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DCK oh the irony

Nugesboi:
Thank you guys for listening to me. I am done. I just need the strength and courage to end it right now. I amount to nothing. i can't even leave the house anymore neither call any of my phone contacts because loan sharks had sent defamatory message to them.

It's okay to be done but don't go anywhere. Sit the storm out and feel these feelings. All you have to do is survive this and things will pick back up. This is how life works. We hit rock bottom and when we think we're at rock bottom we fall a little deeper.

The trick is to land on your back so that you could look up rather than landing on your face where all you see is dirt. After you hit rock bottom then the only way is up.

If you commit suicide you'll will introduce your children, your wife, your friends and anyone who knows you, to a new way of dealing with life's issues. Your children become more likely to commit suicide if you do it. Just live, breathe and let life kill you before you kill yourself. You're broke and you're not the first or last person to be broke. Stop giving a fvck and just wait for the tides to change because they will change!

This too shall pass! Everything in this world including joy is all temporary.

Welcome to a new day where men wail daily about women lol! Where are the days women would complain about men? The girls have outgrown that and are now causing emotional damage

Some people didn't have their breakfast this morning, the day never start properly and they're cursing and threatening death on a faceless forum

Toks2008:
You yap a lot without first comprehending.

The thread is not about men complaining but standing their ground against ungrateful ladies who have nothing to contribute.

Read again then make appropriate comments that is ensync with the subject matter.

That person finds joy in arguing any and every point. S/he will even create their own narrative and argue with them self when they can't find a point to argue

Nairaland is full of funny people

What did you tell her about your ex that got her worried? What did you do to your ex? We need that detail to know if begging her will work

Honestly, you can feel how you feel about her but when you tread the path of vengeance then you might as well dig two graves. The rules of nature say you attract what you are so you'll just attract vengeful people into your life.

When your old and helpless your children, wife, and people around you will do the same thing you're doing now. To heal and push past this pain, to overcome your pain will benefit you.

Either way it's your lessons to learn and I wish you all the best and may peace surround you in the end.

That is not a good look at all! Riri dropped the ball on this outfit

She looks ridiculous

People are assuming they have Spanish citizenship, what if they don't and he took their Nigerian passports /documents back with him?

She obviously depends on his financial aid and she can't afford to renew their passports and travel back and support herself so she might have to chill and develop herself.

This is a lesson to those who depend on men for their survival. Women better take advantage of their brains and educate themselves and enjoy independence.

That hair isn't it at all... you gotta try a new look, it would've been better if it was your own hair but that synthetic hair is not a good look.

You've made it seem like it's only girls who have changed and that's too simplistic. Boys have changed as well because they just want to be boys forever and jump from one skirt to another. Men of the past lived by a different ethics code, they found honour in not being seen as irresponsible while this generation lives for the shock factor. Both genders have missed their path and the result is scarcity of responsible people.

Put it on your future husband and pray he doesn't ask for DNA test... you've joined a fraternity as old as time, the 1st child club! Congratulations until your luck lasts

This is the guy who locked his wife out of their apartment and slept at a hotel while she spent the night on a bench lol! Your pettiness has finally paid. Don't forget it was you who paid her bride price and paid for the wedding so she has nothing to lose. I hope she teaches you a lesson you'll never forget! I hope she keeps the shop and bags herself a thug for protection

She gave her phone to another man to disrespect you on top of everything you have done for her and you're still running around blaming jazz and blues for her behaviour

I hate these redpillers but when they call you a simp, they're absolutely right! You better go and find your self respect

I guess you know her and her needs and wants so you probably did well...

Weird comments on this thread... it's not by force! If I was in her situation I couldn't do it. I wouldn't expect his kidney and I wouldn't offer my kidney. Everybody to their organs

Benny6944:
There's a slim chance sanctions will be enough to teach Putin a lesson - and I certainly think the unanimity of response has caught Russia by surprise - but I doubt it. Russia is weak, and Putin knows it, but he must keep on convincing people he is strong to maintain his gangster state. The combined West is a vastly stronger power than Russia, and Putin knows he must avoid that confrontation or be ruined.

Your military couldn't defeat a group of hungry men with 1980s weaponry but you can sit there in the dark sipping Gari and call Russia weak... I laugh in UGM!

Lol! If Ukraine was a country full of brown people or Muslims, we'd hear WHO talk about humanitarian aid ONCE and the rest of the coverage would be a play by play of how the "insurgents, pockets of resistance, terrorists etc... are being wiped out!

I can't stand this hypocrisy. They'll say and do anything to try and get us rallied up so they could justify a war with Russia but we ain't bitting! Sanction your sanctions and let us rest...

Missionaire:
You know, I have been researching on the answers to this question. Also the question of why some people sexually abuse kids. Like WTF would someone be a pedophile??

They get off on the fear, domination, and power they have over theirvictims. It's never about the sex, because most of them have wives and girlfriends. The same with serial killers, or murders, their enjoyment comes from feeling powerful and the hunt which is why they keep doing it...

I'm so shocked! Why is his face being covered while the victims naked corpse was never given the same decency? This is a messed up system when perpetrators are protected but victims are exploited.

Hmmm. Now, let's hear her version

AutoChick4U:
Misinformation. When many are dishing out tips to help people. You need a revaluation OK. There's a difference BTW a punter and a gambler sha.

Whatever helps you live with yourself

I'd never date, marry, or befriend gamblers... They're broke dreamers who have lost touch with reality. There's no difference between a drug addict and a gambling addict. It starts small and before they even know it they're selling their furniture and their family

I'm so overwhelmed ... was she going to kill her own children too? Yo! "Single white femal" comes to mind. They can lose their shi over a man

I pray the father recovers because those children need him now more than ever. As for her, since she likes to set fires, she can make herself at home in hell!

Happy birthday! God bless you with many more happy years. He looks so good for 80! I'd believe you if you said he's 60

People will take a picture and create whatever narrative they want... how do you know she's not just helping her husband build a wall or a shed in her back yard?

Nothing in this picture suggests that she is working on a construction site or that this is her job... she might be primary school teacher by trade and doing this as a project at home on the weekends

Old man like this, I hope he doesn't have children? People should just respect themselves

Lol. What do you expect from someone you "Disregarded"

Imagine if someone would do that exact same thing to you and be honest with yourself when you answer the question "how would I feel/react?"

I really hope you're not waiting for him to put himself out there again? You risk being ignored if you try to approach him depending on your social skills...

Just greet him each time you cross paths and that might give him the confidence to try and talk to you again once he's over the embarrassment.

Efe42:
I'm currently facing such predicament I'd made a vowed never to fall in love again after my ex girlfriend broke my heart in tiny piece I made a vowed and now the vowed ruined my current relationship with my current girlfriend which I love such much but I couldn't show her love of affection.

I was ban to the vowed move to extend I slap her on her working place and say all kinds of things which I should say I'm feel with pain everyday, I've been begging my girlfriend since a month but she refuse to give me listen ear

Is English this hard for you?

All these liars shouting beautiful

He can have both, grab the key and go to your mom's house for dinner.

None of this makes sense to me. Someone choked on a fish bone, and survived until they reached a hospital, were operated on, and discharged, then they died