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OP, the moment a girl reject your advances, the next step is to walk away. If you are not good enough for dating, why does she want the friendship? Accepting to be her friend is settling down for less.

Develop abundance mentality, no girl should hold you to ransom. If she is not dating you then she should go.

I don't have problem with giving people money but I won't give money to a girl that rejected me, not because I am immature, but because she should make her own money. She wants to be a friend and enjoy the benefits of girlfriend. Never!

Sekoni003:
You can't "buy" your way into a girl's panties. Just have some good game and charm and watch her deliver herself on a platter. Nuff said

Come to Port Harcourt and say this and I will break your head. You can't buy what? See, people serious girlfriend dey misbehave for here just for 5k. If OP contact that girl for sleep over 20k, she will run into his bed. What is even special about her panties?

That banana is very cheap, maybe #500 in my side and the groundnut will be #50.

Stallionhorse:
What's it with banana and groundnut!! Are suppose to be celebrating the price of banana or aiming to fix our country next year by voting the right person into power.

Comrade, give yourself rest from all this seriousness, abi is the election today?

Lollittaa:
Women have been achieving incredible feats in this season.
Not like the Anthony Joshua who couldn't retain his title. Or the super eagles without any wings to fly.
WOMEN getting scholarships without a degree.
WOMEN racking out the medals at commonwealth.
Celebrate women.

After APC, you are the second problem of Nigeria with this your crippled mindset.

Dating a Nigerian girl is stressful, breaking up with her is more stressful.

Seen but not replied.

But I have not experienced that before though, even my ex that hates me so much reply my messages ASAP. It's rude to see a message and ignore. I will tell you about it and when you are not reasonable, I will off you from my phone.

Name: Demigod

Country: Nigeria

From Kogi State, base in Abuja but currently in Port Harcourt.

Orgasmgiver123:
Mehn
So this thing is real
Na wah oh

So far, with what I have seen, I believe it's real.

God loves you more.

Don't worry, something must kill a man.

I don't ask such question, even my girls will be asking me why I don't get jealous? I just live the moment, at this point of my life, nothing surprise me again.

If she wants the relationship, she won't go with the other guy and if the other guy is better, she can go because I am not even ready for marriage yet.

When school, I have seen lot of scenes like that. Even my coursemate put something on my neck and purposely shot me with a gun and it didn't penetrate. He said his uncle in the village gave it to him because of cult fights in my school back then.

When they are beating some guys or shooting some guys, it won't penetrate, I have seen it in back of school. So I believe it.

Vinnie2000:
What the hell is wrong with you and Demigod

So Muslims do not have sex?

Northern muslim Guys that take tramadol and Burantashi to secretly fvck those Hijab girls is who you are portraying as Saints

Hahahaha, the Muslim guys are not saint, nobody is saint. But the Allah thing he put in his sentence is not necessary, that's what I mean.

Orgasmgiver123:
Is that not the same sentence boko haram and iswap say when slaughtering people?

Those guys slaughtering people have been brainwashed into believing that they are fighting for God, holy jihad, you are educated, you can't follow them because they are doing the wrong thing. I am just telling the OP that he can actually express himself without that sentence.

People like Sultan of sokoto have come out several times to condemn those people using the name of Allah to commit crime.

Hahaha, this question got me laughing. Some of these girls on my WhatsApp, whenever I started chatting naughty with them telling them how sexy they look and how I can do better than their boyfriend, they like that kind of chat, they will want us to continue till late into the night.

But on a serious note, I love watching movies at night, and when I am done chatting, I will just go to Netflix or YouTube to watch movie, so my data will still be on by that time and showing I am online.

I don't even like the idea of olosho, it's like I am pouring my destiny into a hole.

Chaos14:
It smells like enitanmii pussy

Hahaha, that table you are shaking, the leg no good o.

For me, my level of education and logic won't allow me to disrespect women or any gender, but when dealing with women I use reverse psychology on them to be on a safer side.

You had a girlfriend that trust you and you break up with her for a girl you don't trust. She once declined your advances because she wants to take a revenge on her ex and now you guys are fvcking and you met her a virgin and you don't trust her.

Comrade, why not learn to trust God first before trusting that girl. You don't even trust yourself. You should learn how to be a grown up man.

LoL, those Yoruba girls with big yansh are something else, I almost did my NYSC in Yoruba land because of their girls.

Masturbating is something else, it's disgusting to me and I never imagined not even to try it. Whenever conji knocks on my door, I will gladly off pants and knack.

Comrade, using the last sentence in such write up is a Haram, please remove it.

Tboymessiah:
NasoLifeBe.....

Where for ogoni

Be friendly, calm and don't drink free drink with them except u are being invited to an occasion.....

Bleeping must be coded, cus most Niggar too dey jealous.....

Be social with everyone, don't make any rugged local Niggar ur best friend......

Don't judge any issue

I am posted to Bera, Gokana local government. Senator Magnus Abe's community.

Thanks for the advice, I will keep it in mind and enjoy my service, although the place is so empty and dry.

drmuchin:
OGONI HAS NOT SEEN LIGHT FOR 10 YEARS

Hahaha, NYSC dumped me in Ogoni land like this, I am so frustrated but they call it Clarion call whatever.

Tboymessiah:
NasoLifeBe!!!

Hope no be Ogoni

LoL, you are too smart. I am right in the heart of Ogoni land like this. Please any tips on how to survive here?

The mistakes are meant to be my past. After all, I have not made any such huge mistake apart from registering for NYSC.

I will go for 10 million naira, investment will cover the mistakes.

pansophist:
I agree. Love is like a vehicle that carries virtues/values. The word 'love', in a relational context is an action word, a verb, and not an emotion. What most people see as Love is lust.

Because he/she is hot, and your stomach rumple with butterflies, you call it Love. A man can be lucifer himself and a woman will think she is in love because he gives her butterfly feelings. That's wrong.

Look at it from another angle. I'm not romantically attracted to my sister for example, but I love her. I will relate with her from a position of virtue because that's how I can demonstrate my love for her.

So I'll tell her the truth, I'll be dependable, I'll forgive her, be tolerance of her excess, I won't insult her, I'll assist financially, I'll sympathise with her, I'll accept her, practice justice, and so forth.

So you see, love have nothing to do with attraction, because to love someone is to commit to them. It's why you see couples that are married for over fifty years and probably not having sex decades ago, but still together.

Our generation messed up the definition of love. This is also why lots of people are divorcing easily, because they expect that butterfly feeling to be permanent. If their partner gained weight for example, they fall out of love. This is nonsense.

Lots of us annoyed our parents almost to death. If they didn't love you, they would have dumped you long ago in a motherless home, but they were there for you through your fragile and demanding years, because love is an action. It's something you do, not something you feel.

Lots of young people even though they have a messed up understanding of the obligation of love, they know it instinctively when others love them. Love will never burden you, but elevates.

Love is a universal language, even animals understand it. Treat even a lion with kindness from young, and he would never harm you. There is no sex here with the lion, just pure actions. Love is an action.

Those Korean movies and Indian movies are not helping you. You are just a self absorb idealist that intentionally deny realism just to sooth your intellectual sagacity. After the whole verbosity defining what love is or love ought to be, you will still end up serving your partner breakfast.

LOVE is not ENOUGH.

In this part of Rivers State, I was told that there has never been light since last two years. NYSC just dump me here for no reason.

LoL, you never can tell the kind of lady you will end up with too. Do you know the level of fvck and swallow she has been before meeting you?

This thread deserve special attention and to the OP, you are wise.

I noticed this early in life, I have been really close to some girls and I see the way they treat other guys hovering around them. I have been with girls and we have had casual intimacy and I heard guys wanting something serious with such girls. And there are girls, I want to be serious with, but never gave me the attention and they are very playful towards other guys.

In all your doing, never allow anyone to love you out of pity. Love should be mutual, reciprocated, consensual and shared. You should know when to let go and move on. If you choose to live all your life impressing a woman that doesn't care about you, that's emotional slavery.