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Cheating is a choice and not a mistake. Some people are just not loyal, they're just whoring their lives away.

I doubt if I will marry.

Shedrack777:
MIGHT!
but don't expect her to be completely loyal. have this at the bottom of your mind and have peace

Is she not suppose to be loyal? The point is our generation do not understand the concept of marriage, we neglect the sanctity of fidelity, loyalty, mutual respect and trust in marriage. There's no excuse for a cheating partner, the husband that didn't cheat isn't perfect too.

She is just a LovePeddler like most Nigerian girls of this generation.

I will always choose my dog over overused kpekus of a girl.

OP, you are wrong. From May to August, five girls have asked me out for a relationship, most of them said I am intelligent, funny, handsome and interesting.

Even today, one Igbo girl, my cousin's neighbor, asked me out through phone. But I politely decline, she is young and I don't want to take advantage of her and she is too beautiful for my liking.

Op Sir, with due respect, you have written about the most honest thing about girls.

To be honest, I have been male bestie to some girls, especially those days in school and I know how it all ended. Most times, it ends on my bed, so I know what male bestie can do.

What male bestie cannot do does not exist. When I like a girl and she has male bestie that is very important to her over the relationship, I will gladly walk away. If I can't be her best friend then I don't see the need for the relationship.

I can never date a girl with male bestie, it's a sheer scam, a relationship fraud. Although, dating is not an option for me right now, but eventually, when I want to date, I won't accept male bestie in the picture.

Op, you have done well with this topic.

God knows condoms are not expensive.

Fornication is relative, but neglecting your health for some minutes pleasure is out of point.

Well, from the way you described the sexual activity and the way you enjoyed it, I assume you are ready and should be willing to have any baby that comes.

When I was younger, I was eager to have sex but now that I am growing up with reality, my urge for sex is declining. But then, sex is part of human.

Woman, you just need to communicate with your husband about this. Don't be shy about it, be expressive and make him understand how his sex life is affecting you.

OP, I understand you are pissed, but then you have to reduce the level of curse words in your write up since this is public forum, it is so out of point with the curses.

Well, about Jane and her family, you just have to ignore them for good, some girls can victimize people for no just reason.

This is the true meaning of gender equality, our girls won't learn this in school.

Jennyclay:
Sir, 90% requires financial support. If truly you supported her financial she wouldn't run after some 30k job.

Let me just tell you something.. Love is not enough. You claim you love someone and you can't help her financially . Is she gonna eat Love?

If you know you can't help her financially, please leave her alone with her 30k job... Biko!

Did the relationship prevent her from making her own money, or only the boyfriend has monopoly of making money? She can't eat love, because she is slowpoke, she can't feed herself.

A girl once approach me in my final year, I didn't minced words. I just told her that I am not interested and I don't want to date her.

The second one was interested in me and when she started making moves, I declined, I jokingly told her that I am not cheap.

Both of them were hurt, but when it comes to issues like this, I don't give ladies preferencial treatment.

Comrade, you will be causing vawulence everywhere you go.

Kobojunkie:
Then throw out your cell phone and every other gadget you own, including your toilet bowl.

Being very unreasonable all the time is not a virtue. The things you mentioned, having them doesn't make me uncontented. In this context, we are talking about someone that is not ill but will go ahead to undergo surgery just to enhance her look and you are talking about gadgets.

LoL, my friend and coursemate in school had sex with my ex not up to a month after our breakup. To be honest, I felt bad since he knew I was threatened into breaking up with that girl and the fact that I genuinely loved her.

But as I am typing this, that guy is still my friend, very close friend, I just neglected everything and as guys,we are cool.

Normally, it takes emotional intelligence for some people not to have problem with their friend dating or having sex with their ex, there's always an unhealthy feeling that hover around such action.

Logically, you didn't do anything wrong and you are not a bad friend. If it doesn't work for your friend and the girl, it may work between you and the girl.

But emotionally, your guy may not admire you when he gets to know.

When my secondary School girlfriend broke up with me, I felt bad, but now I can assure you that I have meet different beautiful girls,both during university and after University.

The most beautiful girl in my secondary School, I saw her the last time, she wasn't beautiful to me again.

Young Man, whenever the girl wants to marry, let her go, she doesn't betray you, it's just life. Focus on developing yourself, at every stage of your life, especially when you are making great progress in career and finance of course, you will always meet beautiful girls.

I used to imagine if I will ever have a girlfriend when I was younger, but now, I am running away from girls, I am more interested in giving my life a purpose and direction.

In all your getting, whether tall or short, get money and save yourself from the harshness of the society.

For me, I will always go for the woman that loves me.

There's nothing you should do unless she wants relationship and the brother is not cool with that.

African brothers don't allow their friends close to their sisters. I have dated couple of my friends' sisters but it will always end not very funny.

Contentment is a virtue.

OP, I don't know the advice you are looking for here. You are the King, you are the trophy, you should be the one doing this and the girl seeking advice. Grow abundance mentality.

I am not in any relationship currently, but sex is a regular thing. I am not encouraging promiscuity but I am telling you that vagina is the cheapest commodity after biscuits, don't allow girls to dictate for you, you are the King.

WatchYourSix:
Have you seen any girl that does not ask for something.??...they all do..if it's not sub, it's 30k for photo shoot on birthday, or phone replacement.....and one penís no dey reach them......

I have seen girls that don't ask for something, they work for their stuff, one told me she works smart for her stuff because she doesn't want to have unnecessary sex.

At NYSC camp in Yobe State, one night at the Mami market, we were discussing politics and a man asked me who I am supporting, I said I am supporting Atiku Abubakar and the guy selling the food refused to serve me for not supporting Peter Obi, his own candidate.

Two days later, he called me and bought #50 naira satchet water for me and said he was campaigning for Peter Obi.

Most Africans, particularly Nigerians, do not understand the fact that people have rights to their lives and people have their own opinion. When I said something about Atiku, most people will abuse me of being stupid and all that.

When I told my older cousin who has been forcing me to church that I don't believe in his God and forcing me to church is abusing my right to religion, he was disgusted and disappointed. He started talking about hell and I told him that he should stop disturbing my life.

Most people are just literate. They went to school, know how to read and write and gather the grades, but most people are not educated in the true meaning of education.

Tupac is lyrically and poetically wordy. I always read this letter when I want to remember one girl like that.

Mariangeles:
Are you a Gemini?

no I am not o, LoL.

Theus1000:
You just described me from a2z

LoL

Prolific007:
You're my twin hands down

has anyone really caught you doing it before?

bigcee:
I think say na only me

LoL, no be only you o, I am your partner in this lifestyle.

sammuell:
Them full area
But be very careful

Okay bro, thanks man.

SweetVibe:
I always knew I had a twin brother

LoL, I got you bro. It's crazy but I always find myself doing it.

[quote author=elpochas post=115028996]are u my twin Brother?[/quote

LoL, wow, we are in this together.

ItsGoodToBeGood:
Do you love to enter the bathroom with your phone?
Do you like to eat before brushing your teeth too?

Yes, I always eat before I brush my teeth especially when I am not going to work. And I use phone in the bathroom a lot especially when I am pooing.

Vinnie2000:
There is an 100lvl girl dat only 2months in Skul, dem don Fvck and impregnate her.

When queried by her Deeper life mother, she said 'She went to a swimming pool and some lovers were having sex inside.
Somehow the Guy's ejaculated sperm floated and moved and entered into her Pants'!
Lolsss.

LoL, when girls lie you will know that Tinubu and APC are learning.