₦airaland Forum

Zzor:
True ,when it comes to marriage celebrations men should give ladies some slack and allow them call the shot.Haaa I don't like men that drag petty things with ladies,even if you know its petty just allow us have our way

BigJoe19:
Lol, so what is the lesson here?
Is it that we should chase women we see randomly on the streets and collect their numbers and after start professing love to them and if they don't reciprocate the feeling we should steal their heart by buying them tasty fried chicken?

RisenPhoenix1:
She should not share in the 'financial implications', but she also has no right to demand anything more than the bridegroom is willing to pay for. If he says 'only family', it's only family. If he says 'no cake', it's no cake. If he says no bridal gown, no bridal gown. If he says no reception, no reception. No argument, no acrimony, no dispute.

confirmedniggae:
Two days ago,I was inside the car going home and I asked my wife to send me airtime of #200(promised I will pay her when I get home ) which she did.

I was having #1,300 in my bag to take me to work yesterday though sometimes ,I do spend just #800 if I get Lekki straight from my place (but not from park ) but if it happened to be from park ,I will spend the whole #1,300.

To the problem now !I couldn't find #200 in my bag when I was about to pay the bike man that took me to park.I called my wife and she told me she took the money .I was angry and told her that what she did was stealing because she didn't tell me she took the money .I told her definitely she have been doing this for long .


Right now, she have been showing so much attitudes and I dont like that because I actually expected her to say sorry but I know my wife .She will never say that and i will not be surprised if finally she refuse to say it.


Did I say wrong thing ?

Chummynoni:
Most of you people are confused. You will preach financial stability b4 marriage, u will still be talking of Long duration of dating. You will be the one to condemn married pple living in face me/face you, and also complain that the guy is wasting time even when he wants to ensure he gathers enough money for good apartment. Duration of dating shouldnt be a problem here as long as the guy sticks to her.
P.s i have been dating my lady for 8years, am i a criminal?

mariahAngel:
If I'd have to answer that, I'd have to kill you afterwards. Still interested?

mariahAngel:
Mark my words, God will certainly punish you for betraying your wife, ruining a union so pure and making a mockery of her chastity.
You allowed the devil penetrate and entrap your soul through lust and pornography.
The sacrilege you committed will be your biggest undoing.
If you wanted different styles with you wife, all you had to do was be patient with her and come to a compromise, but you were too deep in lust to think reasonably. What a hypocritical monster!
Your ruin is near!
You will go on your knees and beg for her forgiveness, mark it!

tobechi74:
I totally, completely, vehemently, strongly, wholeheartedly, seriously agree with you.

He who pays the Piper determine the tune.
See,women are items purchased by men at a fee called dowry and bride-price determined during negotiation between the sellers ( bride family ) and buyers(groom)

Since he owns her and can use her however he likes the same way one may decide to use a handkerchief to clean sweat in the morning and blow his nose in the night, He is in the only position to decide how the wedding will be.
Her inputs are unnecessary.

If he decides he doesn't need bridesmaids, she must comply. The handkerchief has no opinion in determining how it will be used.
If he insists she must wear a black gown on her wedding day, she must obey. Whoever pays for the wedding gown determines the type and colour.
He can command you to stay at home and manage the little he brings and you must comply. You are his property



If men had their way, there would be no wedding. Money spent is better invested in many buissness.wedding ceremony is for the glorification of the woman . You want men to spend on your wedding. This kind of women will tell you his money is our money while my money is my money.

They want gender equality when it favors them but not willing to share the responsibility equally.

Zzor:
Exactly but do you also know it's against African tradition for a lady to share in such fin/res with her husband to be? Ask your elders and you will be shocked

Broken2020:
I’m done with this woman no jokes.

Am not the type that will beg a woman to stay with me, if my son wasn’t in the picture, am not sure I would have even brought this here.

When a woman says it’s over I immediately allow her bounce, I wanted this to work because of my son.

Kuns84:
Yo, I always look forward to your comments dawg.

These woe-men be menstruating over threads like somebody drank their last garri

They spent the last decade clamouring for the stupid feminist agenda - truly believing they were 'winning' but now the tables have turned and men have found their own movement, they can't handle it.

Cry babies.

Let them keep throwing hissy fits like that's gonna change anything

Rhapsodia:
Good evening Nairalanders

Please help me understand some things in governance.

Considering the huge debt the country is faced with under this Buhari's Government, why can't the government the print money in the CBN and pay the lenders??

Thank you so much.

area74:
Dear OP,
I have carefully followed your thread and read all the comments by the contributors.

By now, you should appreciate some advices given to you about 2 months ago on the need for you to forget about the woman and move on with your life. Some women here tagged them to be haters, failed relationships etc.

Now you see the reason why you have to become the so called ALPHA Male? Most of the women here will be manipulating you emotionally to try harder because they are not different from your woman including my wife too. I wish she can also walk away peacefully like this.