa fish ranges from 80 - 150 depending on the size. Sardine ranges from 200 - 350.

...the choice is yours

A full shawa for that price? Where are you based?

Amorprincesa24:
It is 360naira

Wow! Didn't know it is this cheap.

Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults

Do you have to tell her before you help your ex's family? I wonder if you will also need her permission to help your own mother.

Amorprincesa24:
See the light one

That price on it, is it 360 Naira or 1360?

NoToPile:
Nope, I don't market the product anymore.

I just retained the moniker.

OK. Do you have any recommendations?

NoToPile:
Recipe please

Please do you have a cure for pile @ your moniker.

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pocohantas:
Really? Wow! You no get wahala be that. Some people take the taste of leaf moimoi seriously o.

I know right. It is not by size nne, no pun intended.

By the way, I am beginning to fall in love with market pictures. You just keep getting meal inspirations looking at things on display.

You see that book in the second pic? That child is the first to fail correction.

Exactly why the book is being used to wrap fish.

pocohantas:
Noooooooo, without WRAPPING.

Yes o, since we have 'liquid smoke'
for party jollof rice, why not for moin moin ?

pocohantas:
- Wash your leaves and cut them to the size of your containers- it mustn’t be perfect, just enough to ensure it is all the batter has contact with. You’ll need like 2-3 for each container. A round one for the base/top and a long thin one for the circumference.

If you are using a foil, cut them to be rectangular.

Thanks, I actually thought there was a way to achieve the leafy flavour without using the leaves.

pocohantas:
I tried a recipe that can make me get the leafy moimoi flavour without wrapping. Did it for a friend who struggles with moimoi leaves.

It was a successful experiment. Flavour is same, however, the signature shape/experience cannot be pirated.

Please how did you achieve that?

Na NGO celebs dey use cash out now. If you know you know!

MrColdsweat:
You yarribastards have killed the thread with your Igbo hate.

The reason why this is so, is because by getting married, a woman shares her husbands inheritance.

If a woman is allowed to have inheritance, she will take inheritance from her father, and still share her husband's inheritance.

So?

izzy4shizzy:
orally

What quality do one drink?

izzy4shizzy:
I surfered the same thing quite recently, nothing seemed to work, it was hell, mine was so bad that I didnt know what it was, for the first time I tot it was anal fissures where ur stool is so hard that it cracks ur butt, den I was so sure again,the pain was unbearable, I went to the hospital took a lot of antibiotics and painkillers, also some drugs I had to insert into my butt, I felt little or no relieve till a pharmacist recomended liquid parafin, it worked like magic, am still on it and my life is almost coming bk together

My advice to you; dont give up. All illness has an expiry date nd dis is no different, just be possitive nd maybe try the kiquid parafin it might help you cheers nd all the best with the surgery should incase u do it

Please how did you use the liquid paraffin?

showafrica:
The way girls dey cohabbit for a school, you will pity future husbands. Guys if you pick money anyhow, just invest and look for one fresh under 19 virgin marry. Use ur hand direct her and have peace of mind. With ur money and care she go always dey loyal.

Where do you want to get the virgin, when even guys cannot stay without a sexual relationship. It is a give and take situation.