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G00DHardDick:
Keep advising and counseling any olosho you encounter. So long you don't drag any guy here into your Simping, then it's cool. I'm done with you

You'll just start expressing illy trained self online towards people you don't even know their identity until you land yourself in trouble. I wonder how you feel about yourself after just demonstrating your lacklustre attitude and inability to effectively and appropriately self express without resorting to crude and unwholesome communications.
There's still hope for you and I pray that you're guided rightly by the Spirit of God in the name of Jesus, Amen.

Cruztvblog:
The World Health Organization (WHO) has called for reforms by individual countries in preparation for the next pandemic. The WHO head also asked member nations to honour a previous commitment to boost annual financing for the global health agency.

The head of the World Health Organization, Tedros Adhanom Ghebreyesus, has urged countries on Monday to carry out reforms needed to prepare for the next pandemic.

Ghebreyesus hailed the countries’ “historic” decision to accept a major budget hike at the U.N. agency’s annual assembly. Speaking at the WHO’s annual health assembly, Dr Tedros Adhanom Ghebreyesus said it was time to advance negotiations on preventing the next pandemic.


“We cannot kick this can down the road,” the WHO director-general said in a major address to the agency’s member states, warning that the next pandemic was bound to “come knocking”.

“If we do not make the changes that must be made, then who will? And if we do not make them now, then when?” he said. See more posts [url] https://cruztvblognaija.com.ng/2023/05/23/prepare-for-next-pandemic-who-tells-nigeria-others/[/url]

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G00DHardDick:
Oga EmekaStanley, avoid Simps like this guy. Kindly ignore all his comments else they'll lead you astray. If the olosho is looking for who to counsel her, make she go meet her papa. It is the duty of her father to do that, not you!

You sound like someone who only learns when it's too late.
Have a great day and face front.

akube34:
so someone can’t just miss home? It’s not like he is coming to stay permanently, two weeks or 1 months won’t stop him from achieving his goals. Na wa for una sef. Na so when I bin wan come person dey tell me d same rubbish. It’s just a freaking vacation, what does goals have to the with it.

Okay ooh, I sha also saw in this space too that someone came back and got mad, another came back and died just before leaving.
Not attempting to be negative at all but 2years doesn't seem like a long time

G00DHardDick:
Comment like this gets me angry. Like dude are you stu.pid or what? Why should the OP counsel her? You smoke? Is the op her father?
what is wrong with you SIMPs? The olosho has shown clearly that she's not interested in the work and you're here preaching and yarning dust. Dude, the olosho took the OP as one of her clients and customers in clubs and hotels hence the reason for her nonchalant attitudes. Na your types dey chop their female workers. If you keep simping like a pussy ass niggar that you are, that girl will end up eventually manipulating you. You won't only sleep with her, she'll cash out massively from you.

Oga EmekaStanley , in all you do, avoid Simps and e-diots like this guy. They'll lead you astray and try to make you become a simp like them. It is not your duty to counsel her. Let her go and meet her father and mother to counsel her. You're looking for a serious worker, not an olosho! Advise the olosho to go to hotels and clubs and resume her hookup there. Na you go carry olosho put for office. she belongs to the streets.

Usually I'd not respond to immature, disrespectful and rude comments like yours, but please grow up.
Understand ethics, empathy, and responsibility to humanity. Probably you have no sisters that's why you could spew such obscenity out of your heart.
Not everyone has your flawed view of life.

Vinnie2000:
Ladies:
*ALCOHOLIC MAN
*WOMANIZER
*WOMAN BEATER
*GAMBLER
*SAVAGE MAN AKA Vawulence Chief Comrade.

Guys:
*HIGH BODY COUNT LADY.😌🤦
*MATERIALISTIC LADY
*TALKATIVE/AREA GOSSIP.
*POOR HYGIENE LADY.😔
*LAZY, TERRIBLE COOK.😞

As a Single, Which of these can Accept as a Spouse?
REMEMBER THAT PERFECT HUSBAND OR WIFE NO DEY MARKET o!😏

MINE: I can Manage a TALKATIVE. Will Find means to Gag Her!

None, managing none.
When you don't know who you are then you have that manage mentality.

Tourist123:
I will be visiting Nigeria for the first time since Japaing 2 years ago, any security tips or economic tips I should know?

Just 2 years?
What are you coming to do?
Have you fully achieved the goals that made you japa in the first place?
Is it the Lord that is guiding you back?
Just stay your away

Skyview01:
Ok. This is my personal opinion and do not take it personal as you are entitled to your own opinion as well.

I often hear couples give testimonies about looking for the fruit of the womb for about twenty years and some of them may even be in their fifties or late forties.

My question is, what is stopping these couples from adopting and putting joy in the life of some hopeless baby out there in the motherless homes.

Why are we not able to spread happiness to some hopeless baby while still continue to wait on the lord. Why must we adopt our relatives?

When people tell me they prayed for 15 or 20 years for the fruit of the womb, i consider them with a mixed reaction, some come across to me as selfish to be honest.

You are looking for babies, there are babies out there looking for parents, i believe the law of demand and supply should work here or wada ya think.

If you are out there and looking to God for the fruit of the womb, adoption is a viable option.

I know a lady who had her womb removed during a fibroid operation. She is still praying for the fruit of the womb for the past ten years instead of going to adopt.

Our society is not engineered in that way and thus you don't find it a common thought.
But every child is your child.

Iceflox:
Can you imagine?

If you try this rubbish with me i will leave the school for you and your parents

Rubbish

Sweet and thoughtful.
Firstly, appreciate his ability to recognise and appreciate your beauty and splendour.
Secondly, these are just juvenile infatuation and crushing. Just softly, using the appropriate words and means guide him rightly.

Rubyjade:
Joel resigned from his job as a Branch manager and relocated. #japa

The early days abroad were quite tough; he faced the typical challenge of acclamatizing with a new environment-the weather, and issues of job-searching and finding one's way around town. Being that he traveled alone, he eventually managed to settle down on time and got over some of the initial issues. But he remained jobless.

After a few months of not finding a job and running out of cash, he started facing threats of eviction as he was unable to meet up with the payment for his rent.

Now desperate, he called up a friend back in Nigeria who gave him the contact of his (friend's) cousin who happened to be doing quite well in the same area where Joel was staying.

With a huge sense of relief, he contacted his friend's cousin, Dami, who invited him over to stay temporarily with him pending when he is able to sort out a new accommodation.

Joel arrived at the address and knocked on the door. When it was opened, he stood face to face with the last person he would have ever imagined - Kenneth!!!!

In his shock, he managed to say hello and asked to see Dami. Kenneth smiled, "I am Dami. My family prefers to call my native name Damilare instead of my English name, Kenneth.....', he said.

At that point, Joel dropped his head as the memories of how he ill-treated, frustrated, insulted and bullied Kenneth as a junior banking officer 7 years back in the same organisation they had worked together flooded his mind. He felt so ashamed of himself; he knew he had been a toxic leader.

What should Joel do?

If you were Kenneth what would you do? Let him into your apartment and retaliate? Tell him, "sorry, can't accept you into my apartment" and let him suffer with no money & a place to stay?

If you were in Kenneth's shoes, will you treat him back the way he had treated you in Naija or will you simply let him in with your #churchmind?

I believe people's responses to this story will help send a lesson to LEADERS on "Who knows tomorrow"..... Let's treat people RIGHT always..... The table might turn tomorrow, who knows.

Let's show LOVE in LEADING.....

Looking forward to reading your responses .....

Being a while...... Happy New Month

Very easy and very simple, when you're able to look into your life and see clearly, you'll be above always. From Kenneth's success, you'd get to see that there's no grudge to be held against his one time leader. Its now his own turn to prove that he's a better person.

manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

Report to the school of authority after gathering unrefutable proofs. Text, recorded calls, chats e.t.c

EmekaStanley:
Well I did. I think lack of discipline. I also noticed.

This lady called me around 1.00am on Thursday last week for reason I don't know.

It was even my wife that picked and told me she called , and there was music noise in the background like she was in a club.

Next day Friday, she resumed 10.55am

You role in this young ladies life might just be beyond rendering just employment.
Seems like you're the HR of your company but if you're not get counselling for her.There is no greater joy than the one you get from impacting others.

EmekaStanley:
I hired a lady last week Monday and fired her on Friday same week. I concluded she was not ready yet.

This lady came almost 2 hours late for interview without communicating her reason. If she was going to be late, she should inform the interviewer. Red flag.

I ignored that and decided to proceed with the interview. I decided not to conclude on her based on the interview outcome. I love giving people chances.

I offered her the job, she was excited. She was sent an offer letter which she accepted. On resumption date, this lady came late for work. First day at work. I was like 'Is this 24 year old lady innocently naïve or what?".

On Friday last week, this lady came to work by 10.55am. He work time is 8.00am, and she is an office admin. I was on my seat and sighted her walking in, I had to call her and told her to go back home, and that was it.

By the way, she lives like 15 minutes away from the office, and her route is always against traffic.

I wouldn't know when she resumed from Tuesday to Thursday because I came quite late on those days due to field engagements. When I resumed, I met her sleeping twice. After that, she abandoned her work and stepped out to answer a phone call for almost 1 hour.

My experience with this lady made me understand that a lot of people looking for work are not ready for/to work.

ES

Excellent write up, but it doesn't show any attempts you made as an employer of labour to diagnose the cause of the ladies work troubles and just straight to relieving her of her job. If you had started with giving her the benefit of the doubt, then I guess you owed yourself the responsibility of finding why she was that way.

IyaTola:
If you were to spend 5m naira in 1hr, what will you buy?

Land, I'll buy land in a prospective location

PaNnamdi:
My younger brother studying biochemistry at the University of Benin have had about 5 carry overs. Now he is in his third year, and he is seriously depressed. I have seriously reprimanded him and also consoled him but I don't want him to spill and based on the fact that when am in school I never had issues like this, I decided to bring this online.

Is it possible for him to drop some of the mandatory courses in his department(note not core courses o,but mandatory courses) to accommodate for the carry over courses he had.

Please I need legit answers from those who are experienced in issues like this.

Mod u can place or more this to the rightful thread, Some might still be passing through this situation too in silent.

You might sincerely and honestly be part of his challenge actually. I'll explain.
I've come to discover that there's a certain kind and level of empathy that those who haven't experienced a situation or something similar, can never have and will never have.
Scolding someone with 5 carryovers isn't really a wise thing, cos even one who's not serious with his life and academics would be bothered by such.
Biochemistry isn't for the faint of heart with all their partways, Enzymes and substrates. I'm sure he already knows what to do to avoid an extra year, but even if it comes to that don't make it worse for him than it already is.

ChinemeremFidel:
My girlfriend always disturb me to visit her and I do avoid it because I really don't want sex for now..
She is the first I will ever have.

So today I decided to visit her,we made out mouth pleasure but I did not have sex because first she was a virgin and secondly she was on her period.

After satisfying each other ,she started crying to squashing one of her principles.
Then me on the other hand have never had sex before so I was really ashamed of what I did...

She called me on the phone and was crying in guilt that I broke her laws and principles...I took the whole blame...

She then broke up with me...
And I really love this girl.

She is beautiful,never asked me for money, smart, intelligent and brave.

I am just confused right now

Proximity will always breed intimacy. It was bound to happen. What has happened has happened, forgive yourself cos God has forgiven you but flee from fornication, if you love her so much marry her.
Hold unto your godly principles and never put yourselves in a position to be tempted like that again.

Modifire:
You can imagine this corrupt generations speaking against the man of God! Now when the same God strikes them with adversity they'll be running Helter skelter to churches useless hypocritical bastardzzz. Some christens are not different from Judas. Fkn people with irrational thinking

I'm beginning to think subtly that nairaland is a place for most heathenistic individuals without the barest minium honour and discipline.
Thank you for speaking up.
Congratulations to the said lady on her feat in achieving that record but I couldn't join the bandwagon knowing that this person's social media presence is extremely questionable.

JungleJustice01:
Both parents have passed no will was left. I basically leave the rents collected from the house rent to my only younger brother.

Now the house is deteriorating and I want to fix it, like give it a major facelift but the funds will be coming from me entirely. I don't have a personal house of mine but I believe an overhaul of this place can give leverage to increase the rent as it is in a good part of town.

My fear is after this investment, will I be able to recoup any funds? If I am to pass away, will my kids have any access to the property?

I love my brother but I've heard and read stories of human behavior especially in situations where there is no documentation.

What do I do?

Sit-down and speak with your brother and draw up legal documents

ChildOfDoom:
While celebrating my stopping of gambling, I ventured into another addiction, visiting brothel

Thrice a week. Despite catching infection on some occasions, and promising to stop. I can't

I just bleeped raw and sucked breast of Olosho. If not that she stopped me, I for kiss am

Lol..
Even scriptures warns to stay away from the breasts of a strange woman

Forexmax:
Dentistry or pharmacy in Nigeria? How lucrative and earnings?

Honour the practice, it's a sacred call to humanitarian service not a business scheme.

LivingSage:
The thread asking who should be next of kin to a man graced FP and I think to balance the equation, there's reason for this as well.

This is pretty obvious na, husband should be next of kin till first baby is born. Similarly, wife should be next of kin until first baby then you might decide to change it or not.

doggedfighter:
Keep quiet,there !

Senseless talk.

See how you allowed them rob a young man like you ability to think and reason.

From your posts I can see your learning pastoring business.

Rubbish !

You'd always figure out Spiritually immature individuals from their words, cos of the abundance of the heart the mouth always speaks. Can't you make your point without insults and sounding rude?
But the Lord loves you and He'll help you too

Romanoff:
With the myriad of those hyping him, telling him he did the right thing?

I very much doubt it.

God cares for him so let's hope for the best

Romanoff:
He now came to Nairaland (the HQ of angry, bitter and poorly raised men) for validation.

Oya, take clap.

👏👏

Indeed but I pray the Lord help him to see the error of his actions and swiftly make amends.

Saviola86:
So today I had to call my resident pastor to order.

I am a 30yrs old guy and in a relationship with a lovely lady of 25. It's been 6 good years together building and improving ourselves.

I come from a family where nobody mounts pressure on anybody especially on marriage issue. My parents are so liberal that they trust our judgements and allow us to marry from anywhere we find love despite fact that we are igbos.

I and my fiancee have been through different stages of life because she was 19 when we met, I was a dead broke ass graduate then without a job and still going from one interview to the other. I was so broke that my young fiancee then was the one giving me money to go for the interviews (she was running her mom's store then). Aside that she would bring food and sometimes get me clothes. When I say I was broke, I mean totally broke

God did it I secured a job of 60k a month and a year later got a more improved job of 100k. I don't drink and don't spend recklessly, I was able to save and began a POS business which my fiancee 20yrs as at then was running for me in her mom's store while I was working. To Cut long story short, my fiancee is in her 300L now in school while I have ventured into other business and I can say I make about 500k monthly combined.

On reason why I caution my pastor, in church I am one of the youth leaders and a key figure and most of my friends or mate in the ministry are married and my resident pastor took it upon herself to always use me for jokes or call my name from the alter to go and marry.

You'd here bro sososo go and marry and the congregation will laugh, during meeting you will hear word like don't be like bro sososo who wants to become a grandpa bachelor.

Once any member marries you will hear bro sososo we are waiting ooooo.

Like I don't find that funny, she is mounting unnecessary pressure on me which I don't like. Will she be the one to take care of my family?

Sometimes she goes as far as introducing a sister in the church to me.

So today I had enough, called her after service and told her my mind. I know she will feel disappointed but for my mental health I needed to put a stop to that rubbish.

My friends in church are married and to be sincere they look like shadow of themselves.

My fiancee is in school, she was there with me during tough times, she built and grew with me and even in school she is also learning a trade and preparing for life after school. We agreed to marry immediately after she graduates (next year) and so far everything is going as planned

Sometimes I wonder how and where you people get such audacity to act so ignorantly and dishonourable. So you're now the most high ba, see your communication too.
You cautioned your Pastor? Do you know who a Pastor is and do you know who your Pastor is to you? Well since you think you've acted in rightly or wisely in your best interest, wait and see how things turn out.
You've got plans with your girlfriend, did you inform your Pastor about the plans and she kept talking to you about getting married?

HappyPagan:
Useless somebody. 😕😕

Tell us about these more effective, peaceful and excellent ways. Also show me why the 'Christians' aren't obligated to just keep quiet and stop disturbing the peace? Did Jesus go round with a megaphone bothering people sleeping?


Be free from your bad habits, and leave evil spirit alone.

Don't worry, you'll soon become part of the do called useless somebodies and then you'll know the errors of your ways

Kobojunkie:
How many such demons have you been able to get rid of by way of this your fasting and praying? Let's start with you telling us how you were able to fast and pray demons away..

2. Love conquers all? You mean by loving an individual you are able to conquer all ills? These una soundbites
doctrines of these days.

Obviously the comment wasn't meant for you.

thesilentman:
Because we live in proximity-same town, she wouldn't quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or at least every other day.

I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday I summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house. Before she could reply, I told her, 'learn to stay where you belong! I did not marry daughter and mother!`
She has since disappeared into thin air.

This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.

Very rude and disrespectful fellow. How could you speak to your mother in law in such a manner? If you were bother by the amount of her visits, why didn't you speak to your wife to subtly let her mum know?
Na wa ooh
The rate and level of dishonour is just too alarming

Jestin:
I went to site today to complete the roofing stage in one of my buildings. Some workers were doing the wood work while i directed some to clear the compound because it was bushy.

One of the workers shouted snake and before a blink of an eye, they killed the snake. Cut off the head and tail and kept the body to be consumed later. I took some photos to share here because i know Lala and nairalanders love snakes.

Gabon Viper, you don sha get free meat

Dearlove2me:
Is like I'm in a sound prof house shouting on top of my voice and no one is hearing me. It seems they don't even understand what I'm going through.

I explained everything to my family and everyone including my mother, and they keep advicing me to stand on my feet and fight for my home, so long as they's no violence. That I shouldn't divorce my husband.
We always have heated argument, raising voice at each other.

My mother inlaw on the other hand, was crying on the phone. Telling me not to mention that name (divorce) ever again.
All the family members are not in support of divorce, but the main person I'm married to seems not to care at all.


He obviously refused to stop gambling away with any money that comes to his hand.
He presently have no job and he's owning a lot.

He's addicted and he's not making effort to stop. This is the root problem in my home. Because he exhibit all the wrong behavior as a result of this addiction.
Once he have any little money, his attitude, everything changed. He becomes scary. Until he finishes everything in betting, I wouldn't be able to talk to him and he will listen.

What should I do? Where do I go that I wouldn't look like a disobedient person, dispite everyone's pleade?
I'm using all my time to cry, qurrel and grieve here. Can't find myself.
I am not financially stable to make a move without my family's support.

I greatly sympathise with you and pray that the Lord strengthen and encourage you.
This type of demon doesn't go out but by Prayer and fasting. Spend time In intense prayer and fasting for your husband and your home and refrain from having shouting sessions with him, above all always respond with love towards him.
Love conquers all.

HappyPagan:
A few years ago, one of the branches of Winners Chapels opened on my street.

It didn't take long for them to set up 4 loud speakers outside their church. My quiet mornings became filled with their cries to God to have mercy on his people.

I struggle with insomia, and I'm a light sleeper. Imagine how the quality of my days deteriorated, waking up angry and possed, the gruntings from the Head Pastor's throat banginge ear drums every morning.

I confronted them on many occasions, but nothing seemed to work. I then had the brilliant idea to make a video recording and upload to my Twitter account. I tagged their Headquarters and their main account, asked them if Jesus was wrong to ask them to pray in cupboards, quiet and away from the neighbors.

I also went to all their social media pages and made an asshole of meself..... Gotta say this year, I noticed they have moved their speakers in... I rarely know when they have services, and my street is no quiet as Bleep again... Even on Sundays.

Have you had a similar issue? How did you solve it?

Public displaying your act of folly for clout and feeling confident of something to be ashamed of.
I'm not defending or justifying the actions of the church but I definitely there were more effective, peaceful and excellent ways.

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

Are you a virgin?