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Rozcol:
Never had such dreams before, dorrrrr

You may not be human afterall, as I have always suspected.

Rozcol:
Are you publicly denying me only to come apologize later?

I have no doubt you have wet dreams every night when you imagine getting apologies from me.

Cruise...

Rozcol:
crackhaus I hope you won't let me undergo such kind of stress,I bet you can't try that.dorrrrrr

Wetin concern me concern you fa...

goaldynboy:
All I can deduce from this long epistle is that Reno Omokiri is a fool and a bloody LIAR that can easily be bought over with money!

It is only a fool that will be supporting and defending someone you have never listened to!!

He should go and tell those lies to zombies that he just listened to Kanu for the first time last week!!

This is a very valid thought, a little too hard but valid.

I like Mr. Reno Omokri, but for admitting that he used to support Kanu without EVER listening to his broadcasts or watching his interviews, is bad taste.

Supporting a cause you don't totally understand is something I usually associate with feminists who are mostly bandwagon(ers) – very poor intellectual approach to issues.

I always try to stay away from discussions about IPOB because the views I hold towards them will not be considered friendly especially when I have lots of Igbo friends & family (by marriage).

The truth is that anyone who supports Nnamdi Kanu even after listening to the type of things he says, is simply no different from Buhari and those Northerners who believe Nigeria is their birthright.

NoToPile:
Any did you say any? Wrong very very wrong, there are hundreds of couples on NL ooo abi no be this NL again


2nd bolded Yimu

I would actually love to hear your view on this matter.

As complicated and winding as the story has been so far, I have a very simple view.

Whatever a husband has against his wife or whatever the wife has against him, they must leave their kids out of it.

As far as I'm concerned when it comes to any relationship/marriage wahala, no party is ever completely innocent... NONE!

If the man wants to send his wife out of the house to sleep on the street, good and fine... as long as he doesn't send the kids along with her.
If the woman wants to poison her husband or kill him in his sleep, good and fine... as long as she doesn't poison the kids hearts against him too.

Is this how they do inspection, abi na sight-seeing be this?

The pictures they are showing us are just for photo ops.
If the news is really accurate, then I'm sure they will do the thorough inspections in the background behind cameras.

An illiterate/semi-literate problem.

I can't imagine that a truly educated person will see her pregnant 26yr old daughter (who was not raped) and push the blame of that pregnancy on someone else.

Sheit!!

I don miss film for here oo...


Raalsalghul
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/slte.gif

This larryjonze sha...


But why e be say any couple wey the man and the woman get active NL accounts, dem dey usually get issues that will end up blowing up in our faces?

It's like evil spirit is here.


Mehn the day my SO will open an NL account and become an active member, that's the day I will finally deactivate my account... in fact, that's the only thing that can make me deactivate it.
Two of us cannot just be here together.. mbanu.

The other day, it was a pastor's wife that divorced her 'man of God' husband and married a wealthy church member.

Nothing we won't see inside congregation of saints.

descarado:
Cos they invested heavily on the project.

Dangote is standing tall thanks to successive govts.

He should play wisely.

They are not afraid to tear him up like they did so many before him.

Are you certain of that?

If they truly invested in the project, they wouldn't need to be proposing to 'buy/asking' for a stake in it, because such an investment would naturally have come with an inclusion clause for the federal government ab initio.

Unless what you meant by invested is not financial investment, but the various waivers and tax cuts they've been offering the Dangote Group as a whole over the years.

angelfallz:
Seriously?! You've done it before? What did the girl reply?

She said, Excuse me? *with a very surprised face*

I told her again that I liked what I saw and wanted to know what it will cost me for the night.

Her next reply was, sir I'm not one of those girls please.

I told her... sorry my bad, I honestly thought you were... then walked away.

She kept staring at me for the remaining time I was at that party.

What I couldn't decide is if she was contemplating whether to come back and take the deal, or if she was wondering what gave me the impression that she was a call girl.
What woz my own inside, I had said what I wanted to say.

angelfallz:
An NNPC that can't guarantee energy with its 4 refineries now wants to guarantee energy by having a say with dangote's refinery?

If Dangote can resist, he should do so. All Nigerian govt is looking for is where they can steal

Funny stuff...

They're really just interested in the profits. They won't be directly involved in the daily running of the refinery.

DriftOff:
Is Anything Wrong with complimenting a Girl's pussy?
Like when you see a girl with a nice pussy shape, and you go ahead and compliment her by saying "that's a nice pussy" or something like that, Is anything wrong with that?
I just want to know, because I'm thinking of complimenting a certain girl's pussy soon.
I think it's a rubber pussy sef, because I no understand the shape at all.

Since she wore something that was revealing enough to show off the shape of her nunu, then complimenting it should not be the goal.

She was obviously putting it up for sale or short-time rent...

The best action to take is to walk up to her and with all the graciousness of a gentleman, just say to her "hello dear, I like what I see.. how much will it cost for tonight?"

Trust me man, I've done the above before... You have nothing to fear.

Is it still not clear to every sensible person that this girl is just a patsy for the crime?

Just hours after Ataga's family came out to state that he was also strangled after doing post-mortem examinations on the body, this same girl who initially stated she stabbed him has now remembered that she also strangled him too and has added it to her story.

It seems some people are deliberately treating this Chidinma with kid gloves because if they really wanted to get to the bottom of this case, they know exactly what to do to her to make her start singing like a canary and mentioning names.

Rozcol:
crackhaus,it is very common in the eastern part of the country

My specie is not from the east na...

bukatyne:
https://www.timetechnoplast.com/business-division/composite-cylinder/lpg-cylinder/

I actually read through this link with genuine interest cos I want to be sure there's such a thing as an LPG cylinder made of plastic.
Bukatyne, there's no where it's written there that it's made of plastic na... or is it composite fiber glass casing you assume to be plastic?

descarado:
I love that you said we are more coded.

Very very coded

We no dey carry last

Lol, e dey sweet to dey coded abi...

NoToPile:
This guy ehn

Unfortunately you are right people will never learn, neither will this incident stop peeps from cheating.

Indeed...

bukatyne:
Very annoying when I see both groups whine about how the world is unfair to men/women.

Men and women would ALWAYS win some and lose some. That is the why it has been and no amount or theories or wishing it away would change it.

If the story was reversed, the male teacher would be cooling his heels in prison by now and the female student would have cried blue murder and explained in details how the male teacher threatened her/ raped her/ made her feel unsafe and all the works.

I am sure that if the female teacher did not go bonkers and started threatening his life, BoBo would have updated his score board with the teacher's name and moved on.

That brings me to a theory: Men are sexual opportunists; women are sexual victims.

If that female teacher added Beyonce and Maria Carey to the mix, the male student would have had the time of his life. He would not have buyer's remorse and report how he was calojed or raped bla bla. He don hammer; 3 for the effort of 1.

If it was a male teacher who brought additional two friends, the female student would feel bad after the high and stories of how the male teacher forced her and the amount of times they did would be flying about the internet by now.

The above theory does not negate the guilt due to a moral conscience men & women feel (for people with a moral stance towards sex).

This brings me to another theory:

Sexual liasions of this nature ( not explicit Baba Ijebu raped a three year old or Mama Mulisa raped a two year old) are criminalized based on the feelings of the 'victim'. Nothing much would happen to madam teacher because the dude does not feel bad/victimized/taken advantage of.

I remember the story of the senator who married a 13 yr old girl from Egypt. The outcry was so much till baby girl said 'they should leave her husband for her' and suddenly, the tone shifted and died down.



That is the way the nature is.

In addition to it being based on the feelings of the victim, I also believe that there's simply more sympathy towards underage females caught in sexual liaisons in comparison to underage males... and this is regardless of the feeling of the victim.

Gynocentrism is a thing, I tell you.

RightToReject:
99.9% of women will lustfully and gladly wish to, assuming that High-Net-Worth men and or responsible men will agree to their proposal; unfortunately, no man in these categories (who are in the majority, of course) will wittingly agree to permanently share a woman with another man in such arrangement, when literally obtaining sex from women of all classes is one of the easiest things to do anywhere in the world. This 99.9% of women have literally nothing good to offer men.

So, almost all of them who will say/has said that they won't didn't say so on a moral ground or because women truly bring more values in marriage/relationship as they want others to believe, no, rather it's because they will not succeed in having worthy men agreeing to their proposals.

It's a well-known fact that women are more susceptible to greed/immorality than men, which is why they're called the weaker vessel.

Lol, you saw through it all...
I see the explanations as academic posturing, nothing more... An elementary attempt at diverting readers from the core of the issue.

Nigerian women in particular are simply not built to stand as the main provider in a marriage with two or more men.

The idea behind polyandry as practiced in certain parts effectively places the men involved on the back seat.
These men are more or less consorts to an alpha-female who in addition to being the head of the family, also ensures that her husbands are well taken care of.

Such magnanimity is not something to be seen among Nigerian women, who by default are receivers and hardly givers with respect to relationships.

descarado:
OK SIR!
Make una carry go

Make una no complain o if we meuuuuve too
All na move.


How you dey?

Na today?
Una don dey make meuuuuves since too na, just that you pipo are more coded.

I'm good dear.

eyinjuege:
It's the lack of focus for me, and it's a shame many men do not perform due diligence.
Men are so simplistic, even the supposedly highly cerebral ones.
I never mentioned her habits of smoking or taking alcohol. That doesn't define my morality or how responsible a person is, perhaps it defines yours.
Those are not a big deal to me tbh, and are not deal breakers for me, because I ticked that all those boxes a long time ago. Infact, some of my friends that I would term the most focused amongst us still have all those habits. I can't judge them by that, though I may have a different opinion about their choices.
I only have a problem with those people, if they lack self control and let it get to the stage that their habits control them instead.
I'm at a stage in my life that I won't even judge anyone that decides to sleep around- male or female, afterall it's just sex. Sex has always been transactional for many women anyway, and the currency may not necessarily be money.
I can however have an opinion on your choices.
If I'm going to sleep around, there are basic fundamentals of due diligence I would perform.
(But I won't go into that. Topic for another day and place)
For me, it's all about self preservation, and it seems many men don't seem to have that innate instinct.
Why would I decide to have a fling with a person who I suspect is high risk and would put me at risk of an unfavorable event?
No matter how good I suspect the sex is going to be, you're off my list if you don't meet my basic criteria.
- She wasn't a focused young girl. How you chose to interprete the word focus is left to you sha ( but it's not about your habits of smoking shisha, alcohol or having a good time at the club).
-He didn't have control of the environment in the first place, hence was already at a disadvantage. She booked the air bnb, as I heard.
Why would any right thinking man do that? Except he wasn't thinking at all. His dick was.
He already gave away control and was led like a ram into her territory to be slaughtered.
He lost guard, like most men would because of trying to have sex.
Something that seems as simple as having a relationship with a side chick or escort should be done with due diligence. There is a point you should get to in your life that it should be a no brainer (imagine a 50 year old successful man), but some men are too lazy to bother.
I can't be so careless in having just anyone as a side boo at this stage of my life. Even one night stands will have all protocols observed.
My own advice is that in your quest for having a side chick, have a standard you would uphold, because your very existence may depend on it.

Lol, your points are well received and adjudged to be well thought-out.

About the part where you said that men are so simplistic, I can't argue with that especially when it comes to vagína.
I have typed it before here, it's only you women that group/separate yourselves into classes, men don't care about that shít...not even the most cerebral and wealthy ones do, like you already noted.

To a lot of men, and I dare say, to all men, vagína is vagína. It hardly matters the status, level, or focus (as you put it) of the woman carrying it... especially when she's not someone he wants to marry.

Dangote, an astute businessman and undeniably the wealthiest black man in the world, has seen his áss plastered all over the internet.
The other billionaire in the US is getting divorced because of infidelity.
Late Usifo (God rest his soul) is even small in comparison to these heavyweights, yet all of them don jonze...

More men are just like them, and are still going to continue in the game with an unlimited abundance of ever willing women.

Like I said before, na who dem catch dem dey use as scapegoat and sunday school lesson.

angelfallz:
Lol. Lets get something straight, the side chick is beautiful, no arguments about it.
Those people who are surprised that he cheated on his "wealthy" wife don't understand the psyche of men, probably they are women. Men don't care how wealthy a woman is, it does not give us an erection.

With that out of the way i don't know why he felt the need to have a side chick. Maybe his wife was not giving him sex or maybe he stopped seeing his wife as sexually attractive(this is important, a woman might be beautiful but she may not be sexually attractive. That is why some men complain about their wives adding weight etc)
Maybe he did not like the fact that his wife has more money than him(this is a possibility, watch this movie: crazy rich asians)

there could be any number of reasons or there was no reason, his wife might have been giving him tai chi sex style but he still wanted Chidinma.
His wife might have submitting her earnings to him, so as not to make him feel bad about her out earning him and he still wanted Chidinma.

Many things can drive a man to cheat. Or he just wanted to cheat.

I don't know the circumstances of his household so I can't really blame him for cheating. Personally I would have divorced my wife and married Chidinma if things were that bad with my wife. However, all men are not the same. Also, it is convenient to keep a wife and have a side chick or chicks, you get the best of both worlds.

Like crackhaus said even right now many married men around the world are going to meet their side chicks in one place like that. Same for many married women. Oh yes! some married women are in the game too.

Plenty bruv, plenty...

Nor be say I hear say or dem tell me, we dey see them.

It's on NL that I see these women painting themselves as innocent angels who were left at the mercy of devilish men, when even some of them on this same forum are guilty of being married and have cheated.
I said what I said...

There's no innocent gender in this game of life mehn, NONE...

descarado:
You see that British health minister, see how he disgraced himself out of office.
You guys never learn

Make una leave toto matter. Chanel the energy to something else.

Watch naked attraction on YouTube and see guys disgrace themselves cos of free toto.

It's not about whether "we guys" never learn. What is there to learn anyway?
So because plane dey crash, you will not enter plane again?

Let's be realistic...

There will always be sugar-daddies (people's husbands) and there will always be side-chicks (people's girlfriends). So there's really NOTHING to learn from the minister who disgraced himself out of office, or from Usifo who died at the hands of a side-chick.

Such emotional blackmails about learning from all this, are at best juvenile... like what primary school girls should be using to scare their male classmates.

Don't you know that right this minute as I am typing this comment, all over Nigeria in particular and even the world in general, sugar-daddies are still with their side-chicks collecting blowjóbs and feeling fly?
Nothing has changed and nothing will change, the business moves on...

The blame games are irrelevant and completely unnecessary...

Thousands of Chidinmas have already lodged into hotels, pent-houses, & apartments today. Thousands of Usifos are already on their way there to meet them.

Na who dem catch or who die, dem dey use as scapegoat... For the rest, we meuuuuve.

eyinjuege:
This isn't about her social status, but about her yahoo unserious attitude.
A girl lying to the world she's a student when she's not isn't someone any reasonble person should take serious. You wouldn't employ or trust such a person. If you did, it shows you have a poor taste and that's putting it politely

LOL in mandarin...

What has employing or trusting such a girl got to do with using her as a side-chick to cure boredom and perform all the kayanmata styles on whenever a man wants?

Perhaps you women are yet to understand what men who engage in extramarital affairs need these side-chicks for. They usually don't care about the morality or uprightness of such girls/women?
A side-chick could be a liar and an unserious yahoo playgirl if she wants, she could even be willing to smoke/drink herself to death if she so desires. To most of those men, it's just a piece of pússy to pump and cúm in... and honestly, the more depraved and irresponsible she is, the better.

It's not like the truly responsible women with good morals and exceptional characters are going to agree to be a married man's play-thing in the first place.

Oliviajones:
Why on earth would I be catching cruise on a something like this? He said he's not seeing anyone yet

Wow, such innocence and naivety.

eyinjuege:
What I really don't understand in this matter is why people are trying to rope the wife as being the cause of his infidelity and subsequent death.
Her children have just been left fatherless, and she has suddenly been left a widow.
Why blame her again?
Even if he wanted to have an affair, he should have vetted the girl he was going to start sleeping with. A girl who claimed to be in Unilag but hasn't been attending classes.
He was a man with very poor taste and unfortunately, he picked a scammer and murderer. That cannot be blamed on his wife.
Though, he didn't deserve to lose his life for his indiscretions. My sympathies to his loved ones

Stop the discrimination against women of a lower social strata.

It's misogynistic.

Oliviajones:
I wish it was so easy. I have a job. I'm doing very okay financially. I'm working on my flaws. He's not the bad guy. He was very good to me. How can someone just fall out of love so easy like I didn't mean anything? Silent treatment for someone who is wishing me a better man and the best in my next relationship? He just doesn't want me and my heart is yet to accept that.

I'm going to take your post serious for a few minutes because honestly, I think you're just catching cruise.

Regarding the bold text, that's the MO of a guy who is dating/sleeping with another chic.

I shouldn't be exposing this format on a public forum and spoiling work for my brothers-in-arms but do your investigation... Your bobo is already involved with someone else and the excitement of that new fling is making him confused.

If you're lucky, he'll get over the excitement quickly and remember you...might even come back begging.
But if you're unlucky, you will see his wedding invitation on FB within the next 6months.

Kriss216:
Be stingy with sex

She's a Nigerian girl. What else will she be offering the guy? Long life

Oh God...
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