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Yes. You are correct with that position.
I just dm you. Check your dm and respond [quote author=midnighter post=85468699][/quote]

^{He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Marriage is woven around power and class interface. Earning power and social class are two main factors I always advise guys to consider before marrying a lady. If she earns more than you and she's from a wealthy family, guys, run for your life. Some ladies, after using their earnings and wealthy family to entice you into marriage, would bite you back with a lifetime controls, blackmails and giving you depression. In fact they would be feeling too big to have sex with you.}

See where you missed it all. look above. Immediately after the actual statement that you isolated and quoted, the next sentence starts with "Some ladies". If you were not discursively indolent, you should have realized that with the presence of that indefinite modifier "Some" in the body of that post, the writer does not condemn ALL WEALTHY WOMEN like you have erroneously perceived.

From discursive perspective, you do not isolate a particular utterance from the rest while assessing a writer's main opinion on a subject. Equally, some utterances are mere exaggerations or overstatements just like the aspect which you bolded and quoted and should not be used to represent main opinion. In fact all exaggerations or overstatements are not valid opinions.

However, I don't expect everyone to be technical on how to deduce a writer's point of view. Since you fall into that category, you can drop your last words and let's move on from this topic for good.

midnighter:
I actually went back and read through the exchange to see if I was mistaken, but Im not.

I didnt take your exaggeration out of context because the following sentences used to support it still painted a bad picture of wealthier women, which you obfuscated again in your subsequent comment by erroneously adding another issue. It was later on that you clarified what you meant, which I accepted already.

And dont mind that indolent blaggard who is encouraging you in your folly, his support means nothing

If you read the discussion he referred to, you will see how much hot air he was blowing just so that he wouldnt answer my simple questions hahaha you people are hysterical!

I don't think the sound track is available anywhere online. You may have to contact the proprietor of the sound track, Joshua Mike Bamiloye

ryfoz:
I still need this o

Thanks bruh. Her argument is just from an isolate perspective.

Martinez39:
Don't argue with midnighter. She is fond of quoting out of context. During our last discussion, she said something very stupid and I ended the discussion. She then took my post out of context and made it out to be that I was running away from her.

Look here, your problem is that you seem not to have adequate expertise to differentiate between a main statement and supporting statements. I have made it clear that the actual statement you quoted out of context is a mere exemplification.

'run for your life' in the actual statement is an exaggeration. No exaggeration should be taken to represent a valid point of view of a writer.

midnighter:
You are repeating yourself.

As I said before, the general statement that men should try to marry a woman of equal or lower social status from themselves has merit, I just didnt like your use of language in the first instance.

I have already acknowledged that the sentence should not be considered in isolation, however what I am telling you is that writing those particular words in the first place was wrong of you. Look:



"Run for your life" = wealthy women should be avoided, doesnt it? What was your "general opinion", if not that? How will we know what your general opinion is if you implicate yourself by jumping to extremes?

It was not an appropriate statement to make and thats why I pulled you up on it.

Afterwards, you wrote:



You then mixed up another issue by stating that nobody should chase a woman because of wealth, which is totally different.

I dont disagree with your general stance but your original comment needed more explanation because the tone was too negative and one-sided.

Anybody reading it would conclude that wealthier ladies should be avoided at all costs, which simply isnt true.

It is because you considered that actual statement in isolation that's why it appears to you to mean that all wealthy women should be avoided. Sometimes, sentences should not be considered in isolation to deduce the writer's general opinion. If you consider the general sense of the discourse, you will discover that my general opinion is not that all wealthy women should be avoided. That would be an absolutely invalid assertion. Rather I was trying to warn that guys should be cautious about wealthy women, not that all wealthy women are bad. Equally, guys should preferably try as much as possible to marry down their social class.

midnighter:
I know you followed it with "some ladies" to qualify your statement but the actual stance in itself was wrong.

Is it "dont marry just for wealth" or "avoid wealthy women"? Those are 2 different things.

That line that I wrote before and which you bolded is just an exemplification. If you read the line that follows it you will discover it wasn't a generalization like you perceived it to be. You only quoted it out of the context.

midnighter:
Yes, you shouldnt pursue a lady solely because of social class and wealth. That would be stupid.

But thats different from saying that you should avoid a woman solely because of social class and wealth. Thats what you wrote before.

The bolded is true anyway, I just didnt like the way you cast all wealthy or wealthy-born women as bad in your previous post.

If I have 200k, I go use 50k do the whole wedding and take remaining 150k do honeymoon.

deltateam:
The title is clear. Is it possible in Nigeria?

Madam don't vex abeg. What you called backward reasoning has made many a husband to lose their value and integrity as men. When you pursue a lady and end up marrying her because of her social class and wealth, be ready to face the music whenever it starts playing.

Though l agree with you that it takes good upbringing and individual character for a woman not to lord it over her husband in marriage, but the percentage of such ladies is very low in the reality of our society today.

My candid opinion is still for guys to marry down and never marry up their social class. But for ladies, they can marry up or down.

midnighter:
Stop reasoning in a backward manner.

Whether the lady will submit to you or not depends on so many things, including her individual character and upbringing. Some women are heading multinationals but still rush home to cater to their man yet some will come from the village without even 2 kobo to rub together and begin to drag remote with him.

Earning power and social class should be considered for what they are and not to judge whether a woman will be arrogant or not.

Inside keje is the best place to toast a lady because she will be sitting so close to you that both of you will find it very to connect. Na that Gandolar wan ban. Congrats to Kano guys anyway.

Having a rich or wealthy wife is not a ticket to having a blissful marriage. Except where love reigns supreme, some wealthy wives are pain in the neck of their husbands.

Acidosis:
This marriage thing can be confusing sometimes ehn. Can't your wife give (or loan) you like #2m to get your business moving again? I don't understand how and why couples allow money cause a division in the home. Even if she's too wicked or stingy to set you up, can't you get some loan from her and take charge of your home again? Or could it be that all you do with money fails? Or perhaps, she doesn't even have enough to lend with all the inflated ego?

If you have a rich or wealthy wife, you have no excuse to fail. As far as she's willing to give you an interest-free loan, she's done her best. You take the money, utilize it well and take charge! You can't continue to waste all she gives or sit down and do nothing, and expect her to respect you. She's human, not a stone!

He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Marriage is woven around power and class interface. Earning power and social class are two main factors I always advise guys to consider before marrying a lady. If she earns more than you and she's from a wealthy family, guys, run for your life. Some ladies, after using their earnings and wealthy family to entice you into marriage, would bite you back with a lifetime controls, blackmails and giving you depression. In fact they would be feeling too big to have sex with you.

To the Op, though you didn't marry her for her earning and social class, it is evident she married you because you were doing fine financially back then and that probably didn't go well with her. Now that she is rich, she thinks it's time for her to pay you back.

The only solution is to get your financial power back or leave the marriage.

Happy New Year. It's a beginning of a new decade.

fergie001:
May we find grace this new year...


Welcome 2020......01/01/2020

This is part of the palava of marrying a salary earning lady. She's got her own money and that arrogates some power to her hence her disrespect to you because with or without you, she has the financial power to run her life. Evidently, all those while, she never loved you. She only needs a man to change her title from Miss to Mrs. And probably, her mother may be the one fueling her.

The only way to reset her brain keep off having sex with, don't beg her for sex or any favor. Don't accept gifts from her or anyone related to her. Have a side chick and don't hide it from her. Withdraw from communicating with her and her family. Continue showing her you don't care about her. Watch her for three months if she doesn't let her guard down, then call it quit with her.

juiicii:
I married last year. My wife is a choleric just like myself.she is the type that will not tolerate mistakes from me, if i don't keep things in their position, then hell will let loose,she hardly 'respects' me, she behaves independently and when i threaten divorce, she will say i should do it fast, because of her attitude i hardly give her money, when she demands for money, i will ask her, what of your salary, she will tell me that its my responsibility to give her money for somethings irrespective of her personal earnings. Meanwhile she never brings any money on the table for the family upkeep, i foot the bills :rentage,food,nepa, etc. I stopped buying clothes, etc for her since she put up those attitudes that piss me off. Infact i just don't love her again, we argue a lot except i just lock myself up in one room which is my new method now. Pls experienced advice needed

The general belief that Peter lipsings and only dances is an errorneous one bruh. Peter is equally a good song writer. Go and listen very well to Peter in 'Zombies' ft Niniola, you will discover that Peter was the voice in ' More than a friend, E Don happen, Ọmọge mi, Oga Police and some other first tracks that brought Psquare to the limelight. Though I agree that Paul was the voice in the majority of their subsequent albums, Peter did well in those first few tracks that first attracted us to Psquare.

This is my last submission. Let's move on to another thread.

matkid:
hahahahahhhahhahahahqhah.......u be comedian ooooo........ Even there was a time rudeboy went on Instagram claiming he wrote all those songs u are talking about,which made Peter angry. even Peter himself said it in one of his interview dat Paul writes their songs..... Peter was just a dancer........I no get time to argue with u...... Paul has been the voice of psquare since when they started singing......Peter just lipsings in all their videos......u even said Peter switches his voice from tiny to deeper voice.....how? baba u don't even know music......

Bruh abeg go sit down for one corner. Na Peter sang majority of the early songs that blew Psquare. Busy body and Get Squared in particular. Go listen very well to those early tracks I mentioned and you will find that na Mr P's voice. Particularly, listen to E Don happen, Sugar Honey and More than a friend. All Na Peter' s voice.

What you people don't know is that Mr P is capable of switching his voice modulations from tiny to deeper tone, a talent which Paul does not have. Evidence is found in Peter's recent collabo with Niniola titled 'Zombie' This is part of the Reason people often mistake Peter' s voice for Paul.

matkid:
u don't know what u are saying........rudeboy wrote all those songs,go and listen to those tracks again...u can tell from the voice blasting out from the speakers is rudeboys voice.....Paul's voice is a very deep and unique and Peter has a tiny little voice which gives Paul the bigger advantage over Peter when they are in the studio recording...... listen to their old songs and see for urself....na rudeboy be psquare

Yea cool. Bantering is the easiest way to bypass every girl 's firewall. It works anywhere anyday like a charm. If only our guys can master this skill, they won't keep coming back here often crying for how to hook up the girl of their dream

iLegendd:
I just abandoned this thread. Anyway, Blessing is a corper, but I don't date students or corpers. I only chatted her for chatting sake. When you got the ChatDîcted skill, it's just too easy.

I beg to disagree. Mr P was the original Psquare that blew Psquare with tracks such as Get squared, temptation, E Don happen, Ọmọge mi, More than a friend, busy body, oga police etc. Go back to listen to those tracks and feel the vibes of Mr P

CSTR2:
Rudeboy was psquare.

What if only rich men are the ones coming her way? You need to expand your theory.

kweensheba:
The ideal lady does not marry the already made man. She works hard and - together - they climb the ladder of success.

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REDLORD1:
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The day I stopped attending MFM Power must change hand monthly prayer program, this was what happened.

Pastor Olukoya: There was a lady, child of God. She was traveling in a bus among other people. She was sitting by the window side of the bus. Along the way, she wanted to urinate and she requested the driver to stop for her to empty her bowel by the road side. The driver stopped. The lady alighted and went inside a nearby bush to urinate.

Before she came back, a man among the passengers had taken her window side seat. She appealed to the man to vacate the seat for her but she was met with a stiff resistance from the man. As a result, a little quarrel broke out between the lady and the man. The rest of the passengers made efforts to ensure the man leave the window side seat for the lady but all the effort proved arbortive. The lady accepted her fate and went to sit in another seat in the bus and the journey continued.

Hardly had the driver driven a few kilometres before the bus had a terrible accident. The vehicle tumbled several times with the passengers left with various degrees of injuries but only one death was recorded and it was the man that took over the window side seat from the lady. The lady is a child of God and that's why God saved her life.

Prayer points :Afterwards Pastor Olukoya raising a prayer point said: Whoever that is hellbent in taking your position from you in life should die for it just like the man took the position of the lady in the bus and died for it.

I couldn't pray such a prayer as I kept wondering why the death of the man in the bus was justified because he refused a lady the window side seat.

I decided to stop attending the program ever since as I think such prayers are too wicked

For a Good - Bad boy, answer to 16 should be A and B or B and C. Anyone who chooses B only is a freak and abuser

Redlord2:
11. What do you do when a beautiful girl pass by?
A. Admire her. B. Ignore and devalue
12. Do you prefer only beautiful girls? A. Yes. B. No coz pussy is pussy
13. "All women are b!tches" what are your reactions to this statement? A. No they are not. B. Yes, they are b!tches
14. Can you give a free gift to a girl you've not fvcked? A. Yes its normal. B. No
15. What do you do when a guy maltreats a girl arrogantly? A. Fight for her. B. Call the police or go your own way
16. What's your relationship status? A. Married. B. Its complicated. C. Single
17. How many vagina have you fvcked?
A. None B. Just 1 C. More than 3
18. Will you chase after the girl you admire?
A. Yes B. No, i will make her hungry for me

Thank you

Hairyrapunzel:
Same to you.

Have a nice life

Hairyrapunzel:
Keep talking deductive assumption.