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PT37:
PLEASE I NEED TO A GOOD SAMARITAN TO SPONSOR ME TO BUY DRUGS FOR MY LEG PLEASE..IT HURTS SO MUCH.I ALSO NEED ADVICE PLEASE

Let me ask you a question, does it mean that you have never been to the hospital ever since this started

Don't risk your life before it becomes cancerous

Cancer starts with little wound

aryzgreat:
Owner of Channels TV?

That's not him pls

Google owner of channels television

Denique:
Please explain further for the ladies on here. Thanks.

Honestly, you will get better understanding through Google
But it's a hormonal imbalance

ReligionofPiss:
can you explain more better please?
I'm also having the same issue with my fiance, thinking of dumping her

OK just Google it pls

xareal:
I did my nin some years ago, but i was robbed last year and lost all my documents including my nin slip, both original and photocopies, is it possible for it to ge retrieved or i have to re-register for nin again

Go to any NIMC office, they will ask you to submit your name and they will put it into the system and print it out for you

samwriter:
My father said he can not see people in the front or any other thing except he is closer to it in the morning but at night he can see what is in the front
My father is a taxi driver he can not drive is car again. we can not eat three time a day again. what might be the cause of the problem

Google Guinness eye clinic and go to the nearest one around you, take him there and he will be attended to

GoldenPussy007:
I know am not the only one with this kinda problem but how does one end ties with masturbation, especially being a female ... Mine is so chronic that whenever i look at my hands it draws me to do it ... Have tried praying, tried having a boyfriend... The boyfriend part didn't help because he works in another state, so most times i still feel lonely... I went a great deal to the extent of hiring a bedmate but it didn't help..


Is there any female here or anybody at all to help enlighten me on how to end this?

Once you are alone at home, the tendency is there for you to do it because you are lonely and thinks of nothing else than it

Get yourself committed to something that takes your time

Try and remove your mind from it

Start a good relationship with God so that his presence with you can calm you down

You can also get a boy friend and he will be there when you need it

Crimrburster:
A pusśy that is as wide as maracana stadium cannot hold semens.

That's not true

A watery sperm can't stay in because it's has lose its concentration

Aderr:
Thank you o. The man is obviously suffering a lot by keeping it bottled up.

Honestly he is dying in silence because he doesn't want to hurt his wife

So what about his wife that knows alot and kept it with her

BonPatrick:
I just feel like dying now the girl I love so much in anambra we have dated for 3 years but of recently I notice that another guy might be sleeping with her since we are not close. I am in Nsukka, I have feeling that she is cheating how can she call me and told me she is going to plug her phone that I should not call till evening. I smell some lies maybe she is going to a guys house and don't want to see my call. What should I do

Just look at what is bothering you of all issues in your life

Anyway get married to her and have peace of mind or just leave her let her go her way

This life is too shot to be thinking about women

iamGholdaniel:
White fluids like milk comes out from my Woman breast during sex!!!
Is it normal?
And she have never done abortion before.

Is called prolactin and its a medical condition that needs to be treated for easy conception

bigtboi:
So I took my family home to rest and went about my job while waiting for the test time to run out, once it's time I went to d lab and my baby genotype result came out as S.S and O+... I was supprise, shattered and overwhelmed by emotions, how is it possible... I didn't know what to think, is it that the result is wrong, was my school genotype result wrong, was there a mix up somewhere? I wanted to go confront my wife about the result but I'm an open minded person, what if I wasn't really an A.A genotype and it wasn't really her fault? I had so many thoughts... So I decided to calm down and keep the result a secret till I'm sure of all possibilities, the next day I went for my own genotype result at a different lab and it came out as A.A.... So here my delima, I need answers from my wife, the news alone of our suppose baby who I love so much being an S.S might kill her and she's 5months pregnant with another child which might be legitly mine, even my daughter seem to be in ss crises which she has been experiencing since her birth cuz she cry sometimes all through the night with looks of pains which we can't tell why before now... I'm so confused on what to do, I have lost my joy of living, how do I go about fixing this pls I need elderly advise cuz I haven't have the courage to bring myself to open up to anyone close to me about all that has been happening

Hmmm

You can't keep this forever

I know that she is pregnant but she knows alot, honestly she knows alot

Just seat her down and give her the result to analyze her self

Then ask her how come?

Let her be the one to solve that problem by giving you a definite answer

Where she can't provide an answer, take her and that child for a DNA test

The DNA test will reveal the truth about the paternity of that child

OfficialR:
This random thought came to my mind today and I was wondering if anyone here could answer it

So let's say a young guy has a girlfriend, and he usually has sex with her, and at the same time, the guy's biological father is also having sex with the girl

Later the girl becomes pregnant and the father and the son are the only suspects, is a DNA test going to detect the real owner of the baby since both father and son have the same DNA or is there slight differences in the DNA?

Don't mind my curiosity

Every child has his DNA trace to his father

Every child has either his father or mother blood group

Every human being in earth have a different finger print no body has the same biometric print in the whole world

So whom so ever that slept with her on her ovulation day even if the two of them did, the first to fertilize her is what the DNA will pick

In this case both of them men's blood will be taken to test the paternity of the child

greatness77:
don't tell me dat u read dis post and didn't understand it, SHE STRUGGLED WITH FIVE ARMED ROBBERS OK hope you understand now

Is alright

Homeboiy:
She’s a fool

You saw them with gun and your struggling with them

RIP nah

You are a bigger fool

Were you there to defend that she struggled with them

Are you not aware that armed robbers can shoot to disarm anyone they want to rob

uboma:
Depends on the size of the room, a 1hp or 1.5hp AC will do.

OK thanks, I will go for 1.5hp

Peteta:
Please I need advice.
I'm thinking of moving out of my parent's house to stay on my own but I'm worried about my parents as they are getting old. Most especially my dad who's not that strong.
I'm the last born as my other siblings have left and are staying on their own.
I don't have the freedom as I wanted.
What should I do?

Since you did not state the major reason why you want to move out

It's obvious is not yet time considering that your parents are old

Stay with them for a little while and discuss how they will cope if the stay alone assuming you intend packing out

C505:
I'm in a process of acquiring a 2HP inverter AC but I'm looking for a durable and budget friendly make.
Pls I need advice before my head advises me

I am also interested but am looking at LG though from fouani but I don't know what size to buy, it's just for a room

EmptyGarden:
After sales service should be your preference, and Fouani offers that excellently. So I'd advise you go for LG or Hisense. However, do well to avoid the Inverter specs, they're terrible... I'm still regretting.

Waoo, that inverter spec, what is your experience, pls tell me more

Omokrireno:
Believe it or not, this thing called money ritual is real...

I noticed that ever since i started dating this girl, things have been very difficult for me. In fact, things just stopped working for me and life became so difficult..

The red light came out first when she left to travel for a week. It's was like a magic, things started working well for me and just when she arrived everything became stoned... This sequence continued for months until one of these school holidays when i went for a church program and i was told to leave the girl that she was used for money rituals and anyone she gets in contact with will become broke and difficult as the person's luck will move to the ritualist.... Everything happening in our relationship was revealed to me that day....

When she finally came back from holiday, all my business and street hustle became blocked again and we always have this argument because she has a difficult attitude and lies a lot. At first, i didn't want to tell her about it, i didn't want her to feel bad and it doesn't seem right to me then... One night, i frankly told her, i had to because i had no one in my life except few friends, i was fending for myself and paying all my bills right from 100level...


Well, i broke up with her this night, not because of the ritual stuff but because of her attitude and she called me crying that she rather die than for me to leave her to go through this kind of pain....

She has turned it to a do or die affair... I need input on this.

At this stage you have to trade with caution

As far as you will not sleep with her, you are free from any danger

Is she calls don't pick it so quickly wait for another call before picking her call and be brief

If she keeps say that she can't do with out you tell her not to wait for you because you are yet to find your bearing

Alexgman1:
You have being dating a girl for a year and all of a sudden she broke up with you and went back to her ex who she said she hated so much & would hurt him if she ever saw him again because he used her & took advantage of her. Do you think there is something am not doing right Or does her ex has something i dont have that she went back to him?

Let her go, if she ever comes back, welcome her ask her all the questions you want to ask her and after that

Just tell her to go for good that you have ended the relationship

Tajbol4splend:
It's really not easy for a woman to raise a man, she deserves an accolade, doesn't she?

They look like triplets and boys can be very rough, that's the only way they can eat that food

Missnewhrt:
our rent expired in Oct last yr and we couldn't renew it due to the fact that my husband's contract job came to an end early last yr, and throughout the pandemic, no salary for me. We managed throughout.

My parent offered to help. We moved to my family house,(me and my 6rs old son) my husband left after some days because he was not comfortable. He presently stays with a friend and sleeps in his shop.

Since I came back here, everyone have been advising me to push him away and chose a better man who can take care of me and my child became I'm young and beautiful and I can correct my mistake of marrying my husband

Someone is coming already and everyone love his packages with all the gifts he brings. My aunty already told him I'm having problem with my husband and we're divorcing. Which is not true.

The pressure is much here. I can't even pick his calls in peace any more without them pokenosing in our discussion, i sneak out to see him. They make me feel like i'm wasting my time on a poor guy and suffering with our child. I don't want to push my husband away, i dont want to bear children with multiple men, he has been so good to us, just that things are not working well right now, but I believed, staying together with him, we can go through it together

I love my parents as well, I know they meant good for me, but this decision is too hard for me.

Pls, help us pay for an accommodation, so my family can stop humiliating him like they do now.
We have seen a self contain of 140k. Pls help.
Our location is Abuja.

I know before the yr runs, we will get back on our feet and we will be able to meet up with subsequent rent. Pls help.

I will advise you guys to look for a room apartment where you can always pay your bills and rent with out looking for assistance

Love us one thing that keeps a man and a woman together in any condition

If your husband has been good to you and because he is stranded now, he needs you to bear with him and then you have to let them know what your family are planning for you to accept the suitor that is on the way

This your intending suitor is likely not to be your type of man as he wants to marry you for his own selfish reasons which are unknown to you

Forget about what your family are using to force you to marry that man, it may turn out bad for you and they will only tell you sorry

So be with your man and search for just one room and start again, once there is love there will be hope for you people

Davidblen:
I'm a 21 year Old student , 400level I have a good part time that pays well so I don't have any financial problems for now , I have four best friends they all are yahoo boys and they always try to use their flashy lifestyle to intimidate me, they even go as far as trying to threaten to leave me if I don't join them but all those threats were empty cus we have all been together since we were 12,
last week one of them opened up to me that their money was not pure as they did some enhancements to gain the money, I was suprised and shocked

nairalanders I don't know what to do, I have been advised by my dad to cut ties with them, I have tried but it seems they are not willing to cut ties with me, they still recharge my phone every week ,please what can I do please ,

You are the next in line if you don't stop taking free bies from them

Start withdrawal methods with them

They have already exposed themselves to you and they want you to join them

Sonofgrace01:
Good evening and a happy sunday nairalanders..
i don't know how to start but let me start from somewhere..

Instead of writing a long epistle,i will summarise,so you won't get tired of reading..

In a devastated state now and my heart aches..
All the days of my life,i have always learned to respect my parents and listen to them...though there are some instances i am stubborn .but if i go wrong,i accept it and i apologize.
As the first son of the family..firstly,let me chip in this..i have never one day associate my self too much with ladies,i've never even showed a girl to my parents before.. I'm 22years old..though my parents know my intentions of getting married at 25years of age

So one fateful day,i told my mom of my girlfriend which i'm intending to build my life with..she knows this girl,she plays does things with her,they both look like mother and daughter sef...so on friday,my mom was like i can't marry her..that she will choose who she wants me to marry when i bring them..she was sha saying some stuffs and she was like I wouldn't do anything without her and even shouting(sorry to say this,she was actually shouting) at me,it really got to my head and it caused a big argument her and i..i'm trying to summarise here..most of you should have understood with what went down the arguments..

she was the same person that told me that,her parents and family didn't want her to get married to my dad..but she stood her ground and got married to him..please why is she disturbing me...i've asked her to give me reasons..yet she can't even give one thing...the only thing I'm sure she doesn't like abt her is height,she isn't really tall but she no be dwarf abeg o..
I told her if she keeps pestering me,I will leave the house soon and go to my side..

My dad will likely want to support her,they do that...I will leave..
Please are my opinions okay...or what should I do?...

Pls just take it easy with them, this is not an issue that will be treated with stubbornness of arguments

What your mum is doing is normal for some women because their son will start having less attention to them and becomes insecured that the love you have for her will be diverted

But its a simple issue to handle unless you have the whole time in this world to face them forever

My advice is, seat both you parents down and let them know that this lady is the one you want to get married to

Listen to them and if they turn it down, don't argue with them, leave the matter and bring it up again next time

If you go against their wish, you may not find it easy and your mother will make sure you don't enjoy it

For the fact that she is not supporting you, is enough for you to know that it's not going to be a smooth ride

sonofjos:
Dear lagosians,

Please pardon the grammatic errors.

Being born and bred in the north, I am conditioned to a certain societal behaviour that the first time I went to Lagos, interacting and seeing the people was a bit of a cultural shock to me. I've travelled to many states in the North and few in the south and almost all seemed just about the same as home.

But the first time I visited Lagos a few years ago I had many experiences that made it seem as if was in another country entirely. I'll share a few notable ones.

Please note that I'm not looking for trouble, I'm just giving a honest opinion

It was as if everyone seemd to converse harshly over very simple transactions. One would think they know each other from somewhere.
Many people in the public seemed angry as a default mode. I wondered why.

I boarded a bus to computer village and a primary school kid later joined and was later exchanging very hot words with the conductor who was a very muscular guy over some trivial amount. I watched with interest and it got to a point where I feared for the little guy because If that conductor decided to as much as slap the small boy, there won't be much left. But somehow the conductor calmed down as if he had met a worthy opponent. That boy seemed to me as if he had super powers.

I joined another bus and a fight broke out between the conductor and a passenger. Both of whom were muscular. None would hear sorry. The fight got so bad that the both ended with broken faces and the passenger got a rock and shattered off both side mirrors of the bus. Since I intended to join night bus home, I kukuma dropped and joined okada (it was legal then) which was much more expensive but worth it. I don't know how they ended.

I noticed many young people are muscular body builders. I wonder why.

I was walking on a street at computer village and a guy started threatening and commanding me to come over. At first, I thought he was speaking to someone else when I realised there was no one around me, and he made it clear he was referring to me. Till today, I don't know what confidence made me to keep walking. That was how I escaped O.

Everyone seems to be in hell of a rush.
I even said that if rapture takes place, Lagos would not know anything had happened for two weeks.

But Behind all these seemingly negative atmosphere, I discovered that lagosians are very kind people. Always willing to help.
As a stranger, I found it difficult to find places and routes. But almost anyone you ask is very willing to show you directions. I've had instances where people left their comfort to walk me to places where they gave me directions. Very welcoming set of people to strangers I tell you.

All these mixed experiences made me say that Lagosians are Indeed a very strange people.

Many other things I've experienced at Lagos over my other subsequent visits, but Lagos has remained strange to me.

I mean no disrespect to anyone, I'm just a fellow countryman who wants to better know my country.

My question to you guys is, why is Lagos the way it is?

Is there anything I missed or misunderstood about Lagos?

Thanks

That's why it's called no man's land

Tbadbad:
Sorry I read my message and I found out i made a lot of mistake , I am just writing with things , she has not really had sex with girl before , she said she just started having sexual urge with girls because she has been watching lesbian since I have been away, she told me she only dated 3 boys, which later I found out she has dated 3 guys, bleeped 2 she had Crush on and they didn’t dated , and cheated with 2 guys , which is making it 7, but she has been denying all these and telling me she only dated 3 boys and had sex 3 times since 2017(3 years) until last year October but she confess to me�

I think she is just hot and needs to be by your side to get steady and regular sex

Because everything here is centered on sex

Leaving her away is worsening her case because her hormones are pooping out seriously

She ended up with lesbianism because she feels that, if she gets bleeped by a man it becomes an issue so let her rather do it with a woman and see if it's going to help her release the tension

husseinaaa:
it's 45k ma

Like seriously I thought is 20k

Jack005:
Imagine rubbish talk! After all the delays and insult?he should still go to her house with a family member? Sense no dey your head I swear.. Op move on jare.

Because you are daft that's why you didn't see where he said that he thinks of her all the time

husseinaaa:
ma I cannot disagree or argue. but the truth is not all the rich people around you you know will help you not all our family are privileged enough, ma if you know what I pass through each dad just to have something to eat tears will flow uncontrollable.

Hmmm, so are you done with training now

Who do you stay with

How much is sewing machine