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I sha hope the viagra will not kill him.

The lack of accountability t in this thread is stupendous. Nobody jazzed the old man, he knows what he is doing.

My advice, the wife should find her own 'happiness'

He should really consider surgery.

Easylion3569:
My girlfriend last saw her menstration last month, its been 30 days and 4 day since she last saw it.. So i was wondering why, and i had to visit a chemist who gave me a pregnancy test tools called 'accuracy'..
he told me how to use it, and what the various line display means.
so i called my girl and told her to urinate small on a small cup, followed the instructions and two thick red line showed..
and the chemist said two line is positive..
i'm still schooling i don't kno what to do now.

everything i have worked for, how i have planned my future is now trying to fade away.
i cant even hold my tears

if two of you want, you can opt for an abortion.

Ahasco:
Lol either way the ball still is in his court, he has two options either he learns the hard way or the easy way. The choice is his.
Can you interpret fgfgdfg as it concerns age thank you

please, what the Bleep is going on?. I came back from work to meet mentions in a matter I know neither the genesis nor the relevation of.

alphabbey1:
You think we're talking about those broke drunkards in beer parlor .... Those are the kind of set many of you usually settle with tho

E pain am.

siofra:
It's not above average. It's average.

in nigeria, 5ft 3 is average

All I know is that bae is a refrigerator and I am a deep freezer, we need both in the house and are compatible.

alphabbey1:
which numbers ? Complete your statement.... keep shouting overrated, Not gonna engage in any irrelevant argument with you and ur Co equality geng.... whatever your opinion on social media has nothing related to what goes on in reality.... Reality always await you deluded social media freak....

the reality is that 'oloshos' are getting married to SIMPS every weekend and 'alpha males' who pumped and dumped in their youth are dying broke, lonely and alone in their 50s and 60s without a proper burial.

Some are fortunate to end up in the dissecting labs of medical students.

Datedoboy:
Young girls and boys don't be decieved. This is to counteract a post on the front page of this forum.
Why does your past matter? You cannot value a car that have been used roughly by several drivers in the past and pay high for that car as you would pay for a brand new car.

These girls are trying to twist the law of diminishing returns which is impossible.

Also, can you overlook a serial rapist and entrust him with your daughter because you don't believe in someone's past?

Don't let people who sleep around anyhow make you feel it is cool. Instead of them to feel remorseful, they validate their actions.

Some even say marrying a virgin with bad character is worst than marrying a loose girl with good character just to ridicule virgins. Now tell me where is the good character in sleeping around.

As a young virgin either boy or girl, keep yourselves chaste cos u can easily be like them but people who sleep around can never reverse their virginity in these world again so they want to pressure you to loose yours that's why they come up with every statement to justify their loose morals.

Let them continue. God will judge every word said and actions at his right time if it is good or bad. Stay blessed guys

that means girls should go for virgin boys, not community dicks, ok!!

greypencils:
Bro, don't expend your energy trying to knock sense into the senseless. OP is suffering from inferiority complex by the virtue of the fact that he is dating a medic while he isn't one, probably has nothing special going on in his life. Baby girl uses him as a pet while she fantasizes about the exact type of men that she wants, Alpha males and probably goes out of her way to get them. She knows she is unlikely to get any meaningful relationships from these ones hence her settling for the OP. From his previous conversations, it is obvious dude is suffering from inferiority complex and is therefore trying to justify his choice. He is very likely in love with her and she is very likely not on the same wavelength with him. Newsflash to the OP, YOU ARE BEING USED, WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT, YOU WILL GET DUMPED.

PROJECT MUCH!!

Acidosis:
If I can't handle her past, it simply means that I can't be with her. Why would I want to be with a woman whose past is too much for me to handle?

okay then!! I won't argue with you. I've been too tired to argue lately
Must be all this burial preparation.

cococandy:
who doesn’t?
Kitten heels Samuels and his minions of boys who don’t think for themselves.
Regurgitating intense garbage that falls apart the moment you analyze it piece by piece

there are claims that he's part of the alphabet community. If that's their leader, good for them

SenecaTheYonger:
You think this is called handling situations? You’re just scared. If you had balls like a man you would have tested your gfs loyalty there by observing how the message will go.

She’s the one who supposed to block him not you. She is the one who is supposed to make that conscious decision to block him, women are not stupid, you know? One of the reasons you blocked him is because sub-consciously, you know there's a possibility, (however slim it is), that she could give into temptation. Because this won’t be the only one to want more than her attention, there will be more. Are you going to become the blocker of men? She should have the foresight to do that. Perhaps she’s keeping a plan B aside, or perhaps she only shows you what she wants you to see.

Anyways, women are not naive, they're not stupid, and they're not innocent.

I had blocked him and deleted his contact from my Google storage in the past, but when I got my new phone, he tried again. I was respectful, then ignored and ghosted until he loses interest which is a method I have used with much success but I immediately told bae and he helped me to block him permanently this time, turns out I put too much info on my Facebook which he helped me rectify.

Votukpa:
Salutations,

The other day, some lady I barely knew, asked me to give her some money. I responded by demanding sex from her in return. She asked why I would do that and so I responded by informing her that I felt objectified by her request. I proceeded to tell her that the way a woman feels when men ogre at her and desire her for sex only, is the same way I feel when women like her look at me and desire me for money only.

Objectified.

Women shame men all the time for not being capable of meeting their needs. Why can't we do the same to them? Having sex with many men destroys a woman's ability to pair-bond with a man to build a family with him. It is therefore essential that a man knows a woman's body count before considering being in a long term relationship with her. Also, did you know that a woman absorbs the semen of a men she's sleeps with so that it becomes part of her DNA? Imagine marrying a woman who has slept raw with more than one man. Scary and disgusting.

If women don't want to be slut shamed, they should discipline themselves not become actual sluts.

Slut shaming is a GOOD thing. It stops sluttery and immorality. Women are the gate keepers of sex and healthy marital relationship. If all women opened their legs to their husbands only, the world would be a much better place and you wouldn't have to write a whole essay, exhorting men out there not to judge and slut shame sluts.

No it doesn't. Prostitution started before slutshaming, it will still be there long after

alphabbey1:
They develop unreserved apology at there 20s stage, at 30, they see reality better and start becoming depressed like a prodigal son.... Joining thread to tension +30 men to date women their age, deep searching for men that will marry second hand engine, panel beaten body....

They claim to be "living their best life" until it's time to marry and they start shouting "the past is the past!"...
If you really lived your best life, why are you ashamed of it ?

They are deceiving themselves. But I don't blame them shaa, Low quality simps will always be available to settle with them after all the whoring. A sensible Alpha male of high value won't settle

the desirability of these so called alpha males is so overrated. The numbers speak for themselves

Acidosis:
Of course, women can do with their body whatever they want but you're not in the right place to tell any man to ignore a woman's past or refuse to ask questions regarding her sexuality.

Going about slut shaming women on the internet is senseless (a responsible adult wouldn't do such) but whatever you decide to ask that one woman or man you want to spend your life with can never be wrong!

True, but the issue is a lot of men cannot handle a woman's sexual past. Only ask if you're really, truly ready to accept the answer. Know thyself.

The part that baffles me is that this body count thing was done with men, after all it's not màsturbation count.

toujurs:
What you don't know is that, most ladies of this our generation are very greedy, you can imagine a lady after being slept with and dumped occasionally by various big boys. On her quest to marry a rich husband, who has the benz and own a house of his, and getting dumped after the numerous abortion pills, then an innocent dude after working so hard to maintain an average life style, settles with that same lady and suffers with her, due to her inability to bear a child, which she won't tell her husband the cause, Oga poster please be calming down, don't pray to suffer the cause of another man.

Oga. The truth is 30% of infertility cases is from the man's side, 30% from the woman's side, 30% from both and 10% unknown.

This rhetoric of too many abortions is overused

cococandy:
You can only back it up with rants from Kevin Samuels. You can’t keep contradicting yourself and say you can back it up. Which part can you back up? The part where women have more access to sex than men? Or the part where only 25% of men are having sex thereby implying that more women are have sex than men? Or the part where women are delusional to think they can have access to multiple men? Even your confusion is confused.

Penis envy. As in I want to live a life where my genitaliaa controls my common sense Like you? Really? Wow you’re dense if you think I’d want to be held hostage by sex and vagina like the lot of you are. Vagina obsessed. If anything I pity you.

Usually when you illogical guys are called out on your xtupid posts that defy common sense, you resort to calling the person emotional because they are a woman.

you know of the 'kitten heels'?!
Lol!!

sirjamesjnr:
Who gives you the right over a female body and her life? If you can't be with her, other men are out there that will love her and treat her right.

lol dear!! I saw what you did there

Rosement:
How can you base your argument on nairaland, nairaland is not Nigeria, the guys on nairaland are not even up to 5% of the guys in Nigeria.

As an assertive person, I understand your point of view, there is no reason for us to argue because we did not grow up in the same environment and we are not living in the same environment, it is possible that in your area, guys cannot wait for up to six months for their ladies.

Thank you for the enlightenment, now I understand that guys in some areas like yours, sleep with their ladies on the first day like you earlier.
Let me also enlighten you, in some areas in Nigeria like my area for instance, guys wait for their ladies and ladies don't just open their legs but they still end up marrying well and they even marry early. They don't wait still 30 years like your friend and some other friends you might have.

If you like your friend, advise her to change her location and also change her friends. So you see, we are both right. We have just learnt something from each other. I will be expecting your thank you.

I wish to pop this bubble paradise you call your area but then, it's easier to watch the world burn.

Nairaland is a good sample population as any. Anonymity gives people the avenue to type what is truly in their minds.

I find your arrogance and self righteousness quite entertaining. You will probably flaunt your virginity on facebook when it is time, just like the other one.

I will let you in on a secret. Virginity can be bought. Nothing special.

What I truly find disgusting is your lack of empathy, but then I expect nothing more from you. If I were a guy and all virgins thought like you, I'd rather marry a non virgin.

Rosement:
What I have been writing might seem like a lecture note to you but it's not.
Nairaland is not a classroom, so I am not here to answer exam questions, I am here to enlighten people like you.

Enlighten people like me?!

Lol!!

zexy2030:
Then you will be too stupid to date a guy not through your pastors. Going behind your religious leaders monitoring it's already a sin against God. I can't meet you one on one not through the church or through your pastor to talk to you that I'm interested and accept to date each other then you are thinking some other shady request wont follow?

Some of you so called virgins still kiss, romance, and et al. Yet think u r clean?

I'm sorry, you are as filthy as those having sex already.

The holy bible or scripture right said don't give an avenue for your body to be tempted.

He asked for a kiss, you gave. You chat dirty, you don't stop him. Now he asks for sex, you are saying No and it's a distance relationship.

I can never trust you, because u r confused immature and never prepared for marrimage.

So called virgins keep making this mistakes to many guys but end up not being married. The guy goes to marry a hoe. Because his virgin girl freind could kiss, romance, breast sucked but won't allow sex, even without blood test, you are already romancing.

Girl, you are the fool.

Never should you emotionally blackmail any guy because of your foolishneas.

If you don't want sex, let your pastor connect you with him and monitor your discussions. Simple.

Finally, someone sees it. It is one thing to cram for exam. It's another thing to understand what you study and apply it.

Rosemont is a naive pickmesha fishing for attention. She/he's pandering big time.

nijaomegacode:
If her character is good she would have marry a virgin. She lacks discipline that's why she opened her legs to men who aren't her husband.

This is a dumb opinion. Not everything is so black and white

All this essay you wrote isn't grounded in today's reality. What you typed may look good on paper, but cannot be applied today. Just shows you are Rusty on the dating market. I have a friend older than me who thinks like you. She is 30years old and is yet to be in a relationship,so it's hard. Ask all these men that are seemingly on your side in this thread if they will stick around and wait for a lady for 6-8 months. Infact go through threads in romance land and you will have your answer.

Rosement:
Let's put religion aside and deliberate on this issue with common sense. If a lady opens her legs for a guy she just met without knowing him properly, he will assume she is cheap and he might even think she has opened her legs to several guys.
When a responsible lady meets a guy, the butterfly in her stomach doesn't just start moving, she waits to study him first because she wants to know what he really wants. Not all guys approach a lady because they want to be committed to her, some just want to have fun with her.

A lot of ladies these days don't understand the essence of love that is why some ladies think they can use pregnancy to tie a guy down. They don't understand that baby cannot bound two people together in a relationship, if it is not love, it is not going to work. I know some marriages that are struggling today due to this. Most of these marriages are very toxic, it is either the husband is cheating on his wife or maltreating his wife.
A lady should not marry a man that doesn't love her or she doesn't love even if she is pregnancy if she really wants the best for herself and her offspring. There are single mothers out there that are happily married today, focus more on your happiness, not on the society.

Some women that are saying men are wicked today, don't even have a justified reason to say it, some of them were desperate, they saw the red flags and ignored it, yet they pin it generally on the guys, guys are this, guys are that but guys are our brothers, our uncles, our fathers, they are our relatives.

Is it also fair for a lady to force herself on a guy knowing very well that he doesn't love her?

If a lady does not want to start saying story story, he broke my heart, it is necessary for her to know the guy's intention before she gives him her heart and If she realise that the guy is only interested in having fun with her, she should not try her luck, she should leave the relationship except she is also interested in only having fun with him.
Guys also get emotional that is why some of them react the way they do when they impregnate a lady they don't love, they try to defend themselves because she is not in their future plans, they were just trying to satisfy their sexual urge. A lot of them believe the lady is trying to ruin their lives, even when it is not her fault because some guys don't believe that condoms and pregnancy pills are not 100% sure. That is why a lady has to be sure that a guy is in love with her before she start having sex with him because pregnancy can come unexpectedly.

A responsible lady who cannot wait till marriage, should wait till at least six months before she gives in to a guy's sexual demand. It is rare to see a guy that will wait this long just to get into a lady's pant, if he doesn't have feelings for her, he would have left the relationship. During this courtship a lady must not be rigid, she must put in her best to make the guy fall deeply in love with her and also look out for redflags.
There is a long distance between love and infatuation.

I just gave you worldly impressions without using Biblical principles and it is still pointing to that direction. I hope you are satisfied with it.

envoymedia:
A Nigerian couple, Louis and Lucy Agada, have welcomed set of quadruplets after eleven years of being childless, IgbereTV reports.

Lucy, who got married to Louis on April 17, 2010, gave birth to the children, two boys and two girls on Wednesday night, October 20, 2021.

Louis Agada's brother, Luke Agada wrote on Facebook;


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=5160439370639977&id=100000218940581

https://igberetvnews.com/1403775/nigerian-woman-gives-birth-quadruplets-11-years-marriage-photos/

congrats on successful IVF

alsudan:
Even if this young man gets a favorable Judgement, we all know the Lagos State Government won’t pay him shishi.

They Government would rather, the court seize properties and allow them rot in the court premises.

Then next year, same properties would be added to the budget at inflated prices and some fellows will cash out.

Naija is terribly sick.

Trust me, they will not pay, lagos state will settle him out of court.they will give him a job and a new car

ethicallyright:
This wouldn't happen if Tiwa Savage didn't divorce the one man who really loved her. There would be no sextape if she remained with the father of her only son who almost ended his life when he realized he wouldn't get the opportunity to be by her side anymore.

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Till the end of time, Queen B (Beyonce) will always be praised. When Jay-Z cheated on her with a woman she's prettier than, Queen Beyonce fought the lady and warned her to stay off her legally married husband.

The weeks that followed Jay-Z's infidelity scandal were terrible. Feminist organizations on Twitter , millions of her female followers on Instagram and those who couldn't preserve their Hollywood marriages unanimously encouraged her to dump Mr. Carter.

Queen Beyonce went underground. The next we saw her was by her husband's side. She'd get pregnant with her twins within few months.

Beyonce is finer and more famous than Tiwa but she understood one thing: Men are biologically polygamous and she remains a happy woman today.

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If Tiwa was with her ex-husband, the broke gold digger, whose second motive in the relationship is to brag that he's the one making Tiwa moan, wouldn't be in the picture.

The duty of mothers is to teach their daughters how to be feminine. Submission is the first characteristic of femininity. No virtuous mother on Earth would advise her daughter to leave a good man whose only weakness is cheating. She'd rather her daughter encourages the man to protect himself to avoid STDs.

May God Almighty bless me with more wisdom and give all the men on this forum rich , strong and independent wives who will forgive their shortcomings.

May the Good Lord also give ladies who will quote me the grace to be submissive wives who will forgive their caring husbands who only cheat.

trash!!

Rosement:
Some ladies use virginity as a strategy especially when they have nothing to bring to the table but they do not understand that virginity will not make a guy fall in love with a lady.
A virgin lady should not even disclose to her guy that she is a virgin until after six months or eight months of their courtship, by then she would have discovered if it is true love or just infatuation.
A virgin lady should set aside her virginity and put in effort to make her guy fall in love with her, at first she should allow him assume she is just a responsible lady who is just taking her time to study him not a virgin. The virginity thing should come to him as a surprise. This way, she would know if he loves her or he just wants to marry a virgin.

story story!

This your advice belongs in the sixties and Is very unrealistic. Is it all these men that ask for sex on the first day that you hide virginity from for 6-8 months ?

Is it everyone's husband that is found being pretentious and self righteous in the church?

sirjamesjnr:
Have you ever gone into a restaurant that looked unappealing from the outside but ended up having delicious food? If so, where and what did you order?

So I visited my friend at Amuwo Odofin and didn't want to disturb him for food after our meeting. Menh I needed to eat good food, I was famished .
When I get to heaven, I will ask Angel why God created the stomach, that body part no Sabi APC government.

There was no good restaurant on my route. Only what Lagosian called buka. Don't get me wrong, it is not a thing of pride but I strongly believe only good restaurants have good food. Secondly, there are lots of stories every day about food poisoning from roadside buka. I am very mindful of what I consume. I love good food
So I ask someone where I can eat good food. Trust Lagosian to give you no specific directions �. Well, I couldn't get a good place so I ended up in one buka.


The place was pretty spartan inside and empty even though it was roughly lunchtime. But the staff was friendly and the food looked interesting.

When my food arrived, I was greeted with a stunning plate, brimming with delicious foods. I can't recall the name of the dish, but I think there was rice and beef,orisilisi, ( I don't know if I got the name right), some fried plantains. It was a hot dish and very tasteful. The price of the food is way below what I expected. I have value for my money.
My perception of buka changed that day. Sometimes good things come from unexpected places.
Share your experience. Have a great day. Hope you enjoy your day.

which buka is this? I want to go. Do they have Amala?

The best bukas don't have big signboard. You will just see big cars parked around.

She's definitely naive and silly. She has not met some mentally unstable guys before.

This is possible after the first couple of dates, not after the first date

Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please

uncle, just miraculously 'lose' your income and see how things go.

Experience285:
A girl of about 14 just entered my room without knocking. I was dressing up, I thought she will say oh sorry
Rather she kept kept and be looking. I said are u not afraid? She replied how can I be afraid of that pencil. Up till now am still dumbfounded

The same things giving teenage boys liver, Media exposure and raging hormones.

That teenagers are experiencing changes in their bodies,comes along with curiosity about the opposite sex. The fact that they are not adults means that adults have to be responsible and tactical in dealing with teenagers, remembering that teenagers may act , look or talk mature, but they aren't.

We as adults have to be responsible, not to abuse our authority and position of power to take care of them. It's what separates the responsible man/ woman on the street from the pedophiles and R kelly's