Maverick777: yeah, the cleaner is female, sorry forgot to add that..
the 'little fox' is in my house already.. and trust me, my security methods are FBI standards.. the phone she uses, only I can reach her and my house is fully bugged. so, for now everything is under control.
As for opening up to the wife, had it been she had been rational, I don't think he'd have to go through all this stress just to keep it a secret, if you know what I mean....
Wow, hmmm... I see and I think I know who is responsible for that baby in her now.
Maverick777: no! they use automated gates, no driver. just her and a cleaner who comes and goes. he had a driver but relieved him because of such scenario, more like leaving a goat with a yam, lolz.
so that part is cleared...
Hmmm... This is very amazing... So what about the cleaner? Is the cleaner female? Plus your friend should just man up and tell his wife everything before the little fox destroys the vine.
Brunosamel: Its perfectly okay to disagree with me but there's nothing unnatural about airing out my opinion either take it or you leave it
Thank you so kindly for your candid opinion, but I'd recommend therapy for you or best a counselling session with your Pastor. Cos it seems you hurting
Danielle09: One of my favorite Bible verses comes from Matthew 6:26 KJV which says
Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?
The reason is these words spoken by Jesus himself we are reveal a comforting truth about our heavenly Father’s care for us.This verse communicates the message that God looks after every life and everything here in His creation
We see that even though creatures like birds do not, sow, or reap, or gather food, that they are still provided for by God.Then we are presented with the rhetorical question that asks “Are ye not much better than they” which lets us know that we are worth more to God than these creatures, and assures us that if God looks after and cares for every bird that flies through the air, we can expect and look forward to even more!
Mumben: Good afternoon N'lders, so we had a compound meeting with d landlord yesterday. Note that d landlord doesn't stay with us.
During the meeting, a female married neighbor raised some complaints about another neighbor whose family are in the habit of wasting water in d compound. Their tap head is spoilt but they refused to repair it, when water is pumping, they can leave their tap on overnight and so on. My husband was also confirming what d neighbor was saying.
During the meeting, the said woman whose family was wasting water came in and was making some side remarks and even asked the Landlord why he had to call the meeting. The landlord didn't reply but rather asked her to leave the meeting. Am sure this angered her
When she came back from her business place in the night, from the gate she started raining insults on the woman that reported her, my husband,my children and myself. I have never been so humiliated in my life. Of a truth, we re going through financial challenges at the moment and it's telling on us. She called me a skeleton, my children kwashiorkor and my husband she called a Nobody. We were inside while she kept ranting and ranting outside, she later went inside her house and continued her rant from there. She said so many unprintable things to us but by God's grace we didn't even step out not to talk of replying her.
My great n'land family, is the woman wrong to have reported her? and am I wrong to have kept quiet while she humiliated and mocked my family for being poor?
Any advice for me cos I am broken
Everybody get mouth! The same mouth you used in doing the right thing by reporting their wasteful habits is the same mouth she used in spilling bitterness. The problem here would be if you agreed with all what she said, there's a difference between fact and truth. It might be a fact that your family is in that position but the truth is you'll not always be there. Move on and avoid her... No need for unnecessary confrontations...
Brunosamel: Lately I have been seeing husband's killing there wives & boyfriends killing their girlfriends due anger or infidelity but the truth is Some certain situations is very much preventable it all comes down to mental strength and capacity to turn negative moments to your advantage. Some of the ways of build mental strength is through physical fitness, reading and suffering or rather doing difficult things. It help to control those emotions and keep it to check.
I remember when I confronted my girlfriend for cheating on me I was heart broken but I had to channel my negative thoughts with positive feelings I walked away straight to the gym and lay the anger on the iron it was a terrible feeling that made me to injure myself came back from the gym channel all my anger in her kpekus aggressively she was shading tears and I didn't even give a Bleep eventually I broke up for cheating on me it felt really good afterwards. Ever since then I have learn to channel my anger on iron it helps me to think and cool off and make the best decision.
Note: She has been begging me to accept her back that she has not been able to to forget what I did to her, she has not been able to get over it. It's a game over cuz I have moved on with another girl life goes on.
Very ungodly advice. The makings of a mass murderer
A close buddy of mine is in deep shit, just 2 days back he confided in me telling me his maid (who the wife employed herself) is 14weeks pregnant!
HOW IT UNFOLDED Earlier in the year, his wife got an invite to do her masters program in Scotland and they have a 5year old Son, so she elected they employ a maid since she couldn't take him along, she even did so herself.
The husband is a pilot and always never at home (the security the wife had I guess), now I don't know whatever went on in his tiny head, they got intimate (just once) and boom! she caught the shot expertly.. He said she's being showing symptoms since he got back from travel, so he took her for a test and its confirmed.
I guess she knew all along but did nothing on purpose, because I don't want to believe that a 22year old girl would be comfortable not flowing for 3 months (not like she's a novice). Now, his wife is due back in September, and he's scheduled to travel again by Monday(to return only God knows when).
So technically, his wife might even return before him.
He asked for my suggestion and help, because he mentioned abortion to her and she refuted saying she nearly died after the last one she did, so the doctor warned her sternly against it.
I told him that the best I can advise/do for him is to take her in until she puts to bed. let him tell his wife she ran off with a guy or something of the sort. then we take it up from there after delivery.
The situation is one dicey and fragile one, if not handled carefully with wisdom, can ruin a lot!
I thought they existed in Nollywood only oh...
Any mature suggestion is welcome.
So what about the possibility of her being pregnant for another person and forcing it on your friend. It's possible to do paternity test even if the child isn't yet born he should go for this option first.
wheelzcoded: I've been in love with my friend's sister for a year now, the whole family are cool with me. I and the girl has been so close , we fight, settle, she apologizes immediately when she's wrong, I do too , when we're together there's no boring moments as she keeps creating funny jokes and discussions even if I'm out of words.
So many times I try to understand and dictate signs she loves me , even situations where there are guys with cars whenever we're walking and they stop to talk to her , the reactions from her shows to them she's my girlfriend. Even though we both know we're not dating.
Many times people tend to ask her the state of the relationship or who am I to her , sometimes she says her boyfriend, sometimes her manager because we're in a business together.
My question here is despite she being supportive and understanding, can a lady go into a biz with a guy who she doesn't see the future with? Like she does more of the commitment than I do sef, whenever I talk about the future she doesn't laugh she only says if it's God's plan no one can stop it but she always tells me "I'm not ready for a relationship now, you're not my boyfriend, I just need to focus on my growth"
This is one girl that understands my kinda person and I do understand her too We fight and settle just immediately.. so many times I lockup and don't want to talk to her she does the checkups and communication. I'm not pushy, the stuff is just balanced .
Even encourages more and sacrifice for me like a wife even some girlfriend's wouldn't do for their boyfriend's...
Few days to my birthday she wrote on her status "My love's birthday is loading"". Soon I viewed it she deleted it .
How long can I keep accepting this you're not my boyfriend words and I'm your girlfriend attitudes....
Sweet... I'm blushing for you ooh... Well maybe she's innocent of this I'm about to say or maybe not and that she's got her eyes on more than one person and you just happen to be one. My advice, if you're serious and you have everything in place and your Pastor knows and approves of her, ambush her. Just carry your people and drink go her papa house na there the engagement go kuku happen too...
Any true born again in this thread should go and read church history. We're all CATHOLICS as long as you're a Christian but we're not all members of THE ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH. CATHOLIC means God's universal Church so all of you truly born again are members of it. Paul was sent to the Gentiles and Peter was sent to the Jews but they were all members of the body of Christ. Secondly, the term PENTECOSTAL is a very wrong name given to those who believe in the in filling of the Holy Ghost and speaking in tongues. No body kuku send them to call themselves PENTECOSTALs as it's not scriptural. On the day of pentecost, the PENTECOSTALs didn't recieve the Holy Ghost, it was the 120 disciples of Christ in the upper room that were all baptised and filled with the Holy Ghost and not the PENTECOSTALs who were celebrating pentecost which is a celebration of 50years. Thirdly and finally, if you're on this thread and still think that we don't know for sure, maybe God heard that, like someone ignorantly opined that Jesus came for these ones in particular. YES! The Master came for this ones and not those who are perfect already and need no perfection but kindly recieve wisdom and be enlightened. You're talking about two different things here mind you, we can evangelise anywhere and preach the gospel to everyone but you cannot worship God anyhow. You say but me I worship God in my own way, and that's because you're either ignorant of the scriptures or just dull hearted and profane like Cain in the bible. The Master said they that worship God must worship in Spirit and truth( the word of God is truth). Remember cain? Why was his offering rejected? I know most of you were taught that he brought rotten and bad farm produces, which is a blatant lie. He brought his crops Good as they were but it was rejected because just like you who is still wallowing in the deception of "I will worship God in my own way", cain refused to worship the Lord the way He ought to be worshipped. For what was required from Cain and Abel was a blood offering meaning something must be killed for it was for their atonement but Cain no gree hear word because he was on the devil(I no mean say him be satan true true pikin ooh but say satan na him bin dey follow). Time would not permit me to go deeper and talk about King David and the Ark, and other Kings who made sane mistake of not following the prescribed ORDER. And also to talk about una wey no dey fear God, una go carry una tithe and offering say na orphanage una wan cari am go or even dash people for road... but make I still stay this lane and no jump into this oda one...
They were singing quite alright, but they weren't worshipping God. You fit carry waec question booklet comot for center but no dey one wey dey center go reach waec hand.
1vid: I am currently working with a church that pays me 61k monthly.
I have a calling to start up my own ministry and I am there for learning.
So, I am thinking to quit to start a job job as a sienna driver in a company that pays 50k monthly, I just want to experience outside work and also raise money to start up my ministry.
So, I need some advice.
Good day to you Sir, how are you? Galatians1.16 - Then he revealed his Son to me so that I could proclaim the Good News about Jesus to the Gentiles. When all this happened to me, I did not rush out to consult with anyone else;
I'm wondering why you'd come to this space for such a sensitive matter. God called you, why not talk to Him about everything? Well, as the man of God Pastor Chris will always say "God calls people into the ministry and He doesn't call anyone out of the ministry". I know if it's time for you to transition to your own ministry the Spirit of God will orchestrate the move for you. And the idea of you wanting to save money for your ministry is human wisdom which wouldn't stand. God will not give you the opportunity to brag about sponsoring His work, He called you, He will sponsor and finance you.
Harlarbiz01: I miss eating this flying termites, gone are those days in the late 90s, we are all hunters in the area (Trenches) when it come to this flying termites called Esunsun or Iba as called by we Yorubas, Igbos call it Aku, this termites is said to be very nutritious, so rich in protein. My childhood experience is incomplete without talking about hunting of Esunsun, snails and fruits, so funny unforgettable experience. This insect comes out at night following light, sometimes in the early morning when it's still dark. Esunsun are actually termites that fly, very proteinous and nutritious. Known as Macrotermes bellicosus scientifically. I won't say much about the peptides and all other biochemical and microbiological information about this insect.
YourBestWriter: So my friend got this job in management because he knew somebody in that company. But there is high expectations from the company for him to deliver positive results as one of the managers in that company.
This my friend is a university graduate with second class lower result and this manager position is for guys with first class results.
He has never been in management before. Infact, this friend of mine have been at home as an unemployed since 2014. He is socially awkward and easily discouraged. Now he's got this huge job with a big pay, and he is telling me that he feels like a fraud.
He asked for my advice, but I sincerely don't know what to advice him.
So I throw the topic to you guys.
How is he going to behave and probably grow some confidence to overcome this inferior complex?
He should assume the responsibilities of the job given to him and learn. There are courses on management online and books too to facilitate his transition. Except if he likes to go back to his house and sit at home. The favour of God has given him opportunity it's left for him to make good use of the opportunity
RaymondHarmony: What killed your feelings for someone you were once madly inlove with ?
Personal I think whoever writes anything here about their feelings being killed wasn't sincere at all in their relationships. Everyone I've ever loved I still love now same way I loved them back then and that won't change. Love isn't something you can undo it's eternal
So she visited me, the cable was on on soundcity or so.. So they played my favourite song then drake Ft Rihanna Take care... Na so Hanty said the song na illuminati song
Like wtf? Definitely she heard someone condemning the song without even go through it
Such kind of person can be easily brainwashed even though she has the quality of good women to some extent
If by now you're still going back and forth about these artists being members of the illuminati, then she should be happy you left her cos though she could easily be brain washed but I believe you're already brain washed. Willful ignorance and self deception in this present day when everything is clear as day is bad. Kindly watch this documentary:
It's those that are still sucking their mothers breasts that are saying US and NATO can defeat Russia.
Russia is in a world of its own.
This is not even considering the possibility of those who are angry at the US because of their atrocities backing up Russia ooh, e.g NORTH KOREA, IRAN, even even China that looks neutral now is more of an ally to Russia than to NATO and the US. God help them to be wise and make peace with Russia
I was wrong- US clergyman, Creflo Dollar, denounces his position on tithing, asks his followers to destroy every book and tape he has ever written and preached on tithing because it's not biblical.
Sucre6: Back then in school, ASUU was striking as usual, so I had to stay home. One evening my dad sent me to buy fuel for the Generator, after buying the fuel I decided to one stone and kill two birds so i visited bet9ja shop to stake my games.
After staking, I drove home on my dads car, when I got home, I brought down the fuel from the boot and my dad demanded I give him the keys to the car as he was rushing to somewhere, I gave him the car keys, and he left, after a few while, I was searching for my bet ticket to no avail, I decided to go and restake the game, two hours later my dad came back and called me to the palor, in the presence of my siblings and cousins and mother.
He brought out the bet slip which I obviously forgot inside the car, he started complaining and lamenting on how I am wasting away playing bet, he was advising my siblings not to take after me as I was a bad example, I felt like the ground should open and swallow me, my mum turned and shook her head and say u disappointed me son I was so embarrassed, I shyly took the slip from my dad and left, he called me back, and told me to give him change from the fuel I bought earlier, I put hand for pocket and guess what came out again? Another bet9ja slip .
My dad shouted chai, this child is a lost course oo onye mere m ihia
I can never forget that day, I felt like a fugitive in my own fathers house, everyone in the house was looking at me like an ex-convict
Luckily enough the game came through, I told my elder brother to escort me to somewhere, I took him to bet9ja shop where I cashed out 15,000 times 2 = #30,000, I gave him 5k and shared 2k to my other siblings, they come dey hail me, thats how I reclaimed my street and house credibility My senior brother was like, senior man, show me the way nah, baba done sell him first son birth right gimme because of 5k
From today no more olosho. No more hookup & runz girls. No more Nairaland dm. No more mama put sales girls. No more Ikokwu bitters beer parlour promoters. No more alaata. No more groundnut smallies. No more kunu mata.
I renounce any STD-carrying vector in my life.
Ife sure for una paste your HIV test result. Get yourselves tested today.
HIV/AIDS is real!!
Hope you did this test at least 3 months after the suspected day of contact?
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