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gees101:
happy birthday to you too dear

Thanks

Happy birthday to her. It is also my birthday today and for that reason I decree that your daughter will be a beacon of light in this generation and for generations to come.

I can relate. I lost twins as well. The sense of loss is profound. I still hurt when I remember.

Some money hit my account days ago, nowhere near 100k but I was confused. I later discovered the PAGA transaction I carried out the previous day failed and I had been refunded. Meanwhile, the PAGA agent had paid me. I had to go back to her to return the money.

Integrity demands that you investigate sums from unknown parties credited to your account. Your girlfriend's parents spent the money too fast. They didn't even think to call their imagined benefactor to thank him before spending the money. If they had, the mistake would have been discovered.

Lovethaa:
In the bible When samson lost his Hairs he lost his powers too... So your hair being cut might mean that you have been reduced to a rat spiritually.. you would have to fast and pray for God's power..









2... Yes it is 100% compulsory because if you marry your soul mate then you are likely to have. a fruitful marriage regardless of the odds and challenges

Spiritual rat?! O dear! What will I not read on Nairaland? OP if you are at peace with your decision to marry this woman, then pray and go ahead with your plans. Have you even thought of the fact there was no reference to you in the dream, either direct or implied? Even if the dream is something to worry about, it may just portend issues that affect your girl alone and is in no way related to her impending marriage to you. If this is the case, you need to pray for and with her, believe God has answered your prayers and move forward with joy.

Elliot2:
Circumstances help unveil our real colors. So my dear, na olosho u be. You, chastity, fidelity and true love no get any business for this life.

That would be my assessment as well. But something tells me this is just a blogger's elaborate attempt at driving traffic to his/her blog. That said, most young women are just as promiscuous as they are pea brained.

qualityovenbake:
Kudos to the restaurant manager. She can wear this revealing outfit if she is going to a night club or pornhub's studio.

My sentiments exactly. Some restaurants are classy and will not allow trashy dressing. The restauramt manager deserves a handshake.

samyj2477:
I suffered same thing before I packed out. do u live in asaba

Or Akwa Ibom state perhaps? I served there and they've got tons of millipedes.

Emeka71:
She seems to be taller than him.

Really? Didn't notice that. It's not so important though.

Keketu:
this could be us in 2024

That's interesting. Sweetheart, you are about 12 years too late. My 12th wedding anniversary is in a month.

She is lovely. I wish you both all the joys of marriage. Congratulations.

I'll probably go with the smoker.

BonPatrick:
I have been crying �� I invited my new girlfriend to where I leave she found out I don't have chair she left thinking I want to take advantage of her. I feel so bad I was planning to buy chair as soon as a get money. What should I do?

If she left because of that, then it may be an indication that she is immature and materialistic, and therefore not worth the hassle. Move on.

You both look good. She is beautiful and I wish you both an equally beautiful home. Congratulations.

Don't even get me started. Okay, here goes -
1. Scooby Dooby Doo
2. The Flintstones
3. The Jetsons
4. Top Cat
5. Tom and Jerry
6. Danger Mouse
7. Richie Rich
8. Ed Grimley
9. Dexter's Laboratory
10. Pinkie and the Brain
11. Penelope Pitsop
12. Dastardly and Muttley
13. King Rollo
14. SuperTed
15. Voltron
16. Thundersub
17. The Adams Family
18. 101 Dalmatian Street
19. Jabberjaw
20. Terrahawks
21. Pigeon Street
22. Muppet Babies
23. The Simpson
24. Dora the Explorer
25. Yogi Bear
26. Johnny Quest

I spent a huge chunk of my childhood glued to Cartoon Network back when it still made sense.

Kobojunkie:
I live in a world where common sense reigns, thank you very much. I believe I have probably been to the very same jankara market, decades ago, and saw and got no hint of human organ trading myself.

Those of you who claim to know where it is should start sparing us the rubbish stories and instead trying to get the authorities in or even speak out against those who you know are involved so it can be dealt with. Every other debo, wale and gbemi seems to come up with story to tell about this human organ market but none of the stories ever ends up with the calling in or the authorities or revealing of the particular spot where any of it took place.
We are in 2021 and there are no photos, sound files or even videos of the happenings in this so called human organ market to date. No be curse at this point if truly one exists?

No sir, I beg to differ. We live in a world where common sense is a rarity. Nigeria and Nigerians especially seem to have an aversion for it. Abominable acts, people and places will continue to be commonplace for the simple reason that no-one is ready to bell the cat, largely because of the fear of reprisals. Jankara market is a regular market no doubt, but the wheeling and dealing in human parts is done covertly. Your assertion that the human trade market does not exist is just like saying ritual killings do not happen. Horrible things happen everyday right under our noses, but no one is ready to lift a finger. Nigerians are sadly neither socially conscious nor socially responsible and would rather look the other way when besieged by unwholesome situations. That sir, is our reality in this country.

Kobojunkie:
All these stories are well and good for drawing attention. What I am more interested in knowing is whether the so called friend called the cops /authorities in to shut it down.
All these stories no make sense anymore.

You don't sound like you live in Nigeria. Jankara market has been in existence and trading in human parts for decades. The authorities are well aware of this, but turn a blind eye. I remember a sensatoonal news report about Jankara market, replete with gory pictures and interviews that caused a stir when I was a child/teen.

doxijaw:
Not really.

Indifference in the face of challenges is different from just be indifferent, the former is a virtue.


Saying parents lack the emotional intelligence to relate sounds better.

Your link shows this.

Scroll down on the page. I do not write what I do not know. That word has about 2 or 3 different meanings.

doxijaw:
Just your use of word's, stoic doesn't fit into what you were trying to describe.

One of the meanings of the word stoic is indifference or lacking empathy.

Synonyms of Stoic
affectless, apathetic, cold-blooded, emotionless, impassible, impassive, numb, passionless, phlegmatic, stolid, undemonstrative, unemotional.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/stoic

doxijaw:
Being stoic is actually healthy.

Not in every case.

Many Nigerian parents are cold and stoic towards their children. I have never been able to understand why they can't seem to show love to their own offspring. That simple statement " You are a bad child" can tip a depressed person over.
Depression should never be belittled. I battled postpartum depression after the birth of my daughter and I understand. I have pleaded with people on social media and in person, do not make light of people going through depression or suicidal people. They need love, understanding and help.

AreaFada2:
He forgot Mazda Coupe called sleeping on duty or any retractable headlight sports version car of same name.

Toyota Crown called Igwe.

Thanks for the reminder. Truly, Naija is a lovely place.

MrNipplesLover:
Adams Oshiomole might not like this statement.

It might look like you're making jest of him.

Him fit start crying now.

Atlas9:
E class 1998 - 2002 was called frog eye or Boniface

Didn't know it was also called Boniface.

Burgerlomo:
Same here sis, there was a time I started searching Google looking for Honda Halla before I later found out that it was just a nickname.

Now that's funny.

I actually thought Honda Halla was the official name of that car.
You forgot to mention the benz nicknamed frog eye.

The driver should not have hit her. However, if the app calculated the fare to be N1,300 she should have paid up. The fare quoted at the beginning is an estimate. Other extraneous factors like traffic could cause the quoted fare to fluctuate. N200 difference isn't much. Speedy recovery to her though.

If you find her so revolting then why harbour her? The good you have done in sheltering her has been rubbished by this very unkind post. What attempts have you made to change her orientation about cleanliness and hygiene? She was obviiously raised in an environment where anything goes. Help her. Show her what to do and do it with love. Let her time with you be one marked by improvement and progress. Let her forever remember you as the one who changed her for the better. Posterity will judge you kindly.

BlueAir:
Then talk to their house agent especially.if u can't access their landlord. The agent will know they're fraudsters. Lay ur complaint and let him know of ur plans to complain to the police or efcc. I bet u within one week of agent meeting them,if they dont start to pack out one by one,they will reduce their noises

I don't think this is a good idea. They'll simply see the Op as an enemy and go out of their way to frustrate her. My husband and I went through this hassle a few years ago. We threatened, cajoled and begged all to no avail until their rent piled so high and they had to move out because they couldn't pay.

Twoclans:
This country is really getting harder by the day,alot of people are angry and frustrated.

When people fight because of food it breaks my heart because it just shows the level of poverty and poverty mentality that abounds in this country.

@OP no vex,if it is possible try and resolve issues with her even before your brother comes back. Women can sometimes be intoxicated with power. Be a man and resolve the issues at hand then work hard to have your own space.

The kind of things that trip some women sef
Kitchen food ? When okonjo iweala just broke new record.

It is not necessarily a food issue. The problem here is one of propriety. I would be offended too if my brother in law does same. However, the lady in question went too far. Throwing her brotger in law out shows she lacks respect for her husband. She should have aired her grouse in a more civil way or taken it to her husband. There might be more to this story though.

Romanoff:
Malcolm and Marie.

Started this and abandoned it halfway. I enjoyed Bridgerton, How to get away with murder, Money Heist, Greenleaf and many others I can't remember. I would welcome recommendations.

Your friend is pregnant, but the fact that there is no fetal pole is worrisome. Looks like a case of blighted ovum in which case a miscarriage may be imminent.