₦airaland Forum

robosky02:
Marriage is indeed a beautiful institute. Some even say it is the. Oldest institution and was ordained by God himself.
It is even more amazing when the union involves two love birds, who have learned to really COMMUNICATE thier feeling, emotions, fears and commit to better thier weakness.

However marriage will be boring when there is a breakdown in communication. Especially in matters about the other room play, finance and third parties like In-laws and exes.

A man has been complaining that his wife doesn't initiate love making. Even if she is in the mood except he does. This has been thier other room complain.

So I want to ask the house
A. Is it only the man that should initiate conjugal play?
B. Is it wrong for a woman to ask for it as a legally married woman
C. What would make a woman shy away


Let's talk or counsel or advice to help somebody.


Please help a couple and other to learn.

The man and the woman are one in the context of marriage. One plus One equals One. Either the man or the woman or both of them can initiate conjugal play since there are one in marriage. There is nothing wrong for married woman to ask for it from her. Even the bible says "ask and ye shall receive ". Not all woman shy from it. They do it codedly in the within context of marriage using the love languages.

Nemere2020:
https://www.thecable.ng/just-in-apc-suspends-nec-meeting-after-ouster-of-abdullahi-adamu-omisore/amp

Sen Abdullahi Adamu resignation shows that "water don pass garri oh". This is the time a sitting APC Chairman will voluntarily relinquish his exhalted position without court interference. Power has indeed gone to the West. The fear of Jagaban is beginning of Nigerian political wisdom.

Newton2024:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/eu-has-put-judiciary-under-pressure/

As long as Presidential Election Petition Court is existing and unable to annual a presidential poll in Nigeria, the goal of establishing such Court had been defeated. The court is just generating income from petitioners.

Childfree:
Not Anime please.

Some of us love animations or animated films. Since no thread for animation lovers I decided to create this.

What animation are you currently watching?

What are your 5 best animations?

Best animations are listed below:
1. The Lion King
2. Pocahontas
3. Voltron
4. G-Force: Guardians of Space
5. Dexter's Laboratory
6. Danger Mouse
7. Thunder Sub (blue Noah)

November1857:
Distribution Of N500bn Palliatives Skewed Against North – Kano Governor



https://leadership.ng/distribution-of-n500bn-palliatives-skewed-against-north-kano-governor/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter#google_vignette

Imagine a governor that is good at demolishing structures is now complaining about palliatives

OperationalVehi:
Quick question.

This 8k will favour me and my family. True or false?

please provide your answer with reason.

Are you sure that you and your family are among the 12 million poor households that would benefit from the N8,000 per month relief plan ?

chokekachy:
https://www.muricnigeria.com/7-muslims-17-christians-executive-muric-slams-adeleke/

Gov Adeleke has made his appointments Whether his appointees are christians, moslems, Jews, idol worshippers, Yoruba, Igbos, hausas etc is inconsequential.

If MURIC has issues with his appointees, they should GO TO COURT.

KingintheNorth:
Guys I'm asking for a friend , if you are based abroad and earn 2.5 million naira after tax, what would you invest in Nigeria??

I would buy a massive land, fence it build different houses in the land and rent them out. I would also buy a massive land to agricultural purposes such as rearing of snails, fishes, poultry, rabbits, pigs etc and planting of crops such as Uju, bitter leaves, water melon etc

Intergrated:
Greetings all.

I work in a company and my take home is 450k after tax. My problem is I have been thinking of a skill to learn as this job would not last forever. Aside this job I do not have a skill and as a man I feel one should have a long lasting skill. Please any suggestions would be welcomed aside from online skills. Thank you .

You could save from your salary and use your savings to buy a land, sink a borehole or well in the land, fence it and use it for agricultural skills such as rearing of snails, fishes and poultry. You could also plant crops like corn, ugu leaves, bitter leaves, etc in the land

post=124283774:
https://.com.ng/2023/07/08/report-of-committee-of-inquiry-on-mmesoma-ejikeme-matter-set-up-by-anambra-state-government/

Why would Mmesoma Joy Ejikeme choose to disgrace the Igbo race is such manner ?

onthehill:
A Man Who Chases Two Rats Will Catch None - Yul Edochie’s Daughter Shares Cryptic Post

Danielle, daughter of Nollywood actor, Yul Edochie, shared a cryptic post on Monday July 3, on social media which many believe is directed at her father, IGBERETV reports.

Danielle who is the first child of Yul and May Edochie wrote that a man who decides to run after two rats would end up not catching any.



https://igberetvnews.com/1447772/man-chases-two-rats-will-catch-none-yul-edochies-daughter-shares-cryptic-post/

I know a man that chased two rats and ended up catching the chubbier rat

Dimaya:
In a controversial discussion, a young lady named Bamisaye says after getting married to her boyfriend, she won't get pregnant until he earns above 200K.

How practical is this in Nigeria considering the fact that most people today earn less than 100K?

Please watch and share your thoughts.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t66DkQl0j50

Did her father earn N200,000 before siring her?

iwaeda:
How satisfied are you with the Tinubu regime so far?

If I were a youruba man I would say I am satisfied because tinubu's regime is favouring Yorubas but since I am not Yoruba I would say the fuel pump prize of N537 which has lead to increase in the prices of goods and services, the daily maximum withdrawal limit of N20,000 using debit card from ATM machine and his appointments favouring Yorubas so far no favour me at all.

Dailyhappenings:
Soldier was seen at Eid Ground when the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu was praying for Sallah

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGbCVubCAMc

If the ADC to the President of Nigeria is a soldier man, then there is nothing wrong if the military decide to mount protective surveillance around the President

iwaeda:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/06/28/n1000-vehicle-proof-ownership-nigerians-reject-newly-imposed-levy-say-tinubu-government

I would not be surprised if PBAT decides to introduce toll gate in the entrance to every states in the future. High taxes on other goods and services may occur under his watch. May God deliver us all

ahnie:
On the 4th of June, I went to get barbeque fish for my kids from my barbeque plug.

Then on the 6 of June....I had wanted transferring funds to someone with my mobile app, and I mistakenly transferred money to him since he's in the list of my beneficiaries.

I called him and explained everything to him,I even went to his stand and showed him screenshots as evidence of payment....since that day till today this humaniod has refused refunding my money.

I recalled him this morning,he said his bank is still working on it, I told him to get his statement of acct and it has bn from one excuse to another, truth's I m loosing my patience.

I have given him an ultimatum of 2 days to refund my money else I would pick him up not with the police,but a more higher force,since he has decided to be stubborn.

Bankers in the house, pls I need your input. is there anything like bank working on a supposedly unrefunded funds?

Use alligator pepper prayer on him and he would refund your money quickly.

ElBenny:
There was mild drama and dragging on Facebook as a lady known as Tracy Titus collected the picture of another lady (Eneh Stephanie), then went ahead to edit her face into the picture and posted online to celebrate her birthday.

The lady was called out and dragged, but her audience came to her defense to say she did nothing but appreciate the picture of her fellow lady.



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0h9KLaQaHR646SbCJqL778Th3LvGv5cXWngXm6CjAvgqhZVWrKXu6SkZGfqemzcmvl&id=100086563864414&mibextid=Nif5oz

This drama reminds me of the thriller movie titled "Face/Off"

dre11:
Ex-Nigerian minister declines top global position for possible appointment as Tinubu’s minister

On Monday, the global vaccine alliance, GAVI, announced Mr Pate’s decision to decline his appointment as its Chief Executive Officer (CEO).


https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/606871-ex-nigerian-minister-declines-top-global-position-for-possible-appointment-as-tinubus-minister.html

I feel that Mr Pate's decision to decline his appointment as an international CEO job because of a perceived local appointment in PBAT's government is a case of a misplaced priority

officialwdhtv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J7UwTGB6rzM

EXCLUSIVE: Video of a previous Titanic expedition offers a rare look into the inside of the ill-fated OceanGate Titan submarine that imploded killing 5 people on board last week.

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv

It's so unfortunate that some persons paid $250,000 per head inorder to embark on a deadly mission that claimed their lives.. May their souls find eternal rest

Kuginzi:
https://punchng.com/nigeria-can-earn-billions-from-exporting-human-faeces-cockroaches-don/

How possible is it to breed scorpions enough to extract 4.75 litres of the venom from them ?
How does one breed enough cockcroaches to the extent of exporting them ?

Federal Ministry of Health no go gree o

shortgun:
Another square peg in a round hole

What exactly is a police officer doing in the office of the national security adviser?
What is his combatant experience?
What is his war experience?


How will army Generals , Navy Rear- admirals and air force Air vice marshals honour a meeting summoned by a police officer?


Fingers crossed

What army generals could do, a police man can do better according to Jagaban. Where army generals failed, a police officer would succeed

Islie:
.......Names The Punch's Leke Baiyewu as CPS



https://leadership.ng/just-in-speaker-abbas-appoints-33-fresh-aides/

If the speaker could appoint 33 aides, then I wonder how many aides the Senate President would appoint.

ogododo:
https://dailytrust.com/breaking-anti-demolition-protest-breaks-out-in-kano/

Instead of consolidating on the achievements of his predecessor, he is busy demolishing structures that he did not build and he is doing so within one month after swearing- in.

Was demolishing structures part of his campaign promises ?

chokekachy:
https://dailytrust.com/breaking-kano-govt-marks-shopping-plazas-filling-stations-for-demolition/

It is easy to destroy but difficult to build. If I were the Governor I would focus on providing basic and social ammenties instead of demolishing structures.

naptu2:
Nigeria Police Force @PoliceNG



https://twitter.com/PoliceNG/status/1672658678204227586

He was indeed 84years old. It is not easy for a Nigerian police officer to attain such age upon retirement May his soul continue to rest in peace and may his family members be comforted

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

At times it is good to be alone rather than associating with friends that are unreliable and that would give you issues. The lesser you socialize, the lesser your issues with people, the more peace of mind you have and the lesser your expenses.

AImiron:
https://news.sky.com/story/titanic-submarine-missing-live-updates-submersible-cannot-be-opened-from-inside-time-running-out-on-oxygen-supply-waiver-mentions-death-three-times-12905748

Thank God for the deliverance of Mr Bloom and his son. Imagine a rich guy being offered $150,000 per head to embark on a tourist to see titanic ship wreck which is under water and he declined because of his schedule. Their country don advance.


But for naija there are inadequate basic ammenties. we cannot afford such luxury because we are contending with the increment of the pump price of PMS and it's negative impact on citizens. We also have to contend with a possible increase in electricity tarrif.

saintbillion:
https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/Nigerian%20lady%20recounts%20how%20she%20was%20blocked%20by%20a%20guy%20she%20tried%20wooing_1687461350.png

A Nigerian lady has narrated how she got blocked by a guy she tried asking out.

@Pretty_Vikkii who shared the pickup line she used, concluded her tweet by stating that some “Nigerian guys deserve to be single till eternity".


She tweeted;

"Omo, I entered this guy Dm with a mad pickup line like "Guy , are you a school bus. Cause I see my children in you" The werey con block me, some of these Nigerian guys deserve to be single till eternity"

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/6/nigerian-lady-recounts-how-she-was-blocked-by-a-guy-she-tried-wooing-2.html

You enter a guy with a "mad pick line" and the guy responded by blocking you. You claimed that you are wooing him with your mad pick up line after he blocked you . Your mad pickup line could be interpreted as sexual harrassement Abeg no complain.

Olowoshako:
Dem no they slim fit borrowed clothes?

Fly wey no dey hear word dey follow dead body enter grave.

Warri no dey go transfer.

udemzyudex:
Use your brain then,put it to work cos this question is silly.

I asked a simple question and you cannot use your brain to provide an answer.

udemzyudex:
What's your point? Because this question is a silly question.

It is not a silly question. I am only asking an innocent question.

ijustdey:
https://dailytrust.com/ex-governors-who-are-new-godfathers-in-their-states/

You ommited Sen. Dave Umahi former Governor of Ebonyi State