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Bathe your babies guys. Develop that bond with your kids independent of your woman.

Rarity is not the norm.

People should pick and stay with people that gel with them.

Temper is too dangerous to overlook.

Someone who has been casually insulting you, your parents, and your lineage will somehow stop after marriage? Na magic?

You probably overlooked all these crimson flags because he is financially stable, as you say.

It seems anything other than complete and total submission will shake this marriage. Why join a faulty boat? Leave the boat, try to fix the boat, if that fails, find another boat.

You got involved in a scam and want to use the results of your decision to scapegoat your supposed boo.

These streets are crazy.

Study well and read your books, let someone not greedily lose money to a scam and write epistle o.

This one has chopped someone's money with a cake promise of marriage and is coming here to bleat.

Guys, never expect anything from people without prior honest discussion.

I wish her well. Please be comfortable in your skin. Random opinions are unnecessary.

Meet someone with whom there is mutual love, respect and attraction.

Don't leave someone that is perfect with you for someone you can barely laugh with in the name of "I must not 'forgive' her past"

Anywhere you have Nigerian Immigration. Most likely every state.

E.g: PH & Bayelsa. Definitely Enugu, I would think all the other states too.

Lol. It's a free country dear.

Chii59:
It's an oral medication not the surgery, dear.
Infact come closer what are you getting me this Christmas? I know say you no dey celebrate Christmas, e no matter
Shulai come inbox?

Is it available in Nigeria?

Chii59:
Stem cells cure is only temporary. Once you stop the medication you'll go back to normal.

I couldn't read the entire thing either.

People just wake up and open their mouths on NL.

bukatyne:
Hahahahaha

I haven't read the thread.

Now, I need to.

Modified:

Read the OP, a few random comments and done.

The whole bashing gets tasteless after a while.

Stop being with people you do not respect.

Some people never let go of their view of their children as children.

The man is an adult and causing unnecessary hypertension with his just delivered wife is a bit callous.

The man needs to be calmer. One thing I learnt from my mom growing up is: don't act when you're angry. Calm down first before saying or doing anything. Frankly, the ladies I've had relationships with have called me cold because of this but I prefer this approach.

The man should have calmed down and calmly told his mom he appreciates her concerns but has no problem. Even laugh off her concerns.

I don't even believe in God but most of the people on NL need deliverance.

80 percent?? 80 percent??

Do you know what 80% means??

CHoccolaTE:
I wonder when nairaland girls will realize that 80 percent of men are sociopaths that enjoy causing undue stress and unhappiness in women's lives. Nairaland is just the only Avenue they have to anonymously Express their true nature that's why you see them venting all the innate bitterness and hate they have for the female gender.

I know it might sound very sick and depressing but the overwhelming majority of men are misogynistic sociopaths that hate women by default.

Fighting them back will not change anything, they were born like that, just be aware of the innate irrational hate they have for females and be careful of them because they are dangerous.

Continued generalizations by people will not move us forward.

Know that there a varieties of people. No need to bother yourself with the flavour of men you have no interest in.

Same for men.

CHoccolaTE:
Infact so many Nigerian men are either jobless or broke as a joke, they depend on their wives money and do nothing but constitute nuisance because they live in a patriarchal society where women are encouraged to stick with broke men and preserve their marriage.
She cannot complain or talk outside because she will be accused of bringing shame to her husband

The lazy men capitalize on that to continue being lazy and unproductive

Yet these small rats will come online to run their mouths and claim that women contribute nothing in marriage

The minute your relationship/marriage is not based on equality, y'all begin running into all these problems.

Equality no be only who dey hold door for who. Equality also includes respect, adoration, lack of adherence to unequal so called traditions, etc.

Make una leave all this matter. Work together and help each other secure that bag!! Go and do that certification you have been postponing. Call your man or woman and encourage each other.

Leave all these nonsense to people who have time.

Why must people pay to marry?


If two adults want to get married, they get married, shikina.


Why must money change hands?

Shortyy:
Stupîd man. What about the women you used and dumped? Why didn't you marry them? The woman you disvirgined, why didn't you marry her? Shey na person go marry that one abi?

Useless men. Always talking rubbish without thinking. If you feel like all women are used and you can't pay to marry anyone. Stay single then, and don't bother having any affair with anyone. When you're Hot because you men are always Hot, use your hand and satisfy yourself.

Or you can go look for the woman you broke her hymen and marry her.

I said hórny! You MF! Hórny! Stop changing my words please.

1. Is your wife also a graduate? Including OND/HND?

2. Can you/do you have some certified skills? Taking LinkedIn courses to certify skills you already have is a big plus.

3. Search the cities you are interested in on ca.indeed.com and see what jobs you like are available. Can you apply to those jobs? What do you need to apply to those jobs?

4. After answering the above, fill this out: https://www.cic.gc.ca/english/immigrate/skilled/crs-tool.asp and https://www.canada.ca/en/immigration-refugees-citizenship/services/come-canada-tool.html

A book of fables.

ibuildstuff:
It's funny how someone can commit murder, rape and all sort of evil, then pray for forgiveness and go to heaven but an atheist that commit no crime will go to hell according to your Bible.

Someone will come for your head.

Reason number 5,000,234,001,345 why bride price is ridiculous.

Chii59:
Forgive and forget.
Maybe it's because you've not been oiling her well.
Pray for her to repent. It's the handwork of Satan trying to scatter your home.
Take a break from work
Take her out
Give her leg massages and mind blowing orgasms
You can even cook for her sef.
Don't forget to be a submissive wife.
Oh no, husband sorry.

I thought this was a post about an adulterous husband. Oh shoot, my bad

A Queen!

Have a happy married life.

What you think is right could be considered wrong by another person.

BaddieFreak:
How do you mean?

One person can not and does not speak for everyone in their group.

The girl is not ugly.

If he went near the girl, she would laugh.

Continue dating your hand.

Ah really?

My tune has not changed on almost any relationship matter in the last year.

SILENTandSMART2:
eze Emanuel your brain don dey work small small



god i thank you oo

you almost lost it few months ago

Bride price.

thesicilian:
What is the meaning of "hard earned wife"?

Is attraction/interest mutual?

Are you forcing her interest/commitment to you? And vice versa.

Is she improving herself, earning power?

Are your views on life, relationship, finances sincerely held?

Are these sincerely held views compatible?

Answer the above questions honestly.

Only date girls that like you and you like them too.

A girl that likes you and wants a relationship with you, and is sensible, will not be taxing you.

Stop chasing girls, do not beg someone to take your number, do not try to win them over with money (that you don't have).

Be on your own jeje, focus on growing yourself to the best man you can be. Eventually, you will have the opportunity to be with a mutually respectful woman who is also trying to be the best woman she can be.

blackboy:
OP you should have added if you are sleeping with your girl friend you are a fool. Or it is okay to sleep with a girlfriend and not foolish to do other things?
Lets call a spade a spade. Lets look at it deeper.

Guys want to chop and clean mouth and feel like a G or want to sleep around and impregnate girls and not marry her/them. Abandon them and they child or even make them commit abortion or bring shame to the girls and their family. Is he not only foolish but also very wicked.

OP do justice not just us. Look at it holistically not only from one side.

Very true.