aktolly54: its called respect, they have been dating before olamide blow. So its normal to respect such a woman who stood by you when you have nothing. You can still fuxk outside but never bring hoe come meet such woman for house as second wife
Jozilinn: Thank God your daughter can speak up don't mind what your husband or anybody else will say cos if you don't act well, that girl would certainly move on to someone else... how can a four year old form that trash up, like seriously are they mad,If pikin dey your back you know your pikin but if e no dey no dey support an for everything no matter what try to find out for the benefit of that child.
Your daughter is saying the truth cos she's always repeating it on and on...Now like this your children in this family go dey get attitude from family members,if no be say no where is safe I would have asked you to leave the marriage...cos right now eh if anything happens to your husband God forbid They will ridicule you to the core,I can feel your pains oh madam abeg seek the face of God...but get your family involved too so we go know whatsup.
Oga calm down, see the way you are saying it, like it is that easy, that she should leave the marriage.
Karen2024: Two days before Christmas I called my bf and demanded he give me money to make hair for Christmas, he sent me 20k.
On new year's eve I called him and after exchange of pleasantries I asked what he's preparing for me as I would be coming over on the 1st, he angrily responded that he's preparing shits for me and he went further to call me a 'gold digger.'
Since then he has not been picking my calls neither did he reply my text messages. Should I keep trying or I should move on?
He is not your boyfriend, just move on and stop falling hand.
Afodot0022: Happy new year nairalanders. This year is favor for us all. I need advice o my people especially from people that have been in the same scenario before.
I am having an issue in my marriage which is taking my peace this moment. My wife got a job at the correctional services of Nigeria which is formally know as prison service as a warder like 2 years now.
At first i never wanted her to do the job cos i knew the job will be demanding and will cause friction at home but i decided to let her go for it just to keep her busy and also to get small support from her cos it's not easy for me shouldering all expenses.
After she got the job, I noticed my wife changed in character and attitude and also in integrity, example like lieing and also having an I don't care attitude which she doesn't do when she was not working. Well I thought maybe the little exposure she start having and people she is minggling with are those influencing her. I never take consideration of it. The job is so demanding that she works on shift, at tmes afternoon and night shift and this has caused alot of issues but I decided to be an understanding husband and ignore, I supported her in chores of the house and also take care of our two kids when she is gone for work.
My mom also stays with us making it easier for me to navigate and take care of the home while she is away at work. It happened that we had serious issue of infidelity from her last year that i saw her chatting with one of her old friend and notice they were having an emotional affair. I was angry when I found out and sent her parking from the room we share together.
Honestly my intention was to send her away from the house cos I was furious and disappointed that despite all I have been doing for the family and also for her, she could pay me back in such manner, but because of pleading from my mom, I decided to let her move her stuff to the sitting room and we stop staying in the same room cos i needed space and also to heal from the heartbreak and disappointment.
During those time for like 4 months we had serious issue and living apart and doing things separately, but still in the same flat, I only give her money for my kids feeding and also pay their school fee cos have already made up my mind to move on.
During those period she went ahead to rent an apartment in the barracks where she works and never informed me. It was after she had paid for the apartment she told me and informed she will be leaving to her work station and reason is for her to reduce stress and also expenses.
When she got the job then, it was so stressful for her cos the distance to kirikiri to where we stay is very far and also she spend all her salary on transport, attimes she uses the house upkeep money I gave for tfare when she is stranded. She doesn't have time for me nor the kids cos she will be so exhausted when she returns back from work.
So when we had misunderstanding, I think she saw it as an opportunity to move to barracks and also to reduce her stress and also expenses. But what annoyed me is she never carried me along when she was processing the apartment.
Now the misunderstanding has been settled by both family and have decided to forgive her and give her a second chance cos this was her first time misbehaving. She has always been a good wife from the start but don't know why she turned this way of late. Now the issue is that, i don't know what to do, initially i told her to resign the government job which she accepted to resign, irrespective of her not having any new job or business to fall back on if she resign. She will be at home idle and dependant on me. Not that this govt job she is doing is helping financially at home cos she entered the institution with SSCE cert and poorly paid that bfore the month end she is broke and spend all on tfare, but because its a govt job and also she can grow in it and also become big in it in future, I decided to let her continue the job but she still wants to go to the apartment that she rented cos it has start reading.
What she suggested is she coming home every weekend to attend to the kids and return back afterwards. While she is gone back, it will be my mom and myself that take care of the kids of 5 and 6 years and my mom is old and don't have strength for such stress. I don't think that will be easy for me as man cos I also work as well and don't have that much time.
My decision now is for her to take the kids with her to the barracks to stay with her and will also change their school, i will be going there when i have the time to check on them. I can't change our present location now cos the place is closer to my own work and the apartment is almost rent free reason why i decided to stay put cos its not easy with rent in Lagos.
The problem now is that if i allow them to go, at anytime, they might sent my wife to enugu for 6 month to do her mandatory course and there will be no choice, the kids will be back to me and will also start changing school again which is not good for the kids. The job has been like a curse to the family rather than a blessing.
Should my wife resign the job and get another job closer to home so she can have time for her family or i should let her go to the barracks alone or with my kids and will be visiting them once in a while even though i as a man i have needs aswell and dont know how that needs will be meant when she leaves. I am just in a dilemma now and need an advice expecially from married couples and those that have experience such or couples that live apart due to work or something else. Pls pardon my typo errors.
I will appreciate frontage from the mod for more inputs.
My guy, let her stop that job, since it brings nothing on the table.
Open up a business around your area, where she can monitor the children.
I know kirikiri like the back of my palm, the only advice i will tell you is; do not allow your kids to grow around that kirikiri, because you won't like the out come.
chatinent: Bro, grow the ₦10m, in few years, it'll be over ₦50m.
₦10m relocating will end up looking like you just changed environment to start afresh.
Invest the money in Nigeria.
But is it just me? Even before saving money for it to reach ₦1m, ₦2m...₦10m, ₦20m...bro, the plan of what to do with it was already growing as the money was increasing na. I don't need to ask what to do...it's pre-planned.
expressglory: If you are single no matter your academic discipline...I can get u a Health Care Assistant JOB in UK..with just 6-7million. If you are not a graduate u will need to do IELTS EXAM. In two months you will be in UK. If that's what u like... message me on WhatsApp...zero eighth zero three three829376
N4.3m will arrange everything for you.
There is a health care certified center in V.I, the course is 300k for 3 months.
Their certificate can cover you anywhere in the world and after the course, they can procure a job with 3 months accommodation for N4.3m.
casualobserver: If you have 10m Naira you have no business leaving Nigeria. Edit: at least not for economic reasons. If you cannot find a business to turnaround and compound that capital, then your problem is not Nigeria but you.
If you can find a business that can generate 10% a month, in 12 months you will have 30m, in 2 years, N100m and in 3 years, N300m. You will never achieve that kind of success abroad.
No business will generate you 10% of your capital within a month, unless you want to venture into shady business.
Jeweltz: This guy has been all about virginity and virginity since we start talking. This is a guy that might've had uncountable sex with all sort of women in America o. Now he comes and he said he love his wife a Virgin. I only ever had about two sexual experience with men . Never seen a grown man obsessed about virginity like that
You sef, why you go go disvirgin naaaa.
Just kidding, but i will advise you call him today and reveal the truth now that the relationship hasn't gone deep.
If he will stay, let him stay, rather than wasting your precious time with him.
Favour315: The common Oha/ora soup everyone knows is prepared using cocoyam paste or achi. Many people are still missing out on this particular method of cooking Ogbono Soup With Oha Leaves. That is why I have put up this video just so you know that there are still other ways of cooking Ogbono or oha. Meanwhile I used freshly plucked Oha �. From the tree straight to the pot
Alusiizizi: You and your stupid chairman can continue formulating "big man". The truth remains that your chairman is a fool and as you seem to have been enslaved by a fool that makes you completely worthless.
Blessedmercy8: . I like this small better because it too make sense but it's too pricy.
Ice cream are for little children, because their body metabolism is very strong and can dissolve high intake of sugar and will be excreted out of the body.
When an adult takes much sugary substance, some will be dissolved, while some will be stored in the body, particularly in the waist and later converted into fat in the body.
Na why as an adult, you have to reduce your intake of sugar.
VawulenceProMax: To be rich in naija is a curse . Imagine , everyone wants me to give him or her something. All my friends want Christmas and new year gifts even when I clearly tell them I am not a Christian and I don't celebrate new year. I have been giving out money to a point nauseating point. Even people I don't know beg me for cash. Now I know why otedola And co choose to live in banana island. Poor people are cancer
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So because of iTunes gift card you just collect, person no go hear word again, na wa ooO.
Blessedmercy8: So... I was bored after service and took a stroll to an eatery a bit far from my area. I was craving for this eatery's particular dish, special jollof and Fried rice but when I got there, they didn't have the special jollof. So I settled for rich jollof and special fried rice. Later stepped it down with a tiny cup of ice cream ( remember, I'm on a budget.). Last week ( Christmas day) I got. a bigger bowl of ice cream for 1400 though this one here is tastier.
[quote author=QuinModah post=119591807][/quote]It is better she stays in the north, because accommodation, transport fair, food price is on the high side, coupled with the stress involved.
Alusiizizi: Dollars kwa? Naira. Two thousand Naira only. If you feel generous then perhaps you can buy her a bottle of malt for her trouble.
Na inside Quilox you want buy malt?
Oga runs girls there charges from 100k a night.
And the 100k depends on your negotiation power, probably after you've flex her.
One of my chairman spends N1m-N3m a night, depending on the personality involved, most of the beautiful girls you see in movies, bb9ja and beauty queens around Nigeria.
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. I like this small better because it too make sense but it's too pricy.