₦airaland Forum

How is it feminist to know how to cook?

This is how women trap men. She'll cook well and do well in the other room for 6 months.

Mumu you will marry for these reasons alone. 5 years later you will complain that she has 'changed'.

Dapcity007:
No Feminist liess

My G, modern marriage no be this one o.

DEMZEE:
I believe women's top priorities in marriage are giving their good husband quality sex, quality food and quality submission.

Even if a man knows how to cook it will never replace the feeling women get wen they cook for their husbands

Marriage isn't a democracy

What if she's a doctor that earns 10 times what you earn?

Perhaps she can cook but doesn't 90% of the time because of her job?

BlessedNuel:
It's a necessity....If woman no sabi cook...I wonder wetin she gain ni

Kevin Samuels makes some sense but is off base on many points.

Leshurr:
Yes.

But according to Kevin Samuels, it's not enough to just be a good cook; a woman of quality should also have her own recipe book with her own culinary inventions..

You must be in America. So many Nigerian ladies have called into that guy's show.

Leshurr:
Yes.

But according to Kevin Samuels, it's not enough to just be a good cook; a woman of quality should also have her own recipe book with her own culinary inventions..

So what?

Then he should end the relationship. She has the right to freedom of association and from of personal liberty.

He should leave her and continue with his life.

Nairalandwizerd:
I've called him, he told me she cheated on him. He said she bleeped his brother.

He should raise the bodies inside his stomach and reduce his pot belly.

When herdsmen attack your community, remember this statement.


If you don't respect the rights of others, don't expect people (like you) to respect your rights.

You can keep blabbing as the herdsmen raid, rape and main you and your people.

LutanFyah:
You can keep blabbing about constitutional rights, if you're caught fvcking your fellow man or woman, you'll serve the state with hard labour for 14 years.

How many Nigerian citizens value their own lives?

People who don't value their own lives will not value someone else's.

The minute he can, he will leave his dad out of his life if that is the price to get out of the misery.

Palehair:
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Also I implore you to please read extensively on the "male gaze" and "queer theory"
Yet again if you are gonna be hard on your son and give him an ultimatum which is either to be straight or y'all depart, he might try to mask his sexuality to please you but he will definitely be miserable

So you acknowledge that some people will live fake lives just to avoid violent violations of their rights by other 'people'?

You acknowledge that these people will 'change' only because of the assault you gleefully want to mete on them?

theMagnet:
Bring me the holy cane
Emu condo mimo wa!
Dem go flog am sotey he go turn womaniser

This is how people die alone despite having family.

Teleprompter:
I don’t spoil my kids to the extent that they know I would always support them... No !

My kids know that there are some things I can’t live with. If such occurs, it is because they no longer need me in their life. I can never tolerate or accommodate such. If they love me as I love them, it would be over my dead body and not to my face.

Why are you obsessed with ass-dick-taking?

Are you curious?

Is this a cry for help young sir?

Also, that '14-year' law is almost certainly unconstitutional. It almost definitely infringes on the right to:
- freedom of association,
- freedom of thought, conscience, and religion,
- life
- dignity
- personal liberty
- privacy
- freedom from discrimination
- freedom of expression.

All these are constitutional rights.

LutanFyah:
Shut your ass up, if you're taking dick up your sick ass, you'll be arrested and locked up for 14 years.

Not the same concept.

Do not be blind to (other) red flags because she's a 'virgin'.

It could be a lie anyways:
https://www.google.com/search?q=virgin+surgery&oq=virgin+surg&aqs=chrome.0.0j69i57j0i457j0j0i395l3j0i22i30i395l3.3494j1j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

Sonnobax15:


Though I ain't married yet,but I don't think I'll ever regret buying a tear-rubber car from Japan compared to a tukumbo car from Cotonou...

I'd rather marry a virgin with wahala, knowing fully well that I was the first one to drill her bore hole than marry one community project who'd still end up giving me the same wahala

Good on you for not playing those games with them.

Have a great married life. Grow together and raise beautiful children (if so desired).

NwaliE01:
I had a very near perfect relationship but the relationship ended when I proposed marriage because the lady thought I was pretending.
I later met another lady and got married less than 2 years after our disengagement.
It's been almost 5 years now and she is not even in any serious relationship.
Later learnt her single nephews and friends deceived her. She said they told her that I love her so much and can never marry someone else apart from her. They told her to dribble me before accepting my proposal but I wasn't that patient for those nonsense.
I am happily married today and can not even marry her even if want to marry another wife.

Why don't you give an example of logical and empirical 'proofs'.

I'm sure these proofs have already been responded to.

If the creator is omni-powerful, shouldn't s/he be able to come down and reveal themselves to us?

MrColdsweat:
As an atheist that doesn't believe in the existence of a supreme being.

What would it take to make you believe in God's existence?

A logical proof? An empirical proof?

You want God to come down and reveal himself to you?

What exactly will quench your disbelief?

Yup.

See a doctor, please. Don't shave the hair until after seeing a doctor.

Their hypocrisy no be today.

Romanoff:
All because of this same sex.

I wonder why Arewa Twitter went to hide when the picture was released.

They just went "Fem". If it's Rahama's dress, them go carry an for head like oshuka.

Don't fight your spouse even if they cheat. It is not worth it.

When/If you're married and your husband starts going outside (hopefully not), don't join the ladies who say: "Honey, is it not good enough for you anymore? Honey, let's spice up our marriage. Honey, you can do anal. Waa waa waa".

Leshurr:
Another butthurt faggott. Literally butt hurt!

Not looking for visa too 'hun'.

Well if you're already a citizen, this won't apply.

Leshurr:
Too bad I'm not looking for visa like you and your ilks. I'm a dual citizen thank you!

So if the person is not homophobic enough, they are 'manginas'.

Who hurt you?

Leshurr:
The fact that this topic affected you so personally, that you took it upon yourself to derail the thread by arguing back and forth with a lady, says it all. Goodbye mangina!

I'd advise you to take this down if you plan on applying for a visa. Some visa applications do social media searches as part of their background checks.

Leshurr:
Tell that to the faggotss who refuse to mind theirs. It is nobody's business if you love taking it up the ass!

Where is the positive experience?


Your post is the bare minimum.

bsalawu:
I bless God for the kind of wife He gave me!

We are not near perfect but the little % of perfection we have we hold it with great grace!

I have never cheated on her.... she so peaceful to the extent that even when she makes me angry, the way and manner she will handle it is always very peaceful!

We’ve been married close to 4 years with 2 wonderful children!

Marriage is hard work... I don’t allow anything that will cause division. I’m so careful about our home!

I Pray God will give us more grace to excel in this course! If I say it’s hard work... I mean it.

...but I enjoy every moment of it.... the blessings specks volume.

I pray God will restore every lost hope for marriages in Jesus Name!

If the decision is mutual and the rendezvous done together, I see no problem.

Else, one person will be doing it to the detriment of someone else.

Why don't you mind your own blawdy business?

Are they disturbing you? No.

You are not happy in your life so you go look to disturb somebody else's.

Leshurr:
Sometimes I wonder why homosexuals are so vicious, defensive and ready to attack at any point.
I've never understood why they feel the need to "come out" and announce to the whole world what they do in the confines of their bedroom . like how is your sexual depravity our blawdy business?
Then, if you don't agree or subscribe to their lifestyle you are called a hateful bigot. Just engage with a homo the next thing is they will start wishing you death yet at the same time play the 'victims'. Only the devil is that incessant in pushing his agenda which makes me believe homosexuality is demonic possession with a hint of mental illness.

Don't get it twisted, love is a beautiful thing.

And that would be a good thing.

PissfulProtester:
if na to follow negative signs, aswearugad, over 80% of the people wey don marry already for no marry

1. Seems like you want a prostitution relationship.

2. Say no to childish relationships in 2021.

Smh.

I swear some of our people never grow up.

If they get married and have children, who will raise the children? Her mother?

I feel for the guy, he (according to his post sha), did everything right yet no reward.

Chii59:
Cooooooks, see this scenario, a 28 yr old "mummy's girl"
OP, your babe is a girl, not a lady, or even a woman. Some people fall in love and can't see anyone else, even if the person they love isn't worthy of the love. I was in your shoes, best thing you can do, is to cut off ALL communication and see how you can MOVE ON.
Or you can keep hanging around, begging her "mummy and daddy" to lend you their girl
It's up to you.

Fake.

No future ambition.