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Defcon1:
sex is not an indispensable part of a relationship
A relationship can still be very successful without sex,provided both parties agreed to that restriction from the outset
In this case,both parties have been engaging in sex,albeit one party now chooses to abstain till marriage
Now,if both parties are mature and really care about each other,the sudden absence of sex should not spell the end of the relationship
After all relationships are all about sacrifice
Both of them should talk it over and come to a common ground.
It's never going to be easy but it is very possible
It would be absurd and immature to break up with your fiancée just months to the wedding simply because she said no sex till then.
The same sex you will get tired after the wedding

y would she b the one to bring it up

bustyhelen:
I made a resolution not to engage in premarital sex again till marriage, which is likely to come up by November, but just few days into the new year, the urge & temptation is enormous, my fiancé is not helping matter.

Please serious advice on how to keep my new year resolution?
Only serious minded ones should advice me please....

give am the thing afterall he wants to pay for it. I do believe he is best to ve it, cos u ve been giving it to
some unserious niga since God knows when.so y trying to deny the guy of it.

walexGodson:
I knw some sha,,,but y dat guy in left in OMO ad bon like dat?abi dem no pay am ni

his cloth is not clean enough

That na y I like those bad pastor they only nack and will not va anything to do with ur hairs

chaberry:
Gud things are worthy and expensive, bad things are worthless and cheap, so count ur teeth with ur tongue nd knw what i mean

is Ikwere girl a good thing?

Na Peter rufai and his wife

sexaddict08:
waoooo.........so this is naija.....
i will not scope any girl again until i hav #10mil in my acct.

u are wrong.the ladies makes u work hard

amenna:
d curves are gud thou, a perfect shape Nd a btiful face. but she will look ugly wen she is pregnant ndwen she is old

jeaaaaaalousy

I prefer goat to dog, becos goat is useful at the end of the day

softysparky:
Hahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahaha

Buhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaa





Imagine they gave the guy 12 strokes and the girl only 6 strokes.
I thought men and women are equal
They should have given both 12 strokes naaa

I tot all girls are bias

redsun:
Why you scared? If you really missed him,won't you like to see him again? You should be looking forward to seeing him.

I will give anything to see my late loved ones.

then die

Paul, peter james etc do not need it our pastors need it so give them and stop thisPaul and peter something

flexing11:
issue like dis u dt eve* *eed advice,,,dat ur frie*d dei bleep dat babe b4 so obvious if *ot dat act wud *ave be easi dat da* just like dat, u better live de babe for dat ur frie*d odawise eve* if dat babe is ur wife 2moro s*e we still Bleep ur frei*d,,,

this ur abbreviations are too much. If u don't control it, I'm sure soon you will take it to ur exams

Pls send her number to me let me advise her

She cover up open down no much change

adaweezy:
with a total of :o170 million people compared to our population rank we only produce a mere 4000 MW
Someone said he does not deserve to be president if he can't address the issue of power in 4 years
GEJ till 2015 may 29
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I don’t know y u ppl reason like chick, not chicken o becos chicken get small sence. Power problem has been on since abacha's regimes. Obj 8 years Yaradua too. power problem was not addressed and u are expecting Goodluck to do it over nite considering the situation in the country.

I'm sure the lady in question never went to school

I know that boy he is too stubborn he deserves it

zleemshaddy:
lmao





d person wey snap dem sef ehnnnnn

the picture na repose

osile2012:
[size=15pt]I have noticed most of my friends and people i talk to prefer foreign rice to our local rice. I try to let them know it is not good for our economy, and a friend asked me if he should eat what he does not like because of the economy.

Do you also prefer foreign rice to ours? [/size]

sand abi na stone too much in our local rice and it's like, it is even expensive then d foreign one.

U did not include those ppl that put their hand in the fighter's pocket to steal their small change in the name of separating them.
I'm talking because it used to the handwork of my friend and I those days in secondary school. Those days u better don't fight in our present if not u will have to treck home because u must surely loss ur transport.

Mologi:
All this factors na wash.
...
NO advise to develop or correct this ways

mtcheeeew

na JONATHAN be UNEMPLOYMENT

JAREEEEEEE

mumu nah 4 years ago unemployment start in Nigeria?

Rich4god:
Okpabana... What a name...

I do believeit it is named with my dialect becos okpabana means thunder in my language

Zeezy99:
They keep sending these soldiers on a suicide mission and yet punish them when they refuse? Help is on the way... In 6 weeks the clueless one will be out of office and justice will finally prevail

mumu

I don't think number 4 is correct becos magret my class monitor those day in secondary school nearly killed me with always writing my name in noise making list.in fact some times she will write victor times 4 when senior comes, I will receive times 4 punishment. Could this be likeness? Or hatred of the highest order.

This m6st be a customised kitchen

tosyne2much:
I Just looked back at the silly things my friends and I used to do at cross over service when men were boys and I decided to put this down

Ten Types of Youths That Will Attend Cross Over Service

1. The ones who can't remember when last they attended church service or have never attended church since the beginning of the year but will attend the cross over service

2. The ones who will keep going in and out of the church for no reason. ** wetin dem dey find sef ** ?

3. The ones who will go to church just to woo ladies. They will go into the church auditorium, check if pretty ladies are present and will start strategizing on how to strike up a convo immediately after the service

4. The ones who will go for Cross over service and start blowing knockouts outside the auditorium

5. The ones who will go and make their supplication to God. You will see them praying and sweating profusely as if that is their last day on earth

6. The ones who will keep receiving calls and typing new year messages as if their lives depend on it

7. The ones who will attend the cross-over service for no reason. During prayers, dey will not pray, during praise and worship, you will never see them dance. ** wetin una come find come church sef? **

8. The ones who will keep checking their wrist watches as if they want to add more time to their life span. They are more concerned about the time, therefore, they pay little or no attention to the short sermon

9. The ones who would run out of the church the moment it is 12am on the dot. They will not even return to share the grace

10. The ones who will keep disturbing you about the time. ** is it 12 O'clock yet ?**

Written by: Tosyne2much

this is the first time I ve complained over a post. Ops which kind yeye topic be this?

Olutola88:
It is a popular belief amongst women that a Lady needs to give a guy a tough time before she dances to his beats. They claim such delay tactics is healthy as it will make the guy cherish her more. They also claim that the guy would appreciate better something he sweats to get.

Sincerely speaking, this their ideology is absolute trash to me. I don't have that time to be chasing a lady for 12 months, after all she isn't my “dream”.

I get easily discouraged when it comes to convincing a lady to be mine, maybe because I don't feel a lady is doing me a favour by accepting to be mine. Come to think it, “Is she doing me any favour”? Don't even talk about sex cos it's very cheap and I can get it without dating. More so, she won't be doing me any good because she might even enjoy it more ( I always put my partner's satisfaction first).

I get sick and tired when a lady gives me unnecessary tough time. In fact, most of them call me “Egotistical”. They think I'm proud because my orientation is different from that of most guys they've met. They feel I'm cocky because they don't know my background, they have no idea about my journey so far.

I've had just 3 Girlfriends all my life. The first, I didn't woo her. The second gave me a YES after 24hours and the third which was the most tasking accepted to be mine after 4days of declaring interest. Guess what? I had the shortest relationship with the one that gave me the toughest time, it lasted just 2 months.

I've been single since December 2012 mainly because I don't have that strength to keep pushing and pushing. Most of them tell me that I'm spoilt and that I don't even know how to woo *lmao*. They claim I'm always too casual when wooing them, they say I don't show sign of seriousness, they conclude I always feel I shouldn't work too hard to get them. Do they want me to kill cow to show my seriousness? Nevertheless, I feel I've not just met that person that'll make me break the rules, that one person that'll make my heart do giz giz, that person that'll have my “mumu button” *lol*.

You know the funniest thing? The ones you don't wanna date are the ones always stalking and readily available. As a good guy, you don't wanna woo dem, use dem and dump them. So, nigga just keeps it at the Friends With Benefits level. When you get tired of the FWB life and seek love again, you'll meet one girl that'll be giving you unnecessary tough time and you'll be like... “WTF! Some girls are praying I upgrade their status from FWB to official Girlfriend and this one is here forming one rubbish! Go To Hell jooor” *LMAO*

My Questions:

1. How long did you wait before she gave you a YES

2. How long can you wait to get a YES?

3. Ladies, wetin be una problem? Is giving a guy a tough time a guarantee he will treat you right?

4. Ladies, why must we chase you people like we chase money before you say YES? I think the love thing should be mutual na? Must you stress the hell outta our lives?

u no get sence

I no know say they fit take person collect loan I for don carry one of my friends go take like 72k

nairalife2013:
Dis kind muscle man no fit defend himself against assaualt from a fellow man. He just sat there admiring his once-smooth skin and probably whinning like a little puppy coming back home from a lost battle! Am damn!! My two year old girl who will soon receive a tots'black belt can jackie chan dis dude!!! Well, sorry. Thank God tho d other guy didnt yank ya neck off. Next time be more careful and never try to take d law into ya own hands.

tell am sorry u no see the mechanic senior am

Prexxy1:
Around xmas time,we had a lot of visitors,,so i told my mum,i wl sleep in my brothers room,just to create space,my mum was like "do u want to commit abomination"

Personally,i dnt see anything bad in it,,so let hear ur views

u don't have to sleep in ur brother's room cos anything can happen see ur beauty. If i see you I would marry u at once.

sucreblazing:
wetin my eyes see my mouth no fit talk, but my mind dey tell me say e be like say hin dey check the weight of the boobi



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it is too heavy the guy dey help her pack her