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There is no choice but to be with independent, 'alpha' women.

In the developed world (urban cities), on average, women outearn men up until ~ age 28 when more women start trying to get children. A number of studies have proven this.

As long as there is mutual respect, there will be no problem.

Some of us completely believe in equity, at all levels. From asking out, to dating to marriage.

False statement.

virginprincess:
Men don't get rape.

If it only erection, my friend go and buy blue chew.

This lack of erection could be negatively affecting your wife.

drexx:
I am a 29 year old man. I got married January this year. My wife is 25 years old. We have a pretty 8 months old daughter

The issues is that I never discovered my sexuality. We dated for about 9 months and she got pregnant. I just decided to marry her. As time went on, I discovered that my fetish is on slightly tall ladies with considerable thickness.
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My wife is petite. We no longer have sex as I find it very hard to muster an erection with her. But I effortlessly get erection with other women. Short and simple she is not my spec. I know I should have fixed this before marriage. Trust me I just thought every woman is a woman. It's about now I just discovered the physical features that rock me.

I want a separation. The marriage is sexless

No one needs to get married.

Especially if you are not actively trying to bring children into this world.

Happy Holidays to the lovely couple.

My friend close your eyes and leave them alone.

thesicilian:
If you want to be gay, be gay on your own. Don't start flaunting the obnoxious sexual lifestyle and expecting people to accept you.

Don't ask, don't tell.

There is a scary disregard for life in our country.

The mom that you think was happy at 31 more than likely got divorced at 47.

This might be kidnapping (legally taking children without your consent).

I fear the only way to seriously approach this is to get the police involved.

If your husband could plan such a heist without your knowledge, he is likely ready with evidence he belives will favour him in the event of any legal issues.

You should probably contact the British High Commission.

It's like Zzor ate special Christmas rice yesterday.

Zzor:
For the man to have done that, you must be a bad wife and him taking the children along means he's a good and responsible man who loves his family, I hate women who treats Good men badly.

This is a mashed-up article that does NOT apply to most Nigerians.

This topic is being flogged to death by people who know nothing about the situation and extrapolate isolated incidents to the entire tens of millions of Nigerians in the abroad.

And I salute him.

coolcharm:
Lol, that young man is looking for a wife. Forget the job offer, that one na cruise.

Obviously. We are the most populated country in Africa, of course, we will have the largest number of gay, bi & queer people.

Many more happy years to them!

People should appreciate that we are 200 MILLION people in this country. We will not all have the same ideas on everything.

Showers, regular cleaning & aeration removes like 90% of any smells.

Vagisil removes like 99% of all smells, literally no smell (a lil weird at first).

I checked OP's account and saw no previous post of him saying he wanted his wife to be a full housewife.

Furthermore, OP said his mother in law just came for omugwor, meaning his wife is currently nursing a baby.

Plus he said he budgeted for 5 mouths meaning he likely has 2 kids:
- Him
- Wife
- Wife's last born sibling
- Nursing baby
- Other child (?)

ModestGal:
That's good for you, shebi you said you like your wife to be full house wife ni, just because of your useless ego. Your wife doesn't even know how you earn, your monthly income because you think husband should not inform their wives, now she thinks you are a millionaire.
Sorry, I don't have any good thing to say to you, you are the architect of your problem

I will try to be "a perfect" next time Chief.

toye440:
Lol, that i know before u wre born. As I type this my Encarta English Dictionary is opened.
And next time u intend to correct me, make sure u r [b]a perfec[/b]t.

Open a dictionary and learn the meaning of the word most.

toye440:
Simple, most 9ja men end up choking or shooting them down. Most of which the women are to blame.
Google why most 9ja men kill their wives abroad.

It is 1 thing to have suitors, it is another thing to have suitors with which there is a mutual desire to be together.

Chii59:
It's not. But then it depends on what you want. That's why it's best to define what you want from the start. In one year, a lady could have from 1-20 or even more suitors. Turning them all down for someone who's not even sure she's the one is too costly.

You could know/feel that in a month but to go from total strangers to walking down the wedding aisle in 1 year? Yes, I think that is too short.

Chii59:
And a year is too short to know if someone is the one for you?

That's my experience. Not sure where you're seeing haircuts for $10 in major cities.

cristy149:
dude that's bullshit

Seems to me that he is narrating abi lamenting about his wife, not "women".

ahnie:
Op stop stereotyping women.

Are you a register or journalist at the court that ruled on their case?

How do you know the accusations you are leveling?

uruba23:
The Chief need to stop eating the vegetables he is been served by his side chick why would you want to evict your kids even if the mama and you have issues. ....if you can do this I can only imagine what the woman must have been going through in your hand. I wish Justice Odili handles this case.

Is there a link to the story or did you just come up with these accusations of side chick and having children who live there?

The court should rule on the upkeep of the children.

It is not enough to just open mouth waa.

baby124:
Very stupid man. That your children live there alone is enough for you to forget that property and go and find somewhere to live. That side chick will chop your money and leave you almost dead. Then you will start trying to force yourself on these same children. God knows that I will make a wicked child so he did not give me this kind of parents.

The court should not give incomplete judgments. If they granted her custody, what is their determination on the upkeep of the children?

Are all their children adults (possible since he is retired)?

They've not been together for 3 years. They started talking for 1 year then immediately transitioned to long-distance for 2 years.

She should travel and study and if she does not like his approach, time-wasting, red pill consumption, she will be able to find someone else by herself.

Chii59:
After 3 years, you're not sure about marriage. May God drive your type far away from me. Amen

Not quite. A lot of people do not know how to barb, especially any non-straightforward style.

I just started barbing myself due to Covid, but I can only do low cut or skin. Before Covid, it is very normal to wait for up to 1 hour at a busy black saloon for a haircut.

I tried a Chinese lady once, she was cheaper and no wait, it was a terrible haircut.

kunkelhanspeter:
That why almost everybody there knows how to barbe

Very important write up.

Society does not benefit from single parenthood (there are single fathers too).

People need to take a chill pill with this Red pill vs Feminist vs Gender war phenomenon engulfing NL.

Our small country has 200 million people. There is a rich diversity that everyone can benefit from. Whatever you think you dislike about "women", there are countless women who do not do those things; whatever you think you want in "men", there are countless men with those characteristics.

Audio story.

When is your novel coming out?

If you are not making more than N200,000 a month, spending N7k on a haircut, maybe twice a month, seems a tad irresponsible.

Note that N7,000 * 12 * 2 = N168,000.

grossintel:
Only broke niggas use N200 for a hair cut. We spend 7k for a hair cut in Black and white saloon.

Haircut: 1k
Styling: 1k
Dyeing: 1k
Jack 5: 2,500
Tips: 1,500

You're making it seem like men don't spend on themselves. Ave never used a wallet below 10k, I'm not even rich but I love looking good.