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[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=157902.msg2629001#msg2629001 date=1218217653]Wetin be reh reh reh gan? eyin omo UK ati isokuso yin
Hmm, but UK is begining to sound pleasant, hmm1

As to your statement, there is no moral backing in a woman killing her hubby ( ), but when it comes to self-defense ( In general), one does not care if there's moral or not, he/she must do anything to protect himself/herself.[/quote]Self defence is 'This dude is coming to me with a knife, if I don't shoot him, he'll kill me'
It's has to be during a threat to your life and has to be equal or lesser effect than the original threat
A man in his sleep poses no danger
It's not even a crime of passion, it COLD-BLOODED murder

DeepZone:
Yesooo, it happens a lot these days. How many women have you seen on this forum bragging about cheating? But you see the likes of 4play, Eldee, Hannibal and Sly broadcast theirs as if they won the olympic gold medal.

I'm not even married yet so whatchu on??
Abeg answer his question and stop dropping names jare

BTW how's ur Ijesha houseboy/boyfriend

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=158475.msg2628963#msg2628963 date=1218217239]In which cave have you been harboring?
This is 2008. . . . ever heard of gay men?[/quote]So Nigerian men cheat on their wives with gay men??
I've warned you, ecstasy is not meant to be taken with coffee

Moyola:
IMO. . . . "Battered Wife Syndrome" is a meanz of justifying a woman for killin her huzband. . .
based on the fact that she haz really suffered long-term violence in marriage.

I don't think iz a kind of attempt by d law to leave loophole for criminals 2 escape!
As such women would be convicted of a lesser offence like Manslaughter rather than Murder.!!!

Clemency Granted to 25 Women Convicted for Assault or Murder for 'Battered Spouse Syndrome
This was in Ohio as far back as 1990

debosky:
They keep talking about men cheating. . . are the men screwing fellow men??

I wonder ooh!!!
There's always a chance to sling mud at Nigerian bruvas

@topic
Nah . . . we're okay wiv Ultimate Search
In a country that won't allow Big Bruva, Cheaters is a def no-go area

tope2000: nowadays all u guys want is sex
romance is like looooooooong tin to u guys now

The way you say it, one will think men turned from Romeos to Bin Ladens in one day
All we want is sex?? Blame us for knowing what we want?
Why buy a CD-ROM when you can download on I-tunes?
Besides, it's not like guys became rapists or sumn, it's always mutual
I don't see why guys get to take the blame

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl on Yesterday at 02:16:04 AM ]As to your question, why should women be allowed to kill because of fear?
SINCE you men still consider women as fragile creatures, then women will continue to be looked upon as innocent and defenseless. Even some women that should be put to jail, they'll be allowed to roam free, awaiting their next prey.

This is why we're telling y'al it's time for equality, but nooo!![/quote]Here we go again . . . reh reh reh
The equality card always work doesn't it?

In the UK, it's now a civil offence for a company to pay a man more money than his female counterpart when they do the same job.
It's this same UK that has women winning everything in courts, the law's having an open loophole, and lawyers never cease to use it.
I'm questioning the moral backing here . . . and u're telling me bout equality

Moreover, Why should men be allowed to abuse their wife? What is the catalyst that drives them to such action? Sometimes human beings baffles me!

Men are NOT allowed to abuse their wives!!!
Don't say what you don't know

tope2000:
Aint you a luck biatch then
There is still romance but its not as Wow as it used to be
And some nigerian guys thinks if i am romantic toward her then that will add to her ego or that would make him a mumu
I don't get nigerian guys nowadays

'Xcuse me!!!
How was it before??

Hope that 'as it used to be' is not referring to what you saw in those Nora Roberts' novels??
Or maybe the bedtime stories??

*Adds to the list of Twenty-nine Things I must do Before I turn Thirty

Don't know why nlanders will just form congregations to make themselves happy
So a few minutes of heartbreak now equates to losing . . . with all the phishes in the ocean?

After all the days of crying and not eating, looking for every reason to pass through his street??
This is what you get when a couple of angry sore-people in one place . . . DENIAL!!!

I'm not too sure but cutting all means of communication, changing your number and searching for a good break-up punchline sounds like fun to me

@Hybrid
Oi . . . I come in peace, much props

@Wordsmith
You up for a sequel to Warcraft?
Friday at six . . . moderator controlled, restricted voting, you know how I do

I'm trying to set up sumn wiv you and Jackal
Erm . . . I got his word yesterday, still waiting for yours

onyinye: You guys don't understand. That is why it is called ABUSE. when you abuse someone, you strip them of their dignity. You terminate their self esteem. You cease their self worth. So you think after being robbed of all this, you can just leave? Oi dey.

If everyone wanted to kill pple that abused them, do you know the world's population would be halved?

onyinye: Oka now that kid from Virgina Tech was obviously not sane. If he lived to see his trial, they would have done the same thing they did to that Texas woman who drowned her kids. And that is send him to a secure facility. Same with the folks in Columbine, you went and killed i believe five-seven students. They were obviously not sane.

So sumone that killed people that were awake is insane
But a woman that killed a man in his sleep should escape?

onyinye: I don't support any type of killing. I'm just saying that is obvious this women isn't sane. That mentally is very distorted. And that instead of ramming her into jail, they should have put in an area where she will be given professional help.

Now tell me the difference between this woman and the dude at Virginia Tech?
Or the kids in High School that go spraying pple because of 'bullying'?

KarmaMod:
Just because her defence lawyer came up with some wackjob defence doesnt mean she will be allowed to escape

In his sleep, that's pretty much premeditated, I don't see her getting off the hook anytime soon

Actually, it is now being accepted as a case of self-defence especially in the UK
It works mostly when the lawyers ask for a jury, instead of the sole judge

Was reading on the net about one convicted killer, she was arrested for killing her husband
Fine, there's nothing new bout sumn like that, but the funny part is the fact that she claimed it was 'self defence'

This is kinda strange given the fact that she shot her husband in his sleep
He was defenceless, at his weakest, posing no threat to her safety at that exact moment

Her defence lawyer claimed she was suffering from the after-effect of consistent abuse, he pled the battered woman syndrome

My question is Is this 'syndrome' not just another attempt by the law to leave a loophole for criminals to escape?
Since it has been proven that every killer does so for a reason, why should women be allowed to kill because of fear'

@Bamsyle
Don't mind javalove, I broke everything down for him on YIM
He himself now knows what's what now

When I'm free, I'll get your YIM and settle the Em-Pac thingy too
It's strenous waiting for a reply to a post for years

Orikinla:
Any of the guys here posing and posturing that real men do not cry do not even know what makes a real man.

I have wept for my mother and I am moved by the tears of a woman who truly wept from her heart and soul and God knows that I am more real than 99% of men who lie about their emotions.

I have been to war and saw thousands of corpses and survived and returned safely.
I have braved the dangers of gunfire during coups in Nigeria to visit a sweetheart when most men were hiding indoors.
I have been in emergencies whilst saving lives.
Has anyone carried a woman in a wheelchair down a staircase in emergency and protected her from noon to midnight in ER?
Yet I can cry too when my woman cries.
Because, I am a REAL MAN who has heart and soul.

Love is what makes us human and tears of love are the most beautiful tears to shed.

When a woman cries from her heart, she can move the spirit of compassion.

Dude seriously, I think you need to restrict your poetry to the Literature Section
Haba!!! You miss road?? Or did you miss what the whole topic was about?

This is the romance section, did anyone come here to ask of your post-war tales?
When someone mentioned Jesus' weeping, didn't you see the reply?
Here you are telling us about how you brought your AK to protect your wife

Did you miss the topic or you just saw this as a chance to display your war heroics?

When the tears are not due to death, or sickness, but due to the fact that you've hurt her feelings in some way, how does it make you feel. How do you deal with it?

So, when you do offend your woman and she starts crying, what do you do? You start crying too?
Why? Because you're a 'real man' . . . hmmmn . . . effects of Nollywood

chiogo:
Hahahaha @eldee, I totally agree with you on that LL cool j stuff, I think he's metrosexual. Did u see his new video 'baby' ??

That's exactly what made me start this thread
His lyrics are sloppy, at his age he's still dressing like Lil Wayne
He needs to admit that his hey-days are gone, let him settle down, stop releasing albums and get a freaking suit

chiogo:
Aww, I still think jigga is aiight. I mean, he's old, don't get me wrong but he's mad sophisticated with his shit. You don't hear him saying all these '20-yr old' stuff in his song like when he was younger but these other people simply refuse to mature with age.

C'mon Hov seriously needs to retire to hold on to the level he's placed himself
After he reached his peak, released Moment of Clarity to explain what's what, what happened to Grand openin, grand closin?

owolomo:
@EL DEE
I AGREE W/ YA BUT DIDDY IS MORE OF A BUSINESS MAN,

Businessman? doing that wack dance with Keisha Cole and Nicole is business?
Nah . . . the dude's past his prime, he's hitting new lows all the time
That's why he needs a million and one collabos on each of his albums

@topic
DMX: Should have bowed out since Grand Champ
Ja Rule: One wrong move and the rest is history
Snoop Dogg

They had, the best debut-performances, won countless Grammys, topped charts
But there's one thing these people don't know; WHEN TO QUIT!!!
At least, Rock and R'n'B artists know when to start headlining concerts and stop releasing albums e.g Bon Jovi, Iron Maiden, Celine Dion etal

Out of respect, critics go soft on them in these final days, but the truth is, people are tired
The old rappers take the bulk of th blame, just look at LL Cool J, he's 40, no dress sense, and still says he's releasing two more
Benzino, merked by Eminem, lost his job, his last album sold 20,000 wiv all the Em publicity, he came in an interview to say we should expect his next album

Seriously, why can't they leave us with the memories of the golden age and not one crap 2007 album that drops to £1 bin in one week?
Why can't they leave us with out old records and vinyl discs?
They need to bow when the applause is loudest . . . sometimes I see a good side to the death of Pac, Biggie and Big L
We never got to see them release 8 Diagrams when we're still feenin Wutang Forever

I think P Diddy needs to quit, so do many other ones that have gone too far below their prime

What rappers/singers do you think need to quit?

@notica
I don't know which one makes me wanna strangle you
The fact that you're misusing your job that allows a perv like you to have direct contact with young girls
Or the fact that you can admit it here

I don't blame you, I blame the system
It's always easy to blame the system for allowing freakazoids in our soceity   [list]

javalove:
@eldee
his intelligence is only in marketing and i respect him at that? Wetin mode do am,abi e won talk say modenine wack? them no born am well!!

I have nothing against Mode, I don't even listen to Rugged, so I won't know who's wack
I'm saying with the albums from both of 'em I've listened to, Thy Album Come and PentiumX
It's easier for the average nigerian student/youth to relate to Thy Album Come
C'est fini

javalove:
there is no musician that doesnt have a target. Modenine says he appeals to the learned community which u and I belong. Students r intelligent, youths r intelligent too so we r all targets of nine.

I've told you before, listening to Modenine don't mean sumone is intelligent
Aight let's see it like this P-square claimed they sold one mil in six days, are students not the main market?
So, the people that bought Game Over are daft? Negro please, u should know much better

javalove:
@eldee
very daft sef. so na mode no dey radio friendy abi? but really, from d intellectual point of view, mode yabs better. we r doing d bob a favour by comparing him with modenine ooooo gbabe!!!!!! because modenine pass am with miles!!!

I'm not freaking comparing him to Mode. I'm not even in the position to say who's better
I'm just saying, but to say sumone is stupid cus he's radio-friendly, now that's just plain insane

@topic
5-12 year olds

@javalove
Haba . . . what's with this epistle na
What's ur beef wiv Rugged sef, this guy is just one intelligent dude that is making good sales from his popular publicity stunts

To me, I respect him, he has a target demographic (the average nigerian youth) and he's doing a good job there

E no sabi yab. even when he does, e go be like make u slap am. She d bobo no go school ni because education no dey reflect for him songs at all

So because he's radio-friendly he's daft now?

we don hear am tire,  this guy is not a hip hop hed, na dance hall e dey do. all the diss lines for d song, which one better pass

The diss-a-baba wordplay has been overplayed too
I think I heard it since January . . .

Sometimes - DMX (The Great Depression)
Get Down - Nas (Godson) Three stories in one song . . . CLASSIC

StephenP:
@eldee, the midwives weren't nurses. Ability to help a woman give birth doesn't make you a nurse. You had to go to medical school and the first medical school was open to ONLY men thus, making men the first nurses. The midwives didn't learn nursing, they were only using their maternal instincts which the men obviously didn't have.

Are you kidding me??
C'mon, the first nurses were midwives, nursing is a gift from God to every woman and they've been around since Ancient Egypt
Ever heard of wet nurses before? when a suckling woman was paid to take care of Moses as a kid?

So you mean to say there were no nurses before Medical school??
As in, philosophers like Socrates and Aristotle weren't around before colleges started??

_{Watch what you say son, it might count against you when you start claiming to be a premed student}

StephenP:
No. I guess you didn't read it.

"More men are entering nursing as they discover that it is a competitive and challenging career. For example, when the University of Pittsburgh increased its admission requirements for its nursing program, the number of male applicants spiked significantly. Many men are also attracted to the profession after learning how important mathematics and science (fields traditionally dominated by males) are in nursing."

It has become even more challenging.

Did you really expect men to help in childbirth?

Exactly . . . the first nurses were midwives . . . i.e the first nurses were WOMEN
Your wiki link is baseless

Men never had anything to do with caring for the sick before this age
The men went to wars, the wive[b]s[/b] took care of them when they came back

StephenP:
It's funny because men were the first nurses. In fact, "when the world's first nursing school was opened in India in 250 B.C., only men were considered "pure" enough to be nurses." For further reading check out: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_in_nursing

Listen to yourself . . . Did you not hear of the hebrew MIDWIVES in the Ancient Egypt?
See you confusing Indian beliefs with reality

onyinye2:
Hannibal stop dodging and answer my question.

Is Jesus a wimp for crying?

Jesus cried because he foresaw extreme pain
He was going to watch himself bleed to death

Are you going to compare that to crying because you misplaced your wallet?

[quote author= Chat2MeBac]sharapp jor ,  I grew up wanted to be a wrestler, So tell me was that daft?[/quote]Erm . . . you said it yourself

What is wrong in wanting to be a male nurse? That is just a step away from being a doctor that every kid also wants to be.

Wrong . . . A doctor is capable of building an emotional wall between themselves and their patients
Nurses are not capable of that, they react to your emotions, they are there to CARE
They can't take life-risking decisions in seconds

Doctors are trained to act rationally under pressure, that's a real man

@Hannibal, there's nothing wrong in being a male nurse

There's nothing wrong with being a male nurse . . . True
But growing up wanting to be a male nurse, then that's just daft

These days, StephenP needs a 200-page manual to put up a shelf. . . .

GUILTY

Hannibal:
Unfortunately, things have changed.
All we have today are wimps n sissies. . . .  .The way some men behave, u can easily argue they have vaginas instead of cocks.
These days, u see men take sides with feminists, men groom like women, men have now taken over women's roles.
The other day, ma neighbour's male kid wants to be a MALE NURSE. . . . What a load of crap??
It's pathetic.

It's a change of roles now . . . stay home dads, waxed up men, male strippers, Sex and the City

When I was a kid, the way we tot of saving pple was by growing up to be superheroes

SAM MILLA:
i thought we have cut this down to secondary school.
what contract is the teacher breaching?
does teachers sign contracts not to date students or is it just what you personally believe is wrong?
i thought this guy said he is deeply in love, did you consider his feelings and happiness atall,
or are you still living in a world of ''teachers should marry teachers''
have you not seen a 35 year old person marrying a 20 year old girl.
i have examples.
open your eyes, things are changing everyday.
we are living in a world where it doesnt matter where you meet your love.
what matters is that its a true love.

Are you sure you're not just trying to push all me buttons at once?
If it's legal why does it always end up being secret?

Help yourself, drop that cup of coffee and go to bed

he also begged us not to condemn him

Listen to yourself!!!
If I kill a kid and beg you not to condemn me, then I'm right innit?

the poster posted this topic here in the first place because of the RULES you are talking about.
he also begged us not to condemn him.
so i guess his point was for us to determine if this rule is perfect or flawed somehow.
Isnt that what we all discuss here everyday.
or should we ignore love to maintain every given rule?
why do you think some rules are ammended sometimes?
its because people who made them were long gone and things are changing everyday

Was there no love when they made the rules?
So we should allow people to ignore professional etiquette for 'love'
Taking advantage of your job to get intimate with a student?

Infact we can now justify robbing to impress wives and girlfriends
Afterall love conquers all

chamotex:


maybe na touch screen

Hehehe . . . e fit be ooh
This dude is scaring me now
Infact, the way things are going ehn . . .