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Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

You did the right thing cos you will never win this battle. You will soon meet your man that will love you the way you are and appreciate your little effort. Men like your ex are emotional blackmailer. When he sees another girl that can spend more, he ll move on to her with the same excuse.

Don't allow a nobody to make you feel less important or valuable

Hinokami:
During my initial interview I gave a figure that was above my current pay, now they insist on me providing the payslip before proceeding to the next stage of the employment process.

The thing is I have monthly bonuses not captured on the payslip and I fear not providing evidence would make me disqualified for the role.

Who has navigated such process before as I don't know what to do.

Is it even legal to ask for payslips?

Will they actually contact my current employer to verify the payslip?

Note: it's a financial institution. I heard they are fond of doing this during their recruitment.

Tell them that your payslip is a classified document. Same way they will not want their employees to leak such documents

safarigirl:
Hello Nairaland, it has been ages!

I realise I haven't done a movie review in a while and I just want to sharpen my pencil once again.

So, I'm here with the Netflix/PlayNetwork movie, Blood Vessel, a movie set in the Niger Delta about six unlikely characters that end up as stowaways on a ship.

I saw this movie in the middle of the night, and to be honest, I didn't have much expectations, but brethren, my mind was blown and it blew from the first five minutes when I realised the characters were speaking an indigenous language that WAS NOT WaZoBia. I was so excited just for that, because for the last few years, I have been advocating for broader storytelling in Nollywood and inclusion of minority languages. A few filmmakers opined that this was a big ask, as it was difficult to market a non-WaZoBia movie to the general Nigerian market. I've always thought this was balderdash, and rooted more in inferiority complex than actual facts, so, I was so glad to see that I was, after all, not wrong, and you can use a non-majority language to make a movie and it will bang.

Shout out to Charles Okpaleke of Play Network, he has been criticised overtime by Nollywood enthusiasts for producing somewhat low quality storylines that are rooted more in aesthetics than actual storytelling, and this movie was his big F*CK YOU! To such criticism.

Without further ado, let me get into the meat of this stew


Movie Title: Blood Vessel

Cast:
David Ezekiel
Adaobi Dibor
Levi Chikere
Sylvester Ekanem
Jidekene Achufusi
Alex Cyr Budin
Obinna Okenwa
Bimbo Manuel
Ebele Okaro


Plot:

Six people fleeing an oil-polluted community overrun by security agents, cross paths by chance and end up as stowaways on an ill-fated ship, unaware of the dangers aboard.


Movie Review:

This movie was marketed on the ground that it was a Niger Delta story, and to be honest, I was a bit unsure of what role Jidekene Achufusi would be playing in such a movie, since he isn't Niger Deltan. I temporarily forgot that actors exist TO ACT.

The first props I'd like to give this movie, is for AUTHENTICITY. When they said the movie would be set in Niger Delta, there were no plans to half-arse it. They fully planned to go the whole nine yards, and the first ode to this decision was seen in the use of the Ijaw language as the main language of dialogue in this movie. The first few minutes, I was trying to place the language, I was certain it wasn't Efik/Ibibio, and then when I realised it was Ijaw, I was happy for the inclusion and I decided to see how far they would go with it. They went all the way.

I do not have the words to quantify how much of a relief it is that we finally shed off the Lagos ghetto movie scene. The stories on Lagos criminal life have become lethargic over the years due to being overflogged and this movie finally traversing other angles to Nigerian life felt like a cold bottle of water hitting parched throat. Hearing Ijaw language being spoken, and Niger Delta pidgin was a very pleasant deviation from what Nollywood has inundated us with in recent times.

The production was so good. From the cinematography to the casting. With the cinematography, the story's dark theme was employed, but the colour grading didn't have that yellow tint to it. The director of photography needs to take a bouquet of flowers. The angles from which the story was told in certain scenes were so powerful, I really don't want to drop any spoilers, so, I'll be as vague as I can. There was a scene where the lead actor was groveling at the feet of the antagonist, the camera angle showed how imposing the antagonist was in that moment, and then in another scene, where the protagonist had the power over the antagonist, and the camera focused on his glare, those scenes were incredible.

With the setting, they kept it true to the Niger Delta theme; we were treated to sights of the oil polluted water, rural areas, sandy beaches, and the waterside. About 60% of the movie was shot on a ship, and we got the full exploration of the ship. I really want to give the production team props for getting that ship, that was money well spent as far as setting goes.

Now, let's get into the movie as a whole. To be honest, the beginning was a bit slow, but that's pretty much how beginnings for a lot of movies go. The attempt to catch our interest with a fiery opening is perhaps, not very successful, but as we go along, the story pulls you in. You find yourself invested in how they end up on the ship and what led to their change in fortunes.

This movie is brimming with actual emotion, you feel it in every scene. The fear, the hope, the despair. The actors are so brilliant, and I mean this whole heartedly, because each of them were able to project every emotion at the right time.

Jidekene as a revolutionary is convincing, his character, Boma, embodies the fighting spirit and defiance of every modern revolutionary you can think of. His carriage is commanding and his aura is compelling. David Ezekiel, who plays Abbey, one half of two young lovers, embodies the passion of any young man in love, he's spirited, hopeful, and forms a solid rock for his love, Adaobi Dibor, who plays Oyinbrakeme, executes the apprehensive lovergirl with an interesting marine origin, Obinna Okenwa and Sylvester Ekanem (Olotu and Tekena) are brothers in search of greener pastures, with Obinna playing the protective older brother, and Sylvester Ekanem executes the somewhat selfish younger brother, Levi Chikere (Degbe) is the mouthy freedom fighter with a rather weak grasp of sacrifice and true brotherhood. Each of these actors are exceptional in their roles, and to crown it all, Alex Cyr Budin is every bit the annoying villain as Igor. The actors not only naturally align with their characters, the characters themselves are so well written, that there is no deviation from their established values.

Without a doubt, this production skyrockets to the best thing that has ever come out of PlayNetwork. It is true to its roots, the acting is great and the script is brilliant. It is possibly the first movie of its kind in Nigeria, as regards the language of dialogue. Keeping to Play Network fashion, it also teases hints of another production in the works about the Igbo landing. This is a very underrated, but very much appreciated part of the PlayNetwork production company; they always intertwine their productions into what promises to be a cinematic universe much like we see with Marvel.

The movie's dialogue is mainly in Ijaw, Niger Delta pidgin, Russian, Urhobo and Igbo. Prior to watching this movie, I had been certain no other movie would top Afamefuna for me this year, but Blood Vessel ranks right up there. It's a great watch and it highlights familiar themes of exploitation, love, spiritualism, and family.

I am loving the exploration of other languages from Nollywood and I hope that the success of Blood Vessel inspires other Nollywood filmmakers to explore beyond the comfort zone of Wazobia, and also, knowing there are actors willing to play roles, and learn any language in order to execute said role, should be quite the encouraging thought.

Standout scenes (spoilers):

I had about 5 different standout scenes, with Jidekene featuring heavily in them, however, to avoid ruining the movie for some, I'll only pick out two.

1. Boma's shock when Degbe is shot is palpable. He freezes and just stares on in disbelief, and you can fully resonate with his shock in that moment.
2. The scene where Abbey opens their hideout spot and he watches hallucinations of each of his comrades greet him. This scene was incredibly emotional and basically brings us full circle. The choice of music is also emotional, and if you're not guiding your side, you may even shed a tear


Rating: 8/10

Watch or Trowey: Definitely watch.

Have you seen the movie? What are your thoughts and ratings?

PS: Sadly, the guy who played Tekena, Sylvester Ekanem, died a couple of months ago, in unknown circumstances. He was 23-years old and so close to a big break. May his soul Rest In Peace and may his family watch this movie knowing their son left behind a legacy so great despite living a life so short.

Is igbo language part of the minority

cjudy:
No Man U, No Chelsea, No Liverpool

Even the new hero, Newcastle none was there.

Over rated clubs

Arsenal fan...you are sighted

tsdarkside:
femi4,he said it too....

crime against women....kiki....

Each one should teach one

tsdarkside:
....

sorry oo....

Learn n move on

[quote author= post=127476266]Source: https://punchng.com/collapsed-water-tank-kills-woman-nine-day-old-child/[/quote]A stitch in time saves nine. They probably ignore the warning signs

tsdarkside:
look how pretty she is....

Stop objectifying women. If na man do am, you won't see comment like "Look at how handsome he is".

Appreciate her hardwork and move on to the next thread

Kingrshd3:
Thus sane set of people too will abuse d government

Exactly, we are not different from the government that criticize.

naptu2:
Memories.

Getting back from church on a Sunday morning. The house is filled with the aroma of delicious food and people are playing football (and sometimes rugby) outside. Sit down to eat breakfast while watching the Art Alade Show.

(It was previously shown at night, I think at 10pm, but I can’t remember what day of the week that was).

humm....the good old days.

babaRUNtinz:
Suspend more abeg,

Poverty, you will surely regret your actions in my Life!!

Ghost workers.
Only in Nigeria, a civil servant will be receiving 3-4 times his monthly salary

robosky02:
Which of this Ex-Super Eagles players deserved a CAF footballer of the year award in his prime?

Jay-Jay
Taribo West
Obafemi Martins
Daniel Amokachi
And
Mikel Obi



https://twitter.com/home

Mike n jayjay

Mike for winning ucl n afcon
Okocha for winning BBC APOTY

Biggaboi:
I was actually surprised he played. I thought he missed training on Monday so as to attend the awards and would be rested for the UCL match which came up just 2hrs later. How he managed to overcome jetlag from 2 flight trips, still started the UCL match and still scored showed how strong he is like he never left! Respect!

.Morocco no far from Europe

Dtruthspeaker:
Did the disciples not baptize everyone in the households they visited?

Show me

"that all believers in the households were baptized"

How does infants get into the equation

Dtruthspeaker:
Not wrong but maybe meaningnone as the child can grow up and nullify it as atheists have done.

Show me where Jesus/John the baptist or apostles baptized infants/kids

tsdarkside:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oAGUfH7DnlM

Balanced review

oteneaaron:
For majority of Christians, they believe that being baptized is a one of the most important tenets of Christianity.

Some people get baptized as children, others get baptized as adults when they join specific Christian denomination or sect.

The act of being baptized in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit, is based on the instructions explicitly stated at Matthew 28 verse 19:



But while doing some research, I found out that there seems to be a problem with the above verse, because there is solid evidence that proves that the Catholic Church in the Second Century CE, altered the above verse to propagate the doctrine of the Trinity.

Here is a collection of some of these evidences to prove that the Catholic Church really did alter Matthew chapter 28 verse 19:















Please don't take my word for it, do your own research.


To help you on your research journey, here is a link to a collection of these hard to believe evidences - https://www.onenesspentecostal.com/matt2819-willis.htm

It's wrong to baptised babies/kids cos they don't know the meaning of baptism

socialmediaman:
It’s most likely a skit (the woman’s voice was coming from an audio device, not the next room), but he passed a message

It's staged.

Entusky:
Hi nairalanders!
I want to know, can 4million take me to Australia?

Same Australia that's trying to reduce migration by 50%. Don't waste your money

Anny69:
I'm a messenger of the universe and I've been sent to tell you to wait till the wedding night. 🤭

Did you wait? No dey give advice wey you no follow

EtinosaDLaw:
The traffic situation in Lagos will not let armed robbers get away with it. That's what's stopping them. Not all this balderdash. Celebrating mediocrity.

Ignorance 100/100

Past bank operations in Lagos were conducted across the sea

Natbrowny:
According to Fifa rules.

Na World Cup year.. Archimi went far than others. He should win it. Fifa with shaky rules. 😂

You no even sabi football.

It's called CAF award, you dey blame Fifa

robosky02:
https://sportsbrief.com/football/54562-four-nigerian-players-won-africa-player-year-osimhen-closes-2023-award/

Kanu won it twice...played 4 afcon without a goal, what an irony

Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?

Security
Protection
Creativity
Sacrifice
Creativity

tollyboy5:
ahba! i don free am as quick as possible.
But she dey keep in touch as friend. na small pikin dey do am as i take reason am. She's 23.

Tell her that it won't work. You can't be friendzone or be her bestie.

Stanleymaster1:
Why will Nigeria government not keep to their promise. Always causing confusion every where

And you wonder why people don't trust them

EdoBoy90:
Dear guys,

Always ask questions about any lady's past. If she can't tell you, get it by yourself. Avoid any lady is who shouting privacy yet she wants to have access to yours; passwords of your whatsAPP, Facebook and other social platforms. Ladies can keep secrets. They always claim "Saints" whereas they aren't. Many ladies above 30 years who are not married, 95% are the caused of their problems. Don't pity any lady in relationship especially if you would like to settle down with her.

A situation where a lady told you that a man is her Uncle whereas the man wasn't her uncle. she has been with the man for more than 10 years as a 'side chic' whereas she couldn't get a guy or relationship for 2 years. The man is her sugar daddy. He only called her whenever he wants her. Ladies are heartless and wicked. Above 30 years, many ladies are just looking for an innocent guy to put their useless problems on his head.

In my opinion, avoid ladies who are above 30 years with multiple Exs. Just avoid them for your peace of mind please and future. The good ones are less than 3%

Stereotype....your last paragraph says it all

tollyboy5:
Walai this babe is a rare gem. But she nor gree

She's not just into you....free her

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

All I see is a mother here

Beat the child with one hand and bring her closer to yourself with double hands

All for the camera...it was staged

guobe:
Some men are taking risk sha.Two week to Xmas you are toasting a girl. What if she agrees. lol

Copied.

If she is not the hungry type, you are safe

Supremos:
Is everything that happens in this world the will of God?

We always blame God for our inadequacy in this part of the world

Chicken dey drive