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Christianity Etc › Re: Can The Creator "Judge" The Created by efficiencie(m): 11:42pm On Dec 20, 2021

DeepSight:
But don't you see that even with this example, you have to ask after the source of your soul. And to the extent that that source is the creator, then its nature ultimately arises from the nature of the creator - this is ineluctable.

And if we are to draw from scripture, it even says that the creator made man in his own image.
That surely caps it.
What is there left to judge?

Dude drop this grammar and stick with coherence. "God created man in his image" is a statement you should understand before quoting. If God is God then He is a singularity without origin and without end. Out of Him originates all things not created by man or beast. If this axiom is accepted then we need to understand what it means to be created in the image of God. God is has a form which as observed by Ezekiel appears like that of a man. Hence the current form or physiognomy of a man is borrowed from God (Ezekiel 1:26). God feels emotions. He can get angry (Exodus 32:11). He can be pleased (Hebrews 11:6). He has a compassion (Genesis 21:17) etc. God had dominion over the Heavens and granted man dominion over the earth (Genesis 1:26). Most importantly, particularly for argument, is that God has the capacity to choose, and also man can choose.

These features make man have the similitude of God but there is one feature God had that man did not have and it is the "knowledge of good and evil" (Genesis 3:22). Their knowledge was meant to be sourced from the inspiration of the HolyGhost which was abundant in them and not from the tree of knowledge of good and evil which would have granted them the power to know what was right from what was wrong independently of the HolyGhost. After disobeying man died (not physically) as the Spirit of God left them as the sole inspiration of their decisions. This was explained by Paul. When you are a baby you are very much like Adam before he fell but the moment you attain self awareness the nature of Adam, knowing good and evil, revives and we die (Romans 7:9). Herein lies the essence of my earlier post, God made man, made him perfect and gave him the ability to choose. The ability to choose is the hallmark of all sentient beings. The ability to choose generates consequences and consequences can be right or wrong. The rightness or wrongness of a decision can only be judged by the one person who cannot be judged, God.

The only time your argument holds true is if God created us to be automatons. Pre programmed robots, not self aware, not sentient and without the ability to choose independently. It is in the case that God loses the right to judge anyone because there is no basis for independent decision making and hence no basis for a consequence. If there is no consequence stemming from independent decision making then there is no basis for judgment...but God did not create soulless automatons. He created beings like Himself that can choose and if you can choose then you must be judged by the judge that cannot be judged.

Christianity Etc › Re: When Will Pastors Task Spirit Filled Members To Go Into Politics? by efficiencie(m): 10:02pm On Dec 20, 2021

Kobojunkie:
Filled with what spirit because the Spirit that that of God leads people out of the world's systems, not into it's center.

Dude you are not the Spirit of God and you are not His spokesperson, so don't speak for Him.

Christianity Etc › Re: Can The Creator "Judge" The Created by efficiencie(m): 9:28pm On Dec 20, 2021

DeepSight:
For it has always seemed somewhat odd to me, that one may create something, and then proceed to sit in magisterial judgement over it - in terms of condemning it to destruction or granting it life. In terms of saying that it is good or evil - Because - any such judgement is necessarily a judgment of the Creator itself and no one else, surely?

Who else is responsible for the nature of a created thing if not the creator of the thing?

If you create a thing and give it a soul making it capable of making decisions then it can be judged. Judgment is conditional on sentience and decision making. As you lay your bed so you will lie on it. If you do anyhow you go see anyhow. Eni ba se'oun t'enikan o se ri, oju e a ri oun t'enikan o ri ri...all of these sayings are based on the fact that for every cause there is am effect and for every effect there is reward or consequence. It's that simple.

Christianity Etc › Re: When Will Pastors Task Spirit Filled Members To Go Into Politics? by efficiencie(m): 9:23pm On Dec 20, 2021

Mrsoft3:
It's alarming the rate at which people with negative mindset spoil the government of this country. I wonder what makes christians feels they don't need to get involved in governance. The so many pastors are not helping matters alot. Evil agenda keep thriving because of his agents he has placed in different sectors of the government.

I was watching a documentary on this cultism war and one thing keep hitting me hard,the level of networking and the influence they gain over the years. Imagine a government with people who could do and listen to what God is doing in a season.

In the bible we saw how Godly people ruled with the fear of God,we saw innovation and development happening and we also saw how the ones who didn't fear God ruled, the Result was for all to see. We will continue to live under the shadow of this heartless people and still keep praying for breakthrough.
Ask and average christian what should be the solution to this problems in the country,they will simply tell you to pray. Prayer is Good but what about taking bold step's to enter into governance, change mindsets, promote unity and ensure development is a priority.

Enough of this pity game, suffering and smiling way of life we have chosen. This is a call for Christians to take the baton.

If they are spirit filled the "spirit" will lead them to where He wills.

Health › When Will Vaccine Deaths Be Investigated? by efficiencie(op): 6:32pm On Dec 20, 2021

Deaths occurring after vaccines should have been investigated thoroughly by now. This would help with addressing the vaccine hesitancy problem. However despite the usefulness of such a research we have had little research in this area. Why?

Source: https://rumble.com/vqnqdf-dr.-ryan-cole-scientist-shows-vaccine-effects-in-autopsies.-dont-believe-it.html

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Romance › Re: Who Knows How To Buy Gift Card Online Or Anything Without Otp Verification? by efficiencie(m): 4:39pm On Dec 20, 2021

killerdragon:
I can do it and yes I will take my share

*For educational purposes only*

And you will blame Buhari, Tinubu etc...You and your cohorts will wallow in extreme poverty for a long long time.

Romance › Re: Ladies, is 6.5 Inch joystick Big Or Small For You? by efficiencie(m): 4:37pm On Dec 20, 2021

JackDaAlienz:
I saw a mesuring tape around my bed and decided to measure my joystick.

I measured it fully erect

Dude 6.5 inches is ridiculously small...you need to increase it to 2 feet (24 inches). One deek to demolish all sluts.

Romance › Re: How To Go About Ending A Relationship Advice Needed by efficiencie(m): 4:17pm On Dec 20, 2021

beauty16:
I was into a relationship with a guy some month after my dad death,thinking it will bring a helping hand to my family not knowing that it's a situation worst,this guy doesn't support me rather than making things worst for me I told him my reasona for the relationship and he promise to support me but ever since we start dating not even a dime has he support me even when my little brother was hospitalize I talk to him about it but he added that if I can also be of a help to him right now he will also be grateful that I should forget about my brother sister and mother issue and concentrate on my own future first he is telling me that the little money am earning for the business am doing to support my family I should be bring it to him to use it and plan our future that he want to get married to me,that I should be thinking about us not my family,I don't want to ended up married someone that will not understand what I fell for my family.
The worst part of it is that when I ask him for a help to support my business to make it big since people come to the shop a lot,he promise to do that for me but uptill now not even a dime has he bring,sometimes when customers enter the shop they won't get want they want,my daddy shop is now going down.
So yesterday he came to my mum with one of his family member coming to ask for my hand in marriage without even my notice that he is coming,so my mum told them to go and come back that she want to hear from me first because I didn't tell her anything about anyone coming to ask for my hand in marriage so this visit was unaware to her so they left,I have been a guest of this forum for a very longtime now so yesterday that I was very angry I decided to join this forum and seek for an advice, I just don't get it advice needed please

Selfish woman jam selfish man...I doubt the marriage will last 24 hours. Your primary reason for getting into the relationship is to receive support from the man. That makes the man your maga. The man on the other hand refused to be 'maga'ed rather he has seen a lady with an investment and would like to sa're wo'le and prey on you. Aunty end the deceptive relationship and pray to God to send you helpers (not magas). When the helpers come don't try to deceive them into a marriage and don't let your choice of a spouse be based on your personal interests rather let it be based on mutual interests. Don't go into a marriage as a parasite rather endeavour to be in a mutually symbiotic relationship! You hear? I no sey you no go hear. You go wan maga another man but just remember that a rich man that can help you with cash today can beat you to coma, cheat on you, give you STD, or even use you for rituals tomorrow.

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Romance › Re: She Promised Me #200,000 If I can last one hour In Bed, What Can I use? by efficiencie(m): 4:06pm On Dec 20, 2021

EkiranAlexmedia:
Hello guys,
Please let’s put aside the problem we are generally facing in the country and kindly help a brother here.

I have this new girl and we will be meeting for the first time this week after a lot of sex talk and chat. All of a sudden this girl started questioning my s*x ability and even asked if I could last an hour.

See the chat below:

I had to cover the name for security reasons, it might be someone you know�.

Guys, I can’t lose this bet, pls help a brother��. I will be in the comment section

She Promised To Give Me 200K If I Can Last An Hour With Her – What Can I Use?

Guy a word of caution. I have a couple of "What ifs" for you. What if she is an agent looking to harvest your sperm? What if she is carrying magun and she needs you to help her remove it at the expense of your life? What if she is the sex starved wife of a former SARS officer? What if she has a disease and she is on a revenge mission to wreck as many masculine idiots as possible? What if she needs your soul for ritual? What if she needs the glory or aura on your life? What if she is pregnant and she needs to dump it on your sorry ass? What if she needs you to get her pregnant so that she can dump it on an unfortunate man somewhere? What if the 200,000 is the price of your life? What if you get the thing that you will use and that thing raises your blood pressure during sex to levels so fatal that you develop a stroke and head straight to hell where demons are expecting your arrival for the slapping competition? Dude don't let your rod lead you to the valley of the shadow of death. Don't let your pipe drain you of your sense upstairs. May the grace of the Lord Jesus, the love of God and sweet fellowship of the HolySpirit bestow sense on you now and forevermore. Amen.

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Romance › Re: I Don't Want To Get Married by efficiencie(m): 3:54pm On Dec 20, 2021

Tmach137:
So my big sis got married early this December and she's my only sibling, so I'm supposed to be the one to carry on the family name as the only son of my dad. Naturally, during the week of my sister's wedding, family members were teasing me about my "future wife" and giving me "hints" for when I want to get married. Some will straight up ask me if I'm seeing anyone and also ask when I plan to get married.
But the thing is, I actually couldn't care less about getting married. To start with, I don't know if I could handle staying with one person my entire life even if I met a girl that I loved and vibed with 100% (and that's a big IF because its not easy for me coming across a girl I really like). I value my freedom, plus I'm not too keen on having to raise kids.

One of my uncles is in his 60s and still unmarried, and because of this, he gets a lot of disrespect from his siblings and even his nephews, despite the fact that he is financially stable and capable, perhaps even moreso than most in our family. Because of this, I try to be careful not to give off any vibes of marriage apathy to my relatives since it seems to be a quick way to attract anger and scorn.

I just don't see what the big deal is with marriage anyways but if you can, please change my mind.

Dude abeg don't let anybody push you into a marriage. If you do not see the need for it please remain single. It is the best strategy.

Romance › Re: Man Who Was Invited To A Wedding Meets His Girlfriend As The Bride by efficiencie(m): 3:51pm On Dec 20, 2021

amaesther:
A man caused a scene at a wedding reception after he found out that the bride was his girlfriend.

According to reports, the man got an invite to a wedding from one of his friends but got the shock of his life after he attended the wedding and met the wife as the bride.

The man who couldn't hide his disappointment and rage caused a sign at the wedding reception.

In a video sighted by browngh.com, the man who was heartbroken could be seen being carried by one of the security guards at the wedding reception.

The man could be heard shouting as the security man carried him outside of the wedding reception.

The video was first shared on TikTok with the caption:

"He was invited to a wedding and he came to meet his girlfriend as the BRIDE"

Watch the video below:

https://www.browngh.com/man-who-attended-a-wedding-meets-his-girlfriend-as-the-bride-at-the-wedding-ceremony-vdeo/

Such is life bro. You have been mumu-zoned. It is good that you have received this breakfast. Now you have to digest it and let it invigorate your senses. Boyfriend-girlfriend is nonsense. Find the woman that will support you and that you can support and together build your future. Endeavor not to be marooned in the quagmire of the nihilistic and catastrophic traps of sexual relationships.

Romance › Re: Man Turns Down Marriage Proposal In A Mall In Awka: Video by efficiencie(m): 3:12pm On Dec 20, 2021

Any woman proposing to a man should be rejected. If she is bringing something good to the table he would have proposed since but since all she is offering is her gravity well she should remain in the trash can where her likes belong...yea, I know that sounds really mean of me but ladies should stop making a mockery of themselves. Instead of jumping into a sexual relationship build yourself into a net surplus and not a net deficit. Do so and great men will be the ones kneeling and begging for your hand in marriage! I feel bad seeing ladies let men use them badly and later dump them. It makes me angry with the ladies because they keep fueling the narrative that most ladies are itching bitches looking for the next 'hole'istic fix! Men should also repent of using ladies. If a lady isn't worth it advise her and leave her be. Don't enrol her in the school of bitchification studies please.

Family › Re: Can I Give Up The Marriage At This Stage..pls Advise Needed by efficiencie(m): 11:28pm On Dec 19, 2021

NemoDatQuod:
She is an independent individual even when married. She can leave whenever she wants. Parternity and other issues can be resolved from wherever. Every Nigerian man must come to this understanding: You don't own your wife. She is not your property. She can do whatever she wants to do. Your only recourse is to weigh her actions and decide if you still want to stay married to her. Same for every woman. Simple.

Nonsense! That she is independent does not imply "she can do whatever she wants". That's an irresponsible thing to say and only irresponsible people have dispositions like this. No one can do whatever they want. We have laws, values, norms, customs, traditions, spoken and unspoken rules to ensure that no one does whatever they want to rather they are motivated to act consistently with acceptable standards. If she wedded the said man and made vows then it borders on sheer stupidity to believe she can do whatever she wants to do. If I were the said man I would let her leave, initiate the divorce process, conduct paternity tests on all the children, settle child custody in court and move on.

Health › Re: After The Second COVID Vaxx Jab Amputations Followed (viewer Discretion Advised) by efficiencie(op): 11:16pm On Dec 19, 2021

mohims:
I did my research very and what I figured out was that the woman already had covid 19 before she went for her second jab. Usually, once you've had covid-19 before you are not supposed to be eligible to take the vaccine until after 6 months from the time of recovery from the covid. Look at the link you posted here.l, it's not a credible one. I don't read stories from sites that are not credible.

Well there is a problem with this. What link are you talking about? If you are referring to Jummai Nache, then there is a problem. The woman is a health worker who took the jab on the order of the hospital and if she has had the first jab why should she be diagnosed of COVID? Afterall what should be the purpose of a vaccine if it is not to provide protection against a disease and how come the hospital staff who should know better ended up administering the second jab to an ineligible person? Shouldn't they have investigated thoroughly before administering the second jab? Something fishy here. And if you are referring to the case of Maddie de Graay she was part of the vaccine trials. How come after she received the first jab she contracted COVID? I thought that should not happen unless the vaccine isn't really a vaccine. And if you have to be COVID free before receiving the 2nd jab within 6 months how come the medical staff went ahead to administer the jab without adequately probing the COVID history of the Maddie? Something fishy here still. So in both cases your defense still doesn't add up or basically implies that the medical staff in the respective hospitals are grossly incompetent or the, of course, the vaccine has components that produce detrimental symptoms in persons with certain underlying conditions or morphology.

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Family › Re: Can I Give Up The Marriage At This Stage..pls Advise Needed by efficiencie(m): 11:03pm On Dec 18, 2021

Babsojimjim:
Dear All,

The write up below is exactly what a friend is going through from his wife. Please what sort of action can he take?

Despite, all he has done to please his wife, called Reverend fathers and pastors to counsel them both, his wife is still indifferent to him and is threatening to quit the marriage, citing accumulated pains of the past.

Currently, she says she wants to go back to her parents house else she will die or commit suicide. The man called her parents, and their advise was that since she is his wife, he should decide if to allow her leave his house to come and see them (parents) or stay in his house that the decision is his as the husband.

At this juncture my friend is confused and dont know what to do again.

Even the unmarried friend of his wife who came to stay with them is not helping matter at all as she seems to be enjoying the challenge between my friend and his wife.

Please advise needed. Thanks.

How many children has she had for him? If she is insisting on leaving he has to let her leave. There is little he can do here but before she leaves he should be sure about the status of the marriage and the status of the paternity of the children before she leaves. He should settle his accounts with the lady as far as possessions, cash flows etc are concerned. Afterwards I will advise him to spend sometime healing and working on himself.

Family › Re: What Men Should Know About Pregnancy by efficiencie(m): 10:52pm On Dec 18, 2021

kaffy4bill:
A father can play an important role in his partner’s pregnancy. Your job as a father begins long before your baby is born.

Pregnancy is an amazing, scary, beautiful, anxiety inducing nine month ride for both the moms-to-be and dads-to-be alike.

Most dad wish they could have a little first hand knowledge before their wife is pregnant for the first time

Fortunately, I am here to help as much as I can with information and support grin wink

� Each pregnancy is incredibly unique and completely different, right up till delivery. Expect the unexpected, it rarely goes according to plan undecided.

this does not mean they should not at least prepare for it. Having a plan today and having to revise the plan due to unanticipated risks is quite different from not having a plan at all

� Cravings are real. She will probably have many cravings throughout her pregnancy. Keep her happy by going to get those fries or chocolate at 10 p.m. It might be a little inconvenient for you, but it will make her happy. A happy wife is a happy life.

Na so. Make una no follow this advise ohh. Women in pregnancy are susceptible to eclampsia so it is not wise to feed your pregnant wife's cravings. She has to eat healthy to keep her blood pressure/sugar in check because whether you like it or not pregnancy can induce an increase in blood pressure and eating habits can exacerbate it. So enforce a healthy eating habit.

� Women will typically gain 25-35 pounds (11-15kg) during their pregnancy.

� She will probably become tired because she is growing another life inside her. Her body is hard at work making the necessary changes to accommodate your baby. She may also experience restless sleep, causing her to be more tired. Remember that she is tired so support accordingly.

Na belle she dey carry no be concrete...yes she can get tired but don't let her lapse into inactivity. Inactivity or sedentary living is deadly for pregnant women ohh. As a man support her but don't let her desire for rest let her slide into inactivity.

� A symptom of pregnancy is going the bathroom, a lot. Getting up several times throughout the night to use the bathroom will become a routine for her. That 2 hour car ride with no stops will turn into a 2 and 15 minute car ride with two stops. She’s not happy about it either, so no complaining from your end.

� There will be a lot of pillows that start appearing on your bed. In time, you may find that there is no room for you anymore. She will probably start cuddling with a giant body pillow instead of you. Don’t take it personal, she is just trying to get as comfortable as possible.

� Her body is stretching, shifting and moving in all directions, there is bound to be aches and pains. She is carrying additional weight that her body has to support. This extra weight will cause stress on the lower back. Back massages are a great relief for her at the end of the day. Massages in general are a must for pregnant women. Whether they are foot, back, or hip massages, it is your job to help her out. Relieve as much tension as possible.

Na so. Lol. You for advise make she move her bag and baggages go spa once and for all.

� There are moments where you can’t really help because during pregnancies, there are times of discomfort or pain that you cannot mend. Being there physically is helpful but there will be times when your partner want to be left alone, don’t take it personal if she asks for some space, she just may need to handle things on her own.

Na so some men go give the woman space and boom complications start. Oga don't be giving your pregnant wife space anyhow ohh. Belle no be COVID ohh. Nor go dey do social distancing for house oh. Monitor your wife and go for antenatal regularly.

� Be careful what you cook or wear as she will be incredibly sensitive to smells. My advice is to be careful with anything and I mean anything that can be fragrant grin

� Hyperemesis gravidarum is not morning sickness, it is the severe form and she is not finding it any funny. Please be supportive

� Understand your wife’s/partner’s love language because there are so many times during pregnancy that you are going to want to help your wife and she’s going to want you to help her but she can’t verbalize or even really come up with a way for you to help. Having a default list of things you can do when you don’t have clear instructions is key.
Na wa oh. Na so belle dey take turn women to deaf and dumb ba?

�Do not neglect date night with her. Take advantage of and enjoy the free time before the baby comes.

� You are going to be terrified, you are going to question everything you do and know. And you are going to be fine.

� Your partner is just as anxious as you are if not more. Be each other’s support system..

Hope this helps, which of the above resonates with you?

In my opinion, belle is not poincare conjecture. Take your wife for regular antenatal visits, ensure she eats right and engages herself daily, ensure she gets a good rest, ensure she takes her drugs (antimalaria, etc) and supplements (zinc, iron etc), ensure the environment is clean and mosquito free, do regular scans and check up (blood sugar, blood pressure, bpm etc) on the mother's and baby's health and above all pray regularly with your wife and your unborn child. Shikena. You are good to go

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Health › Re: After The Second COVID Vaxx Jab Amputations Followed (viewer Discretion Advised) by efficiencie(op): 12:37pm On Dec 18, 2021

mohims:
Please kindly do your research very well. That information is misleading. There's no record of anyone who got their limbs amputated because of covid-19 vaccine. I appreciate your explanation but this information is very misleading and misinforming.

No. I soundly reject this your narrative. So all the reports of people who died or were maimed after taking the vaccine were all fake news. Really? Okay so the case of Maddie de Garay was also fake news right? This is a young girl who was part of vaccine trials because her mother trusted the science but at the end of the day her daughter was maimed for life. Tell me this is fake news. The mother noted that there are other families with youngsters that have been maimed by the vaccines and they are being silenced. It is irresponsible to just hurriedly declare reports of vaccine deaths or injuries are fake news without realizing that real people are behind these sad stories.

You went on a cursing spree without realizing that even if 0.001% deaths are recorded from the vaccines, real people with really sad stories are behind these numbers.

Source: https://trialsitenews.com/mother-of-maddie-de-garay-speaks-out-about-her-13-year-old-daughters-life-altering-injuries-from-pfizers-covid-vaccine/

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Health › Re: After The Second COVID Vaxx Jab Amputations Followed (viewer Discretion Advised) by efficiencie(op): 12:13pm On Dec 18, 2021

mohims:
Na Ogun go kill you there with fake news. Go and sit down abeg. You are posting this fake news to discourage people from getting vaccinated. Na Ogun go kill you there. Mumu

I am not posting this to discourage people from taking the vaccines but to make more people push for investigations to be done concerning those who were maimed or died after taking the vaccines. The results of the investigations can be used to improve on the vaccines. Most of us take drugs and must have been vaccinated in the past. Hence we are not just expressing hesitancy for the vaccines for nothing. No one wants to be a victim. No one wants to be part of the 0.001% that will die from the vaccine in a very horrible way. And I am sure you won't want your mother, child or wife to be in the position of Jummai Nache. That's my point.

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Health › Re: After The Second COVID Vaxx Jab Amputations Followed (viewer Discretion Advised) by efficiencie(op): 12:06pm On Dec 18, 2021

Arrowss:
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What about those that had taken first and second jab and nothing had happened to them?

Have you considered that there could be something about the vaccine that makes it react adversely in persons with a slightly different morphology? These victims of the vaccines are increasing in number and the mainstream media are hiding it on behalf of these big pharma firms. Have researchers at NIH, WHO or CDC thought of collecting data on the victims of the vaccines to understand why they react negatively to the vaccines and use the information from such research to improve on the vaccines? Every time someone is maimed or killed by the vaccines they, NIH, WHO etc, are quick to declare that the mishap is not related to the vaccines without doing any thorough investigation. And yet they call themselves medical scientists. This is why more and more people do not trust the vaccines.

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Family › Re: Men Should Undergo Vasectomy For Family Planning - Facebook Feminist by efficiencie(m): 1:46pm On Dec 17, 2021

Another reason not to get married...and just keep doing the baby mama thingy. I trust feminists are okay with this arrangement.

Family › Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by efficiencie(m): 1:33pm On Dec 17, 2021

Plus10:
A friend just called me of how he was embarrassed by his Sister inlaw because of the money she borrowed him sometime ago.According him,his Sister-inlaw came to his house last week Wednesday to ask for the money.But unfortunately he did not have the money but he however promised her on Wednesday this week .He made the promise hoping that the company where he works was going to pay him yesterday Wednesday .But unfortunately, the company later prosponed it to tomorrow Friday.Now according to him,the Sister inlaw came to his house today to ask of the cash. When he was trying to explain to her that the company has shifted payment till tomorrow Friday, the Sister-inlaw starting yelling at him with a very loud voice even neighbours around were hearing her yelling.She called him stupid and foolish even in the presence of his wife .Now my friend is highly diverstated, he said he does not even know how his neighbours will start seeing him with the kind disgrace mented on him by his Sister in law.
Now has lack of money caused you any form of embarrassment in life before, if yes how did you manage to hold back ?Your commens are highly welcome!

There was a day as far back as the early 2000s I was really broke. So broke I didnt have transport fare to go home from work (5k work oh). I pleaded with my boss to assist me with 20 naira. I had planned to trek half the journey and take a bus for the rest of journey with that 20 naira. It was already 9pm and my boss told me to wait until the accounting was done for the day. I waited till 11pm and my boss basically acted like I no longer existed, all because of 20 naira ohh. Last last I could not wait any longer so I began trekking a distance of about 5 kilometers to my house. As I dey trek I dey pray make I no jam police or kidnapper or tout for road because if I jam dem my life don pause be dat!

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Romance › Re: Lady Slaps Boyfriend For Rejecting Marriage Proposal After Six Years Of Dating by efficiencie(m): 1:53am On Dec 17, 2021

Foreverdope:
A dramatic scene played out at a mall when a lady proposed marriage to her boyfriend but he turned her down.

In a video which surfaced online, the woman went on her knee to propose in public and the young man was taken aback as he felt greatly embarrassed.

He politely asked his girlfriend to get up amidst pleas from her and onlookers who were telling him to say yes.

When all persuasions failed, and the man refused to accept her proposal, the lady handed him a dirty slap for the rejection considering the fact their relationship had no direction after six years of dating.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Ds59dAdBxE

This is what happens to you when you are a tissue paper to be used and not a pearl to be treasured...this is what happens when you offer yourself as a living sacrifice on the altar of immorality and expect a sweet smelling savor to ensue...I know sey I no holy pass but if you offer yourself as a tissue paper you will be extensively used and only a prehistoric idiot will wrap used paper and put it in a safe. If you are a pearl treat yourself as such but if you must offer yourself as a tissue paper please don't expect to be treated nicely.

Romance › Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by efficiencie(m): 4:50pm On Dec 16, 2021

EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!

Why do you need a wife? If it is sex, I am sure you have been straffing before now. If it is money, well by your admission you are doing well...so if sex and money is covered what really do you need a wife for?

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Health › After The Second COVID Vaxx Jab Amputations Followed (viewer Discretion Advised) by efficiencie(op): 11:07pm On Dec 14, 2021

News like this will never be reported in mainstream media. You will not find news agencies all around the world reporting this. Every death or damage that has happened after receiving the COVID vaccines has never been attributed to the vaccines and gullible folks will never even entertain a 1% chance that the vaccines could be responsible. Here is Jummai Nache. She is health worker. Under the instructions of her hospital management she took the first jab and the second jab. After the second jab, all hell broke loose. Doctors reported that she had blood clots all over her body to the point that she had to have her hands and her legs amputated.

Source: https://vaccineimpact.com/2021/minnesota-woman-loses-both-legs-and-both-hands-following-second-pfizer-covid-19-shot/

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Family › Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by efficiencie(m): 6:50pm On Dec 14, 2021

jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

Mehn at this rate, by the time your wife spend about 10 years in marriage to you she would have hearing issues. She misbehaves, you slap her. She talks out of turn you, slap her. She denies you sex, you slap her. Use your head bro. For how long will you keep slapping her? You go slap her one day she go use sniper do pepper soup for you. I understand you are pissed by her attitude but there are better ways to express your grievance. Dude I know you love your mom greatly but you must understand and accept that there is the place of mother and there is the place of a wife. No matter how close your mother is to you she cannot be closer to you than your wife. For goodness sake you bang her regularly. You know the dimensions of her singularity. You know her scent. You know your wife in ways you can never know your mother. Okay she cooked reheated food for your mom but is that not why you have a refrigerator? Do you not eat the same reheated food? Whatever you eat in your home should be the same thing anyone visiting should eat na. And even if you want your wife to prepare fresh food, you do not compel her to do so by wiping her hot slap. To make life easy for your wife she can store the ingredients and sharply put a dish together in minutes without having to prepare the ingredients. Think man. Think. That is why GOD gave you a brain. Work on solving problems and not slapping your way through problems...Dude go and beg your wife. Apologize for being a baby. Work with her to craft meaningful ways of addressing the crisis of in-laws...If na my sister you dey slap like that and I am as close to her as you are close to your mom, mehn my guys and I, go use your face do slapping competition oh.

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Health › In Switzerland You Can Now Commit Suicide In Peace! by efficiencie(op): 8:20pm On Dec 13, 2021

Another day, another madness...suicide pods are now available in Switzerland to make your suicide experience a memorable one. Unlike the gas chambers of Auschwitz, this one looks sexy.

Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.trtworld.com/magazine/3d-printed-suicide-pods-become-legal-in-switzerland-to-offer-peaceful-death-52481/amp

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Skill Can One Learn In This Our Nigeria Of Today? by efficiencie(m): 5:27pm On Dec 13, 2021

Kennyprince:
Yeah friends,

I read philosophy. Trust me iam a brilliant guy and just started a young family.

I have had my mind on couple of things....but basically my target is a good business that can last.

Before now, I have had some job experience in marketing, farm management, teaching, courier services customer care and all. But I have not really had that satisfaction. Perhaps, iam not very proud of my account balance right now.

Lately, since the good jobs ain't forthcoming any longer, I have been thinking of what skill to go into that ll guarantee a good job or maybe one I could do as a side business.

Don't forget iam a family man.

What can u suggest guys.

08105450310

Chat me if it's necessary.

Learn Stata, R, xlsform standard (ODK, SurveyCTO, etc), Python (pandas, matplotlib, OOP, etc), Java, JavaScript, HTML, CSS, Data science, Maching learning, Data Engineering, AI, Randomized Evaluations, Quasi Randomized Evaluations (Difference-in-difference, Regression discontinuity...), Monitoring and Evaluation (at United States Institute of Peace), SQL and relational database design and development.

You cannot learn 80% of these and be poor. To learn am you go endure a lot ohh but the good news is that resources to learn these things are available for free on the internet.

Jobs/Vacancies › I Got A New Job Offer In Niger But I Need Some Help by efficiencie(op): 5:17pm On Dec 13, 2021

I just got a good job offer in Niger state but before I leave my current job I would need to get some information about Minna and Suleja. My office is located at Minna and I have two options to getting an apartment in Minna (close to the office but far from the nearest airport) or Suleja (close to Abuja but far from office). I would need the help of persons who know Niger state well.

1) What is the power supply situation in Minna and Suleja? Which is better?
2) Is the journey from Suleja to Minna (a 2hr journey) a safe one to make regularly?
3) What is the internet connection in Minna and Suleja like?
4) What is the maximum rent cost for a comfortable self-contain apartment with water and good amenities?
5) Is the security situation in Niger generally too bad for work?

Please guys your feedback will be highly appreciated.

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Health › Re: My Brother's Fiancee Sent This Text To Him This Evening by efficiencie(m): 1:38pm On Dec 13, 2021

Are you sure her restless hullabaloo has not yet been obsfuscated and maladjusted by a magnanimous brouhaha?

Family › Re: Solve by efficiencie(m): 10:08pm On Dec 12, 2021

gombos:
Solve This
My cousins who are siblings are cousins too.

How?

That means your father slept with your mother to produce you and he also slept with your mom's sister to produce your cousins who incidentally are also your siblings!

Family › Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by efficiencie(m): 10:04pm On Dec 12, 2021

Timekeeper:
1. Is the essence of marriage no longer important to people?

2. Did the lady made a mistake by getting pregnant for an irresponsible man?

3. Is the lady so irresponsible that the man can live up with her, hence they separated?

4. Is it the unreadiness of both couples?

5. By mistake?

6. By choice

7. Death of a partner?

So sad seeing so many pretty ladies turned single Parent and I feel so bad.... These ladies should be wives and not single Parents...

Married people, abeg why the rise in single parenting these recent days?

This is the result of promoting sexual immorality and lack of proper upbringing. Today many have agreed that it is okay to fuuk extensively up to your mid 20s before settling down. How will a lady that has spent over a decade fuuking different sizes of sticks have a stable marriage with one man, how? The moment the thing starts to scratch her and her man is at work she will slide into her neighbor's studio so that the DJ can work on her itching hullabaloo. How will a man that has punctured so many holes and contributed to the widening of many other holes be content with one wife, how? It's just not possible na. This is in addition to the total absence of home training. Many ladies have horrendous manners and many men have a lot of horrible fantasies all as a result of the absence of home training. Many go into marriages with loads of dangerous secrets. It is becoming normal to hide body counts from one's spouse. It is becoming normal to even hide past children, abortions and even sexual disability from one's spouse. When you put all this madness together what we get is broken marriage after broken marriage.

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