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Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

Your wife is always complaining that she is tired? Hmmm! Are you sure someone else is not responsible for making her get so tired frequently? Or is it the nature of her work? Is she doing hard work or soft work? Get to the root of the matter and do the needful.

Hathor5:
With a newborn?

Yes? Why not?

ImaIma1:
Wow! Just seeing all that you spilled up there, I have to send my love to your wife.

Is this what she goes through from you? Verbal abuse and emotional blackmail? Do you beat her too? This is really sad. Such venom and bitterness coming from one man.

Lol. Keep displaying your foolishness. Your foolishness has utterly blinded you to the core points of my post. I am not surprised. If the man had slapped the wife due to her abusive tongue you would have been the first to deem the man a beast. You will not be interested in what the woman could have done to warrant a slap. You had better send your love to your parents, I can see that they raised you well. So if your husband calls you to order one day and you will reply him by slapping him? Perhaps when this happens you will come here to tell us how it went.

HenryDion:
My friend shut up... No offense

You will shut up until you have sense!

ImaIma1:
Don't carry this nonsense mentality into marriage.

And if you already have, repent!

Come and beat me na...as I already have and my wife believes in everything I put up there. So if you feel pained come and beat me. Mumu. Fools like you cannot keep a boyfriend let alone a husband and when they finally hook an unfortunate man it's either the man removes 30% of their teeth or they use kayanmata on the man - turn the man to mumu like them! If you like don't repent, na your life dey outside so ohh!

Eletididi:
I deactivated my 2014 nairaland account cos it was full of depressing comments..
Some of us just want a united family since kids are involved and we've come to a mutual understanding...
Before we came back together, we went for deliverance is 3-4 places and on our own accord, we did fasting and prayer and we were told things are now OK..
I got an apartment, furnished it and told them to come over to my place..
She has something worthwhile doing but I promise her I could do better and get her a shop and make life comfortable for her..
About the house, it was comfortable enough and I have some cash which should enter for business, this money is 90% and I was already envisaging a better new life..
Now, I used to have a thriving business which I make good amount of money from monthly, but I sold it because I was supposed to travel but along the line, things happened and I couldn't travel anymore.. (I wasn't duped).
All of a sudden, things began to spiral out of control.. To feed my family became an herculean task.
My wife kept crying everyday cos things didn't happen the way I told her it would..
It's been almost 3months together, we sold some things to put the kids in school but what about 2nd term?
Have prayed and fasted about these happenings and was told it will get better but when?
I went to the people I sold the shop to and we came to an agreement cos they couldn't run it the way I was running it..
So I packed all my documents, school certificates, int passport, everything in my apartment worth over 1m, to borrow a loan of just 400k to start the business again but all to no avail..
I tried selling some properties, properties worth over 1m that are mostly new, they priced everything not even up to 300k..
Been to microfinance and banks but still no reasonable outcome..
It's been 3months now, she too tried to get a job but she has been unable to land any.

She woke me up about a week ago around 2am holding a knife to my neck that she felt like killing me cos I ruined her life. Prior to this time, she was cooperating and helpful, we used all her savings to feed and take care of the house..
I have always tried to percify her that since have gotten the shop back, things will again make sense but when she saw that I have exhausted all means of getting money to run the shop, she couldn't deal anymore..
Just 3days ago when I went out, she packed some clothes, dropped the kids with our neighbor and left.. Her number have been unreachable since then. How do I arrange my life with two kids of 5and 3?
Sincerely as a man, have tried all I could..
I can't even remember the last time I had a good sleep,I got depressed to the extent of fainting sometimes ago..
I have contemplated suicide times without number but who will I leave the kids for?
I am not used to hard labor but I went out for 2 days to do it and it is seriously telling on my body considering I am just recovering from fainting and depression..
Before God and man, I am fed up and tired and don't even know the next step to take...
SADDDD

Dude that fasting and prayer you did did not scratch anything ohh...your case na emergency. Your life is indeed spiraling out of control and it seems you are at your wits end. Your battle is beyond you and you need the assistance of those that are beyond you. You do not need to go a physical location. You have a phone and you have an internet connection. There are men of GOD that you can pray with online that can join hands with you to confront whatever challenge you are facing and I can recommend these two:

Pastor Jerry Eze (pray along with this Pastor every 7am)
Senior Prophet Jeremiah OmotoFufeyin (attend services and pray along with him)

There are others but I can testify to the work of the LORD in my life courtesy of these two men of GOD. Find these men on Facebook or Youtube and pray along with them. By GOD's grace you will rise above your challenges, your wife will return to you and you will have a happy family again.

newbornmacho:
Women who consider themselves beautiful are useful for nothing except fantasizing on how they would rule men with their beauty.

Marrying them results in one drama or the other everyday

Their husbands always have to work as hard as or even harder than other men, to have access to her, because she feels she's hot cake. Stories like ...if I leave here tomorrow I have 20 men ready to take me...are what such husbands hear.

They're often low in intelligence, have very poor manners, are unable to do any manner of work, cost a ton just to maintain, and never appreciate the efforts of those around them.

I lost interest in women long ago, and seeing my gang tormented by women is annoying.

At least if you must marry , go for those who are not brainwashed to think they're beautiful, and are adding to you for that reason.

Men should avoid beautiful women like a plague. If you must go to them, use and dump them. Never give them the honour of marriage. Never.

Sorry braa. Not everyone got hooked to a beautiful piece of shit. Some of us were graced by GOD to have a woman that is beautiful, submissive, responsible and enterprising. Quite frankly the guys in your gang attracted what they were. No how she-goat go make lion deek hard. Na how eagle go take toast hen? So if you ended up with a bitch you need to be sure you are not a dog because if you are dog will always be blessed with bitches.

Opeyemiextra:
We know that traditionally, women are saddled with the responsibility of running and taking care of the home hence the title home makers while their male counterparts provide what is needed to run the home, hence the title, providers. These roles are taken seriously and failures by either party would be termed as irresponsibility.

But in recent times, we have seen an unprecedented shift and fluidity in these roles and how they are played. Women are now providers and sometimes even breadwinners while men have also been involved in running the home especially with child care. This has generated debates with some still holding on to the traditional role division.

To the reason for this post:
So, most men, at least on this platform, complain of women only wanting them because of what they can bring to the table. If the tables are turned, as a man, would you be a househusband while your wife provides?

If she is earning well enough to provide funds as I am, wow, I would love to be a househusband...no be to do housework? I will do the housework and pursue my dreams while I am at it. Learn another high level language, delve deeper into AI, learn Hebrew and Greek so I can study the original manuscripts, spend time cracking the tough questions in BD Bunday and Mullholand and even take a shot at Reimann...mehn do countless intellectually, spiritually and psychologically rewarding stuff while my wife busts her head night and day making money for us. sweet deal!

Sammydanny:
Popular Nigerian cleric, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has candidly told unmarried people about the complexities of marriage.

In a video he posted on his Instagram page, the pastor explained that marriage was not made to make people happy but was designed to make people better. He said marriage is a place you go to give, not a place to go to receive.

Pastor Kingsley explained that people must take care of things making them feel unhappy and unfulfilled before getting married and not hope that getting married will solve all their problems.

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmvdSFKziF8

I am sorry ohh. He is a pastor. And he is probably called by God but this doctrine is rubbish and unscriptural. The wise preacher, by the HolyGhost, informed us through Ecclesiastes 4: 9-12 about the benefits of marriage and these benefits bring happiness. If one person is cold the partner will provide warmth. If one falls his/her partner will be there to help and if two work together they will get a better reward than when one person works alone. If I have to be fulfilled all by myself and I can be happy all by myself then I don't need a marriage. Instead of getting married I will dedicated my life to serving the LORD and men but if I have a deficit in my life and I need help then it would make sense to get married.

Deficit was the basis for the first marriage. As perfect and good as Adam was God saw that it was not good that man should be alone. Every man has to find out himself the deficit in his life that makes it not good for him to be alone. And every woman has to figure out for themselves the man whose deficit they are equipped to effectively address. Herein lies the idea of a match. Marry your match and support each other. Leave all this motivational talk that are impracticable and out of touch with the realities of marriage!

Filmdirect:
My God! How did you come to such judgment against her from what you read? Nowhere in your response do you show the OP concern. Nowhere do you give her words creed. She is a human being, not an object! Have you never been bullied so much until you snapped? You think a woman once she becomes a wife has no snapping point? If what she says is true, is it unrealistic that she was so pained she lashed out and slapped him? Why can't he be slapped? You sound like you are talking to a slave. She is his half. TOGETHER they are ONE.

It takes an amount of violence in men to be able to protect, provide, sacrifice and lead? You are so biased. So Jesus that protects, provides, sacrifices and leads is prone to violence? So the offshoot of kindness is violence? Is this even rational thought?

This sort of advise is why women die in marriages rather than seek help. He's demeaning her, emotionally rubbishing her but she is the one causing it by somehow not being submissive? Where did you get that she has mumu pride? Listen to how you have joined her husband to tear her down further...yet you don't even know her. All you see is a female, a wife.

She doesn't have to beg him. She is his wife. She needs to talk to him and in love tell him how much he hurt her and TOGETHER they need to make it work. If the fear is still constant she needs to leave for a while, and she needs to tell people she trust what is going on. The last thing we need to read about is another dead wife.

I felt compelled to respond to the bolded. You clearly don't know Jesus. If Jesus did not have an amount of violence in Him He wouldn't have been successful.

Why didnt Jesus simply and calmly persuade the merchants and market people in the temple to cease their trading activities. No, this same Jesus went ballistic. He used a whip to chase the traders, overturned their tables and shouted at them the verse (Isaiah 56:7). Infact He referred to the traders indirectly as thieves (Matthew 21:13).

This same sweet and gentle Jesus threatened to kill the children of a fornicating prophetess if she doesn't repent (Revelations 2:20-23). It was the prophetess that sinned but Jesus was ready to slaughter her children.

The lamb of God, the gentle lily of the valley, the fragile rose of sharon, the sweet and gentle Jesus Christ, will be returning as a warlord before the great white throne judgement and when He comes there will be a bloodbath the likes of which the world has never seen nor can imagine (Revelations 19:11-21).

Jesus Himself said, if you must take the goods of a strongman you have to bind Him first. Well I am sure Jesus did exactly that because there is no way Jesus would have collected the keys to death and hell from satan without being a violent dictator (Ephesians 4:9, Revelation 1:18)

Jesus was a slain lamb but today He is a Lion (Revelations 5:5). Lions are not docile. Lions are deadly. Lions are the kings of violence. You can stroll into a lions den if you want proof.

So madam revise what you think you know about Jesus. He can be violent.

Filmdirect:
My God! How did you come to such judgment against her from what you read? Nowhere in your response do you show the OP concern. Nowhere do you give her words creed. She is a human being, not an object! Have you never been bullied so much until you snapped? You think a woman once she becomes a wife has no snapping point? If what she says is true, is it unrealistic that she was so pained she lashed out and slapped him? Why can't he be slapped? You sound like you are talking to a slave. She is his half. TOGETHER they are ONE.

It takes an amount of violence in men to be able to protect, provide, sacrifice and lead? You are so biased. So Jesus that protects, provides, sacrifices and leads is prone to violence? So the offshoot of kindness is violence? Is this even rational thought?

This sort of advise is why women die in marriages rather than seek help. He's demeaning her, emotionally rubbishing her but she is the one causing it by somehow not being submissive? Where did you get that she has mumu pride? Listen to how you have joined her husband to tear her down further...yet you don't even know her. All you see is a female, a wife.

She doesn't have to beg him. She is his wife. She needs to talk to him and in love tell him how much he hurt her and TOGETHER they need to make it work. If the fear is still constant she needs to leave for a while, and she needs to tell people she trust what is going on. The last thing we need to read about is another dead wife.

You wouldn't have typed all you just typed if the man was the person doing the slapping due to the barrage of nagging or verbal abuse from the wife. You would have declared the man a beast for reacting to verbal abuse by slapping his wife. As for me I believe for every effect there is a cause and that is why before I blindly interfere in a matter of domestic violence I try to understand the root causes and start from there. That is why I started my post by asking what she did with her brain when she was choosing a spouse. Did her brain go on sabbatical leave when he was proposing? All she typed about her husband was bad with the exception of acknowledging he performs his duties as a provider (of both sexual and financial obligations). So if her husband was such a monster how come she so gladly married him and even had kids for him. I would like to ask her that if we were to relax the laws on murder for her sake and grant her the opportunity to kill her husband without any consequences coming to her would she kill her husband immediately and move on? If her answer is "Yes" then she was the fool that played herself. She married her enemy and that's on her. And if her response is "No" then it means her husband is not a monster and can be reasoned with.

Now on to the later position. If her husband is not a monster then she needs to get the root cause of his bad attitude. By her own admission her husband seems to be hell bent on subduing her. If her husband is not a monster but a good man with a bloated ego then she needs to do well to stop feeding that part of him that seeks to subdue her. And I explained to her that she can stop feeding that abusive part of him by being submissive to him. Yes, I don't believe in blind submission. Only a mad woman will submit to a man that wants to kill her. I will never advise any woman to submit to a monster because monsters have no sympathy for friends or foes. Everyone is a victim in the eyes of a monster. But if her husband is not a monster then she should block that domineering part of her husband by submitting to him. Clearly she has tried resisting the man and she can see it is backfiring. Would it be right to keep doing what has repeatedly failed? If she submits to him his domineering attitude will be diminish and she will gain the power to influence him. Contrary to what you think, I am not tearing her down. It is foolish kicking against the pricks. Unless she has made up her mind to exit the marriage, she has to apologise to her husband and get the help of elders. If she doesn't do this, her husband will be driven by his ego to his own hurt. He is already planning something disastrous and I assure you if he is not stopped this lady will return here with even worse news.

50pseamer:
I would like to share my current situation on this platform , and I will very much appreciate your mature advice on the issue.

I have been having issues with my wife after our first born, we married about 3 years ago, our first born is now about 2 years old, we have been having series of issues In the marriage, my wife argues with me a lot on flimsy issues at times, we do not have constant sex, although I started helping more in the house,I cook and and I do the laundry , and asked her to give me my share of the work, when she complained about work load,I am the only one really working now, and paying 98 percent of the bills.

I told my wife that I will like us to be eating together on the same plate to improve closeness, she refused, she sees arguement as normal discussion, sometimes we have sex once or twice in a month, I have told her I will like us all to attend the same church and pray together, but she still attends her Nigerian church online , where they are always seeing vision , and I do not like her attending that church.she also attends online services of my church with me, but I would like us to be attending one church even if it is not my church.
I asked her recently that we need to be praying together for our marriage even if it is 10 minutes every day, after weeks of no response from her,I approached her yesterday and scolded her about it, she cried and I comforted her, I later asked her at night to come for the prayer,and she said she is not coming.
We live abroad and my mum wants to pay us a visit,
She told me the kitchen is her's and my mum should not enter the kitchen, and I told her that it will be difficult, we can pre cook all our food, But she might need to make tea and I will like her to be able to do that by her self , but my wife refused.
In her church she is attending they already branded. My mother a witch. Even if my mother is a witch, we only need to pray against it, should we humiliate her when she visits us? I cannot make my wife my mother, she does not show me much love and does not show that she cares, neither does she respect me. My mum shows me love that I can feel.

Now we are living like neighbours in the same house.
Do you think she is interested in the marriage or has another plan?

This is what happens when couples get carried away by passions and refuse or forget to discuss the hard issues before marriage. Your wife is still a girl and she is yet to evolve into a woman. First, stop arguing with her. Train yourself to stop arguing. If she wants to keep arguing let her argue with herself. Second, stop eating what she prepares and stop preparing what she will eat. Solutions are appreciated when we are the extremes. If you haven't had water for one week you will appreciate water more than someone who had a drink a couple of minutes ago. Third, observe your wives movements very closely and keep evidence of actions or inaction. Fourth, keep your plans, aspirations and ambitions to yourself. Keep a lid on your affairs...If these four moves are done right, you should be able to bring to the surface the real reason she is acting the way she is acting because believe me there is something driving her behavior you just don't know it yet. Now as you do these things, remember that when men and women forsake you the LORD God will not forsake you. Go to GOD in prayers and ask for him to expose the reason for your wife's inappropriate behavior and when it is revealed ask the LORD God to help you fix your marriage!

AllKnowing:
I’m having this problem with almost every female. It’s almost one reason why considering marriage is a problem now... These women are not ready to declare their finances.

I hate asking any woman for money. So this isn’t a case of knowing her finances to ask for loans or something.

However, I love openness in a partner. Declare any and everything as I would. Conflicts in relationships start from secrecy.

Guys, what’s your take?

Oh yes everything has to be declared. Past, present and future must be declared if not something fishy is about to go down. As far as finances are concerned every wealth in my home is the commonwealth of the family. I have no personal finance. My wife has no personal finance. We both work towards building the commonwealth of the home. I know some would say "what if she divorces you" and my response to them is why marry a spouse with the expectation of a divorce? If divorce is on the table then marriage should not happen at all. I know this is farfetched for many but this is what I took to the LORD God in prayer before I met my wife and the LORD God made it beautiful in His time.

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

You are likely right. If he has stopped having sex with you then he is most likely already in the process of planning to hurt you badly. First, if all you said about him is true then I wonder where you kept your brain when he was proposing to wed you. Second, if you can slap your husband then I can guess that you are the person provoking your husbands attitude towards you. You are not submissive to your husband. By your own admission, your husband cares for the kids, does his obligations to you financially and before now performs his duties as a lover. Your husband is likely in the top 10% of men globally who don't fool around but your insubordination has provoked his domineering stance towards you. If this is the case you need to swallow your mumu pride and beg him for forgiveness. Beg him to forgive your insubordination and if his behavior does not change within a week, confess all that happened to your parents/pastor/counsellor and ask them to plead on your behalf. Lastly, you will gain nothing from contending with your husband. If you wanted a sparing partner you should have remained single. A real man that believes in protecting, providing, sacrificing and leading his home is the last person you want to fight because it takes an amount of violence in men to be able to protect, provide, sacrifice and lead. You don't want to confront that part of him. Instead of contending with your husband be the woman and conquer on your knees. From my observation of good men, they are easily confused by a submissive wife. Submission makes a real man weak and vulnerable and that is why wise men are wary of those who seek to please them!

Mikefrik:
Abeg, I advice all of you who have not yet taken or who still have it in mind to take it,
Abeg make una run as fast as una leg go fit carry una o.
If I begin to dey share my experience after taking this nonsense vaccine ehn, see, that thing is not a vaccine o. It puts sickness into your body. Could you all imagine I took the vaccine on friday, what is today? wednesday Abi? As I'm typing this message, I no get my self. That thing wan kill me. I no fit do anything (hotness, my eyes wan Comot,) I even go buy malaria drugs mix am with panadol o, but till now I'm down. Please, don't take the vaccine.
#TheCovidvaccine.

Wow. Sorry oh. You should pray that the vaccine doesn't turn you into something else. Pray oh.

References:
https://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20211208005542/en/Pfizer-and-BioNTech-Provide-Update-on-Omicron-Variant?utm_campaign=shareaholic&utm_medium=twitter&utm_source=socialnetwork

Pfizer makes the vaccine and Pfizer says it works quite fine...arrant nonsense. Submit findings from an RCT published in a peer reviewed journal of reputable standing.

Arrowss:
Well, I already took the first jab, I can't know it's the mark of the beast and still take it when I know the implications is eternal damnation, what I was expecting according to the bible is 666, and to be on right hand, since the jab is The mark of the beast as you have just said, God will be done. I cannot support Satan and will never ever, the vaccine doesn't mean I support Satan or align with Satan, I took the vaccine without knowledge that it's the mark of the beast. Even though it doesn't matter anymore, I will not take the second jab or the booster now that I know.

The problem is no one really knows what the mark of the beast is because no one really knows the meaning of what John wrote.

Revelation 13:18 Here is wisdom. Let him that hath understanding count the number of the beast: for it is the number of a man; and his number is Six hundred threescore and six.

In the Greek, the original language in which the above verse was written, the red color portion was rendered as: χξς . Greek letters, like Hebrew, have numbers that they connotes and the first letter (chi) represents 600, the second (xi) represents 60 and the third (stigma), an obsolete letter, represents 6. Now translators add all these numbers to get 666 but this does not necessarily make this translation correct. Those three letters of the Greek alphabet are a code and only the children of God to whom it is revealed will be able to decipher this mark when they see it. God would not have inspired John to write down the exact mark of beast over 2000 years ago knowing fully well the adversary could decide to change the mark in order for it to remain undetected by Christians and anyone looking out for Bible prophecy. So I can emphatically tell you, no one is ever going to ask you to come and take a mark 666, but these three letters χξς could help you detect the exact mark when it is about to be administered. Many foolish Christians, like the 5 foolish virgins in Matthew 25:1-12, will hastily and gullibly take the mark under the guise of supporting proclamations of scientific authorities. I fear this is why Jesus said "if it were possible they shall deceive the very elect" (Matthew 24:24) because it will look like something innocuous but many will be deceived into taking the mark because it will not look like 666 or something deadly and it will come under the guise of supporting scientific authorities. Watch and pray bro!

Siwel25:
Are you for real? Did you take Polio and small pox vaccines as a baby? Why haven't the MOB be inscribed on your head? Let us stop these beer parlor news we peddle around please.

Don't we all take drugs? Are drugs not the result of science? No one is doubting the wonders of science and how it has benefitted us all. What we question is the politicization of COVID. I have a couple of questions for you. (1) Why didn't WHO warn the world early, before January 2020, of human to human transmission of the COVID virus (2) Why isn't China allowing independent investigators from WHO to fully investigate the origins of COVID in line with international best research practices (3) Why were repurposed drugs that showed impressive results in the treatment of COVID not researched by WHO, CDC, NIH and NHS? (4) Why did the NIH under Dr. Fauci fund gain of function research in the Wuhan Institute of Virology after such studies were banned in the US by the Obama administration due to deadly risks associated with such studies? (5) Why is it that till today no pharmaceutical company has agreed or researched the possibility that deaths after receiving the COVID jabs were caused or aggravated in part or entirely due to the vaccines? (6) Is the Moderna RNA shot really a vaccine as defined by the CDC or is it an experimental gene therapy? (7) Vaccines by definition are meant to help you produce antibodies to fight disease yet with the COVID vaccines you can still contract COVID and spread it. Are these vaccines really vaccines? ( Lastly, if as a social scientist, I have to study papers on molecular biology to sieve through the pool of misinformation and fact to ensure that I am not made a scapegoat or guinea pig, do you think anyone in his or her right mind will blindly trust mainstream media news on COVID? Food for thought!

paltielx:
cdc.gov and from Dr Fauci himself

So Dr. Fauci is a peer reviewed paper in a reputable journal. You just committed the logical fallacy, argumentum ad verecundiam. So because Dr. Fauci/CDC is a medical authority it makes him the final arbiter of truth, right? Rubbish. If you cannot produce a peer reviewed research paper in a reputable journal of medical science backing your claims then I strongly advise you shut up. You are following Dr Fauci/CDC with blind faith very much like a religious adherent without asking for the facts from rigorous research. The results of this research paper: Comparing SARS-CoV-2 natural immunity to vaccine-induced immunity: reinfections versus breakthrough infections suggest that the effectiveness of the vaccines has waned significantly for vaccinees that received the two jabs compared to those who have natural immunity and my guess is that with the newer Omicron variant the effectiveness of the shots will drop even further. So ma guy, if you cannot produce evidence based claims about the vaccines and their effectiveness you should keep your mouth shut and stop worshipping Reverend Dr Fauci and his church the CDC. Follow the science and not Dr Fauci.

paltielx:
First non of the vaccine is 100% protective, on average it's 90% protective second, after taking the first two vaccine you are to take the booster vaccine periodically, that has been launch in nigeria of recent

What is your source? Please quote a peer reviewed published research paper with this your statistic or else it is a blatant lie.

Arnoldo:
are you not mad like this? Someone’s son was killed you say they are too fast.. you better use your head o

You sure sey d guy get head at all?

theForth:
Hey guys, what's up?

I was at my uncle's place today with my mum, I noticed his wife complained about something bitterly because they had a private chat and it was so unlike her.

After the whole visiting, I asked my mother what was wrong and she told me that my uncle cooks his own food all the time and even does his laundry alone and his wife doesn't like it, and although she's been complaining for over 5 years but he doesn't seem to change. I asked for my mum's opinion and she said she'd be totally uncomfortable if her husband doesn't eat her food year to year, same with my babe.

Is it wrong for a married man to cook his own food?

It is not wrong but it could be a sign of a bitter quarrel between man and wife. If the husband does his dishes, cooks his meal, does his laundry and provides for the home without asking for support from the wife then ask about their sex life. If the man has also refused to have sex with his wife then she must have done or said something horrible to that man and the man has reverted to his life as a bachelor. If the man sustains this pattern of behavior, the marriage will hit the rocks in the not distant future!

tammyf:
Hi ,
..this matter came to me by a girl and I'm confused how to advice her so I need matured ,experienced and wise contributions please ..

She is 18 going to 19.done with waec .... got impregnated by a guy 5months ago .d boy denied .she met a boy who assisted her ,tool care of her till she aborted the baby cos she doesn't like the guy.it was a mistake .

Now she stays with her grandma who is struggling to feed .the boy who helped her abort took care of her waec (2021 waec) ... the boy was just in town for a little job.

Her dad (biological ) raped and discovered her a year ago...she fought will all her might but couldn't over come him.she ran away and went to her mum .d mum didn't believe the step dad currently married to the mum made series of advances on her and threatened not to pay her fees if she doesn't give in to him.she told the mum n d mum sent her to the grandma to save her marriage .

Back to the young man that has been helping her ,they fe inlove.he has been looking for a baby .they agreed to hv a child together. Now she is one month gone.the man is back to his state cos job finished n he is broke .

Young man wanted to come see the mum but mum refused cos he has nothing doing and said she must abort it.she wants to take the daughter to the clinic to abort it .little girl is scared cause of the local abortion she did 5months ago for another guy.

Mumsy drove her out of grandma's house ,said until she agrees to abort it .the young man is broke. She is living n hanging with friends now .met me for advice and I said I will reply her in 3days time.

Mumsy has poisoned the heart of all uncles n aunties not to help her .mummies excuses are she is too young ,she needs to go to sch ,what will people say,she wants to make the same mistake I made....

What does she do? From her statement she rather commit suicide dan abort her baby who can help? Any gov agency or what? Any contribution?

The mumsi ohh, dadsi (rapist) oh, the girl oh, the lover boy oh...all need chronic deliverance!

Timekeeper:
I think there is a evil that reside in a lady once she gets married... As in, some married women are so selfish and wicked... S

Let me give these instances;

1. Their own brothers and sisters come to her husband home and there is no issue.. He/she (wife siblings) has unrestricted access to everything in the house since it's her sister's husband house.. But when the husband siblings come, they have restricted access to some things in the house.. Any attempt to go futher, the wife start bringing up attitude towards them..

2. The wife mother comes and she is free to stay as long as she wants but if the husband mother comes, the selfish wife is already asking the husband when will mama leave for her place....

3. The husband sends money to her family, no problem, the husband sends to his family, then there is need for him to be accountable for the money sent to his own parents oooo..

4. Husband sponsors wife siblings to school and all is fine.. Husband sponsors his own siblings and the wife develops hatred automatically towards the sibling bcox she thinks they are draining her husband resources..


Some married women are wicked soul in disguise. Bad enough, you wunt see these attitudes in them until they are married.

I still wonder and ask; why are some married woman so selfish and demonic in nature?

The man in this instances is not a husband. He is just a roommate.

dalass:
He's entitled to his opinion. In my opinion, I also have plan B. With the leaders we hayin this country, so should you

It is his church and his pulpit. He can say whatever he feels is okay to whoever cares to listen. The audience on the other hand can't boo anyone. They can walk away or go straight to the government house to boo whoever they want to

You are not coherent at all. You claim the pastor can air his opinion but the audience cannot...does that make any sense? Are the audience any less human than Adefarasin? You claim it is his church and his pulpit so Adefarasin is the god worshipped in his church? How interesting! If Adefarasin is entitled to his opinion, so are the church members or attendees of the experience program. If Adefarasin can express political views in church so can the attendees of the experience program and if it is unscriptural to boo a failed politician then it is unscriptural as well to criticize the leadership of the country for their failed leadership. He should practice what he preached. If he is asking his audience to pray for Nigerian leaders he should have done the same instead of criticising the Nigerian leadership before a camera.

Deborah98:
It's all choices. Whether or not she answers your surname doesn't change the fact she's Married and under your leadership now..The main reason why I see it as important is for a new identity that's all. From Ms to Mrs,at least that shows respect and a simple courtesy from whoever addressing you now that you're married

Me I am not even ready for my wife to stress herself. She uses my surname in conversations and petty transactions but I told her to retain her name for now until we get the time and effort to begin deal with names. She is interested in changing her name but I am not pushing it because it means nothing to me. I won't become a billionaire if she changes her name and I won't lose my salvation if she doesn't change her name...so what the fuss about!

JackDaAlienz:
Air peace flight ticket 100k
Delayed for 8 hours

With that 100k, I go enter bus 10k
before 8 hours I go don near my destination

Use your money wisely

If bandit hold you for road you go vomit the remaining 90k and finally trek from Ore to Lagos.

dalass:


The Experience wasn't a political rally, it was a Worship for Christians.

Pastor Paul can't be expected to support the booing. Its wrong.

They can do rally and go to the governor to express their grievances

...but the same pastor can advise his church members to have a plan B in terms of countries to move to in the event that Nigeria goes up in flames. If he as a pastor has the right to use the pulpit, the altar of God, which is not his altar, to promote his political views why is it a crime for Christians to also promote their political views right there in the church programme. Church leaders should stop being diplomatic with the ways of God. Our politicians do not deserve any religious platform because they have made life difficult for the weak and the poor.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XsSJSAB5i8A

Babtech001:
Our Son Acted As A School Father For Sylvester, He Is Innocent — Late Buruji Kashamu’s Family Speaks

The family of the late Senator Buruji Kashamu says Michael Kashamu, one of five students of Dowen College, Lekki, Lagos named to have allegedly attacked Sylvester Oromoni, is innocent, Igbere TV reports.

In a statement issued on the family’s behalf by Mutairu Kashamu, the family called for calm and supported the ongoing investigation into the matter.

In the statement, the late senator’s family explained that, “Our son, Michael Kashamu, had acted as a school father for the late Sylvester in his first session in the school.”

The family, however, clarified that Michael had ceased to be the “school father” of the deceased when he was allegedly bullied.

Igbere TV reports that the family called for the alleged cyber bullying which it has been subjected to since the incident became public knowledge to stop.



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1068425183948208&id=100023422103861

Whoever is advising these mumu spokespersons isn't reminding them of the legal ramifications of talking anyhow. By this spokesperson's admission, the deceased by beaten and robbed contradicting the reports by the school authorities that none of these happened in the school. Make una dey confess dey go. Your words will become handy evidence in court.

Jayzel:
I've been dating my beautiful damsel for over 6 years now (2015), she has been financially supportive to me when things were so rough for me untill now things are a bit balance, since when our relationship kickoff we have never fought for once, we do argue most~times and later in the day we settle it inside our bedroom at night, she's so respectful and honest to both me and my family members.

There's a pretty damsel working in a UBA bank close to my residencial area here in Oniru Lekki, when I do return every~day from my working place I do branch at the bank to save some money in my account, the lady is my favourite cashier so I do give her the money and take my leave, so later in the day she will transfer the money into my account without no delay at all. But yesterday she called me on phone that she wanted us to hang out together (today being sunday) that all bills & expenses on her. I'm seriously confused now.

I still love my current girlfriend and i don't wanna hurt her feeling's, plz help out peers.

The spirit of mumu is about play ludo with your destiny brother. You have been wiping a lady since 2015 and another one is enticing you. When one of them pours acid on you don't come here to lament ohh. You better marry the lady you have been sleeping with and take your life seriously.