Family › Re: My Friend's Wife Keeps Disturbing Me For Money by dochenaj: 9:06pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
hazel01: well, we both agree on shameless.... I concluded she is greedy because even if her husband is irresponsible, she could have asked the op for money and used it to set up herself, instead of calling constantly to ask for money and even sending text when the person didn't pick your calls... That is entitlement, and should not be encouraged.... Asking for fish every other time instead of asking to be taught how to fish, doesn't translate into greed. We don't know these people actually, nor do we know their prevailing circumstances. Hence while we speculate and hypothesize, we must ensure that we are not overly judgemental. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Sheffield United (2 - 0) On 29th December 2019 by dochenaj: 8:42pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
JimohMomoh: VAR has now favoured ManCity twice in this match Post match interview, I'm certain they will ask Pep and he will keep face like "I won't say anything about that". But Manchester City is a good team howbeit. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Wolverhampton Wanderers (1 - 0) On 29th December 2019 by dochenaj: 8:34pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
paxonel: that is exactly what I'm saying. Since then you see Klopp use those academy players again? Meanwhile the teams Klopp have been winning all these while are mixing their academy players with their seniors boys as first 11 to play against this Liverpool side with all big boys, how will they win?
If not for this wolfhampton wanderrers side had bigger boys too to struggle with Liverpool today only that they are not skillful as much as Liverpool. Someone thought you were being sarcastic. Please tell him you are serious. Lol |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Wolverhampton Wanderers (1 - 0) On 29th December 2019 by dochenaj: 6:42pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Expert17: D team dey knocked out last year didn't wait for 30 years bfor winning La liga .....  So that's your argument to support La Liga being better than EPL. Some people can argue offpoint. What concerns Liverpool's inability to carry the league and the superiority of La Liga over EPL? Thinking about it, I just realized there is a relationship and you just shot yourself at the foot. Now here this, "if a team in the EPL that could be adjudged as an average team in the EPL consequent upon their inability to carry the league for about 30 years, could whip your super duper La Liga team that is dominating the La Liga. What does that tell you?" Next time think over the defence of your argument before typing it. |
Family › Re: My Friend's Wife Keeps Disturbing Me For Money by dochenaj: 7:52pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
hazel01: That is not for him to deduce and start putting himself in trouble, let the man ask him for assistance himself.... That lady is shameless and greedy, no need to start making excuse of poverty, do not assume, work with facts.. .... You should also consider the possibility that the man is not very responsible, and doesn't care so much about his family. I have seen cases of such men. Doing well financially, spend a lot of money outside, but spend so little on their family. We must have to ask for the facts from the op. While begging money is not commendable for a woman, it puts you in the bad light. But we don't know what she needs the money for, so we cannot conclude she is greedy. Shameless, I could agree on a little bit. |
Family › Re: My Friend's Wife Keeps Disturbing Me For Money by dochenaj: 6:50pm On Dec 28, 2019*. Modified: 7:40pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
alimaa: Please I need a piece of advice on how to handle this situation.
I have a very close friend and his wife has asked for financial assistance severally and I obliged. The problem I have here is what will my friend think if he should be seeing a bank alert from me on his wife's phone?
The woman has been calling my line since the beginning of this month which I have continued to ignore. She would later send text asking for financial help and this kind of situation is very confusing because you might report to her husband and they will both turn the whole thing against you.
Please what should I do? Do you help the husband financially too? I suppose you're financially better than him. I see where you say he is financially okay, so I'll rather ask "Do you adjudge your friend to be a responsible man?" Some men cannot take care of their family, yet you see them spend so much out drinking with their pals and even spend much more on their numerous side chicks. Does the wife ever tell you what the money is for? Are you married? |
Crime › Re: Uncle Stabs Nephew To Death In Abia For Quarreling With His Girlfriend by dochenaj: 6:12pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Tension pneumothorax must be the cause of death. From the position of the stab wound I strongly doubt any other thing could be the cause.
If he was managed better, he would have survived the stab. But seeing that wound is plastered close, I doubt he got the right treatment.
More should be done to improve our healthcare. So many of the deaths in this country are completely avoidable. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Do I Handle This Issue At Work? by dochenaj: 5:57pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Jokerman: I only shouted at the security man once coz I asked him to do something. He didn't coz I believe he's listening to talks. I have always asked him to flash my number when he doesn't understand something Buh he wouldn't... The next time I asked him to do something, and he refused blatantly, that's he's doing his job and his reason in front of other staff was that he didn't like the way I talked to him.. I wanted to call his company Buh my mom is saying I shouldn't although I would still change him
I feel he's feeling he's older than me, and I can't be ordering him around.
I stopped the collection of fees by this staff because they were using the money anyhow, borrowing other staff money and other people in the vicinity, so much it became a laughing stock. So when I assumed this post, I sent bulk messages to all our parents that school fees to any staff is stopped. Some found it hard to stop, hence why I introduced strictness
Now they go spoiling me this and that. I hear this stuff but I pay no attention to that. At my front, they behave, at my back, Na so so talk You should not be worried about people that talk at your back. It shows you're still the boss. If they start talking to your front, then there is fire on the mountain. Right now I don't think you have a real problem. Treat them with the golden rule, and everything will work out for you. I don't believe the guy is disrespectful because he thinks he's older than you, that would be ridiculous. It is a workplace and not village town meeting. |
Crime › Re: Fan Shot Dead At Wizkid‘s Concert, Policeman Arrested. Wizkid Reacts by dochenaj: 5:49pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
IpobAntidote: I don't need to know how old you are, but when you ask asinine and infantile questions it indicates a low level of reasoning. May be you are old but you sound like a retard calling someone senile for not wanting to answer your childish question directly. I'm not interested in answering your dotard and retarded question. Keep it moving. I have stated my views and I'm done with that and moving on to better things. If the facts I have stated are not true to you then pls state your own and let others read them. Take a hike. Well if you had no intention of answering the question, the intelligent thing to do was ignore the question. But we do know that intelligence is so far from you. Goodbye. |
Crime › Re: Fan Shot Dead At Wizkid‘s Concert, Policeman Arrested. Wizkid Reacts by dochenaj: 12:02am On Dec 28, 2019 |
IpobAntidote: Son, after 35 years of living in the US, I don't see the need to be listing each state I have ever lived in. Why are you so concerned about the State I live in? The scenario that I narrated regarding the police killings of unarmed civilians mostly Blacks and Latinos is rampant in all States. So the State I live in has no bearing on my narration. We have cases of Police killings in NY, MD, FL, GA, PA, AZ, CO and the list goes on and on. You have no idea of how old I am. So I cannot understand why you should refer to me as "son", if it is not just to deride me. I had asked a simple question. "Which state do you reside in?" But you rather chose to gallivant about and talk about having lived up north, down south, and mid west. I didn't ask you where and where you had lived. So in the case you have become too old and senile. Let me repeat the question, "which state do you reside in?" |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Wolves Vs Manchester City (3 - 2) On 26th December 2019 by dochenaj: 11:45pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Cityfirstborn: Still a lot to play...Hats off to man city, not easy playing with a man down from the 10th min..Winless streak coming for Liverpool starting in the second half of the season..they are not meant to win EPL Don't get heart attack oh. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Wolves Vs Manchester City (3 - 2) On 26th December 2019 by dochenaj: 11:38pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Wolves dominated the game from after that Edison red card.
We will wait to see how good they can play against Liverpool, though the already have a downside of less than two days for that fixture. |
Crime › Re: Fan Shot Dead At Wizkid‘s Concert, Policeman Arrested. Wizkid Reacts by dochenaj: 11:34pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
IpobAntidote: I have lived up North, down South and even in the Mid West. Now, I live in Nigeria but constantly traveling through all the States except for Alaska due to nature of my job. Up North, down South and Mid West are not states. |
Crime › Re: Fan Shot Dead At Wizkid‘s Concert, Policeman Arrested. Wizkid Reacts by dochenaj: 9:10pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
IpobAntidote: Seriously? It's very obvious that you are not up to date on the ways officers have been killing unarmed black men in the US and getting away with it.
Vast majority of them were either not found guilty by the usual all white jurors or not even charged in the first place. I beg you people need to stop spreading all these false impressions about the western world. Which state do you reside in? |
Crime › Re: Fan Shot Dead At Wizkid‘s Concert, Policeman Arrested. Wizkid Reacts by dochenaj: 9:07pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
He has already been discharged from the police force in less than a day.
Mr. Akanbi, you shot the wrong person.
I hope the NPF can be this proactive when police officers shoot an unarmed okada man or street hawker, whether the shot is lethal or not.
If they do, gradually without any psychological training the brain of the average police man will reset from trigger eagerness. |
Politics › Re: ISWAP Executes 11 Christian Captives On Christmas Day In North, Army Keeps Mum by dochenaj: 8:41pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Don't worry.
The military will respond soon.
They will blame the video on IPOB, and label it as fake because Boko Haram and ISWAP have been "defeated and decimated". |
Romance › Re: Which Of These Will Make A Lady Lose Interest In A Man Fast? by dochenaj: 8:26pm On Dec 27, 2019*. Modified: 8:43pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
placeofallure: How many things do you wanna keep away from him when you two are supposed to be living together? It means having to be on your toes all the time. That's not living life biko! That's enduring life. You trust you can teach him to be romantic. You should be able to teach him to keep secrets too. One simple way is to tell him juicy secrets that are falsehood. When he gets embarrassed again and again from spilling the beans. He will learn to keep things to himself. |
Romance › Re: Which Of These Will Make A Lady Lose Interest In A Man Fast? by dochenaj: 8:00pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
placeofallure: Mine is D,F &G. Hmmmmn! I can't deal!
I have solution for others. A- it doesn't have to be his money we're spending, I should be making money too. B- If I'm busy making money, I won't need his attention as such. C- There's always a Love Machine to the rescue E- I can always teach him how to be romantic. I can't believe you couldn't come up with a solution for G. |
Crime › Re: Lady Commits Suicide By Drinking Snipper In Bayelsa Over Boyfriend (Graphic Pix) by dochenaj: 7:46pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
nairalee: See the inscription on her shirt "Keep calm" If only she's obeyed that she wouldn't take such a drastic action so quickly.
Even if suicide is hungrying someone the thought of eternal perpetual suffering in hell should dissuade the person except you're atheist And unfortunately being an atheist would not excuse the person from the eternal perpetual suffering. |
Family › Re: Dad Killed 15ft Python Trying To Swallow His Son In Australia(Pics) by dochenaj: 7:40pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
AleksAndria: Exactly the same thing I thought - trying to get back at the child severally. Very good thing he hasn't been constricted before the father got there. Super Brave Father. It is more reflex than bravery. I can't imagine not attacking a lion that is coming after my son. Imagine having to live with the torment of thinking "Junior would still be here disturbing and making noise, if I had charged at the lion" |
Romance › Re: Pick Your Christmas Gift With Belief by dochenaj: 5:23pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
destinyy23: Thank you. Those words are quite encouraging. You're welcome. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicester City Vs Liverpool (0 - 4) On 26th December 2019 by dochenaj: 7:59am On Dec 27, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Pick Your Christmas Gift With Belief by dochenaj: 7:56am On Dec 27, 2019 |
destinyy23: Applied for numerous scholarships, wherever clicks, I go. Though I'd prefer Hong Kong, Germany or UK. That's good. "Sow your seed in the morning, and at evening let your hands not be idle, for you do not know which will succeed, whether this or that, or whether both will do equally well." I can bet with your sporadic applications, one or more will click. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicester City Vs Liverpool (0 - 4) On 26th December 2019 by dochenaj: 7:51am On Dec 27, 2019 |
AreaFada2: So you mean Woman Disunited fans are getting SVT, VT and VF? Chai, even fear of LFC is enough to cause LBBB.  Luckily enough I know LFC fans who are superb cardiologists. They help our rival fans. What about AF? Lol |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicester City Vs Liverpool (0 - 4) On 26th December 2019 by dochenaj: 7:48am On Dec 27, 2019 |
Nelsizzy: And the ones that stayed back at Liverpool have won the league abi . Some Liverpool fans just funny sha, why would Sterling be feeling bad? Sterling have won at least 6 trophies since he left Liverpool, Liverpool just won their first set of trophies and the world no go rest. Alaye gedifok... I was responding to someone. And my take is that, Sterling has no basis to feel any more better than Countinho and Emre. Follow the discourse and don't just jump off to quote something you understand halfway. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicester City Vs Liverpool (0 - 4) On 26th December 2019 by dochenaj: 1:26am On Dec 27, 2019 |
mvem: Sterling is actually the most fulfilled of the 3 you called...There is nothing for Sterling to really regret...na Continho and Can's own stupid Sterling has never won the champions league, neither has any of the other two. Each of them won their various leagues. So why should Sterling be seen as more fulfilled than the others. |
Career › Re: Lady Loses A Job Because She Celebrated On Facebook (Lesson To All) by dochenaj: 11:06pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
Ijeoma660: Joseph in the bible told his dreams to people who had nothing to contribute to his dreams but rather to end him and his big dreams...
Keep your success stories to yourself. Let your success tell its story by itself. Did you realise those people were instrumental to the realization of Joseph's dream. If Joseph had not gone to Egypt the exact day, his brothers sold him to the Ishmaelites he would have never been prime minister of Egypt. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicester City Vs Liverpool (0 - 4) On 26th December 2019 by dochenaj: 10:53pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
MajorWarren: Yea but anything can happen. 14 points is only 4 losses and a draw which could happen. And we’ve seen City go on some mad run where they won every single game And you saw Liverpool mad run with Man City last year. Only that this year, Man City has not been able to reproduce the mad run of last season while Liverpool never lost it. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicester City Vs Liverpool (0 - 4) On 26th December 2019 by dochenaj: 10:01pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
Liverpool has had a gazillion of chances at goal.
We need to improve our conversion factor. |
Romance › Re: Pick Your Christmas Gift With Belief by dochenaj: 9:59pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
Why is no one picking 10? I guess because good health is overrated by many until they get sick or have someone close to them get ill. |
Romance › Re: Pick Your Christmas Gift With Belief by dochenaj: 9:56pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
Heloct: I pick 8.
8 can get me 70% others on the list. That is what is called the 80-20 rule of thumb. |
Romance › Re: Pick Your Christmas Gift With Belief by dochenaj: 9:55pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
destinyy23: I go 7 with faith. 2020 please be nice! Where do you want to go to? |