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emmanuelbrown26:
I have never had anything to prove to any female gender neither will I have something to prove.
It's only online I give female gender attention.offline I'm just me and my homies

HOMO!!

emmanuelbrown26:
Who's talking about deceit here? God did not marry nor whad any girl friend, his only son did not marry nor any girl friend, then their rivalry being the Satan did not marry nor any girl friend and they are or were all fine and did their things well.
The world would have being a better place if not women that brought the calamity and all thanks to the chief SIMPSON ADAM

your resort to blaming and gaslighting when you run out of excuses, just like ADAM did.

Favfables1:
So the so called "simps* don't have all the stuff you mentioned in there??

Kikikikikiki

the simps would have settled down in marital bliss already

Kikimart:
This is certainly for men with one wife not hose with wives and children scattered over the world not minding if they are taken care of or not.
Wives treat your husbands well, Husbands treat your wives well and Mother-Inlaws, don't be wicked to your son's wives, allow peace to reign.
Las las we all will be fine

those ones will die lonely and alone

Or11:
What kinda feminist post is this. Couples should be kind to each other. Marriage isn't a one way traffic

the op knows why he's saying this.

Ask any hospital staff, they'll tell you that a number of older men are more likely to die alone, miserable, some with regrets and many with a wife and children who abandoned them or who they treated poorly in their youth. The reverse is the case for older women. They are always surrounded,if not by husband, it will be children and siblings.

Cherish the wife of your youth. You won't hear.

I created this acct today for single ladies to learn from my mistakes..

I finished from school some years back, after my final exams I decided to stay back because I was into little business, I sell ladies wears and bags.

On Thursday evening I was outside my hostel when guy pass we exchanged greetings, I fell for him I can't explain why ( I was single) the next evening he saw me we had a little chats, we exchanged numbers.

We became friends, after two weeks the feelings started growing and I fell in love with him( I wanted a serious relationship) I went to his house with my friend spent few minutes and left..the next day my friend had a guest so I decided to go to his place, I pleaded with him that I don't want any sexual itimacy he aggreed, around 5am he started touching me one thing led to the other..after two months I find out he has a gf, before then I dreamt about him it made me feel for him more deeply.

I was very down and I decided to move on I went to bear parlor I drank to stupor some people help me home..the next day he called, he started saying the lady is a cheat, we move on..after some months I relocated to another state I was hunting for job, I travelled to lagos, he calls me every day, we chat the love grows more, he was very broke, I sent him money, after some months I left lagos, on my back a man told me to avoid any relationship at the moment, wish I heed to his advice..

I went directly to his place, he was down, he den open up to me that he's in interested fraud( yahoo) and nothing is dropping, he told me he came to ilorin but he was asked to bring human parts but he can't, and his neighbor is cashing out, I told him I'll help because I really love him I spoke with my neighbor if she know any juju man that's very good, she introduced me to a man. I had close to 100k in my account, we both went to the man I did a lot of prayers, ate different types of things we spend more than 50k after some weeks nothing is dropping, and I'm feeding him, my account is red already, he spoke with his friend, his friend introduced him to another juju man den we are out of cash already.

He told me that he want to go home to hustle up, after some weeks he started posting the other girl pic I was very down after everything I did for him, I moved on but it was too late, I was pregnant my initial plan was to abort it when someone who doesn't even me told me she saw me in hospital in her dream

I insisted on aborting but every means I tried wasn't working until I was told not to abort the child.

give birth and dump it at his doorstep. Hope you learn from your mistakes

emmanuelbrown26:
Aunty preacher, see how u analyzed everything as if its only men that suffer the listed ailments. Women are prone to those ailments more than men. So say another thing jare

At least we don't deceive ourselves the way you men do. You guys think you are God's gift to women since sliced bread.

slimjohn2k5:
because u not get money or she get money pass you

Gbam!!

Technically, the BBL is his fault and a side effect of his infidelity. He should take it like that.

I'm not a fan of unmarried women with no children going for a BBL. E get why!!

This is so somehow.

Plotting to rape a fellow woman.

May justice prevail

Nonexisting:
Which money and which power? You really believe that nonsense? The simp never jam anything. One day he will be simping and mess with a soldier or wife of a soldier. When I said soldier, I don't mean senior officers wey get sense. I mean corporal who ogas at the top dey fucck his wife and who dem never pay salary. By the time he use am vent out his frustrations, the simping spirit will leave him.

You call defending your woman simping?!

I think you are the spineless one

❤️

sirjamesjnr:
Speaking from experience, whether as a child or an adult, all bullies are the same: arrogant, cold-hearted, selfish, and downright mean-spirited. They don’t think twice about backstabbing you and double-crossing you when:1) they haven't gotten their own way; and/or 2) they intend to sabotage you/your reputation. They are nasty, insecure, and attention-craving babies. I've learned not to get all twisted up by their antics. Yes, it's really, really hard, but why stoop to their level? Well, sometimes you have to put a bully where he/she belong.


So my girl beckons on me to take her to the trade fair. we needed to spend a few hours there because I have other engagements. please guys never fellow a girl to market/ shopping mall etc unless you have nothing doing at that moment or you want to make her happy. It doesn't always end well. She will remember everything she needs... I can give you the amount you need but leading you to the market is one hell of a task, I don't have that patience. Also, I don't like bodies contact. I prefer Mall to market.No offense, please, just my kind of person


She shops for herself and her siblings. Then it was time to shop for her co-staffs( she promise them some gifts). We went to a stand and there were a lot of people. Please note we were there before and the salespersons told us we wouldn't be needing a number so we went shopping for other things and we return to the stand. I have to keep a distance and allow my girl to do the shopping.


She approaches the manager so as to get her tally but ladies in the roll won't hear from her or allow her to talk with the man. Two of the ladies then drag her out of the line. I have to talk to her to keep her cool. I was boiling when I saw what they did to her. I went to the manager, after a bit of intro. He gave me a tally to give to her. These ladies didn't let it slide, they vow my lady can't buy anything there until they are done with theirs. The Policeman talk to them and they were willing to allow her but I won't let it go away.


I went to the head of security requested to speak with the person in charge. I met some CTU guys and some Police. I make a complaint, then I told them I need them to tell me the nearest police station because I need to teach someone how to be civilized. Two policewomen followed me to order the lady to their post.

When she was brought in, I noticed she is pregnant, the demon in me weak. I told those policemen that she should say sorry to my girl and walk away and I won't do anything to her due to her condition.
She and her friends vow not to say sorry that she is a graduate like my babe. I make a phone call because I wanted to take them out of that area, they are cells for pregnant women lol. When the CTU guys heard my phone conversation one whisper to her. I saw her melt and tell my girl SORRY.

I told my friend over the phone that the case has been handled. I let her walk away because I have weaknesses for pregnant women, kids, and elderly people. I consider them WEAK. If it were to be a guy as in man to man( aren't getting any time with a lady), I will have taught him how to treat a lady in a civilized way.
I dislike bullies. How did you handle someone who bully the one you love?

Kobojunkie:
In that case, i suggest you pay attention since I already ironed that linen out in my initial post...

There are career men and women who work from home handling pretty much similar workload as house wife use to, this in addition to their career work load out there.

I recently visited a lawyer who runs her business from her home. She is able to deal with 3 children under age 8 and still attend to her clients and children's daily activities at that.

So, unless the housewife homeschools all her kids, I don't see how anyone can clearly say that housewives work more than career women, particularly in the world of today.

If what you are looking for is a pat on the back, you won't get it from me.

you are incorrigible. Housewives work more than career women. That's why career women would not be housewives.

Kobojunkie:
So Single mothers and fathers around the world over who handle all those things on her own and more are what?

we are talking about stay at home mothers,not single parents. Please stay on topic

Pat081:
I put it inside food and take it with water and after two seconds beer

pills with alcohol is not advisable

I'm a no 3 with soft drinks if it's flagyl or co- artem (that reminds me of mosquito coil)or any very bitter drug in general.

If it's a tasteless pill like my allergy meds or capsules I just swallow it without water.i.e no 4

No 3 is very important, especially for children who parents assume are vomiting not knowing it's because of the bitterness of the anti malaria drug.

Kobojunkie:
By outsource, you mean hire a maid to do the job instead? Why have wife then?

Please reread the previous comment which you pretended to respond to so as to better understand what the discussion is about.

not just a maid, a surrogate, then a babysitter, also a driver, and someone to run errands, a counselor too.

Grandmeister:
Look well! She actually highlighted her faults but was too dimwitted to even realise it! And the ladies commenting here didn't even pick it up(which isn't surprising).
1. She said she lost jobs on multiple occasions but didn say why....because she couldn't find anyone else but herself to blame.
2. She said her husband have her 25% of the money she used in purchasing the washing machine and she still didn't do his laundry.
3. She blamed her husband for not wanting a house help in his home.
4. A house wife (which is an honorable position) complaining of doing school runs for HER offsprings.

you don't want to understand and lack empathy, so there's no point with you

Konquest:
@Klass99
I'm gonna differ with you here 'cause you're speaking in absolute terms.

Men also experience body changes
as we grow older, just like women
because of hormonal changes and
pressures of daily living. But these are minor situations if you're a fitness and health buff regardless of the gender.

Second, there's nothing wrong
with a woman having up to 4 to 5 children as long as ladies are in
tune with the current trends in
post-pregnancy weight loss and
body firming. There are many
women who have experienced
multiple births (i.e., due to giving
birth to triplets or quintuplets)
and they still look red-hot!

Don't make it look like men cannot stand by their women who have up to 5 children just because you saw 300+ likes on an NL post. Some of those likes definitely came from mainly younger folks who have NOT yet developed their power of imagination and critical thinking which lead to creative solutions in the real world.

Ciao.


P.S. Klass99, give me the link
to the NL post of the dude who
you say had 367 like. I'd like to
evaluate what the dude posted.

@ bolded, those women are the outliers, they're the exception, not the rule.

Kobojunkie:
There are career men and women who work from home handling pretty much similar workload as house wife use to, this in addition to their career work load out there.

I recently visited a lawyer who runs her business from her home. She is able to deal with 3 children under age 8 and still attend to her clients and children's daily activities at that.

So, unless the housewife homeschools all her kids, I don't see how anyone can clearly say that housewives work more than career women, particularly in the world of today.

outsource the work of a housewife and find out

Welcome to reality sir, I wish you success in your wishes and enlightenment in your new outlook on life.

The redpill is a poisonous movement that exploits the weaknesses and vulnerabilities of men

Chevrolet076:
What changed ma'am? Did you change organization?

Not necessarily. Watching nigerians die for preventable causes, make choices that keep them poor and sick and expect sympathy from me.

Patients acting entitled to my niceness and kindness so I act blunt, tolerate no BS and give them good treatment so that they know that I'm competent but will tolerate no nonsense behavior.

Look at what happened on Monday, a patient I have never seen before came in high and manic, asking me to borrow him 100k then started weeping, saying that the other doctor would have given him when I asked him what he was using the money for. I had to put a distress call for my boss.

Chevrolet076:
Is this how most Dr. In public hospitals feel or it's due to your own area?

I can speak for most of us. We feel this way.

Rinahskitchen:
Hello guys I’m a new member here. I tried to post in some other sections (most especially food section) but, was denied access.
Please check my siggy and patronize me.

What am I to expect here?

Don’t forget to welcome me o

welcome to Nairaland. Shine ya eye and have fun

Damilolly:
Ladies, date widely, very widely with respect to race!

Withhold physical intimacy until you have what you want; if it's marriage then wait till then. Don't give marriage benefits outside of marriage. No cooking for him either. If he can't happily date you without physical intimacy or you feeding him then he's not likely to be loving, thoughtful and kind towards you in marriage.

Let the best man win. Don't narrow your pool to your tribe or race. The average Nij man in the diaspora is open not only to his tribe in his preferred age range but he's open to women of his race and then even women of all other races add on top of that women back home including some they couldn't step to prior to emigrating.

Is it then wise that when in a country where your tribes men are .025% of the population and this same tribes men have widened their pool to 100% of women in the country, add on top women they could and couldn't step to prior to emigrating ), you limit yourself to that? You need to widen your pool to men of every race then have a strict criteria to help sieve them. This is the best formula for a happy stable marriage.

Caucasian men are generally more loving, kind, loyal, faithful and romantic. More so as you're an immigrant having a man who is from the country you've settled is a plus. Less strain on the relationship and more time to focus and enjoy all that's around you. Better opportunities for your children; who are most likely not planning to emigrate to Nij yet your Nij husband is building homes in Nij. For who

You actually have an edge over most wives as an African wife. You're much more family oriented and loyal. Asian men have begun to notice this too. Asian women are now marrying oyinbo men and the men can't believe their luck! The Asian or Black woman wants to build relationships with the husband's family who don't even require her to come to theirs to clean or cook ie display her wifely material etc. She cooks and is a home maker.

Be open to new interests, hiking, theatre, cycling, swimming, gardening, jogging, bird watching, camping etc. Everything is online these days. Put up a nice, simple decent profile. Clear photos and your interests in your bio. If no interests you have to begin to build hobbies. Please stop limiting your dating pool and totally avoid going back to Nigeria to find a spouse. It usually does not work well for a loving happy marriage. Most Nij men are uncomfortable with the dynamic and are either distracted showing those back home how well they're doing or annoyed that no one is deferring to them and sucking up to them in their immediate environment even as they're earning more than they used to. God speed!

tell it sis. Look at how these frustrated men are masturbating on a thread at the thought of a woman being lonely.

peacettw:
Fortunately, telemedicine has come to stay. If he can get his problems solved here on this platform, that a big step

telemedicine should not be free of charge, or is medical school now that cheap?

Aaronsrod:
Disorganisation is our downfall every time.

I invited my wife to join me. No sooner had she entered Dublin than she transformed to a demonic disobedient entity. Truly, I did not spare the rod. Oyinbo neighbour complained. Police wahala. So I made sure that daughter of the Devil left the planet. It is the only way. Just be careful to work alone. Tell nobody - especially other Nigerians. Dig deep and bury them well well.

I will share more advice after I have finished my evening meal prepared by my new woman.

It is fried onion rings, bacon and chips.

Her name is Brenda.

you killed her?!

slimjohn2k5:
But is it OK to get back at your man because you are now in a country that protect women? Why not give him another chance

if he could not repent in nigeria he won't repent abroad

byrron:
I can't stop laughing

All I can say is this, you're a dog-racist abi dog-tribalist and a dog-supremacist.

How dare you discriminate against an innocent ekuke that was only rendering a dogtarian service's?

So, this is how you show appreciation to a 404 that had to cancel other appointments and spend the entire night rendering services to your lonely and honey dog that needed companionship?

This lack of appreciation is very troubling.

this is like a broke ass, Nairaland redpill,alfa male trying to toast DJ cuppy.

peacettw:
Looks like impetigo of the non-bullous variant. Any fluid in the 'spot'? If so, it is essily treatable

let him take her to a hospital. Let's stop diagnosing online upandan