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Kirkman:
Demigod22; I like your analysis on this thread brah.

Thanks boss, I appreciate that.

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guobe:
desperation can make you do crazy things.wont blame her.most girls want to get married on time.They put in effort but its not yielding.she was telling me no men in town again as most men are already hooked up

Just give her my contact, you can match make if the other guy still left better portion of her o, I should be getting married soon, na only wife remain.

PS: which state exactly?

guobe:
ah guy you harsh o

LoL, even the economy self harsh.

donem:
You are very correct, saw the hook up shit with my very eyes, cause I just left Portharcourt less than 10 days ago, after staying there over 1month, I just smh! For some girls, for most of the 13 days I spent @ a popular hotel at PH. (Swiss Spirit) I know what I saw.

So, in such situation and environment like Port Harcourt, do you sincerely encourage someone to marry those cheap girls with nothing to bring to the table?

Cromagnon:
you think anybody is going to beg black women? Nonsense

Hahaha, our girls are making relationship purposeless, they are not ready to bring anything to the table.

yemi1504:
Abi. It is not poor foundation. Our mothers did well. The woke and feminism is really disturbing these ladies these days and are the major culprits.

Very bore attempt. How can a girl be a feminist when she can't feed herself? When she is jumping from one penis to another for money? A feminist is an intelligent, productive, industrious, independent and highly intellectual and purpose driven woman or man who promote equal rights and opportunities for both male and female.

Our hungry girls that can't subscribe their phone can never make a healthy feminist.

OGHENAOGIE:
man I can't marry a woman who won't contribute it's suicide... I rather remain single... And those unnecessary payment I no-go do am...

You have made the right choice. Wife
should have something to bring to table.

Revolva:
Help.me tell Dem , na d hookup part de annoy me for most naija gals

Don't ever trust Dem

To be honest, the way it's easy to get woman to have sex with for meagre amount of money is terrible. I have seen things that have discouraged me from marriage.

Logically speaking, she is lucky he didn't break her neck too.

Emotionally speaking, she should give herself time to heal before going into another relationship.

Sincerely speaking, I don't feel sorry for any lady that get her heart broken.

Streetically speaking, las las this breakfast go reach everybody.

Realistically speaking, most girls jump into relationship without proper assessment of the guy.

Wotoporiously speaking, if you like study guy for ten years, heart wey go break go still break.

Holistically speaking, I pity the girl because me self na Corp member too, she is my comrade.

Seriously speaking, most people don't know what they are into. A girlfriend should be a potential wife. Relationships are investments, not hobbies, we should date with a purpose.

donem:
At the bolded, I swear I just lost the zeal, broke up with the girl I intended getting married to due that hookup shit, who even thought them that hookup name, instead of Prostitution? let a spade be called it's name.

Damn! if I like might just do baby mama, if I really want to have kid.

Immediately I arrived at Port Harcourt, the first orientation I got was that there's no girlfriend here, strictly hookup, cash in your hands and girl on your bed.

Most people serious girlfriend is doing hookup for another guy. It's that terrible.

potland:
you dont want kids?

Kids, actually, are not necessity.

yemi1504:
Economic factor is because our women are still archaic and think the men should shoulder all the responsibilities without contributing financially to this. The smart ones who are ready to contribute financially to a home and grow with their man are getting married every weekend. Unfortunately, they are in the minority!

You are correct. Most of our girls display unsupportive attitude towards relationship, selfishness or laziness, I don't know, maybe poor foundation.

OGHENAOGIE:
is a woman a goat that bride price should be paid?? Won't the woman contribute to abi the man go die on top providing for family...

As a Nigerian, familiar with different cultures like Igbo of Imo extraction and other tribes and the importance of bride price, and the very selfish and unsupportive attitude of most Nigerian girls, you shouldn't have asked this question.

sniperr007:
Well, everything in life is risky but we still do it. Prayerfully you meet a lady that won't give you stress.

You made a valid point.

tunapawizzy:
An average black man prefers to be with a dark/brown skin woman....this is one of the sacrifices a man abroad chasing success may have to make, don't blame the man.....he will do Thanksgiving eventually

Lol, you are very correct, it's part of the hustle.

nnachukz:
This person just want to see lives lost carelessly. Just like telling Shettima to go inside sambissa forest to campaign to proof that APC has done marvellous in the North.
His focus is only on Obi.

Your comparison is faulty. Sambisa is forest occupy by pronounced terrorists, while Southeast have no terrorism. If you are well accepted in your region, just do your rally on sit at home day, let's see your influence.

sniperr007:
Truth but bottle of French wine?

Marriage is scary, too risky and stressful for me. My mother wants me to marry but I am not even thinking about that now. I prefer going out to drink French Wine, eat fruits, stare at the sea, sunset, green grass and trees, listen to bird's serenade, music and watch movie and sleep.

How Africans can actually beat fellow African to look exactly like Chinese should be added to seven wonders of the world.

That thing is really a miracle.

Five minutes silent for a comrade who is about to be serve unripe breakfast.

If the husband give his permission for you and his wife to have children, I believe, the husband sees it as surrogacy thing, which means you donated your sperm for him to have children.

Don't bring your face to that marriage by thinking you want to claim children you have with the permission of the husband. In Igbo culture, the man who pays the bride price owns the child.

Forget about those children, don't ruin another man's home, focus on your fiancee and impending marriage.

That's not the meaning of that phrase, you misinterpreted the phrase, it's an epigram.

Give to Caeser what belong to Caeser, but right now, if I see anything that belongs to Caeser, Caeser should just forget about it.

LoL, the craze for white women have done more harm than ASUU. What the fvck in the name of marrying a white woman?

I always remember most of my dreams, especially when I see my late grandmother in the dream. I once told someone I trusted, she went and disclose it to a jobless pastor that I usually see my late grandmother in my dreams, pastor invited me and started preaching about familiar spirit, I almost slap stupidity out of him.

I don commot my hands from anything bestie kpatakpata.

OP, hope you read the thread of that boy that impregnated his bestie, yesterday?

Your girlfriend is not even smart in running things with her bestie, she made it so obvious. If any of the family, friends, neighbors and even your enemies ask you, tell them she is cheating on you. Did her own mother have male bestie? Did you have female bestie? She is nothing but a poor kpekus distributor.

Enjoy your new girlfriend while she should go back to her bestie. Don't even call the b*tch for any reason.

PS: FRAUDSTER is your nickname or a profession?

His passport expired since 2018 which is already an offense, he still has the mind to engage in fraudulent activity with an expired passport.

Nigeria, I hail thee?

Basiljoe:
She needs your resources.

Did she needs my help when she was jumping from one gbola to another? She was busy distributing overused kpekus and was hoping to marry a great guy.

The only resources she needs must be audience and the innocent groom gave her everything.

The groom deserve man of the year award.

CoolAmbience:
Exactly my point!

And someone is here talking balderdash....asking why the groom had to go the length he did?

Abeg, make dem free the groom jare. We all have our different ways of handling issues.

People don't know what it takes to invest all your affection and resources on someone who is still neck deep in worthless gallivanting.

She no lucky say the guy no kpuff her....

People really need to start taking certain things seriously, relationships especially. You are either in it or out of it.

Relationships can be very demanding as they can be exhausting. The assurance of mutual affection is what keep partners flourishing.

You are very wise Comrade, you have said it all. It's either you are in or out. The unnecessary, unwarranted and dubious cheating in relationship is uncalled for,underserving and misplaced priority.

drlateef:
Have you not heard of eating your cake and having it?

I have heard bro, but I find cheating irritating and unwarranted. Some people have money, they are good on bed, they respect and treat their partner well, then why the cheating? Why not end the relationship for good instead of stressing someone unnecessary and emotionally?

HiideaConsole:
I met someone who by all indication was in love with me. It was too clear, even to a third party observer...

But she was a serial cheat. And probably being the first time I'm experiencing that personally... I just couldn't come to terms with why on earth would you be a serial cheat??

And of course, I can't put up with cheats talk more of someone who does it like a sport. I had to state my terms clear - I can't put up with a cheat and stand my grounds

A hoë's a höe man. It is what it is.
I agree with you on this

You have made a great decision. Have that abundance mentality that you can't be disrespected in a relationship. You can't settle for less. No one should love you out of pity. If we must date, we have to come to a compromise, cheating is not an option for me.

It's not gender base, that sh*t is individual weakness. Some men can be so foolish with relationship, whereas, some girls can be very stupid in relationship.