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Mr. Man, go and get DNA test.

Reminds me of the story of Hugh Hefner, the guy who started and still runs the Playboy Franchise/Mansion.

The way I remember it, he went to war and promised to stay faithful to his fiancée.

He stayed faithful throughout the war, even though most men at war got or bought cheap sex from the locals were they were stationed.

When he returned, I believe after the marriage, his wife confessed that she had sex while he was away.

He felt betrayed and decided to sleep around. The wife did not want to agree but had no choice.

That, my friends, was how the original Playboy was born.

StacyO:
Male virginity is not something regarded as normal. The society have decayed to the extent that normal things are seen as abnormal.

9 out of every 10 males you come across today have five to fifteen sexual history.
They tell you this feeling all proud about it.

Enquiring from a man then,asked him how many ladies he has slept with.
His reply was 50 and he said it with his head up high.

How will you even live to believe that such a man will want to channel his energy into something useful again?

Then again,mothers please try to encourage your male children to keep themselves till marriage. It might be hard to do but ,at least,it's worth it.
Because,if 6 out of every 10 males are virgins,don't you think the girl child will be free to keep hers?Rape and sexual harassments are sure to reduce.
Let's help save the future generation from conc. immorality.


Being a virgin as a male doesn't mean you're weak.

Many men who ventured into sex are regretting their actions now. Why cause, sex is a remote control on it's own.


Here are some of the advantages and disadvantages of being a male virgin.

ADVANTAGES;

1) Lower chances of cheating while married.

2) You're certain that his destiny is still intact. Many men venture into the act of having sex early without knowing the implications of sleeping with different strangers.

3) He's pure and free from any form of connection with other women.

4) He has self discipline.

5) He has self respect and dignity.

6) You both grow in love and happiness,free from EX stories.

7) Very interesting to be with.

He knows what he wants and when he wants it.

9) He is not controlled by lust.

10) He has an entirely different positive energy.



Disadvantages and some of the stereotypes associated with it;

1) Virgin males are inexperienced: In as much as this might be true,I still believe that virgins are far more interesting than non virgins.

They learn new things everyday and just waiting for the perfect day to unleash it all.

They are generally weak and are mostly nerds. This is as a matter of fact a "solid LIE".
Being a virgin doesn't make you weak,you can be a virgin and still have mind control over ladies.

Let no one tell you you're not man enough if you're a virgin.


Lastly,never pray for a virgin wife if you're not one.

Ladies never feel you owe anyone the right to pick a second hand machine.
Any man whose body count is above 5,please watch well ooo.

I pray everyone gets blessed with a partner who has the same sexometer as them.

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Stop. Posting. Your. Children's. Photos. On. The. Internet.

More power to your woman.

Everyone stay clean and stay safe.

Lol. Next time he'll get up.

This isn't new. Opobo town does not have nor wants roads that will carry cars. When you visit Opobo, you walk to most places.

The church is a bit far from his company though and Keke or motorcycle are the ways most grown adults will go to/leave church.

It's people who have no experience with 'kpekus' that say stuff like that.

Also, borderline paedo....

Chii59:
Because they are presumably sexually inexperienced. I mean which straight man doesn't want a tight kpekus?

Lol.

What is this obsession with "young girls"

ethicallyright:
It's relative.
A woman who is 28 years and above is relatively old.
A woman who is above 35 is clearly old.

If a woman enters medical school at 22 to finish at 28-30, that's not bad and that's the usual case.

But a NIGERIAN woman who gains admission to study for MBBS at 28 is clearly old for the course.

I think you are assuming that you have to have kids immediately you get married.

Also, it seems you are not necessarily interested in any particular person...just the idea of settling down.

With the right person, settling down will not be a chore. You will still be able to advance in your career and perhaps even move as needed.

You're not stupid but you're not special either.

We are 200 million people in Nigeria. Not even half, talk less of a majority, live the caricature that is painted on NL.

Wishing you continued happiness and success this year!

Paternity fraud is rife and we need to make this DNA test craze last!

I think this is very important.

I have had to review many CVs in my time and a good 40% of the CVs are terrible.

The most annoying thing though was not being able to back up your CV.

I would also say that if you left your last place of employment on a negative note, consider not putting them on the CV. I have had to not offer a job to someone who I was ready to hire because I knew one of the previous employers and they had nothing positive to say.

Nice tips!

She has removed her picture and locked her LinkedIn account. I'm sure her employers have been contacted to and her family is coming to tell tales by moonlight.

My problem is that we do not believe in innocent before proven guilty in our country.

I think the probes are good but people should not have forlorn conclusions.

Bear in mind that if Nuru and Moyo are proven innocent, the budding DNA craze, which I think is necessary in our country, will be dealt a serious blow.

manunitedbabes:
This is ridiculous
This is madness
This is unfair
This is like a story of a king who owned everything but picked interest on a poor man's only surviving property. Even kill him at war front just to succeed in making away his property forcefully.

Really painful. Tell me how she will enjoy her life

It is an investigation, this is normal.

He is most likely on paid leave. Even if they find him culpable, depending on his contract, they would have to pay him a hefty severance.

The good thing is that banks and big businesses will expand the scope of their moral background check to include non-philandering. I think that is a good thing.

Thanks

sageb:
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Printing money is actually Nigeria's problem. It causes the double-digit inflation we are now used to.

thebosstrevor1:
79% OF NIGERIA DOMESTIC DEBT IS OWNED TO NIGERIAN BIG BANKS.

Those Nigerian banks that are assigned too big to fail are the owners of the debts

Nigerian government will keep paying interest on the debts to those banks forever, that is what usury does, it enrich the shareholders. Most of these banks profit isn't from doing anything but from interest on all the loans they give out, banks create money by lending.

Nigerian govt can issue interest free loans and print debt free currency ( naira) then spend these money on building infrastructures, it will create jobs for millions of people and reduce inflation.

These debts Nigerian government keeps owning these banks is the cause of inflation

So you don't want to be carnally involved when you're 50?

You think your brain automatically changes once you reach 50?

NiRfreak:
I bet this Antie is still fvbcking..she's just too obsessed with sex issues... I wish I knew who is bunking that old jaded pvssy

Nothing wrong with DNA guys.

If you stay with someone you love and trust, these issues will be less probable.

Regardless, if you have doubt, get a DNA test codedly. If your fears are shown to be unfounded, throw the paper away and ask your god for forgiveness. Then go and treat your wife with continued love. If your fears are founded, talk with a lawyer ASAP. End the marriage.

Save your current bf and yourself headache and break up.

Be honest, tell him why and say it is not fair to both of you.

Move on and continue to grow.

SugarPink23:
Please I'll like to ask you guys not to judge me. That's why I created this account, because lots of people know me offline from my original Nairaland account. I just want honest advice and opinions. Nobody is perfect. We all have flaws. Let's not be hypocrites.

So there was this guy I met months ago. He's very attractive and very intelligent. He's also very interesting and fun to be around. But above all, I'm very sexually attracted to him. Like I get wet just standing close to him. Almost everything about him turns me on. Our friendship was very short and he ended things with me over text when we had an argument. At the time I felt he was being very immature and being unfair to me because what he accused me of doing, wasn't even true. The end of the friendship was painful for me because even though we hadn't had sex, I sent nudes, had sex chats, and we had feelings for each other. I deleted his number afterwards and vowed not to contact him again.

I thought I'd get over him, but I haven't. It's been 2 months since I last talked to him and I'm still in love with him. I haven't texted him and he hasn't reached out. A part of me is still yearning for him to reach out. It hurts knowing that he doesn't care about me anymore. I think about him everyday and still have dreams of him.

I just started going out with this new guy and I feel underwhelmed by the relationship. My current boyfriend is a great guy that cares about me, but I'm not as attracted to him as I am to the previous guy. Even though I didn't have sex with the previous guy, I feel that sex with him would be more fun and enjoyable than the sex I currently have with my boyfriend.

Sometimes when I'm alone I shed tears when I think about the previous guy and how he pushed me out of his life like I was worthless to him, despite him telling me that I was special. I'm still deeply in love with him and I feel like I'm being unfair to my current boyfriend.

I'm afraid to contact the previous guy because I fear he might ignore me or worse, say something negative that would.make me feel even worse. I don't think he wants anything to do with me anymore.

I'm so confused. I don't know what to do.

Love people for themselves.

That's why some of the prettiest relationship stories are the ones that start young, in school, or at church. The people loved each other for themselves and not money.

This phenomenon is not as common as some people think.

Many top bosses know that some of their employees are looking to entrap them in a bid to make money/get a new baby daddy or sugar daddy/maybe even get them to leave their wives.

Some will seek extramarital fun OUTSIDE of their workplace.

Nigeria is hard and some men know their wives are doing this but say nothing if it benefits them and their families.

There are also a LOT of women who will not stoop to this level. I just hope they do not get abused by some men who end up chasing them to the dark side.

Exhibit number 1 million why Bride price must be scrapped.

Also, you sound like a baby.

ecomm:
Why would a many marry and have children, if he cannot guarantee the welfare of his wards.

Men are becoming weaker because they have given women more opportunities to exercise at their own cost.

Keep looking for a contributing partner ... you grow weaker she grows stronger.

Can't imagine a woman I paid for - contributing money to pay house rent or school fees. Don't you feel worthless when this happens?

If you're from a rich family and are on a path to even higher things here, there's no need to leave Nigeria.

They will still sometimes get citizenship somewhere else IN CASE.

She is a doctor. If a time comes and she wants to move, before 6 months, she would have disappeared.

Check well and ask her where she got her degree. I am 100% sure she got it from an accredited school (whether in Nigeria or outside) that is recognized by countries like Canada.

Doctors in Nigeria with 4-5 years experience and easily move to another country and become doctors there in less than a year.

Why leave Nigeria where you work maybe 40 hours a week with quality breaks to go somewhere where you'll work 12 hours nonstop as a doctor. Where you'll have to look for a house that costs 5 times your annual salary, etc.