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Nigerian Army Laments Police Brutality In Secret Letter, Says Soldiers Are Being Killed, Harmed



http://saharareporters.com/2021/11/25/exclusive-nigerian-army-laments-police-brutality-secret-letter-says-soldiers-are-being

This is sweet news. You two should annihilate each other. You two are threats to every unarmed civilian.

Breeze111:
Early this year, my babe broke up with me. According to her, she told me there is a man who is asking her hand for marriage and her parent has already giving her the go ahead to marry d man..

She told me the man is rich and promise to buy her car, bla-bka-bla so I told her there is no problem, she can go ahead since am not ready yet after all am just a shoe-maker still waiting for my NYSC...

Bt of lately like last two weeks this babe started disturbing me that we should come and she is sorry... Well I don't know how she get to know that my mum lent me 600k to start up, of wish am doing well now by his "Grace" and at the same time serving my country presently...

So according to her, she say the man just only wanted to sleep with her and because she refuse and told the man to wait till after their wedding the man broke up with her...as it stands now I don't really know what to do...

She is a traitor. Stay away from her. Focus on your business. I can guess she adds nothing to your life but drama.

Jodha:
My dear if yhu think all ladies are poverty stricken...yhure wrong...why will i be clamouring for a car that is not mine?..
If I want a car .... I'll work towards getting one.....


I'm trying to say yhur character as a guy matter also....money is important....but it's not all there is...

Read to understand...

You can't have it all. If the man has got his life fixed entirely you are useless to him. A man with sound character and yet a lot of money does not need anything from you but your cheap hole (sorry but it's true because there are millions of women who have nothing to offer but their holes)!

BigJoe19:
Men work on your personality yen yen yen yen
Men work on your finances yen yen yen yen
Men work on your dressing yen yen yen yen

Women? Don't work on anything just have a hole. Nonsense, men should always work on something for you women If you want great personality why don't you go and meet Jesus Christ or mould your own man

Tell then bro. Make dem get small sense!

hashtagged:
95% of women want money everyone wants money stop being a hypocrite, if you don't need money go and marry a broke poor boy, you would probably say no deep down.

And it's true have money and ladies would come like flies

You deserve a medal for this! These ladies want the best of all worlds. They want the man to be super rich and yet be a saint forgetting that the way to becoming stunningly rich these days requires most men to engage in sharp practices. If you don't want to be part of building the man you want then die and go and marry the LORD Jesus Christ. He is unimaginably rich and has the finest character the world has ever known.

Child of which god? She must be the child of the god of this world. Because na only the god of this world they manufacture pikin with ashawo vibes.

SundayNightGist:
Baba which one be unwitting fool again?

¹ Also, does it mean this your doctrine as shared above is now outdated or has been deliberately adultrated seeing that majority of singles these days have already tasted the forbidden fruit, and knowing that if this your point were to be enforced then very very few will ever get married?

² Lastly, back to the unwitting fool part, are you implying that anyone who agrees to marry a non-virgin (community d/p or not) is an unwitting fool? ³ What then is the way forward in all this? What is the hope of the virgin Sir?

Again I look forward to your rich reply as always
Cheers my good bro

On your first point, the law of the LORD GOD it is misleading to use the term "outdated". First we can agree that every word of the LORD GOD is LAW (Matthew 4:4). Meaning every word of the LORD GOD is perfect, binding over whom it is directed at, overrides every other law and cannot return to the LORD GOD void yet can only amended or tempered by the LORD GOD. The law of the LORD GOD hence can be in three categories. The word of the LORD GOD can be eternally binding or for a time and it could be fulfilled or unfulfilled. When the law of the LORD GOD is fulfilled it is considered by some to be "abolished" or "no longer to be observed as it was but as it has been fulfilled". I shall give examples. When the LORD GOD in Ezekiel 36:25-28 sent the prophecy of the new covenant to the house of Israel He spoke of an eternal covenant which at the time was not yet fulfilled. When the passover feast of the LORD GOD prophesied in Exodus 12:1-14 it was an eternal ordinance as seen in Exodus 12:13 but it was fulfilled under the old covenant (the old covenant is explained simply in Joshua 1:8 ) by the sacrifice of a lamb without blemish and as seen in Exodus 12:14 the feast of passover was christened so because it was the time when the LORD GOD promised to "pass over" every house that was marked by the blood of the lamb. However this sacrifice of the passover was fulfilled by Jesus Christ as he became the passover sacrifice (Matthew 26:2). Jesus hung on the cross on the feast of passover and His blood was sprinkled on the mercy seat of the ark of covenant as revealed by Ron Wyatt during his archaeological findings in Jeremiah grotto under the Golgotha escarpment (see this video: Source ). Hence under the new covenant as prophesied again in Hebrews 8:10 the law of the passover was fulfilled again with the sacrifice of Christ. Hence when we are to obey the passover feast we are to observe it in the light of the latest fulfilment of it and that is why the sacrifice of lambs is "abolished" and the sacrifice to walk in is the sacrifice of Jesus Christ. Jesus taught us how to observe the passover (Luke 22:15-20) and this is what we currently know today as the "holy comunion" but I'd rather refer to it as the feast of the passover. Then there are laws that are eternal but have remained unfulfilled and an example is what we have in Isaiah 11:1-10. So one should not use the term "outdated" with the word of the LORD GOD. The word of the LORD GOD is either eternal or for a time, fulfilled or not yet fulfilled.

As for the remedy for those who have already defiled themselves, there is hope in the rehabilitation powers of the passover sacrifice of the LORD Jesus Christ. The problem with many is that they jump into marriage without fixing the errors of their past. How can you rape the daughters of others and get the daughters of other men (future wives of other men) pregnant and supervise the abortion of babies and you expect to have a blissful marriage. You need to fix your past with the washing of the word, the action of the HolyGhost and the grace of Jesus Christ.

On the second/third point, attitudes and character are built over time and cannot be erased overnight. A lady that has spent more than two decades going from man to man cannot be faithful overnight because she got married. A man that has raped ladies, aborted babies and has led a life of violence cannot be a responsible gentleman overnight because he got married. Only a fool will attempt to weld iron to polythene bag. Intending couples must declare their past, seek rehabilitation/deliverance and sustain a life of righteousness before getting married.

SundayNightGist:

Bros you too much
This your analysis na die!

But you mixed something up-
Please refer to the struck out lines above
By that are you now saying it is not a sin to sleep with someone you are yet to marry as long as you have both agreed to marry yourselves in future?

Respond abeg my bro
I dey gbadun this your lamba

It depends on how you define marriage. Now let's go to Sunday school shall we? Now read the following verses:

Deuteronomy 22:23-24, 28-29 If a damsel that is a virgin be betrothed unto an husband, and a man find her in the city, and lie with her; Then ye shall bring them both out unto the gate of that city, and ye shall stone them with stones that they die; the damsel, because she cried not, being in the city; and the man, because he hath humbled his neighbour's wife: so thou shalt put away evil from among you...If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

Now the word BETROTHED in Hebrew is pronounced "aw-ras" and it means to be ENGAGED. The verses considers the betrothed virgin (not yet wedded) lady to be the spouse of the man she is betrothed to who the verse refers to as a HUSBAND. Now if such a lady being betrothed (not wedded) sleeps with another man it is considered adultery and the punishment for adultery is exacted against the duo. This means the moment you are engaged (not wedded) to a person of the opposite sex marriage has started. While intercourse before the payment of the bride price is frowned upon it is not punishable at all. The verses 28 and 29 proves this. So if a man finds a lady that is not betrothed to any man and they both have intercourse the man in question is to pay the bride price of 50 shekels of silver and live with that lady for the rest of his life and he is barred from ever divorcing her - which as proven by Christ, was the original intention for marriage. (Mark 10: 11-12).

So if according to the error of the times you consider marriage as starting after wedding then you are right sex before wedding is wrong but if you adhere to the law of the LORD GOD and you consider marriage to have started at the point of betrothal or engagement then sex before wedding is not unlawful.

As a matter of fact if churches enforced it that whoever you bang first is your spouse, adultery and fornication will end immediately. Any lady who is not a virgin and is unmarried will be considered a divorcee and any man who has had sex before will also be considered a divorcee. No one will marry them because marriage to divorcees is against the law as shown earlier in Mark 10:11-12. Hence all men and women will automatically fall into any one of three categories. You are can be married or a virgin or a widow/widower but because of the erroneous doctrines our churches teach today we have two more categories: oloshos and community deeks and these later two categories of people are in church hoping to get married to an unwitting fool!

SundayNightGist:
You mean tainted by sex (recall, I didn't talk about sex in my original post though)?
Eh Sir, is it a sin for a church boy to have a girlfriend?
Lastly, does the type of oloshoism also matter?

If by girlfriend you mean temporary fouk make you and I both know that it is a sin to have such because the lady you have banged will ultimately become the wife of someone else (adultery in advance) and your past sexual encounter with her predisposes both you and her to have sex again even if both of you have your spouses. But if by girlfriend you mean a wife you have sworn to be with no matter what then it is not a sin even if you are not yet wedded because the scriptures betrothal or engagement as the start of a marital union...but you do not intend to marry a lady then it is awfully wrong to sleep with the lady. Well it doesn't matter the type of olosho the lady is because olosho is olosho they will give you high blood pressure and cart away with your wealth...but if what you seek is a fouk mate then it is likely that you will end up with an olosho and you may want to know the types of olosho so that you can understand the branch of olosho-management you would like to specialize in.

SundayNightGist:
Honestly, I used to believe some things belonged to the red light district. Or is it just me? Seeing that I was raised a church boy with little to no experience chiking babes, I couldn’t imagine myself ever dating a girl that now makes me think twice. Like, am I now mad or what? How did I get here?

Since I met this my new girl, it’s just been as if the veil of "ignorance" is beginning to fall off my face; abi guy man don dey spoil go be that ni?

Or how else can I explain to this honorable forum that my current girlfriend, though a manager at her company, likes to wear waist-beads? I mean she even wears it to work!

Although I somehow like the sight of it on her waist, I just can’t get the idea of thinking she might be a corporate olosho out of my head. This thing is sowing seeds of mistrust in me and I really don’t know what to do again. And it’s not like I haven’t told her. Everytime I do she will just look at me with a side-eye, rub my head, and laugh briefly. Shey I never carry load wey no be my own like this? Abi na my mind? Make e no be say na person glory dey on the line so o. The thing dey fear me walahi.

Nairalanders please advise a brother urgently.

You were raised a church boy and you are having a girlfriend...girlfriend and church boy shouldn't be in the same sentence. If you have slept with her already you are likely hooked and if you are not hooked you must have been tainted somehow. If your sense have not been blown sky high by sex, learn about her friends, where she likes to relax, what her favourite drink is, what her sexual fantasies are etc... from your investigation you should be able to tell the species of the olosho you are dealing with. Whether na corporate olosho, or institutional olosho or undercover olosho you go know!

Marriage is easy...the people forming it are difficult

younglleo:
Na To the build and test rubbish dis man sabi,with his north korean counterpart!
Senseless individuals, the war kwanu we never see, jst initial gragra

The more countries are prepared for war and the greater the likely devastation from war the less likely a war can breakout. "There is no such thing as a harmless old man". If you must live long in peace be a beast!

Death is the one teacher whose class we all try to skip...but no matter how rich, poor, noble or deficient we are, we all shall sit for his once-in-a-lifetime examination! My prayer is that I excel exceedingly when my time comes!

gentlesil:
Well I think I have to share few things to strangers here because I feel very said recently, and it is turning into a serious hatred for my husband that may lead to something else.
I am about 38, have two daughters. I wanted at least one boy, since this two are girls.
But my husband says no more child for now. For economic reason (the economy is very hard on him, he says)
I am really not comfortable with only two girls and he doesn't believe that things may change in future.
Please I prefer mature ladies and married counselor's opinion on this.
Thanks

Na wah ohh...wonders will never end in this life. See this wan ohh. Your husband doesn't want you to die untimely death from childbirth or from poverty and you are here bickering about having a male child. Are female children not enough. I am a man and to GOD I am hoping for all my children to be beautiful girls like their momma and you are here looking for male child like they will give you salary for having a male child...don't kill that responsible man with your mumuciousness ohhh. Let him make money to take care of the wonderful children you have now and when he is buoyant enough to have another you two can try again.

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little.
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family.

Please don't insult me because I am in a relationship though it's a young relationship and I cherish my man I just see myself falling for this neighbor.

That fine gentleman is the product of the chipping and chiseling of marriage...it could be that he is a fine gentleman due to the activity of his wife and you may not be able to produce the same effect as the wife of that man. I would suggest that you keep your distance before you buy market. That woman's meat could easily be your poison and when it will dawn on you it may be too late. Find your own man and chip away until he becomes the fine gentleman you've always dreamed of.

MISSNORA:
Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

This is the shit that happens when kindergartners get married. First you married a lady that has been processed by your friend. You don't know the extent of the processing and you don't know the finished product. Next you sit down there like a fool watching your wife indoctrinate you slowly into a polyandrous relationship. Dude first you need to ask GOD for sense. Second, you need to draw the lines in the sand visibly for both you and your wife to see. She has to know that all communications with past sexual contacts (particularly the ones next door) are banned and you must abide by this rule yourself. Three, you two need to attend marriage counseling again.

Denvacandy:
We got married in 2018 and things where going smooth, i was working with a company in port harcourt and i can bodly say i was very okay, taking flight is not an issue.

When she wanted to give birth to our first child, it was through CS and i paid every damn bills amounting to 500k or so.

We moved down to ogun state and i was taking flight monthly to see her from port harcourt.

Fast forward to 2020, the comapny fold up and i lost my job, i came down to ogun fully with my wife and everything went down, feeding was hard and my savings is drying up.

You know how woman do and how to satisfy them so my savings eventually dried up and the reality was down.

She applied for a teaching job at govt school and she got employed and i was always at home.

Do she was supportive but its didnt took long when she changed and started treating me badly.

I was so sad the day she utter all terirble words to me, on how have not been a good husband and how i have not been dropping money for food and co.

how i have not been taking care of her, i almost moved to tears and i refused to eat her food for some period, i was being supported by a street friend.

How can someone you have sacrificed so much for all of a sudden change and bring out thier true color.

Dude you erred in two areas. One, you married a fool. No offense bruv. I am sorry I am going hard on you but it is true. While you were jumping flights and blowing the cash your wife did not deem it fit to ensure that you invest and create wealth that would form the basis of the commonwealth of your home. Two, you are also equally foolish sir. No offense. What were you thinking? You were making money all this while but you did not think to invest? Do you think your children will inherit your job? Dude your family is hanging on the balance. Your enemy will start making suggestions to your wife. Your wife is obviously spiritually compromised. You need to polish your CV, get your ass out there, meet with friends, bust into firms in your area and ask for a job and most importantly fast and pray that GOD rewards your hustle with success. And when you get back on your feet, make a conscious decision to never be a fool. Fools see everything as consumables but the wise see everything as investments. When GOD said be fruitful and multiply HE didn't just mean that you should breed like rabbits...HE intended you to become powerful enough to subdue the earth. So be wise. Get out there. Be aggressive with your desire to succeed. Work honestly. Grow wealth and watch your (sorry to say this again) foolish wife sing a new song!

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

Mumu! Did she open nairaland thread to ask if 2 months is too short for her to start spending your money. Na why men of these days dey always raise the bar of mumuciousness bayi. As soon as you decide to start spending on her decide to ask her for sex. If she agrees then congratulations you have bought yourself a prostitute and no amount of rubber will protect you from the disaster that will follow. If she disagrees, ask her why. If her response is that she is not a prostitute and that before you can access her portal you must follow due process of meeting her parents, paying bride price and doing a wedding then congratulations you are either about to be hooked by a bitchy desperado with a body-count of 100 or a wife material that will support you throughout life...but if her response goes something like "ahhn ahhn we just met na, you ought to spoil me first na", then congratulations you are in the presence of ritualist or a scammer...in the end, the probability that you will end up getting certified as a fellow of the Chartered Institute of Mumu (CHIMU) is about 95%. Good luck.

Bola146:
Wahala in marriages especially when the foundation is faulty I'll never advise a idle lady to go into marriage, she must have something little to support her husband at home, she should learn a handiwork or business, instead of spending much on wedding, they can use it for her to start a business and do a low key wedding. If she can't understand your financial condition as an adult and how Nigeria economy is so bad now, I don't know what else she needs. Emotionally she might be disturbed for infertility.

This has nothing to do with whether a lady has something doing or not. An ingrate is an ingrate irrespective of her financial status. A good wife will support her husband particularly when the man is a responsible man making the necessary sacrifices to build a good future for the family. A woman that cannot build with her husband but rather whines and complains at his struggles is not worthy of a responsible husband at all!

silvoclaira:
@Op I feel for you and the family. Things are really expensive out here and money nor reach.

https://www.nairaland.com/6853192/inflation-women-please-pity-husbands

Please just take it easy on your wife. The pressure on you is the same kind of pressure on her too.

Things are really hard this times in Nigeria, so we only have to be patient and try absorbing all the shocks okay.

I believe you are a good man, your wife is a good woman.

If She is into business which is a daily thing so, she should know how tough things are today and you both can work it out better. You both should have a honest discussion of what is on ground today.

Lastly try and be in your best mind and shape, eat food. Take care of yourself and be healthy.

What honest discussion are you referring to again? They already had the honest discussion with the ungrateful wife spewing trash on the man that is trying hard to secure a good future for the family. Bia @distinguish I will advice you to involve a third party in this matter because at this rate if you are not careful high blood pressure will rapidly catch up with you unawares...that statement from your wife is completely uncalled for and the amount of violence in her words is comparable to physical violence. I am very sure you are still reeling from the pain of that statement. I will advise that you involve her parents about what she said and if her parents will not correct her and make her apologize for that wicked statement consult your pastor or religious leader and if your wife still does not apologize for her wrong then you know you are in for a ton of trouble and the next decision is in your court. If women can walk out of a marriage in the name of domestic violence, men should equally not tolerate verbal/emotional violence...toxicity is toxicity, irrespective of its source!

larrybabanla:
Hi nairalanders, just want to drop this, my wife always brings up issues whenever we are on a good term to the extent that that my neighbors will hear our voice which I don't like, but whenever we are not on talking terms(keeping malice)which she is expert in doing, I always have peace, most times, our neighbors won't know I'm around unless I'm outside,,,

Don't mind those telling you to sit her down and talk to her. She does not need a lecture. She either needs deek or money. If you deek her hard for 30 minutes to 1 hour she will exhaust that stored energy she will use to nag you. After such a catastrophic deeking she will receive the grace to be calm. And don't forget to buy her what she desires. However, if you are unfortunate that another man is already giving her critical deeking or giving her money and that is why she is nagging you bruv you need to urgently invite your pastor/alfa and request for immediate family deliverance. If not, she go use nagging kill you ohh!

Yillyhood:
Hi guys, something is really bothering me and I feel like I should share it. I will try as much as possible to make it brief, please don't mind my grammars.

Me and my girlfriend have known each other for quite some time now, like 4years now we have been dating. We love each other no doubt.

After she graduated, she went to learn a trade hair stylist precisely, since work seems impossible and her dream is to own a salon. Well, I work from home, and I earn cool money too, so it's easier for her not to face the hard economy since I pay her money for upkeep monthly.

We don't live close, I live in Lekki and she lives on the mainland with her mum, and each time she has a problem either personally or for her family sake, she runs to me. Well that's not my problem, since I know they really have no one to help them, so I try as much as possible to satisfy her. I must say, she is loyal, decent and respectful but one thing I don't like about her is keeping things to herself, even if she will tell me it's small.

Yesterday, she chatted me and explained that her elder brother in the hospital needs to pay 45k before he can be discharged, I'm aware he his very sick (Typhoid) and hospitalized. She told me their mum already gathered 20k and doesn't know where to get the rest and asked if I can help her with anything, I asked her if 25k is the problem and if I give her she will be fine and she said yes. Well, I transferred her the 25k immediately for the discharge, in about 30mins she called and requested for my account number that she want to refund me 5k, that her mum only collected 20k, so I told her not to worry, she should add it to the money I already sent her previously for her upkeep for the month.

Note: You might be wondering why I'm giving her money lavishly, yes we will be getting married next year, the month hasn't be chosen from both family yet, but they see us as couples already, her mum allows her visit me for days and also visit my mum frequently.

Back to the main reason I opened this topic, sincerely I don't like stress, I love being indoor and spending my money quietly, whenever I want to go out and I don't like traveling to long distance, before man and God have only visited her in her place twice since 2017, I was there in 2018 and again this month 2021. She understands, so she come over to my place each time she wants us to see, she visits twice every month and spends atleast 3days.

I don't want her mum to feel bad or to think her daughter is forcing herself to a man, so I decided to help her whenever she needs help.

The main reason I opened this topic is because the 25k I gave her, I told her to give to her mum, I didn't say she should tell her I borrowed her, but she went ahead and told her I borrowed her mum the money and she has to return it before 5th of next month.

When she told me yesterday I thought she was joking but I discovered she wasn't joking when she told me not to try to tell her mum I didn't borrow her.

Her mum have been calling me since last night and I couldn't pick but I can't pick because I feel guilty. I picked this afternoon, and after thanking me, she promised to pay me back on the 5th of next month. How do I tell this woman I didn't borrow her, she is a struggling woman with 4 kids trying to keep up with their daily needs, and her business is nothing to write home about.

I'm so pissed of with my girlfriend right now, and I just sent her some annoying, insulting text right now, because I was angry.

The truth is her mum has never seen me, the twice that have visited their house she wasn't home, but we talk on phone a lot. I don't want her to feel like her daughter has been seeing me without being married to me yet I have the guts to say I'm borrowing her money. I also asked my girlfriend and she said she has reasons of doing that, but she refused to tell me. It's really upsetting me.

Please what should I do? Or should I just ignore them both?

@Mynd44
@lalasticalala

Your woman is avoiding any legal ground. It may be she is extremely loyal or she is being unnecessarily tactful. You need to start laying the ground work for the policies that would guide your future home. You need to have a face to face serious talk with her about the dos and don'ts of your marriage to her if it is to eventually happen.

1. No secrets
2. No half truths
3. No privacy
4. No unilateral decision making
5. Who submits and who leads?
6. What's our financial model?
7. How do we relate with third parties?

Train up your child in the way he or she should go...parents don't sleep while your children are busy pushing the boundaries of madness to new heights.

Someone actually thought this to be fashion. Just negodu.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5WRpPvYXjWA

Perosingx:
Weldone Sir
Did you receive my mail?

Hi. Sorry for the delay in replying you. I was a bit busy. Can you please check your mail if you are still interested in the job. Thanks.

Like the holy communion in question is actually holy! Countless people take that same holy communion and still stroll happily and enthusiastically to hell...and besides his most eminent, distinguished and exalted Bishop must realize that getting a PVC is not a divinely ordained condition for holy communion and it is not necessary for a pastor or Bishop to give holy communion. Any family can bless bread and juice and fulfil the Passover by eating in remembrance of the sacrifice of the LORD Jesus. These new testament pharisees want to take us back to the old testament with their traditions of men.

A whistleblower nurse has revealed that the US army is engaging in drills where patients who decline COVID jabs are deemed violent and vaccinated by force with the help of the military. Is this vaccine really a vaccine?

Expect other countries to follow suit soon...

Source: https://brandnewtube.com/watch/exclusive-u-s-military-runs-anti-vaxx-active-shooter-drill_43ZzoTpcM5by7IH.html

Trust the science. Trust the science...no it's "Thrust" the science, you scientific idiots. Now children are being administered the wrong dose of the mumu vaccine and these fools have the nerve to do this to over a hundred children.

A pharmacy in Virginia was ordered to stop providing the COVID-19 vaccine after it gave the wrong dosage to an estimated 112 children this month, The Washington Postreported.

The Ted Pharmacy in Aldie gave the Pfizer-BioNTech vaccine designed for children 12 and older to children ages 5-11 on Nov. 3 and 4, the Virginia Department of Health said.

Children 12 and up are supposed to receive a .3-milliliter dose of vaccine, while kids 5-11 should receive a .2-milliliter dose, the CDC says.

The pharmacy tried to give the vaccine in smaller amounts, so the younger children may have gotten the wrong dosage, the head of the Loudon County Health Department told the Post.

“Because they did not have the children’s formulation, they used the adult formulation but only gave a third of the amount to the children,” said David Goodfriend, MD, the county health department director. “Our understanding from Ted Pharmacy is they were trying to do a workaround, which is not authorized.”

Source: https://www.webmd.com/vaccines/covid-19-vaccine/news/20211112/pharmacy-gives-wrong-vaccine-dose-kids

The day my course mate and friend right before my eyes offered to take my then woman out on a date and buy her a drink and the mumu geh they laugh...na that day I know sey this life na two. Since that day my paranoia rose from 50% to 101%. I took the advise of Christ seriously: "be as gentle as a dove but be as wise as a snake"! Keep your life to yourself. Be wary of so called friends. Your worst enemy was once your best friend!

1Sharon:
Islam at it again.

As long as the Muslim population remains around or under 2% in any given country, they will be for the most part be regarded as a peace-loving Minority, and not as a threat to other citizens. This is the case in:

United States -- Muslim 1.1%

Australia -- Muslim 1.5%
Canada -- Muslim 1.9%
China -- Muslim 3 %
Italy -- Muslim 2.5%
Norway -- Muslim 1.8%

At 2% to 5%, they begin to proselytize from other ethnic minorities and disaffected groups, often with major recruiting from the jails and among street gangs.

This is happening in:

Denmark -- Muslim 2%

Germany -- Muslim 3.7%
United Kingdom -- Muslim 4.7%
Spain -- Muslim 4%
Thailand -- Muslim 4.6%

From 5% on, they exercise an inordinate influence in proportion to their percentage of the population.


For example, they will push for the introduction of halal (clean by Islamic standards) food, thereby securing food preparation jobs for Muslims.
They will increase pressure on supermarket chains to feature halal on their shelves -- along with threats for failure to comply.

This is occurring in:

France -- Muslim 8%

Philippines -- 5%
Sweden -- Muslim 5%
Switzerland -- Muslim 4.3%
The Netherlands -- Muslim 5.5%
Trinidad & Tobago -- Muslim 5.8%

At this point, they will work to get the ruling government to allow them to rule themselves (within their ghettos) under Sharia, the Islamic Law. The ultimate goal of Islamists is to establish Sharia law over the entire world.

When Muslims approach 10% of the population, they tend to increase lawlessness as a means of complaint about their conditions.

In Paris, we are already seeing car-burnings. Any non Muslim action offends Islam, and results in uprisings and threats, such as in Amsterdam , with opposition to Mohammed cartoons and films about Islam.
Such tensions are seen daily, particularly in Muslim sections, in:

Guyana -- Muslim 10%

India -- Muslim 19.4%
Israel -- Muslim 16%
Kenya -- Muslim 10%
Russia -- Muslim 15%

After reaching 20%, nations can expect hair-trigger rioting, jihad militia formations, sporadic killings, and the burnings of Christian churches and Jewish synagogues, such as in:

Ethiopia -- Muslim 32.8%


At 40%, nations experience widespread massacres, chronic terror attacks, and ongoing militia warfare, such as in:

Bosnia -- Muslim 40%

Chad -- Muslim 53.1%
Lebanon -- Muslim 59.7%

Nigeria 50% Muslim

From 60%, nations experience unfettered persecution of non-believers of all other religions (including non-conforming Muslims), sporadic ethnic cleansing (genocide), use of Sharia Law as a weapon, and Jizya, the tax placed on infidels, such as in:

Albania -- Muslim 70%

Malaysia -- Muslim 60.4%
Qatar -- Muslim 77.5%
Sudan -- Muslim 70%

After 80%, expect daily intimidation and violent jihad, some State-run ethnic cleansing, and even some genocide, as these nations drive out the infidels, and move toward 100% Muslim, such as has been experienced and in some ways is on-going in:

Bangladesh -- Muslim 83%

Egypt -- Muslim 90%
Gaza -- Muslim 98.7%
Indonesia -- Muslim 86.1%
Iran -- Muslim 98%
Iraq -- Muslim 97%
Jordan -- Muslim 92%
Morocco -- Muslim 98.7%
Pakistan -- Muslim 97%
Palestine -- Muslim 99%
Syria -- Muslim 90%
Tajikistan -- Muslim 90%
Turkey -- Muslim 99..8%
United Arab Emirates -- Muslim 96%

100% will usher in the peace of "Dar-es-Salaam" -- the Islamic House of Peace.. Here there's supposed to be peace, because everybody is a Muslim, the Madrasses are the only schools, and the Koran is the only word, such as in:

Afghanistan -- Muslim 100%

Saudi Arabia -- Muslim 100%
Somalia -- Muslim 100%
Yemen -- Muslim 100%

Unfortunately, peace is never achieved, as in these 100% states the most radical Muslims intimidate and spew hatred, and satisfy their blood lust by killing less radical Muslims, for a variety of reasons.


It is important to understand that in some countries, with well under 100% Muslim populations, such as France, the minority Muslim populations live in ghettos, within which they are 100% Muslim, and within which they live by Sharia Law.

The national police do not even enter these ghettos. There are no national courts, nor schools, nor non-Muslim religious facilities. In such situations, Muslims do not integrate into the community at large. The children attend madrasses. They learn only the Koran. To even associate with an infidel is a crime punishable with death.

Therefore, in some areas of certain nations, Muslim Imams and extremists exercise more power than the national average would indicate.

Today's 1.5 billion Muslims make up 22% of the world's population. But their birth rates dwarf the birth rates of Christians, Hindus, Buddhists, Jews, and all other believers.


Muslims will exceed 50% of the world's population by the end of this century.

This is serious! Very much in line with the spread of Islam by Muhammad. First peace when in minority then violent and murderous when in majority.

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Keep mum. Let them get married. At least she can keep being of benefit to you. Once of benefit always of benefit. Perhaps when your brother is not available you can easily fill in. Two brothers, one hoe, great arrangement...family with benefits

tobechi20:
Bring kids into the picture, and often, one’s sex drive takes a nose dive. Especially for mothers.

Low libido is a very common issue for new mothers as they are healing from childbirth, grappling with fluctuating hormones and extreme sleep deprivation.

While we know adjusting to a new baby can profoundly impact a couple’s life (including sexual intimacy), we, as a society, act like it shouldn’t. We act like there’s something wrong with a new mother needing a timeout from sex.

New mothers who admit to having less sex drive are often met with people urging, “Just do it anyway,” and “You’ll get in the mood.”

But what if you don’t get in the mood, even when you take this advice? What then?

Why aren’t the feelings of the woman valid? Shouldn’t she be listening to her body? Her mind?

I’m not sure where we got this idea that a husband owns his wife’s vagina. Or that he is entitled to intercourse, MouthAction, handling, or groping. I’m pretty sure I didn’t see that covenant in the paperwork. But I have an inkling that this entitlement is very much based in misogyny and male privilege.

Men are led to believe, often since they are young boys, that women should have sex with them when they want it. Even when their wives are not “in the mood.” Because sex is the way he feels intimate. Sex is the way he connects. Because putting your husband’s sexual desires first is supposedly the best way to avoid divorce.

These antiquated and sexist designs for marriage are damaging to women.

When a married mom doesn’t put out, she’s called “cold” and “selfish” and the dreaded “bitch.” She’s told she must have “something else going on” mentally. Outsiders to the marriage, and maybe even therapists, will question if the wife was ever sexually assaulted. Does she have a history of trauma? They’ll try to make connections that aren’t there. Because how could a wife possibly not want to have sex with her husband?

It is sickening and horrific to think of a woman having sex against her will, married or not. It’s disgusting that we automatically assume something must be “wrong” with a woman who is having a gap in her groove. Beyond all that, it’s dangerous.

Suggesting that married women and mothers should just “do it anyway” is sexual bullying and coercion. If a husband acts on the “just do it anyway” cliché and forces it — that’s called rape.

When we attack married mothers for not putting out, we’re reaffirming once again what’s important in this society.

A man’s needs, not a woman’s. A man’s voice, not a woman’s voice.

The woman owes the man nothing and the man owes the woman nothing...so everyone should be allowed to do whatever they like irrespective of who gets offended!

Cashsteady:
It pains me alot reading alot of stories and how married women cheat on their husbands...
The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is being cheated on by a woman he loves.. The pain is unbearable and hard to forget..

Women if you know your husband is not satisfying you enough before marriage why agree to marry him or if you know you not ready for marriage why accept his proposal and end up cheat on him.. marriage is not by force..

It'd be better if you are single and sleep around with men rather being married and sleep with other men

Na division of labor things na. They marry the man that can address the financial needs while they sleep around with the small boys with 10 inches magic wand!