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tctrills:
While some Christians believe that Christ is coming to earth again to reign, others believe that he would rapture the righteous to heaven and leave the wicked on earth. What does the bible say about both. Please use the scriptures.

First there will be a falling away, a perversion and the son of perdition, the anti Christ, will be revealed (2 Thess 2:3).

Second, the anti Christ will make peace, fix global problems and bring prosperity to the world for three and half years (Daniel 12:7).

Third, in the next three and half years, the son of perdition will declare himself God (2 Thess 2:4), merge all governments in the world into ten governments ruled by ten of his appointees (Revelations 13: 1), seize control of the global economy in communist dictatorial style and entrench a level of surveillance/tracking the world has ever seen (Revelations 13: 16-17).

Fourth, all those who refuse to comply with global laws and refuse to get registered under the global identification system will be denied all basic amenities, be imprisoned and slaughtered in droves (Revelations 6:11, Revelations 13:17). During this period the 2 witnesses of God, who are already among us as I type, will be revealed to prophesy to a generation killing Christians and all dissidents (Revelations 11:3).

Fifth, the bloodshed will reach a tipping point at the end of the anti Christ's seven year reign. At this point most of the Christians who refuse the global identification scheme would have been slaughtered, few will be in hiding and a good number of so called Christians will yield to the anti Christ at the first taste of torture. Nevertheless Christ will never allow anyone be tested beyond their capacity and to do this Christ will call home those who stand firm despite the measure of torture they've received (Matthew 24:22)

Sixth, when all hope seems lost and when all true Christians are either taken or in hiding then shall the whole world see the "sign of the coming of the Son of man in the clouds" to resurrect His elect from the dead, resurrect the 2 witnesses after they have been dead for 2 days and the catch-up those that are alive, but are in hiding, to meet Him in the clouds (Matthew 24:29-30, 1 Thess 4:16-17) . You may not know the hour, you may not know the day but you can tell the period if you a Christian who is not asleep (1 Thess 5:1-7). There will be a sign. Heralded by the seventh trumpet. If you witness the death of the 2 witnesses know that the rapture is a few hours away.

Seventh, when they shall say peace and safety then shall sudden destruction come upon them (1 Thess 5: 3). With the elect gone and the 2 witnesses gone...then shall the vials of God's wrath be unleashed on the earth and its inhabitants. (Revelations 15:6-8, Revelations 16).

Eight, the devil and his anti Christ will be assembled to Armageddon to battle with the LORD of Hosts (Revelations 16:16) but the LORD of Hosts will crush them all and cast the beast and the false prophet into the lake of fire (Revelations 19:21).

Ninth, the LORD will send an angel to bind satan for a thousand years in the bottomless pit (Revelations 20:1-3). The saints will rule the earth with the LORD of Hosts for a thousand years (Revelations 20:4).

Tenth, after the millennial reign satan will be released to deceive the inhabitants of the earth again. satan will deceive some and rally them against the beloved city of the LORD but the LORD shall devour his army again (Revelations 20:7-9).

Eleventh, satan will be cast into the lake of fire (Revelations 20:10).

Twelfth, all souls will be judged by the LORD Jesus Christ. Some unto rewards others unto damnation (Revelation 20: 11-15).

Ken4Christ:
I know the heading will surprise most people but it's the truth. Christianity in itself is not a religion but people have made religion out of it.

Christiani is a living relationship with God the Father through our Lord Jesus.

So, you are not a Christian because you are a member of one denomination or the other.

For you to be a Christian, you must be born again or saved. And salvation is a free gift you get by accepting Jesus into your life and Saviour.

According to Romans 10:9-10, it involves two steps,

1. Believe in your heart that Jesus died for your sins.
2. Confess with your mouth that he is your Lord and Saviour.

And you will be saved.

You can be a member of a local church and not a member of the body of Christ written in heaven.

So, don't think you will make heaven because you belong to a local church.

You must be born again.

Do it now before you surprisingly see yourself in hell after you have left this earth.

Can you and others like you even agree on what it means to be "born again"? Many throw that word around flippantly without caring if others understand it...in my opinion, instead of fear mongering others, a better strategy is to intercede for them that God leads them to the light of truth. It was the intercession and prayers of others that brought the gospel to you...do the same for others!

cococandy:
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It’s actually spread by contact. Anyone can get it by close contact. So even if you’re straight and someone has it, you can catch it by contact.
Don’t want you people to relax and not take precautions thinking that being straight gives immunity to it. You can literally get it from touching their clothes. Please be careful and stay safe out there.

Yes of course sex is one of the closest forms of physical contacts there are. So if one gay person has it, then can give it to their gay partner. But guess what? So can straight people. So be safe y’all
https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/monkeypox/if-sick/transmission.html

The same CDC spouting a lot of crap during the COVID scamdemic? Masks don't work, later masks work, again no masks work except N95 masks...vaccines are 100% effective then ohh sorry it is 95% effective then oh so sorry it is 70% effective then oh crap it is not effective you need a booster and after 3 boosters the vaccinated are still getting sick. If this disease spreads by contact by now it would have been all over the world and there would be another lockdown instead it is more prevalent among homosexuals...can you explain that regularity?

flakkylegend:
Hi all I have noticed that so many people like to buy things from India but sometimes have problems paying online or shipping it down to Nigeria. I can help you buy whatever you want and send it to Nigeria either by Cargo or courier depending on the product. The things dont have to be from online stores. I buy things from market and send to people too. Just tell me the product and I'll make inquiries about it and tell you the cost.

Hi. I would like to order the padlock from India. It is a 20 key padlock. Since I can't find anywhere I have to buy from India. Can you help with this.

See the link for the product: https://www.flipkart.com/foora-lock-key-door-home-link-round-65mm-pad-20-keys-gate/p/itmec80eeb314d86?pid=LOCGDWZUXYUVZZQJ&lid=LSTLOCGDWZUXYUVZZQJ3T4J09&marketplace=FLIPKART&pageUID=1662922446840

Porksupplyib:
Nigeria isn't taking this serious enough yet. And the spread has started already. May God save us

The disease is transmitted mostly through homosexual intercourse (source: https://www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/out-health-and-wellness/monkeypox-driven-overwhelmingly-sex-men-major-study-finds-rcna39564). So if you do not have exotic sexual inclinations you do not need to worry!

ecolime:
Note, my boyfriend is aware of the whole situation. he himself is confused. plus I am 23 yrs old just incase my age will aid in the diagnosis

Meaning you are having unprotected sex. You girls never seem to learn.

Learn? Sometimes it seems some women have been cursed from the womb to go into the world and promote stupidity...the confused boyfriend can vanish at any time leaving the wahala on this stupid girl's head who should be building her life and planning to settle down in a proper marriage. Na boyfriend-girlfriend she dey do...go check am na she go don abort enough!

smile11s:
Billionaire Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos had slammed a Nigerian college professor Uju Anya who tweeted that she hoped Queen Elizabeth II's 'pain be excruciating' hours before she died aged 96.

Uju Anya is a 'anti racist' teacher and associate professor at the Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania - and sparked outrage after her vicious tweet about the ailing monarch, calling her the head of a 'thieving, raping, genocidal empire.'

https://gist.am/question/jeff-bezos-slams-professor-uju-anya-for-wishing-queen-elizabeth-an-excruciating

I have no love for Queen Elizabeth because the atrocities of her kingdom are well known but I don't think the so called professor Uju went about expressing her outrage in a manner that fits her position. She is a professor for crying out loud and should not be caught speaking rashly like a tout on public forum.

hunterezi:
Good day Nairaland Family.

I want to make this post as short as possible.

So, I had a baby with a girl in 2018 in my final year in school and I've been trying my best to keep her and the baby. (I created a post here then too).

Fast forward to last year I went for NYSC in Gombe and she got admission into the university. I returned for holiday last December, checked my girl's phone and saw that she has been seeing another guy in the school. The messages I saw broke me ehn despite all I do to please this girl still I forgave her (I was thinking it was cos of the distance that's making her see another guy). She promised to leave the guy bla bla..

When I left for Gombe, I noticed she has gone back to the said guy again. I confronted her and she said a lot of things to me. Bad things. I was perplexed knan. I never believed this girl can do and say such things. She outrightly told me that ive not married her and she can see any guy! She blocked me on WhatsApp.


Ever since then I've been sending upkeep to her mum who is taking care of the baby.

When I returned, I tried to make things up again cos I don't want to be having children with different women. But she declined and now her parents are supporting her.

Still, I do send upkeep. I've never missed a month. The thing is I'm sincerely tired of everything. I want to leave them with the child and not do anything with them again

When I get a job and be comfortable again, I might return cos they're milking the little I saved and its affecting me.

What do you think I do?

PS: She is still with same guy

Dude sorry oh, no vex, but you nor wise at all oh. You nor wise at all. You had sex with a lady and she got pregnant and you instantly thought she would be your wife. Let me tell you, the new guy she is with will also suffer the same thing you are currently suffering. She is for the streets and so is her mother because a good mother will never court the reckless sexual activities of her daughter. I am sure you didn't meet this lady a virgin. How are you even sure that the baby is your own? That family may be using your money to take care of the baby of another man. You need to flee that family before they return you to your village with only boxers.

To breed instruments in the hands of GOD, Yeshua the Prince of Peace. This world is a huge chess game. The two players, who have been at this for aeons, are the Prince of Peace and the prince of this world. The chess pieces are human beings, angels and demons. The purpose of procreation for folks like me is to breed high value offspring who will go on to be kings and queens ready to do the bidding of Yeshua, the Prince of Peace in the cosmic chess game.

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

The men are reversing the temperature. When you were giving him the cold shoulder, he was boiling with passion trying to get you and after expending all that heat on you, you start getting warm and start boiling but because he has expended so much passion and energy he starts getting cold...so Chioma4eva, if you are referring to yourself, now that you are the one boiling with passion it is your turn to endlessly show passion and desire for the guy. However in all you do I will not advice you to spread your legs before marriage because if you do, the guy will go permanently cold on you irrespective of your relentless passions and go in search of the next victim.

Graduate2015:
Why do u assume that I knew he has this mood swings before marrying him? He was very sweet and always apologetic but our relationship was a long distance one. I had other suitors richer than him but I chose him because we clicked when we met and we were both Scripture Union members When we met he didn't have any money. He left the country six months after we met and wanted to marry me before leaving but i refused and asked him to go and come back while I finish uni. We dated for two years before getting married. I.dont know what else I could have done here. The six months we met he visited me several times in uni but that is not long enough for me to find out about his mood swing. I really don't know what else I could have done before marrying him.

If all you have just said is absolutely correct then you guys did yourselves a serious disfavor by not discussing the challenges you two encounter during the short period of dating that you had...pardon my earlier rant but I think you should have done better. In my own case my union started with a lot of mutual confessions about the past, weaknesses, health conditions, past trauma, experiences, life philosophies and the way forward. It really helped because we were prepared for what we were going into and were ready to provide succor and support for each other. However we must recognize that challenges will always come in marriage even if we are 100% prepared. First, you need to inform your hubby that this issue with his mind is a big problem that could threaten the marriage. Second, you need to ask him to spill the contents of his past (traumatic experiences, etc) that may have resulted in the problem of his mind. This will prove useful when looking for a solution. Third, if you are a Christian, you need to bring GOD's essence into your home. There is the prayer session that happens every morning and at midnight by one Pastor Jerry Eze (this is his youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/PastorJerryEze) that yields a lot of result and can help you create a spiritual altar in your home and dispel unclean forces. Create time to participate and get GOD's support regarding the issue you are facing. Lastly, realize that nothing good will go unchallenged in this world where there is a constant battle between the Prince of Peace and the prince of this world so be prepared to fight to keep your marriage. Goodspeed.

Baztardmods:
Hello Guys,

Please am writing to inquire if anyone knows the process to follow a selfish & disloyal spouse (hubby) who wants to immigrate to Canada without carrying the 3 kids and wife along.. what can the wife do in this situation to at least fight for her kids rights and make sure he provides for them before leaving and even after he leaves, the wife doesn’t want to suffer alone for the kids upkeep.. is there any option for her to fight this??

Fight? Na wa oh! So because he wan run go Canada you wan fight. To sey na Zamfara e dey go na you no go fight ohhh instead you go free am make e go die. Madam there are two options here. Its either you are a problem for that man and that man is trying to escape you or your husband is the problem and he is trying to shirk responsibility. Either way there is no fight you can fight to keep him from traveling abroad unless you find a way of dragging him to court, file for a divorce and beg the judge to require him to fend for his children. Yet he could easily abandon you even with the court order. Ladies do your due diligence when choosing a spouse and let GOD lead you so that after 3 kids you won't be fighting for what others get on a platter.

Graduate2015:
Sorry this is going to be lengthy. I dont know how to shorten this.
I'm married for 16yrs but I cannot say that I have enjoyed my marriage. My husband is lovely when in a good mood but worst during his bad mood. His mood goes up and down but he thinks he doesn't have a problem. I think he has a bipolar and I've always mentioned to him that his behaviour seems like that but he never acknowledges it...His good part is that he gives me access to his money may be that's because I can use it to be running the house and remove that responsibility from him. He also buys me expensive things like range rover, gucci but my love language is not material stuff but hands on man because I believe I can afford that myself.

You are impossible madam. If den leave you you go type book series on how bad your husband is. You claim material things are not your love language why did you seek out and marry a guy that works in the "highest" paid profession in the world but has mental issues? Is it that you didn't know about his mood swings before you married him? I am very sure you would have detected his mood swings before you decided to marry him. You got enticed by the staggering cash inflows he rakes in and now you are lamenting like egbere. Madam carry your load. We were not there when you were enjoying all the goodies and now that the time has come for you to pay the price you are looking for an excuse to take-off. Ladies and Gentlemen, no man or woman has it all. There will always be a cost for every great attribute your spouse has. If you leave your current spouse in search of another because of a flaw in his or her life you will keep changing spouses forever and ever because there is no individual that does not come with his/her unique assets and liabilities. You just have to find that special partner whose assets you are content with and whose liabilities you are willing to manage till death do you part.

sokeril:
Thanks very much sir..
His wife also suggests he can retrain as a Nurse

Really? A lawyer should retrain as a nurse? She has carefully planned his destruction knowingly or unknowingly.

sokeril:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders,I’m bringing this here because I know there are so many reasonable and matured people here and I will like you to advice my brother and his wife whose home is currently breaking apart.
Now these are the issues.
My elder brother is 34 years old,got married about four years ago.He is a lawyer (doing quite really well) and also lectures at one of the SW state universities.

His wife is a nurse, currently in the UK,before she left for the UK shortly after the birth of their only child till date(though she is currently pregnant).Before she left my brother was not in total support but eventually had to bow down to pressure from various parties.
Now the current is issue is that the wife want the husband to come and stay in the UK permanently, that husband and wife has to be together..and she complained of a host lot of other things.
My elder brother is having none of it, he argued that it does not make sense for him having struggled to build his legal career to this stage(Nine years at the bar now) and with the huge potential to even achieved more in his career that he can not close his law firm, lose his client and career and moreover if he is relocating to the UK then which job is available for him or what will he even be doing that will worth risking his career back home in Nigeria....The wife said she has factor this in her plan and that’s why she is willing to write professional exams and move to the USA where there are better job opportunities and he may even still practice his law there.
The wife has been threatening fire and brimstone that she will abort her current pregnancy and fill for divorce..my brother has told her to do her worst.
My brother believes his wife is trying to manipulate him,and he is being wary of sacrificing his career for a woman....he believes if he make this move he may regret it in the future having come this far in his legal profession.
Though majority of my brother’s friends abroad are encouraging him to take the risk that he will not regret it,My brother said when pressed none of these people have also been able to give him any cogent answer whenever he talk about what job will replace his fairly successful career back home in Nigeria.
Your advice and criticism are well welcome,thank you.

I'm sorry but your bro and his wife are substantially stupid. So they didn't discuss all this and agree before getting married. A lot of children getting married these days. The matter is simple. Your bro and his wife are headed in two different directions and none sees any personal gain in compromising for the other. The bible asks; can two walk unless they agree? Clearly your bro's wife has chosen her path. Tell your bro to let her go. If she can threaten to abort the child and file for divorce then she has ulterior motives for moving abroad. Tell your bro to end the marriage so that she can be free to do with her life as she likes. If your bro abandons his planned life here in Nigeria and move abroad he will regret it greatly. Infact his regret may push him to commit suicide. Let your brother's wife do as she likes it is on her. It is her decision and the consequences are on her. Tell your bro to move on. Your bro did not marry his wife, he married another man's wife!

Militant1:
I will try to be brief and straight to the point.

My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.

We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.

We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.

She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.

When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.

I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.

Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.

I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.

I tried to create a schedule for her.

Wake up by 6am
By 7 she suppose don clean finish
By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids
9-10am bath herself and the kids
10-12 do any other stuff in the house
12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill
3-5pm... Do whatever she likes
5pm boil water and bath the kids
6pm she don bathe and bath kids
7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer
8pm we eat
By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr

I throw the trash every day
Na me dey go market buy foodstuff
On weekends I clean the house
I wash my all my clothes
I provide all the finance in the house
I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired
I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday
Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)

So what's the problem..


Mothers, are my demands too much?
Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed?
Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day.
Am I crazy?

Please advice me.

I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.

Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful

You married a girl and you are yet to form her into a woman. Her parents obviously didn't do their job and now she is your liability. Now you have two options. The first option is brief but the second option is not. First, you can send her back to her father's house so that the parents can finish up the home training they didn't give her. Simpu. Second, you must ready yourself to train your wife and teach her the manners she didnt learn. Stop eating her food and start eating out. Two, if you have a personal room change the locks and keep it to yourself. Anytime you are tired and need to rest go to that room. Install soundproof doors and windows in that room. Maintain a routine that is suitable for your health. Stop reacting to her shenanigans. If she misbehaves just ignore her. Maintain the aforementioned for some days to stabilise your health. Next when you wake up, wake your wife up as well. Get a loud alarm that is as loud as a siren and set it to the appropriate time. When you wake every other person must wake. Give her an timetable concerning when she is expected to cook and take care of the house. If she rebels cutoff your funding and employ a cook to cook your meals alone (if you don't want to eat out)...if she rebels even more then report her to her parents. If she rebels even more report her to her pastor or respected persons and if she rebels still, o boy, run ohhh na die you dey ohhh!

Tharmon:
I just saw this photo and was laughing but at the same time wondering what other people think of this LGBT stuff happening.

Do you think its normal.. what's your view

Demonic manipulation...if strong hand land for dia head den go begin manifest.

Christiansimon:
A Poor Man Slept {had s x} With A Rich Woman And Get Paid To Feed His Family.

The Question Now Is»


_did he do wrong...?
Or

_did he went to work..?

He did both...and soon he may neither have a job or a family to return to.

DamnnNiggarr:
https://www./214583723665932/permalink/623534052770895/

This man really needs help
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Congratulations bro, you are now the lucky wife. Please perform your wife duties properly and submit accordingly. Na you wan marry inside rich home. Now that you are inside know your place and be a good ape...because apes obey!

Fahvvy:
No sir...
You're the one who is "useless"...

So because 1 girl (or a few girls you know) acted in a manner that you deemed inappropriate, you come online and create a thread generalizing that an entire gender is "rubbish"?? All because of one girls actions??

Indeed sir...
You're the "rubbish" one here...

Kasssandra:
And there is no law that states that a virgin woman must marry a man who is not a virgin.

Very true...but as sad as it may sound to you, I managed to get a virgin for a wife (though I wasn't one) and after a few months of marriage, aswear, I realized how wonderful it was to marry a virgin, to be the first not the last. I assure you, the feeling associated with knowing that your wife is stringed to you is satisfying and pacifying. I can travel to another location being confident that no evil gets near my dwelling...unlike the unfortunate men who marry hoes that turn their matrimonial home into a challet and get tricked into fathering another man's children...

Dear men, if you must make a mistake don't ever make the mistake of marrying a hoe. If you make this mistake, you will be sorry. Don't get blackmailed by the argument that you must be a virgin to marry a virgin...marry a virgin and be the first, marry a hoe and the last on the list of 50 men!

penplus:
Please where did you get this your submission? You want a virgin but it's ok for you to continue in your romps....my friend....in this life,....you get what you give

Then you are very new to life. If people always get what they give in this life I assure you every single soul on earth will be saints. I have seen prostitutes marry good men and I have seen virgins marry wife beaters. Even Solomon, donkey years ago, also learned about this phenomenon. He saw princes walking while slaves ride horses...there is nothing new under the sun. What was done before will be done again...I say again it comes down to the choices you make. If as a man you feel the best wife for you is a hoe fine go ahead and marry a hoe but if you think a virgin will be a befitting wife then fine go ahead get yourself a virgin. I don't have to be a virgin to marry a virgin. There is no law anywhere that says that. I don't have to be a saint to marry a saint. There is no rule anywhere that stipulates that. It's my choice. This is why I admonish ladies whenever I can. Don't let any man ruin your life. If you spread your legs anyhow and you get pounded to oblivion don't expect me or my sons to grace your fingers with a wedding ring. If you made your choice to be a universal donor don't expect me to wife you...perhaps some other guy may wife you that is their choice...as for me and my sons we will not feast on the left overs of ignoble men.

Kasssandra:
Why are you demanding a woman have standards you yourself cannot keep?

If you cannot stay a vrigin then don't demand Virginity in your women.

Man is supposed to be an example to woman. And since you man cannot stay a virgin, why should you expect a woman to stay a virgin since you are setting bad example for her.

Plus all those women you are depriving of their Virginity, and all those you mock for refusing to give their virginity, what about them?

I am a man by the way,don't be deceived by this alias.

Will your response be the same if a lady desires a rich man even though she is a pauper? There is no law that says you must marry a lady that has allowed herself to be plundered by men. A man doesn't have to be virgin to marry a virgin. Just as a man doesn't have to be saint to marry a saint. It is a choice. You may decided to marry a hoe that's your choice just as I have decided that both me and my sons and my sons sons will do virgins and virgins alone. It is a matter of choice. So make your choice and let others make their choice.

essenjack:
Attended a prayer meeting in my local church about 4weeks ago, a prophetess warned me of impending dangers, I was told to be mindful of the people I shake hands. I am told that a diabolic person is planning on striking me with ailment through handshake. I was asked to be fervent in prayers. I ignored, but a message was sent to my Mum through a different person, just 2days ago a known person came straight to me sounding same warning alleging that God asked him to deliver the message to me.
Now I'm afraid cos it's kinda difficult. Please help, how do I stay safe and protected cos; I can't tell who the person might be and I can't completely stay without shaking hands?

Two solutions for you. One is carnal and diplomatic, the other is spiritual and combative.

Carnal solution
Bandage the hand you usually use to shake people. The bandage will fool others into thinking you have an injury and hence cannot shake hands and the bandage will remind you that you are not to use that hand in a handshake. Suspect all your friends and relatives. Your worst enemy is usually closer to you than you think.

Spiritual solution
Get a bottle of oil. Pray Isaiah 53 into the oil. As you pray with that chapter personalize it. Then rub a little of that oil on your hand, your feet and your forehead. Do this every morning before you touch anything else and every night before you sleep. Don't use that oil for any other purpose other than this.

Personally, I'd advice you practice the spiritual solution because it is more secure and is effective against counter measures.

Singlelover:
Oh nairalanders, what a terrible mistakes i've made.

i have sometimes ago needed help here for my baby few months ago, and it now look like i'm hauing twins as my wife is pregnant again.

what embarrassment and shame this would bring to me should people finds out. I don't eve belive these has happened, i thought one can't be pregnant again for some months after given birth, what have i done?

please nairalanders, what can i do, how can i handle this up coming shame. I can't allow this, not this time. I just need prayers that its gonna be fine, the decision i've taken. I'm pained.

Dude you don't need prayers. You need to be flogged first and foremost. How can you believe your wife won't get pregnant after delivery. A lot of children are getting married these days. Didn't anyone tell you that as long as a woman is menstruating she can get pregnant? Dude you must not abort those children. Don't let the curse of heaven fall on you and your generation oh. You must have those children and work hard to take care of them and their mother.

Gasapoto:
My wife went for vacation since first week of August 2022 and just came back over the weekend to resume work today being monday. I tried and hold myself all through her absence despite how uncomfortable I feel by excess "konji" asI vowed I must remain faithful and wait for her for us to eat our food when she is back.

However her attitude as she came back put me on the path of suspecting whether she may have been cheating on me. First as soon as she is back, because of the accumulated "konji" in my body, I was eargely waiting for the night so I can "chop" my food and offload the excess "Konji" as the sex.ual urge was too much on me. Surprisingly, when it was the time and I quickly initiated it, she was not even interested or having the feeling the way I did. I was shocked by her resistance for couples that have missed each other for a month and she was not having the feeling same way I did.I begin to reason does it mean she is enjoying herself and getting services from another man(men) that the urge is not there. It is not that I don't trust her,I did but such act surprised me.Secondly when she reluctantly yielded late night even though her initial act made me not to be interested anymore as such act lowered my sex.ual hormone, on starting the work, surprisingly I noticed that the "thing" is now wider than before that my "thing's is just like a tiny pole placed inside a big hole and not making contact. And that's not how it was before as it is more tighter before and holds my thing with resultant pleasure.

Intact I become confused but did not tell her anything to avoid planting the seed of mistrust in our marriage.Up till now I don't know what to do on whether I should ask her what exactly happened and has she been cheating on me all the while she traveled or is there any other way I should use and find out if she cheated on me for I am not comfortable with the two things I observed as above

Please advise.

Congratulations dude. Take heart. Just pretend like nothing happened and just continue. Marriage is for better for worse. No matter the matter what matters is that the matter no longer matters because your matter don taya Matthias. Just gba kamu. When will she be going on the next vacation? I can guess she will be going again real soon. Pele. Take heart.

Prettygirl200:
So as the topic implies am in a need of a boyfriend, when I mean boyfriend I mean real one, not all those broke ass redpillers ooo. He must have these qualities:


Must be rich
Must be handsome,
Must be tall,
Must be intelligent and above all must not have a body count that is above 3. Thank u!!

Are you rich?
Are you beautiful (without make up)?
Are you average height?
Are you intelligent with an IQ of at least 120?
Do you have a body count less than 3?

If your answer to any of these questions is NO, then you do not deserve what you asked for.

SteadyGrindin1:
I'm still steadygrinding I was banned just now and I don't know because I posted this. Screenshot below.

I remember I posted on here about my girl.
How I contracted gonorrhoea from her.
Link to the thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/7223896/please-need-advise-im-going

Alot advised me to forgive her since she's been supportive.
Hmmm... Things dey happen. I can't still believe it.

I've been doing well. Having money and sending money home before this girl came into life.
Immediately she came, everything seized, I started falling sick, and no job comes in for me. She has been supportive. She is very quick to care for me. She doesn't like to see me sad. She can spend all she has to make meals for me and make me happy.

Talking about her business, she wasn't doing well until she met me. She discussed how she has been struggling in the business and owing dept here and there.

Not up to one month, boom! Her business exploded. She started doing well. Money entered in for her like a pump. A girl that cat afford transport fare before. Started funding me. That's not even my concern.

I became broke that I started selling my properties. Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night just to cry and ask God what's going on.

I fell sick with Gerd, like something stuck in my throat which was very frustrating. My life turned upside down. She stood by me. Was even thinking she will leave because I even want her to so I can re-strategize my life. But No, all she demands is sex all day. She can Bleep the hell out of me from morning till night.
Cook with her money and we eat and Bleep all week.

Not until I caught up with Gonoreah and came here to seek advice and some fellow simps are here telling me to hold her tight that she's a good girl bla bla bla
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Thank God for one spiritual blog I found here on naira land that helps me. I cried to the owner of the blog for consultation and after some sorting, he told me plain and clear that the girl is sent to kill me from the spiritual realm. I ignored him at first because I felt how can a girl that is ready to spend all her life saving on me was planning to kill me.

Omo after some weeks I went back to him when things became worst for me. He told me to buy one incense that I should burn in my room so that I will see that the girl will stop coming to my house. I did, I bought the incense out of penury and some soaps too and followed his instructions.

When we say you should stop banging olosho you nor gree you go talk sey make we mind our business...na you don carry your business come jam us! Sorry ehn. You dey try tell me sey if soft yansh waka for your front na you no go run am on autopilot? You need deliverance bro conc one!

They are inviting you to your funeral.

mytime24:
are u a virgin

A man doesn't have to be a virgin to marry a virgin. Just as a lady doesn't have to be rich to marry a rich man. Hoes are rags meant to be used and dumped but virgins are robes fit for a king. It's left to ladies to decide where they belong, whether they want to be rags or they want to be robes.

Havemercylord:
Hello everyone, I am 34 years old and I am here to get honest advice from experienced people.

My story will be short and precise.

I met a girl in April, 2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

Before I met this girl, I have what I need at least, i can rent a house, buy my basic needs and even have savings.

But since i met her, i was turned down in all the places where i was promised Good jobs and contracts.

When we went to make consultation, we were told she belongs to water spirit that she refused to give sacrifices or relate well with her fellow water mates, that the more she didn't do the right things for them, my own Life Will be affected too.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

We were told to appease her water mates, that afterwards, things will change for good.

And i have also heard from several people that most times after doing all the sacrifices, things might not change much for the man.

And all these sacrifices cost money!!!

WHAT CAN I DO?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?

Cele dey deceive you you too wan go light candle! Oga, any attempt to marry that lady will lead to a cataclysmic catastrophic calamity! Ladies like that are not meant to be married they are programmed to be sluts and a clear evidence is the fact that she has 3 kids from two different men. Oga run like a mad man ohh before you ultimately run mad. Go to Christ Mercyland Deliverance Ministeries for immediate deliverance before they finish roasting your destiny!