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It is absolutely not normal for mothers to slap their grown, working, independent children. Not in this Nigeria.

leksite120:
And so?
So if the wife's mother slap her no matter what, would she retaliate?

Na jonz. He is a young lawyer, he may not be clearing N100k a month. With experience and cases, this will increase.

Not since I was small. How old are you that your mom is still beating you?

Schools should do and reopen.

Bennysam:
But your own mother can hit you?

I've never claimed any pill bro.

My brain is not sick, I do not need medication.

Bennysam:
Tomorrow people like you will claim they’re red pill

Why a fully grown man, married with kids, will start chasing small girls anyhow, I will never know.

Lol. You have to be 300% sure before carrying out a stunt like this.

I saw that someone you're dating is considered an extended family member under current COVID rules.

Any idea on how this might affect someone already in Canada if sending letter of invitation for visit?

NaijaCanadian28:
The only kind of marriage recognized by IRCC is court wedding so you’re technically single in IRCC’s eyes. If you have been living together for at least two years and meet other criteria, you can claim common law. If you don’t fall in any of the categories I mentioned, your spouse has to fill in his express entry profile that he’s single, he can add you after you have done the court marriage.

LOOOOL

You will beat your wife, the one who pays your transport, for defending herself from assault?

LOOL.

You are not serious.

NiRfreak:
Your mum may be wrong, but your wife is like a child compare to your mom..and your mom must have been fed up of her disrespect and frustration on you. That's why she slapped her.

If she slapped my mummy in my presence after all her role in the birthday debt stuff, I will lay my hand on her to appease my mother. I won't throw her bag out just yet and won't file for divorce just yet, that will be impulsive...
I will just beat her on the spot for slapping my mom. And live with the malice that will ensue.Till she's ready to make peace and apologize, I won't care. I can't live with the idea that my wife slapped my mother without doing anything.That's disrespect to both me and my mother....And such wife will hardly respect me. And depending on her attitude after that incident, that will determine how long we will be together.

True. OP's mum is questioning his 'leadership' to his face!

Romanoff:
Your mum has a s had no right to slap your wife.

Whatever your wife did, she me at well, even though it's bad she collected items on credit.

Your mum should count on you to address the issue, if your mum slapped your wife, she prolly did it cause she didn't think you can handle matters in your home.

You forgot that:
- OP's mum slapped first.
- OP's wife is the breadwinner and the source of his transport.

leksite120:
The thing is, no matter how worse, your wife is at fault for slapping your mum.. That's nonsense, I like you for doing the best, that is , sending her away, and don't ever do the mistake of taking her back pls.

It's obvious that a wife that slaps your mum will surely not respect you, never, and she won't even respect anyone.

Taking her back is another second slap to your mum, even if your mum oblige to it

Lol.

If you try to kill her first, she will kill you na.

The mum slapped her first.

Men, we need fighters in this world o.

I give your wife 5 gbosas.

1beat:
a wife that can slap ur mum in front of you can kill you.
now listen is better to path in peace than to let death path you is obvious that u can't control your wife.
both of you should visit marriage counselor and hear from them

1. Probably a fake story.

2. Your mum has NO right to slap anybody.

3. You sef no get sense. You allow your mom slap the breadwinner for house. If she pack now, who go give you transport?

4. Your wife should not be entering into unnecessary debt.

5. Apologise to your wife, kiss her, hug her, tell your mum you disapprove of her violence (in your wife's presence!!!!), kiss her where she wants, maybe even wash her pant sef. Look back at No. 3.

6. You and your wife and the vendor should work out a payment plan. Add N2k as interest.

Move on. Limit your mum's appearance in your house until the debt is paid off, you are back to earning money, and you and your wife have settled.

EDIT: LOOL, I did not even read the last 2 sentences.

Oga, you truly have NO sense. Your mum slapped your wife and she slapped her back. What did you expect?? Is she a baby? A married woman with a child is being slapped anyhow. Maka gini? On top of that, she is the breadwinner sef. Your head is not correct. You and all the other Mama's boys that go around falling men's hands need cane.

EDIT 2: You should have been happy that your wife retaliated immediately. Some people do not slap back immediately but will spend 4 years planning a much more devastating retaliation.

I think it's 6.

Chii59:
Nwaezeemmanuel, my NL husband
Cooooks, I wonder how many zeros are in your name.
Erm who else, the return of NwaAmaikpe, them go cuss you tire. Who else?
Dominique my fav mod.
Zzor, tormentor of alfa men and redpillers
I'll remember others later

This road has been under construction since the early 1990s.

LOOOL.

Anyone eyeing this girl should book 5 DNA tests if she gets pregnant.

Those men have little choice lol

Reminds me of the story where a man in PH earning ~N300k was trying to control his fiancée in Lag earning ~N1 m.

Chii59:
Not in naija o. Many of these men shouting independent can't handle an independent woman. Jealousy go wound them tire

Happy holidays

How will you be a sugar mummy at 29??


Lol.

Angelluvy:
I don't know if this is the right platform to post this. But let me start from here.

I registered, just be post this.

I think it's time to take a good decision. I'm emotionally stable and willing to give it a try again.
I believe in love, good family, beautiful home, caring and loving partner and all the beautiful things that comes with marriage.


I want to meet a single father, who is ready to love again, a good and kind hearted person, whose relationship is not complicated.

We could start by being friends.

I'm 29, never been married. My son's father wanted us together, but there's no single memory of love and care to help me love him. So, it's time to make a nice decision.


Married men looking for second wife, young guys looking for sugar mummy, please stay away. Thank you

These issues must be hashed before saying I do.

It is a partnership.

People warned about Rochas. He had NO track record. HE absolutely had no track record in Imo. HE was a mysteriously rich trader based in the North that was a magical philanthropist. That is not a track record.

Omoslim26:
Baba its not just about track record
some people use dat to score points
Owelle Rochas went about doing good not knowing he had an ulterior motive all along

Guys will not go for mutual love and then will come and start saying she only wants my money.

Save yourselves stress, mutual love or nothing!!

ImaIma1:
Save yourself the trouble and move on. No one needs to tell you that this is one-sided. Has she ever called you on her own? She doesn't even return your calls.

But if you are ready to love enough for both of you, you can go ahead.

That the guy is not in love with the girl in question but just wants to 'win' a 'beautiful' eye candy.

Juliusmomoh:
What is the girl above really saying....

Not true.

There are many women who are sensible and are marrying sensible men.

Smile4mee01:
To be sincere this should not even be a conversation.
As a Nigerian in Diaspora, I marvel at how women especially think is a big deal that they are sponsoring a spouse to get papers.

When they do, they rub it in your face all the days of your life that they helped you get papers.

This is why many Nigerians look away from marry thier fellow Nigerians abroad.

Asians, Indians do these to help thier community grow yet our 9ja sisters.

They should hold their paper, other african ladies or whites like us the way we are.

God forbid my sister or any woman in my family marries someone that will be salivating at their younger, possibly underage, female siblings/relatives.

czarr:
You can't be honest in everything, sometimes too much honesty causes more harm than good?

For example if you happen to find your wife's sister sexually appealing, and you wife asks you if you find her sister sexually appealing...would you say yes?

Or your wife's mother is rude and has a terrible behaviour, if your wife asks what you think about her mother would you be completely honest? No! .

Women appreciate little white lies, especially of they cannot handle the truth.

The colorist does not know that in the abroad, no one is differentiating between fair and non fair black person.

ghiloman28:
Racist spotted

What is his track record and what is he coming to do?

Omoslim26:
If an old man dat should be in his village resting can win an election with ordinary nepa certificate in this Country

then why cant they vote for this young nigga too

Wait, is Ilamina the Romance NL terrorist from Opobo?



Jaja must hear this!

Ilamina:

Later these people will wonder why the sole breadwinner is dropping dead like a fly.

TSBO:
Word!!!

There is really no choice. I don't understand how many guys are able to cope with other choices.. As you said, it's all about mutual respect, that's all.. And that, Sir, can be very difficult for those who have been conditioned by culture to attach self and non-self esteem to money.

Any married man that cannot talk with his wife honestly is counting the days to divorce.

czarr:
Should a married man rent a secret apartment where he can go for a couple of days to refresh and recharge his spirit with some alone time away from the whole marriage something?

In the guise of 'i am going for a business meeting or seminar for a few days'

This guy will probably try to run for something and with our colo mentality, could win...without substance.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some people just won't turn you on.

This is an evil statement and you will end up crying lol.

Lightangel65:
Yes sure I would enjoy breaking her and putting her into submission. I love when dreams of hard working ladies die off