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Chosen44:
yes i am guilty of just 3,my mum condition was what moltivated me towards "the human brain"...i won't stop, now or never. My dad died trying but i will succeed...action speaks louder than voice so from today no more hiding...i won't end up like my mum,i will break free...thank u sir,thank you mr seun for this platform,thank you fellow nairalanders you are simply the best.
I will start from google to counselling...and i will learn to love and appreciate my self no matter what people say about me...i am lettin go of all the pain,regrets and feeling of worthlessness and abuse...stay blessed.

You've been through a lot and it is only normal that you would have some scars. Being shy is because you fear being scrutinized, shamed, or judged.

You are incredibly strong and people with your beginning often succeed, and success comes from overcoming pain and trials.

Believe in yourself, take your time, run your own race and ignore the world. Use the internet to understand *mindfulness* because being present and avoiding over thinking will help you with anxiety.

YouTube has a world of videos on self development so watch them use the ones that make sense to you. Practice self love and be kind to yourself.

Honestly, you have done your part and you have every right to step away. Stop because only when you stop will the other two step up.

They're all young so take 2 years off from all bills... in those 2 years or 3 years if the older siblings, the father, or anyone else, doesn't step up to cover these needs, then you could be the last resort.

The reason your nephew/niece aren't stepping in is because you are available, and willing so if you lock up and move on, then the younger ones will be forced to beg their elder siblings, and the siblings will feel the pressure, and they will stand in.

Some girls are "girls" and play childish games to make their boyfriend jealous, so they could validate their ego. This silly girl could just be fishing for validation, and she'll learn that that's not *It*

You gave her the best response, you should now back off, and let her conscious deal with her.

You're in an awkward situation now because she might go out with this guy, and come back to you because the other guy only wants to sample the goods.

Only you know her, so she'll either get a free night out, and she'll respect herself, or she'll get used, and she'll come back.

I think everyone will raise their kids how they want... I have all boys and I'm very conscious about my dressing but they give me a headache because the boys want to walk around in their boxers (I blame my husband) and I'm constantly telling someone to go and put some clothes on. I think it's unhygienic and it annoys me

Edited: op your message is too perverted though and your title is off key... I guess you're trying to be sensational

"artistic"

Only greed gets you scammed. It's because you wanted to pay less for a phone that you ran around like that. I would've rejected the offer the minute I was told to go to a shop to buy something but send the money somewhere else. How does that make sense?

Continue chatting and catching cruise, it's a free world.

Mom007:
Regardless of what you feel in your heart, I don't think its right to tell an adopted son he is adopted... Especially if he was a baby when adopted and has no recollection of any father but you. That is not disclosure but witchcraft! In fact. This question sef is witchcraft! Op you are not clean honestly!
Love both of them as well as you can w
With no obvious discrimination. Love is a funny thing. You may even come to love the adopted son more than the biological especially when he is diligent and loyal.

A child should know the truth about their history. It is their right to know everything about themselves. Do you know how damaged the child would be when they find out that they were adopted, that their whole life is a joke?

People have the right to know the truth about their lives, the good, the bad, and the ugly. I wouldn't change an adopted child's name, and I would make it very clear that I am their adopted parent.

Chai tea latte... it's warm, smooth, and sweet

I'm sexy and I know it.... common!

So you didn't stop what was happening but wanted to record it?

Girl YOU MIGHT BE A PEDO!

You don't sound like a nice wife yourself.
1) you claim to have toasters outside
2) you wanted his friend to take you out
3) you work but your husband is drowning in responsibilities but your concern is going out.

You get what you give in this life so if you want love, romance, and peace then give these things to your husband.

Abomination!

The children are brother/uncle

That's what's wrong with this bs... why didn't they use protection instead of bringing children in to their devilish acts, that's the sickest part...

Recycling rubbish as usual... you hid the date of the chat because it will show that this picture is years old

Saintmary:
You are the only one who got it right.



It's all about testosterone levels.

Do you like how they're all comforting themselves with illusions of being too busy and too responsible

Men's ego is so fragile

Poverty caused it...

Rosetania:
Everyone have a reason for creating a new moniker to tell their stories You can actually send a pm and get to know the person, to confirm if it is fake or not. A new moniker can never be an issue here. Send a pm and I will tell you my real account

Because you're the queen of England?

XshegzzyeeiX:

Her matter tie wrapper.

and wear shoe still put face cap...

donbachi:
e come be those pregnancy.wey GOD say "i knew you even before you entered your mother's womb".
anything u like drink.dem no dey ever comot.

My friend had 4 of them, the first one doctor told her she had no real chance of having children after a condition she had. The second one she had the coil and used a condom for protection against STIs and she still got pregnant. The third one she was on the injection contraception. The fourth one she was using the pill. When it's time for a humans arrival nothing can stop it. She has a family she was planning against

I should worry about them when I never finish worrying about me and mine? Fvck em!

Is your sister Bobrisky

donbachi:
dont under estimate the power of pregnancy wey enter after too many beer.and valentine sex no dey ever be the same with other days own...the spreading of the legs go make some sperm hide inside liver,kidney and intestines.come.dey drop later.

Who was your biology teacher? They will not make heaven

If you didn't just create this moniker for this story I would've taken you seriously. It's just a text message so chill and enjoy your life. Why do you care about your contacts because they obviously don't care about you and your family situation. As long as nobody is coming to your house to break your bones, enjoy your money and leave the rest to fate.

CXLVII:
And why didn’t they eat it?

Someone should have provided ketchup and KFC original sauce.

Animals!

Why you gotta bring KFC into this matter

Elporo:
Correct!

They often try to take things; they do not own.
Atiku's wife ; sold the house in Maitama and Dubai.

Atiku asked her not to sell the Dubai house; he would pay her for it. Woman do strong head - sell am; no so gbege start.

It's not even about their gender because anyone with money will use their money to protect their assets. Rich women would do the same if their husband wanted a divorce, the children, and their money and property.

guobe:
yep inhalers are available,it should help cushion the crisis effect.but for how long will the partner cope with someone always using inhaler.this I think will scare alot of guys away even when dating.imagine you and your girl having fun and suddenly crisis occurs and both of you are battling for inhaler to survive.quite pathetic.

Nothing pathetic about it. Nobody buys illness so we shouldn't discriminate on the basis of health. It's not a crisis if the person living with the condition knows how to manage it. It's people discriminating that make it dangerous because the person will have to hide their condition for fear of rejection and it's that mindset that could lead to death.

Michaelbjune:
back to sender nothing will happen to me
I'm not a ritualist
God will never allow such thing to happen to me

But you'll wish it on another person

How do you know he was a ritualist? Because you read it on Nairaland?

Bahamas95:
That story is somehow difficult to believe, even me sef I don't believe it. Something smells fishy.

A ritualist won't confess to that extent knowing fully well they would kill him.....I just hope he isn't a victim of circumstance. So many people have died or in prison for a crime they know nothing about.

I don't believe it either. A person will steal from you, you'll catch them, and they will lie about it. But someone who wanted to kidnap and kill a child for rituals will just confess everything, and then some, knowing fully well that he will be set alight... impossible.

Michaelbjune:
Aunty do you know how many innocent people that this idiot kill
before God disgrace him

maybe jungle justice will be better for them

How do you know this?

You better pray you're never caught up in a mob mentality attack. They'll beat you every time you speak and will make up stories on top of your matter and you'll have nobody to speak up for you. This is the worst judgment to befall a human being.

These aren't intelligent people, they're low IQ, hungry, angry people, who just want to relieve their pain and frustration on you. May God protect us from such ending.

Hmmm. Someone will confess all that? I don't believe it... Look at them rejoicing at the burning of another human being. They're no better than a ritualist... In 2022 what a shame

Don't you have inhalers in Nigeria? I've never heard of asthma being a hindrance to relationships. It must be a scary disease but all you have to do is have as many inhalers around you as you can and take precautions at all times. They take a hit of their inhaler and bam they're back to normal.