₦airaland Forum

Omoluabi16:
I weak for the matter oh. I don watch YouTube videos tire, yet no impact.
On that day we simply clap hand like we do on a Sunday.

No!!

It must not get to this please

So we that don't know how to dance, what will be our fate?

All this dancing up and down, where do we fall now?

philip0906:
Every sane person is going to a first word country to have solid foundations there.

Politicians, captains of industry, billionaires and multi millionaires all have kids who have dual citizenship as both Nigerians and a first world country.

Entertainers are all hustling to give birth to their kids in a first world country.

Even a thug ala Mc Oluomo has kids who are schooling in the USA.

I would do myself and unborn kids a great disservice by not availing them.an "option"- having them rooted in a first world country. It just would be a disaster

You spoke my mind with a clarity I cannot comprehend

For the people looking for app fee waiver, many universities host online webinars and give out waivers when you attend them. Join the mailing list of schools you like, you never know what might come out of it.

To the recently approved, congratulations!

OneManLegion:
And still no "like" to show for it?

I liked it already

themonk:
Thanks Cocao

PS: Show your face

Not today

Not. Today

themonk:
Double entendre there,

Burundi was a hard NUT to crack (obvious)

Burundi was a hard NAUGHT to crack (We cracked the Naught(0) to One(1))

Back to topic,

I have nothing to say

Nice pun!!

hope4life:
Your comment hit it on the nail. That's my take on acceptance fee.It's like promising to buy a product but not yet delivered. You now give a deposit to the seller showing you are serious to buy it.By that token,it won't be sold to another person.When you are now ready to carry it, you.pay the balance. If the normal sch.fee is #100k and I've laid #30k as acceptable, my balance of sch.fee should be #70k.But in Nigeria,it is not so.

Sense will not kill you

Can we just have a form of confederate systems in this country?

This federalism is not working out ONE BIT!!

Acceptance fee is a way of showing commitment to attending the institution. It should not be a separate fee but should be applied towards the school fees of the student.

If a first year student is supposed to pay 50,000 naira, he should pay an "acceptance deposit" of probably 10,000 and later on conclude the rest.

Yet they will want to rip students off because of acceptance fees. I hope schools are listening.

Harvard business school just opened applications for fall 2020.

Fall 2020 guys hope you are getting ready!!!

Neldrizzy:
sure I will... you could drop your mail for me if you don’t mind .. will buzz you

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Send me a pm okay... I'll see it

Neldrizzy:
Lolz I will try to create time to see it, if they are now doing the part 2 that means the movie must be interesting...

If you are in Abuja we could go see it together

I actually am...buzz me when it comes out then

Neldrizzy:
i thought I’m the only one who is yet to see the first one � we plenty be that

We will still not see the second one

Some of us haven't even seen the part one sef.

Goodluck to them selling out cinemas

Ray97:
u dont get. One minute she loves me and then the other she dosent pick my calls dosent reply my text. Just because i said i wasnt ready. Its nuh like we r fighting or anything. How is(was) that love.

Goodnight. She sha dodged a bullet

Ray97:
"time wasters". U just judged me. Just like dat. Because u feel am the villian. U think we dont have emotions too or we dont think.

So why are you complaining after turning her down and telling her you are not ready.

She should be chasing you up and down and wasting her time.

Oga be guided

Ray97:
lol. He'll turn love doctor and poem composer. Buh i dont blame him though. Dude really loved the gal.. Once knew a girl who claimed to love me since high school and even proposed too introduce me to her pastor. I loved her too buh i declined and told her that i'm not financially and emotionaly ready for commited relatioship yet. Gal stop picking my calls and replying my sms since then. IF ONLY LOVE WAS THE ONLY THING A RELATIONSHIP. WE ALL WOULD BE IN LOVE.

What do you want her to do for you biko? You declined her. Emotionally you are not ready, financially you are not ready. You did not give any indication how you intend to be ready

Girls like her are strong enough to recognize time wasters and move on

The thing is that a lot of people don't understand financial planning. If you see money today, you aren't meant to finish all of it.

There are people that can afford a 5 million naira wedding because that money is peanuts compared to their relative net worth. To others that money will make a significant dent.

Did you discuss the true state of your finances with her? Have you guys planned your financial future? What is your financial goals? How does a big or small wedding affect your plans?

I doubt both of you were on the same page on financially that's why you didn't understand each other.

So seat down, ask yourself some questions then approach her if you decide to.

TWoods:
The obsequiously religious nature of posts here never stops puzzling me. It’s almost as if every Nigerian suddenly finds “god” when it comes to visa applications. You can barely read 2-3 consecutive posts without running into gushy phrases like “it shall end in praise”, “glory”... what in the world is an “angel of visa approval”? In all my years of reading the Bible, I never thought His glory was limited to granting Nigerians exit visas from the hell on earth they created for themselves, despite all the massive churches they’ve built.

I died in laughter

Angel of visa approval.

Country is bad, there is corruption.. Etc

What then will be the justifications for engaging in fraud when you are abroad. Because plenty abroad people still do it.

It is not in the situation of the country. It is the bad habit of the people.

Cyber crime is WRONG and there is absolutely no justification for it!!!

Godoverevery:
very funny.
maybe you should be one to think before typing.
"You said the guys sud check themselves maybe is there fault the lady do such to them*
But after D's ur reply it seems you are one them........so I understand the frustration.

Noted Sir.

Inception:
Really? But he can be blamed indirectly?

Na wa for you sef.

Its just usage of words, he is not to blame but something in his tone told me he also wanted something from her. In that case, they were both playing each other.

Godoverevery:
just because you cant do it doesn't mean others don't do it..... learn to speak for yourself only because you only responsible for ur own actions...... my dear alot of ladies do it infact some go far as telling you there mum is on a sick bed.....I have encountered some.
There are good ladies and bad one.

I just think is poor up bringing,been not contended and poverty.....D's Re the major cause.

What are you saying exactly?

Where did I mention that others do not do "it"? Whatever you mean by that?

Please read for optimal understanding.

nwanneni:
read before making shady Assumptions!
I was at a wedding and met her there.what the he'll are you trying to say?

As for your case, you were not directly to blame. She came on you and made advances at you.

However, there is still something off about your tone.

But you are still not directly to blame if it's true.

I was speaking for the other stories written underneath.

You are who you attract.

I don't know where these girls come from, but I know girls in my circle and other acquaintances. It is even insulting for a girl to behave this way.

So if girls continually bill you, moreso on the first date, you need to check yourself and what you exude.

No sane girl will act that way.

This country is a farce.

This man will clinch to that senate seat forever.

If this is the justice we speak about, we are honestly doomed.

Who typed it using Microsoft word biko?

Good morning,

Are you female? Are you hesitating on this journey? I want to encourage you to keep going. Now is the best time to seek these opportunities because there a large number of opportunities open to females that want to further their studies. Just do your research and you'll be fine

Space booked!!!

Success stories to everyone here!!

Op, in a way, I feel you are shortchanging yourself.

At 18, she cannot answer basic life questions. She can't take certain decisions, she can't see her own future and now that includes yours as well.

Who's going to brainstorm with you? Who is going to make decisions with you? Who will stand for you when you are not around? Who will your kids look up to as role models? What kind of standards are you setting in the house? Who will you build your networth and empire with? Who will provide the right kind of advice and stand as an anchor to your life? Who will you be so confident as to leave your state of affairs with? Who can you make a cosigner to your business? Who can confidently be your second in command and do a good job?

Are these not the things people look out for in marriage? Am I mistaken?

An 18 year old will never give you these. If she can, she will have enough sense to not opt for marriage now.

But, all in all, I wish you the best.

I came across this program during a random internet search and have already started to gear myself up for 2020.

Thank you for outlining everything again, it certainly makes it easier!