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Loan some group of individuals will pocket and put the country in debt

NwekeUG:
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Chai..... And he is from my village

chilet4cici:
Oga stop limiting yourself to being a tailor... yomi casual is a tailor too but packaging made him who he is today

AY made him who he is today

Wow...Sweep off

OBelz:
This happened sometime around 2019

I had a friend, David was his name, he's an addict, a drug addict he smokes and drinks a lot too big time. We weren't that close tho but we talk once in a while.

There's this girl David likes (Vanessa) he's been asking her out severally but her answer was always no, she can't date an addict. So David decided to try and get himself clean, he started seeing a counselor and a doctor, fast forward to a month time he got clean. Then he went back to Vanessa and told her everything he did so he could get clean and all, then she decided to date him and promised to help make sure he stayed clean. It was really hard for David but he did it cause he loved Vanessa a lot,they dated for months and David remained clean 6 months straight he doesn't smoke, nor drink or do drugs again.

Then this happened, David got invited to a house Christmas party by his friend organized by another friend,Vanessa earlier told him she wouldn't be in town that she was going over to her Parent's in Lagos for Christmas and she never left but David didn't know. David got to the party he asked for a few drinks he took them and wanted to use the restroom upstairs, he told his friend he was coming that he had to use the restroom upstairs. When he got upstairs he heard some people playing music loudly and there were noises in a room. He decided to check and see who they were, as he opened the door the first person he saw was Vanessa with a blunt in her hand, He also saw drugs on the table, he said they were so drunk that they didn't even notice someone opened the door, he got heartbroken instantly he didn't say anything, he couldn't even use the restroom again he rushed downstairs took his car keys and drove off

Now before I continue the story and tell you how it ended I have some questions to ask.

1. Is there any justification for what Vanessa did, making the guy stop smoking and drinking when she was an addict herself?

2. Do you think it was right for David to change for Vanessa?

3. What do you think David should do?
should he break up or just continue with the relationship

With this fiction,i will say David is a mumu boy to have changed his actions because of a girl

Filomena:
there's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us.we have gradually become friends. i find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me,I hide my face.ive also observed that he stares at me alot too and smiles and then says hey to me.we had a small talk in school too.
I didnt know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read,I saw him,like I couldn't believe it because I was hoping to see him again because I tot I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike,till it was called off.so I was really shocked and happy when I saw him,then he hugged me and hugged him too and held him tight.
so he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes,he told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him.i felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more.so he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day,I told him and he said okay..and told me good night.he didnt even ask for my phone number.i wonder why he didnt.
the other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that,so after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasnt really in the mood for that but I still stared back,he then told me hey and passed,he was with his friend and i greeted him too and passed.
so the last day i saw him,I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled.lo and behold,I saw coming towards me with some of his friends.he then hugged me and we had a small chat.i was still hoping that he'd collect my number,still he didnt..
I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not.
since he's yet to ask for my number..
please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.
thanks.

Try and get him some hints,like green light

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

julietsim you are crazy oooOh,what most woman pray for and you are here complaining

kudos to her

Hope he didn't throw a party

creolehunt:
I just thought about the girls I've been with and noticed a certain trend. This isn't even about the girls themselves who are excellent human beings, but their families.

First girl I dated revealed to me that the dad died of suspected poisoning and her family were chased out of the family house. Her eldest brother is an area boy while it seems things aren't working out for her other siblings.

The next ones dad was late too, one of her sisters is separated from her husband while the first son of nearly 40 has nothing doing.

The other ones history is that her dad is late too. The eldest sister is cohabiting with a man. They have 2 kids already without being married. Her other sisters bride price was just paid after having 3 kids with a man.

For the other one, her dad is late too, died quite early. The eldest sister is in her 30s and unmarried. Her other sister has 3kids for a man who she isn't married to and now they are separated. Things aren't just working for her people.

The one I just met recently told me her parents are late. Lost both of them to suspected poisoning within the space of one year.

I keep wondering if this is some sort of coincidence.

Your destiny is trying to locate you

Redistributing the money he stole from them

opebiboy:
Hushpuppi is a mental patient. He never bought any rolls royce. Stop giving this lunatic attention

How is he a mental patient

ikemesit4477:
Fake! Though the same scenario actually happened in Lagos 3years ago, where the husband was accusing the wife of moaning and twisting her waist in excitement while been rape by the armed robber!

Where did it happen

Aerial views make environment look cool,but when you get close to that particular object,it becomes different

Chai

Can you imagine this fool of a governor

I can't forget the beating i got from my late father,which i believe it helped shaped my life

There is no way he can ban them for life,since the office of the governor isn't a family business...When his time is due,he will vacate the seat

menabae:
whatever it is pls say it here

Never mind

With the current situation on ground,i pray he doesn't commit suicide

menabae:
don't tell me u wanna meet them purposely for wealth and fame, mermaid choose who they meet, not u meeting them, they appear to those they like only

Menabae i never said so... Abeg how can i contact you

menabae:
why do u wanna meet them

Can i contact you?.... Even if you don't want to give me the number,you can put yours in private mode?

Giwoni:
My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks

It might even shock you to know that she never had any discussions with her mother

Richard Quest the gay man

Now it is increasing,will government extend the holiday

menabae:
kai oga, I'm tired of Answering questions regarding this topic, all I will tell u that they are real. Shikenan

I believe you,but can i meet any of them in person

Crude oil will become as useless as condemned oil by end of 2020

I think they should treat every single Nigerian with same liberty,irrespective of your status in the society and stop giving these cock and bull story of not inviting anyone and couldn't drive them away either...

Where are they evacuating them to

The rhythm is one of death

History555:
I need candid advise pls no insults. I got married 2years ago, of recent i noticed my wife has been spending so much time online. Not that its unusual to me because i know shes kind of addicted to her phone.
But suspicion made me pick the phone on several occasions but it was paasworded. Finally i was able to discover the password after many trials and to my surprise she has been chatting steadily, morning and night with this guy.
Not only that the guy calls her sweet names and she responds. Even to the extent of telling her he wished they were married. Her response showed she was receptive to the idea. Then she asked him why he did not make a move since and he blamed his financial status.
In summary i hve seen enough, though i hve neva confronted her. My plan is to inform my people b4 calling the marriage off.

Brother these are the trying times we've heard about in marriages,if if you chase her away and marry another,she would still do the same....I advise you use wisdom and maturity to handle the situation,by showing her affection,through attention.

VivleBriella:
Good day everyone

I've been a guest for a couple of years now, created an account to seek advice

My dear nairalanders, does it always end well marrying the Breadwinner of a family? He's the last born with 4 elder siblings but they all depend on him.

Yes, I knew he was the Breadwinner from day one but I thought with time, everyone else will be able to stand on their own, but it hasn't happened yet, we've dated for 3yrs now and he doesn't support me financially. I don't complain but he feels entitled to my money and when I get tired of him always asking me to lend him some money and decide to say no, he nags and tells me I'm not being supportive enough.

This is driving me really crazy cause he reminded me of how unsupportive I've been to him and his family, he's driving me insane, you can't possibly put the responsibility of your family on my shoulders, that's crazy and insensitive, over the years, I've borrowed him nothing less than 500k which I know for sure he's never giving back.

Is it normal to be in a parasitic relationship whereby the female remains the host that's being fed on?

I'm only 24 while he's 31.

If you get married to him,his siblings will be against you in due time,because there will be more financial obligations for both of you if the children starts coming and he would stop assisting them....And you already know the rest