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RomanceRe: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Farfalla(f): 11:11am On Jan 24, 2022
Boys here pretending to be macho yet they're the ones pleading and begging some girl to even pick their call.

At the end of the day, a good 80% of them will wife ashawos.

CrimeRe: Pastor Bags Life Jail For R*ping & Impregnating Wife's Sister, 14 by Farfalla(f): 5:21pm On Jan 23, 2022
Entprys:
Remove 'rape' and 'violence' from the story. I am not justifying bad thing but she enjoyed the fun each time.
Ok life jail !
What is this thing turning people into animals in Nigeria?

Is this one of those things you'll blame Buhari for? Is APC responsible for your animalistic tendencies?

If they're not celebrating the mutilation of female genitals, they're celebrating rape.

Spits!
RomanceRe: Help: I'm Love With One Of My Staff by Farfalla(f): 1:39pm On Jan 20, 2022
Vicktorhmustjap:
I told her I want her to join me to see a movie and she said she was travelling and she won't be around but January was fine. I knew she was avoiding the outing so I bought a ticket to the movies and sent it to her. she never showed up and I didn't call her until work resumed on January 4th and I asked why she didn't come for the movies and she apologise that she was busy.

I told her we can go see the movies now since she initially wanted January, she said she can't that she doesn't want to be seen with a married man, and besides my wife is nice to her and also she doesn't want any girl with her husband when she eventually gets married so she won't want to be with anyone's husband that I belong to someone else.

I told her I don't want sex from her, all I want is from her is a squish relationship. she practically turned it down that she can't because she will be hurt in the end because belong to someone else.

Honestly, I felt hurt because I truly love her. I am more emotionally drawn to her even more than before. We spend considerable time chatting every day and on phones in the evening till night after the day's job.

I really love her and I feel hurt as she is turning me down. I wish I can stop loving her, I really don't know how to stop loving her as I really wish not to hurt her.
Are you sure you're a man in your mid-30s displaying this kind of emotional retardation? How do you even make rational decisions in your company and on behalf of your staff with your emotions all over the place? huh

Leave the girl alone. Na by force? angry
CelebritiesRe: Femi Fani-Kayode Celebrates His Ghanaian Wife, Regina Amonoo's Birthday (Photos) by Farfalla(f): 7:22pm On Jan 19, 2022
“If I ever met an angel, it was you. If I ever had a loyal and true friend who, through thick and thin, was as constant as the Northern star, it is you. If I was ever loved it was by you,” he began.

“If I ever had love to give, it was for you. You are everything to me and I will love you forever both in this world and the next.

“For 24 beautiful years we have been one and until the day I die we shall be as one. I will never leave you. I will never stop loving you. I will never forget you. I will always stand by you.”
Chai! See how this member of the "logical" gender get sweet mouth... grin
RomanceRe: Are Female Doctors Also Promiscuous? by Farfalla(f):
Contango:
A friend of mine has this beautiful and curvy female resident doctor down south who just turned 26years old who is so into him. She has even used style to introduce him to some of her siblings but the guy is a bit skeptical about making a commitment due to the numerous stories he’s heard on infidelity among doctors.

Pls note that this is a true story at hand and your views would be highly appreciated. Will show him this thread later.
Please don't advise your friend to make a lifetime decision based on the advice of Nairalanders. Nigerian Nairaland men are jealous of successful women. These bitter things will give him whatever advice would ensure the lady doctor is jilted. An unhappy woman is their joy.

Imagine in 2022 and someone is still attaching promiscuity to professions and job titles! So he'd be willing to commit to her if she were a Financial Analyst or a Librarian?
CrimeRe: 65-Year-Old Man Beheaded In Imo State. Head Displayed At A Primary School by Farfalla(f): 1:29pm On Jan 18, 2022
Christ!
CelebritiesRe: Sunmbo Adeoye Goes On Beach Trip With Her Husband (Photos) by Farfalla(f):
folake4u:
Gosh, the comments here are irking me. undecided
Were you expecting anything different from this set of frustrated boys possessing one-digit IQs, face-me-I-slap-you tenants, who can only log onto Nairaland by stealing WiFi passwords?

The real thing bothering them is that the woman seems happy. It's envy. Nothing more. They hate women and hate her more if she's happy. And what's worse is that this particular one picked herself up after a major disappointment, got her act together and moved on. How dare she! She's supposed to be depressed and unhappy. grin

They think they're alphas? Have you ever seen the majesty of alpha males? An alpha male will walk into a room and command instant respect. Without even uttering a word. Especially the mysterious ones with poker faces. You think you'll find them monitoring women's lives? They're usually in total control of their emotions, extremely intelligent (intellectually and emotionally), busy playing chess and attending wine-tasting events.

These boys here aren't alpha males. Not even in their dreams. Alphas don't even whine about women.
BusinessRe: Nigeria’s Off-Grid Solar Market Is Among The Fastest Growing In Africa by Farfalla(f): 12:35pm On Jan 17, 2022
I'd expect it to be.
RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Why People Claim They Love You But End Up Settling With Someone Else by Farfalla(f): 11:57am On Jan 17, 2022
EmzyT:
Lmao grin

What most ladies fail to Understand is that all guys are never the same, some men can chase a lady for years giving her the necessary attentions, Buying Gifts and Simping just to win her over. WHILE there are our type of guys that doesn't waste time in wooing a lady, we keep it simple and straightforward and once you start forming that nonsense, we'll leave and look for someone else who matches our energy! And that's doesn't mean we never loved you afterall, it only means that we value our Peace of Mind, Self-respect and Self-esteem so much and wouldn't trade it for anything because we've always believed that you shouldn't have to chase Love, Affection and Attention, if it isn't given freely from Someone, then it isn't worth having undecided undecided

More so, most of these Ladies will enter an undefined relationship with the mentality of "Make I chop him Money" and at the end of the day, the guy will dump your sorry ass to look for someone more family oriented and you will come out and start crying foul. undecided undecided
The thread is generally discussing people in relationships who loved (or appeared to love) each other but settled with other people.

But you have somehow managed to make the discussion about women. Smh.
AgricultureRe: Bush Meats From My Farms by Farfalla(f): 2:26am On Jan 17, 2022
Rats, snakes, pangolins. Anything and everything will be used to make "soup" for some people.

Issorait!

Foreign AffairsRe: King Khoisan Arrested For Growing Cannibas In South Africa (Photos) by Farfalla(f): 12:24am On Jan 17, 2022
HellraiZA:
What's weird about this? I swear y'all are the most superstitious people I have ever come across.
Are you new on Nairaland? That's the generic statement these fellows make whenever stories of other African countries are featured.

It's usually somewhere in their drafts, all they need to do whenever they see a story from Tanzania, Kenya, Zimbabwe, Ghana, Uganda, SA, is copy that statement, paste and click on the 'Submit' button.

I can swear they're paid to do it. That's the only logical explanation for the constant display of high-level herd stupidity. Either that, or Stupidity 101 is a course taught in their institutions of learning.
Foreign AffairsRe: King Khoisan Arrested For Growing Cannibas In South Africa (Photos) by Farfalla(f): 12:09am On Jan 17, 2022
GoodHardDick:
Kenya, Zimbabwe and South Africans are always known for weird news angry
Says a citizen of a country where a man recently attempted to castrate himself, and headless corpses are the order of the day.
FamilyRe: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Farfalla(f): 8:40pm On Jan 16, 2022
StPete:
Even prostitutes catch feelings with their clients.
You don't say.

FamilyRe: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Farfalla(f): 8:34pm On Jan 16, 2022
Laurene:
Dress sexy, workout and mind what you eat.
Yes she should.

Halle Berry didn't dress sexy, she didn't workout and she fed on junk. That's why her ex-husband consistently cheated on her.

Eva Longoria too. Can you imagine she stopped dressing sexy and started feeding on burgers? That's why Tony Parker went on to sleep with other women.

Gabrielle Union nko? When that her basketballer husband made another girl pregnant while they were courting, I'm sure she had stopped working out. She must have pumped her body with starchy foods and let herself go.

Poor men! Innocent, blameless creatures who always want to stay faithful but it's the women who push them to cheat.
CelebritiesRe: Ruth Kadiri To Ladies: Stop Trying To Replace Your Ex After Break Up by Farfalla(f):
Ruth is strictly addressing ladies, but trust these boys to find their way into the thread to make it about them, their imaginary sexual prowess and the imaginary ex-girlfriend they dumped.
RomanceRe: 'how Do I End A Blood Covenant Relationship I Made With My Boyfriend? He Refuses by Farfalla(f): 10:32am On Jan 16, 2022
Klass99:
Rotfl grin. Perhaps it's the law of stalking? Ignore me, I don't even know what I am saying.
grin
RomanceRe: 'how Do I End A Blood Covenant Relationship I Made With My Boyfriend? He Refuses by Farfalla(f):
Giftlove11:
I already found someone else i love, i'm planning to report him to the police or his parents if he dosn't give me a chance to go away..
Am I the only one wondering what law has been broken for the police to be brought into this? undecided

CelebritiesRe: Genevieve Nnaji Celebrates Her Father On His 86th Birthday (Photo) by Farfalla(f): 4:43pm On Jan 15, 2022
tiswell:
yea,but Genevieve isn't properly married,her daughter's children are not really her dad's great grand children.
Why? Does she stop being her father's daughter because she's unmarried?

Genevieve is her father's daughter. Her daughter is her father's granddaughter and her daughter's children are Papa Nnaji's great grandchildren. Her marital status is irrelevant here.

Unless of course there's some cultural ish that dictates otherwise. Something along the lines of "According to our Igbo culture, a child belonging to an unmarried woman........"
CelebritiesRe: Sandra Iheuwa's Husband, Steve Thompson Sent Her Packing 5 Months After Marriage by Farfalla(f):
Munzy14:
Likely Ubi isn't the problem in a way, may be he goes for the wrong women.
He also has a problem. Don't make excuses for him.
CelebritiesRe: Sandra Iheuwa's Husband, Steve Thompson Sent Her Packing 5 Months After Marriage by Farfalla(f): 6:09pm On Jan 10, 2022
Signum:
No! Sometimes it's men, MOST TIMES ITS WOMEN.
I don't think a person's gender is the factor. MOST TIMES it's the society/family background of a person that affects the quality of most marriages.

You come from a society where men aren't supposed to be accountable for their actions (hurting and humiliating their wives in the name of nature and/or culture), so I fully understand where you're coming from.

Still, I respect your opinion even though I do not agree with it.
CelebritiesRe: Sandra Iheuwa's Husband, Steve Thompson Sent Her Packing 5 Months After Marriage by Farfalla(f): 2:56pm On Jan 10, 2022
Signum:
Women are mostly the problems in respective marriage issues.
Sometimes it's women, sometimes it's men.

No gender is exempt from causing problems in their respective marriages.
CultureRe: Hot Nigerian Royals!❤️❤️❤️ by Farfalla(f): 11:10am On Jan 10, 2022
KanwuliaExtra:
8. NO WIFE has ever been divorced or has RUN away from the palace.
grin grin

CelebritiesRe: Sandra Iheuwa's Husband, Steve Thompson Sent Her Packing 5 Months After Marriage by Farfalla(f): 10:47am On Jan 10, 2022
Hathor5:
With all her drama, she gets them to impregnate and marry her. I have to give it to her. grin
With all her wahala, a man somewhere is drafting a strategic plan on how to woe her, now that she's single. grin

All those men castigating her will marry her in a heartbeat. Forget the noise and tantrums they make online. Sandra and Tonto na their type. grin

I pity women who try to understand this "logical" set of human beings. grin
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Farfalla(f):
oladiddy:
Please I need your advice.
Since you men say that women marry whoever is available and men marry who they want/love, jejely bear the cross.

Shebi you picked who you loved?

FamilyRe: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Farfalla(f): 8:28am On Jan 09, 2022
ayenika1:
All these red flags and you still got married?
Believe it or not, her character is very attractive to majority of men. I dare say 80% of men.

Despite all the things men say, they'll pick drama over tranquility.
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Eke: I Dreamt I Was Winning Souls For God by Farfalla(f): 7:55am On Jan 09, 2022
Any opportunity for frustrated boys to bash well-to-do women will always be embraced. You guys are so predictable.

This is 2022. It's time to reevaluate your lives. Envy kills. It's envy that drove Cain to kill Abel. It's not Mercy Eke's fault that luck fell on her.

Quit waiting for a cryptocurrency miracle to make you rich. Stop scamming people using fake travel agencies, fake forex companies, fake affiliate sites, etc. There's no shortcut to being rich. None. Make yourself useful this 2022. Sell akara or samosas if you have to. Sell moin moin. Sell boiled eggs. Sell popcorn. Supply snacks to offices or hawk them in the streets. Sell spiced coffee. Sell spiced tea. Sell leather. Anything. Just stop being idle. It is what is responsible for your constant trolling of women.

You can also offer your services to people. Wash people's car at a fee. Offer to deliver lunch to offices at a fee. Offer to drive people's kids to and from school at a fee. Shop for people at a fee. Drop parcels at a fee.

The man in the link below is proudly running a keke business. Learn from such fellows.
https://www.nairaland.com/6929052/how-started-tricycle-keke-business

It doesn't matter whether you're a degree holder or a secondary school dropout, just do your thing. Do it for many months and you're likely to see results if you're half as consistent as you are in your trolling of women.

The jealousies, envy and 'village people' tendencies need to stop this year, so you won't feel pain when you see accomplished women people. And you'll see many more of them. Roll your sleeves, work and be counted as one of them, or continue with your online trolling of women.
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Eke: I Dreamt I Was Winning Souls For God by Farfalla(f): 6:48am On Jan 09, 2022
EXLOVER:
I'm not surprise at all, all them Eucharia, Liz Benson after all the waka waka them do for their prime, when market dor stop to sell, them retire to church turn Evangelist and Deaconess.
What 'waka waka' activities did Liz Benson engage herself in if I may ask? Wasn't the woman a widow who later remarried?
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Farfalla(f):
CHoccolaTE:
Thank God the girl ran away.

So ontop the fact that she will change her surname and start submitting to you as authority in the home, she will lose her looks and beauty bearing kids that answer your name and belong to your family/lineage, she will be on charge of cooking, childcare, housekeeping etc, this oponu OP still wanted to collect over 80% of her salary instead of being a provider like the Bible and Quran instructed.

Many men these days are just useless pieces of shit.
You idiots will remember to quote the Bible when it comes to demanding submission from women or claiming to be leader of everybody, but you will not remember where the Bible said a man who cannot provide for his family is an infidel.

The worst part is that after the poor woman spends her life savings building this selfish OP home he can still cheat on her and spend on side chics and nobody will blame him because Nigerians think sexual immorality in males is normal and women should tolerate it.

Thank God OP girlfriend ran away.
Selfish and foolish OP.
Fearless CHoccolaTE always giving it raw and undiluted. grin

EducationRe: The Current State Of Toilets In UNICAL Hostels by Farfalla(f): 9:22am On Jan 07, 2022
shocked shocked shocked

This is the stuff nightmares are made of.

FoodRe: Safety Measures For Cooking Delicious Snake Pepper Soup by Farfalla(f): 12:25am On Jan 07, 2022
If it moves, they'll eat it.

Some people sef. angry
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Proposes To His Girlfriend Onboard A Lagos Bound Flight (Video) by Farfalla(f): 12:19am On Jan 07, 2022
BRATISLAVA:
Whether she's actually lesbian, finds him unappealing in all ramifications, is asexual or hates being in a relationship is not a possibility to them. Everything just centres on them having their way, and when they can't we see a lot of entitled posts. In extreme cases, rape. She was acting unreachable!
Or even more commonly, she desires to be in a relationship, just not with him.

They think they're the only ones with a monopoly to choose from the "menu". grin
PoliticsRe: 2 Men Caught Exhuming 16 Skulls At Cemetery In Oyo (Photo) by Farfalla(f):
The two skull miners could even be here on Nairaland claiming that Uganda, Zimbabwe and Kenya are synonymous to weird news.

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