Ehinjuola: My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.
My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.
It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.
After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.
My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.
When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.
We had little issue then but he later resolved it.
He brought everything they ask him for
During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.
That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.
I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.
His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.
I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.
He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?
I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.
He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.
After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.
I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.
Have I said something wrong?
I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.
I am tired, I don't know what to do.
Most issues arise from very little things, instead of trying to defend something that doesn't need defending, why didn't you just apologise and try to see how you could get him more cheerful after he opened up to you? Instead you responded in such a way that is making him doubt your allegiance to him and now you're not happy with the repercussions. Sha start from apology and softly telling him that it was not as he thinks it was, that you only responded that way because for you, you took all the tasks he was given to fulfill as a demonstration of his love and value for you
tonywonder: I am a legally married woman with no child and My marriage is 15 years. I reside in Lagos.
I am not the type of woman that monitors or interfere in my husband business or his staffs. Though I know some of the staffs but not much closeness.
7 years ago 4 youths corps served at my husband office but one lady among the 4 corps member was later retained and employed as a secretary to the director who is my husband.
Though my husband told me when his secretary wanted to do her wedding at Port Harcourt 4 years ago. I didn't go but being my husband staff, he went with some of his friends. Less than a year after the wedding the Secretary gave birth to twins. I even went to visit her at home in gbagada, Lagos with gifts for the new babies then. When I asked for her husband I was told he is out of the country. I never knew I was being fooled.
December 22, last year, the Secretary gave birth to another baby in a private hospital where my immediate sister got employed less than 3 months as an accountant. It was my sister that witnessed everything and told me.
The lady I thought is just a secretary is my husband-wife. The wedding the Secretary did in port Harcourt then was between her and my husband. The twins she gave birth to then and the new baby she just put to birth are my husband children. The house I went to visit her in gbagada was bought to her by my husband with a saloon car.
My husband didn't deny it when I confronted him. Even his parents and siblings all knew about it. I didn't know I was in darkness for years.
I am still in the shock because all is still like a dream to me. I asked him of my offensee to have punished me that way but he said I did nothing wrong.
Now I fully believe men are evil and their place is hell.
Since that the whole secret was exposed I have been mentally sick and disturbed. My heart is wild now, and at any time I can do and undo.
You shouldn't do anything bit give God thanks and if you desire to have your own children, pray that He opens your womb for you to conceive cos firstly; you didn't mention him being abusive or a bad husband to neither did you mention his family coming after you. Secondly; I perceived from your communication that he has been treating you well and loves you. Thirdly; seeing that she has conceived twice it means the challenge isn't from your husband but you and that you might have a secret concerning that too which you didn't state in your write up. Finally; don't ruin your home and you've got an opportunity to make it beautiful and the best you can make it
Hanndye: Why should it be bulky? I thought the Gospel of Christ is simple.
Don't worry about it, seems like you don't require it. But Godspeed in your Christian walk, it's good to know that 👍 there are more God lovers and worshippers.
TruthsFM: Bayelsa November 11 Poll: Survey gives Diri overwhelming victory in 8 LGAs
A survey report conducted on the forthcoming Gubernatorial Election in Bayelsa State indicates that the incumbent Governor, Senator Douye Diri, will win the election in the eight Local Government Areas of the State.
The Opinion Poll initiated by the Bayelsa Government New Media Team was conducted by a team of six researchers and 50 Research Assistants for 2 months covering the period of June and July, 2023.
The survey conducted across 211 communities randomly selected from the 24 State Constituencies administered questionnaire to 2,400 respondents who confirmed to have their Permanent Voter Cards and intend to cast their votes in the November 11 election.
100 persons were selected in each of the constituency for the survey of samples drawn from men, women and youths while 24 opinion leaders were also interviewed across the constituencies.
The poll was narrowed to the three supposedly major contenders in the election being the incumbent, Governor Douye Diri of the People's Democratic Party (PDP), the former Governor and immediate past Minister of State for Petroleum Resources, Chief Timipre Sylva of the All Progressives Congress (APC) and Engr. Udengs Eradiri of Labour Party.
The survey was based on antecedents of each candidate, the zoning arrangement, impact on people over time particularly in the rural communities, the popularity among the people, performance of political parties in the last general election and Bayelsa’s key stakeholders/leaders backing each of the candidate.
Results derived from experts' analysis of the field report indicates that Diri is expected to return the highest votes from his home Local Government Area, Kolokuma/Opokuma.
88 per cent of the respondents said they will vote for the incumbent, only 5 per cent of respondents said they will vote for Sylva of the APC, and 4 per cent of respondents to vote Eradiri while 3 per cent are undecided.
The next appreciable result is from Sagbama Local Government Area, home LGA of the immediate past Governor and incumbent Senator representing Bayelsa West, Henry Seriake Dickson, where 77 per cent of the respondents said they will vote for Diri as against 10 per cent which indicated willingness to vote for Sylva of APC.
In Ekeremor Local Government Area, 72 per cent respondents said they will vote for Diri of PDP while 11 per cent will vote for Sylva.
The respondents said they will through the ballot return the kind gesture of the governor to him for the completion of the Sagbama-Ekeremor road where several communities can now be accessed by road instead of travelling by water.
The survey report indicated that Diri is expected to win massively even in LGAs believed to have opposed him in the 2019 guber election. The survey clearly puts the incumbent Governor Diri ahead in Nembe LGA with 70 per cent, Brass (62 per cent), Ogbia (66 per cent), Southern Ijaw (63 per cent) and the State capital, Yenagoa Local Government Area (70 per cent).
Interestingly, 36 per cent of APC members who responded to the questionnaire said they will vote for Douye Diri because of his peaceful disposition and for opening up several riverine communities with roads.
Chief Timipre Sylva of APC is expected to have his highest votes of 33 per cent from his home Local Government Area of Brass followed by Yenagoa LGA where only 26 per cent of the respondents said they will vote for him.
The survey report did not give Eradiri of LP any chance as only 9 per cent of respondents in Ogbia LGA, being the best figure said they will vote him and followed by the 8 per cent respondents in Yenagoa LGA, despite being his home Local Government Area.
Twenty four opinion leaders were also interviewed in each of the 24 constituencies and their responses corroborated the survey report to the effect that the incumbent Governor, Sen. Diri, remains the best choice for governorship at this time bearing in mind that he has performed significantly well in the different sectors covering security, sports, education, health, roads construction, youth and women empowerment, skills acquisition and better welfare for civil servants including the gradual payment of outstanding gratuities to retirees.
Fifteen of the opinion leaders particularly emphasised that the incumbent Governor has become a symbol of peace in the State and has demonstrated genuine commitment as a bridge builder who has restored security across the state.
“Governor Diri is a likeable person. He has shown compassion and I see him a good man. That is the kind of leader we need now in Bayelsa State. He smiles from his inner heart. He does not care whether you are APC or PDP, he identifies with all. That’s a good quality for a great leader. Again, he is doing so much projects particularly the various road projects connecting our riverine communities. We are so happy with the Nembe-Brass road. We understand that the former President, Goodluck Jonathan and immediate past Governor Seriake Dickson are also supporting the current Governor for another term", an opinion leader in Nembe Local Government Area said.
There were a few respondents still undecided on the candidate to vote among the three leading candidates.
The Director, New Media, Dr. Kola Oredipe, who commissioned the experts to carry out the survey said he stands by the poll result and believes the outcome is the reality among prospective voters in Bayelsa State come November 11, 2023.
Tell me why I must forgive my daddy and my Late Mummy.
I was 4years while my elder Sister was 6years when my daddy and my Mummy had a serious misunderstanding, so few weeks later, my daddy was transferred to Kaduna from Lagos being a Solder ( who knows I he was the on that requested for that).
On one fateful day, my Mummy went to the market to buy some stuffs in the Market, then here com my Daddy's younger Sister( Aunt) with a vehicle. She forced I and my elder Sister to the vehicle and moved is straight to my Daddy's village in Ondo State. We cried, cried , and cried but our tears couldn't saved us.
Finally we landed in a village where there is no light, no hospitals, no good schools, in the hand of strange people we don't know.
Remember I said we were moved when I was 4years. Now at 5years in the village, daddy never visited, mummy never visited, so I had to start tapping Palmwine just to raise money to start my Primary school in the village. After a year or so, I was able to get some money to pay for my Primary school. I decided that I can't continue with this Palmwine tapping at this year, so I work hard and raise some money to start selling bottles of kerosene to sponsor myself from Primary to Secondary school.
When I was in JSS3 , my Elder Sister got pregnant for a guy out of frustration and betrayal from the path of our Parents who abandoned us for years. Our Uncle in the village who never care about us , informed my daddy that his daughter is pregnant for a guy ooh, then my daddy said the guy must marry her . Finally the guy agreed, then my daddy who never visited us for over 15years came down to the village because of the money he will collect.
After marriage rites, I was taken to Lagos by my elder brother.
Note: my Mummy whom I never see for over 15years knicked me out of the house after spending just 1week with her in the house. Her complain was that I believe like a bush boy.
My elder Sister is still married to the guy in the village and she can't even express herself in English, and this is a lady that was born here in Lagos.
Tell me how I will forgive them after going through hell because of selfish Parents.
My mummy died 4years ago but I didn't even know where her grave is because we were never in good terms and till tomorrow, I will not forgive her not even my daddy.
Hmmm... Forgiving them isn't about them but about you... You shouldn't find yourself struggling with severe chronic ailments like cancers and all that as they are as a result of bitterness and unforgiveness. They made their mistakes but your life is your choice, it's left for you to make the appropriate choices and decisions now how you can improve your life and that of your sister.
siofra: Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.
And there are terms and conditions.
He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)
I will not have children for him (my mind may change)
I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.
If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.
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Hmm... E sha dey sweet you ooh... Na property you don become be that with this your expectations
DECENTBWOY: Good morning nairalanders, I know its too early to post this but this issue has been troubling me for a while now. I can't sleep, even if i eventually do, i can't stay asleep, for example if i sleep by 2am, i will wake up by 4am and thats it for that night. It has been going on for months now, and i hardly sleep in the afternoon too.. If you observe when i made this post, I slept around 3am because today is my birthday, i was answering calls and chats from well wishers, now i am up again around 5, thats why i made this post, i am fed up...
Please can you guys suggest a very strong sleeping tablet for me? I really need to sleep and stay asleep, i mean lock everywhere up, eat, take the tablet and sleep a very deep sleep, a kind of sleep that i will not know what is happening around...
Please help a brother, i don even begin de slim like who them de squeeze blood commut for body....
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY HUMBLE SELF BTW...
Nairaland no be hospital, kindly go to the hospital and seek a psychologist or psychiatrist for your own good.
Hanndye: Gal. 3:27: 'For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ.' Good morning and thanks.
Oh, beautiful scripture. I wish I could send you a voice note with full explanation and scriptures for your to study and fully grasp the communication of Apostle Paul
Mthumbie: Hello Nairalanders Have seen a whole lot of Samsung Users about how their smartphone suddenly has a green line running through the display.
Most smartphones function normal with the line but it is always obvious that something is wrong with that part of the screen. There are also reports that the line appears all of a sudden without the phone dropping or after receiving an update.
Two of my friends have the same issue and several other people. Why is the brand not saying anything about the issue or try to fix it.
Hanndye: The question is: can you be saved, through Christ, without being a Christian? Because the Bible talks about putting on Christ at Baptism. When being baptized, I was asked to affirm my faith in Christ.
Honeybadgerxx: There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.
Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.
Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.
Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive. Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.
She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.
But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?
Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad
The fact you have a Penis doesn't mean you know everything about it. If I should ask you some questions now you'll know. She's not lying
If an embassy issues visas, what will a givers embassy do, isn't it to give the most? Tithes and offerings don't attract wrath when not given but these are spiritual principles for your prosperity. Even the idol worshipers give offerings and sacrifices so what are you these people saying. If they truly don't take the tithes and offerings of the people, watch and see how poor the congregation will be. Even though they come in rich, they'll be reduced.
Hanndye: After the Outer-call or on the radio, after preaching, the preacher would ask those who wish to give their lives to Jesus to repeat certain words after him calling Jesus into their lives. Is this right and Baptism not neccesary?
Hmmm... Firstly... I'd like to understand where you're coming from and where you're going to with this question? Please read Romans 10:9-10 and verse 13 then you'll understand the prayer which the preacher leads those getting born again to say. This in itself doesn't nullify water baptism, it is after this that these new converts are ready for water baptism. Read Acts 19: 1 -6
beautifulsoul12: Good morning everyone. I have to create this account to post this. I can't even sleep at night lately.
I'm so tired and I need help right now. I have been doing this all by myself for so long now, without much complain but now, I need help. Before I got married to my husband, I didn't know he had a seasonal mental health challenge, but not violent.
I met him in the university, he was in medicine, he had dreams, very ambitious, one of the best in his department, Working his way to travel abroad to continue his education. We were just friends, but I liked him. He kept on asking me out, but I declined. I wanted to graduate first. We parted ways in year two. He changed school, so, I knew nothing about him again till years later. Reconnected with him years later after graduation, to my greatest surprise, he didn't graduate, wasted all his resources and couldn't travel out. We still love each other, so we got married. after the birth of my first child, I wanted to leave him, but I couldn't because he was a good man, but with too many changes and I was the only one who truly care and was there for him. Three years ago, he became much better. He got a small job, Started bringing in little for upkeep. I saw change and I was happy. We had our second child last year after 8yrs. Since early this year, the whole thing came up again. Since then, he became jobless again. The financial burden is all on me. Right now, we can't afford to renew our rent. I lost my business capital some times ago in wrong business, since then, it has been so much struggles.
I'm trying hard but it's not enough. I'm thinking of working away, but to where? what about my children? Who will be there for them? What about him? But I'm tired of being in a marriage where I have to struggle for everything, where I can not depend on my man. Pls, help us renew our house rent.
What do I do?
Why do ladies always complain about one thing and end up asking for help about another thing?
You want to walk away because of his financial handicap or because of seasonal mental disorder? You're the only that loves him really? Clearly from the options available that you highlighted yourself, you should know even you don't love him. Sit with your husband, highlight challenges and profer solutions instead of wanting to run away. 🏃♀️
TheUnsure: I need sensible contributions please, no trolls.
I met a man recently who likes me a lot, maybe even love sef. He’s really serious and he wants to marry me but I’m not really feeling the whole thing for a few reasons.
He’s probably a dream come true for some women, rich, caring, generous and there is a possibility of him becoming a king in some years (which I'm not really a fan of, royal families, royal issues). But my issue is that he has a wife already but they don’t have kids (the issue is from the wife) and he wants to marry me as second wife because he does not want to continue waiting after 10 years of marriage. And I know he would give me the world if I have kids with him.
My main problem is attraction, it is not there. He has a small stature and I’m naturally drawn to tall guys. I’m taller than he is and I just can’t get over that. I know I would enjoy the relationship but I feel like I’m always going to be feeling like I settled. Please note, I’m a single mother of 2 in my early 30s and I’m not doing bad financially too. He’s been begging to be intimate and I’ve been responding with a firm No. I’m not interested in starting what I cannot finish. I know if I give in, I would grow to love him because he's actually a nice person but....
I told him No firmly last night that it can't work between us but this man has been relentless, I’m just wondering if I'm not making a mistake...
No insults please, sensible inputs. Thanks
Discuss with the wife and know what you're getting yourself involved in and being a mother of 2 already you should know that it's a pretty leveled bargain.
eglobalcafe: Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.
Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.
AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.
Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.
I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.
It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me
lovediehatelive: So I decided to spend the weekend at my uncle's place because it has been many years I went there.
In the midnight, around 1am, I heard the television was on and I thought he forget to put it off.
So I went to the living room only to see his son of about 4-5 years old watching cartoon. I was shocked and asked him to go and sleep, which he grudgingly agreed.
Now, early morning around 5am or so, same thing happened. I want to the living room and saw him there.
This time he refused to go to bed.
I later found out that's how he does. I wonder if he ever sleeps at night.
The parents are not even bothered, but I'm worried. When we were growing up, who are you to stay awake past 9pm watching TV? Not to talk about waking up at night. Even in the day time you better not be caught idling away on front of the TV when others are busy.
This one just comes to the living room anytime he likes and puts on the TV.
Is this how kids of nowadays behave?
Wow, that's nice. He's like me. I had same experience, watching cartoons till dawn too, I'm certain that child is genuis. Just guide him by getting him to also read as much as he watches those cartoons.
Humblelion1987: Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice. I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.
When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.
She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.
I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.
Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?
It's funny sha... have you really spoken to the lady in question... no matter how protective parents can get, not to this extent you're describing ooh...
robosky02: Marriage is indeed a beautiful institute. Some even say it is the. Oldest institution and was ordained by God himself. It is even more amazing when the union involves two love birds, who have learned to really COMMUNICATE thier feeling, emotions, fears and commit to better thier weakness.
However marriage will be boring when there is a breakdown in communication. Especially in matters about the other room play, finance and third parties like In-laws and exes.
A man has been complaining that his wife doesn't initiate love making. Even if she is in the mood except he does. This has been thier other room complain.
So I want to ask the house A. Is it only the man that should initiate conjugal play? B. Is it wrong for a woman to ask for it as a legally married woman C. What would make a woman shy away
Let's talk or counsel or advice to help somebody.
Please help a couple and other to learn.
After marriage you no longer own your body. The body of the man is for the woman and the body of the woman for the man.
IconicR: Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.
They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.
Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex
Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms.
Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.
What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't.
Please how do I go about this?
Hmmm... So after confirming that she has said she'll not do anything with the man that will hurt her cousin, body still dey pepper you? Na wa ooh... I'm not supporting whatever is happening here sometimes mind your business
Kobojunkie: 1. Sadly, what Paul, who clearly mentioned the Law of Moses at the beginning of that passage meant was that , just as Jesus Christ said in John 3 vs 9 - 18 , the gift of eternal life was given as salvation from the condemnation of sin aka the curse of sin, God's Judgement against the sinners of His Old Law. Basically, the free gift of eternal life is meant to grant you righteousness - freedom- by the standard that is the Old Law of Moses. However, it does not grant you penance as far as God's New Covenant and Law in the Kingdom of God.
2. If this faith you speak of is in the Old Law then I am afraid you are doomed. Jesus Christ was not being foolish when He urged His followers--- those already born-again--- to seek first the Kingdom of God(holiness) and then God's righteousness in order that all these things --- the blessings and rewards of the Kingdom of God --- shall be added to each.
Wow... I'm short of words as at this moment I see the challenge glaring... carry on with the wrong doctrines and teachings...
IamdbuII: Due to the fact that I want to focus on my music career, I decided to cut off relationships and as body no be firewood and I no dey carry hook up and since I love to be alone and focus all I do when konji comes is to jgiribolibilibilibili
But my career has not been moving at all and am confused because I have beautiful songs just see the one below
Donkogbe: This is a true life story about me. I don't know how to write so don't mind my text errorrs.
I came from a very poor background and a divided family with no single love among siblings. Its affected my mental health allot. My mother gave birth to 8 children. 4 girls 4 boys and i am the last born. I have never enjoy my childhood because i was surrounded with brothers and sisters that don't like each other and the hatred grew that my elder brother from another father bullied and gave me a tough childhood till i grew to be a tennager. i endure everything but i was setting my head on what could be going wrong in the family maybe it is a curse or something.
i fought my way through school and struggled to pay my tuition fee plus accommodation and life expenses. I was living in face me and slap you in abeokuta and i experienced one of the dreadful moments of my existence. But glory to God it made me stronger and wise to be a man i am today.
I finish my service year this feb 2 and i went back to my mothers house because i lost allot of money from a trip that took me and my ex from jos to lagos. i went back to ogun state to stay with my mum God so good she traveled to london to stay with my rich sister from another father ( the family is so divided that nobody love each other, the rich don't want to help but taking care of our mother) She travelled for 4month and i was able to save my apartment money.
Just today to the Glory of God, the poor boy that was digraced and shamed in abeokuta, the boy they have written off and said he can never make it in life or do good things HAS JUST SEALED AND PAID IN CASH HIS APARTMENT DREAM. This will be the first time i will be experiencing maximum privacy.
I am not showing off or trying to brag. I am only setting it out to whoever come accross this story that " whatever you set your mind to do irrespective of coming from a very poor background" with focus and diligence, YOU WILL ACHIEVE THEM. Stay blessed . . OP please push to FP. i need to see people comment and views.
Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 🎊 But you no sha consider say you fit still stay with your mama then use that money expand business or invest in business or even buy land.
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