₦airaland Forum

ahnie:
Shout-out to all Diarylanders....I love you all.
P.oshestmina
crackhaus
s.choolshoe
f.olake4u
m.ama zane (glitteringstar)
r.ezzy
mz.rapper
may nation
tee.topic
cassy.rooy

and lastly to my wonderful mizz ziino

Juliusmomoh:
And you belive?

Juliusmomoh:
What is the girl above really saying....

Tajbol4splend:
How do most of you ladies interpret someone addressing you using any of Mummy or Madam or Ma that you frown at it? To me it's no biggie but most of you don't like it

Freshbank:
After the whole function when we got back I was very angry not because of the shabby execution of a well planned marriage but the facts the she thinks I should commend her for her efforts and stress she went through and not the opposite. The way I look at the issue is like you registered for a course with 50 points as benchmark then u score 15 and you're expecting a "part on the back" or songs of praise. I ain't perfect but I love excellence, my sadness lies in the facts that I don't want to start our home with discord at the same time i can't tolerate or live with this kind of argument. The argument is that she claims it wasn't her fault, the people she designated could not meet up to expectations but every of the plans were drawn by just two of us only. Imaging spending so much to get very little outcome.

If you're in this situation what will you do? Thanks

Jodha:
So if she slept with 0 persons nkor? 40000/0=0??

Aconomist:
The Rwandan government fears it's citizens. If they don't deliver development, they will be overthrown. Nigerians suffer and smile so our government sees us as dumb slaves.

Zzor:
You really think I have the energy to be teaming with anybody up and down? I just flow with what I see and read here and post what I like and move, like I told you earlier I'm not like your regular kind of person. I can't remember teaming with crackhaus, remind me or let's go back to the thread

Zzor:
Even your wife is a liability to you? please don't be wicked

Zzor:
So you are this stingy,hian

descarado:
My dear, if blood dey hot you for naija, u must learn to pour ice water on top body here o.
I have provided solution na. Wetin man go do. So far im papa don't want to choke mouth. I no no say that man dey vex like this . Business as usual. Jumping up and down continues.

Compliments of the season.


As per the topic, actually, I have repeatedly talked about that on my other handle. Was just pulling your legs. How a marriage will be is defined before wedding. Once I attend any wedding, I will tell you if that marriage will be like cat and dog or peaceful. We are so materialistic yet so lazy but want good things to fall from heaven so we can brag on Instagram and the like. And tomorrow if things don't go our way, we start hating and cursing.

But I blame men who enable this nonsense. Men that think with their dikk instead of brain. Gives them controlling power. Of all the powers to seek, it's power to control women. Weak men everywhere. Shuuuuuuu.

wisdomiskey:
As for me,

What I like:
- crackhaus is a real one.

descarado:
I disagree
I come in peace o
I no fit type but make I vent small.

My big boy smashed my living room tv, only him knew what he was doing there.
For this xmas period

I will bundle that boy to u cos I can't even scream here.
Yaaaa!.
Once he says sorry, he think all is well. Was even telling me to replace it tomorrow.
I miss naija honestly. E no give im papa mouth

ahnie:
Hello married elders food yaf done.
cc: crackhaus Banana
bukatyne sweetie
descarado...hope I garrit right.

bukatyne:
1. You missed a key element: madam OP does not work; she volunteers 12 hours a week. That is less than two hours daily. You cannot compare someone who works 2 hours a day with maids to someone who works more than 12 hours outside the house.

2. Feminism ( the first definition) talks about equal opportunities for men and women aka giving women the same opportunities the men have.

How does this tie into the gender roles this couple have chosen for themselves?

They run the traditional form of marriage at its core: wife keep house, husband provide.

How does this model suggest inequality? Or one person (the wife 'inferior' or 'subordinate') to the husband?

3. Women want different things. Some want the cash and all its pecks; some want a bit of romance; some want a great deal of romance. Also, some are passionate about family alone, some women love to wear many hats and be into many things; some want to work just to earn; some have their worth tied to their ability to earn etc.

4. Men are also different. Some would like the OP; some want a wife who works for clout; some want a high flyer; some want a earning and financially contributing wife; some want a wife who has a corner store so she can be available to attend to the family's needs etc.

Each person should know themselves and pick spouses that best suits them.

arukwe123:
Feminists right now

Olaideolayemi:
No be all men can do that,especially this period... I will prefer chasing better life than chasing woman up/down..

descarado:
Nope..
Although I will love a little push.
Had my fair share of obsessed chykas. Not funny at all.

Actually, when I watch a romantic series, my best part is always when the guy is doing everything humanly and crazily possible to own that babe
Maybe, it's better in tv

descarado:
U are not the stubborn type at all.
Some will lose interest but pride will make them do anything to haunt her down

Male ego, oh my
Una get wahala.

I just do not envisage myself pulling a woman up the social ladder. I prefer she makes her own growth moves as it relates to finances or relocation.

descarado:
But men said the sweetness is in the hunting na
Why u dey jappa

wisdomiskey:
Every post I see from you is either based on baseless assumptions or just outright lies!

In what universe do Nigerian women take men abroad?

Kriss216:
A man who can control his Gbola have solved 90% of his problems.

binghammer:
Guys, is sponsoring a Nigerian woman to a western country through marriage in the same category as paying her school fees because you are dating her? Would you do this? What if you guys have been dating for several years before you travel to the western country? Would you reconsider because of this?

descarado:
This is interesting
Do u have sweet mouth?

Hian!

Don't be too confident

Even if she plays hard to get, apply pressure...

Zzor:
You are wicked already so I'm not surprised