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SportsRe: Blessing Okagbare Files For Divorce From Igho Otegheri by frozen70(f): 9:47am On Apr 14, 2020
That's the problem we are facing now

There is no marriage that sweeter than the rest

They are all sweet with bitter taste
RomanceRe: Sleeping With Married Women by frozen70(f): 9:44am On Apr 14, 2020
iClef:
You're right.

From age 30 and above, she will stick with you, but from 15 to 27, she still has some skeletons she would love to share or confess to the man, but afraid to open up to avoid the relationship crashing. Those things are her old and current adventures, emotional struggles, and quest for varieties.


Even though you're a woman, there are men who know women more than women know themselves. You don't need to agree with me, but it's the truth.
I want to respond base on the age bracket you put and I like it

Those one below 30yrs, are yet to be experienced

They lack the experience that will model them

To them, life is sweet and they fantasizes alot about good life and dreams alot about getting married to a well made man it's not their fault, if the economy is good and men are are doing good jobs, of course they will get it

They are in their own world at that below 30yrs

They don't care if it holds or nit because there are at the pick of their fun and on top of their game

As they have one good man at hand, they believe a better one is out their that befits them

Now talk about those above 30yrs

They have had dome experiences that taught them that live is not as you think

They now appreciate relationships and once they get one goid one, they hold it tight and guard it knowing that the good one they are holding is more valuable than the rest

They are more matured and less stressful because they have seen it all
HealthRe: My Left Ear Has Been Blocked For 4 Days Now... Help!!! by frozen70(f): 9:37am On Apr 14, 2020
toxxnoni:
I am currently in Ibadan.
Please can anyone recommend ENT doctor around
Go to any hospital and ask from the doctor pls

They know themselves
RomanceRe: Sleeping With Married Women by frozen70(f):
ifyy07:
This is not true women do quest for varieties like men most especially all the Nigerian hustling like an olosho hoping from one dick to the other....you are a learner�
If a prostitute is moving from one man to another man, it's because the men are moving from one woman to another

Besides she is in her business and needs to move around for sales but a decent woman doesn't
RomanceRe: Sleeping With Married Women by frozen70(f):
ifyy07:
This is not true women do quest for varieties like men most especially all the Nigerian hustling like an olosho hoping from one dick to the other....you are a learner�
Stop it naw �

If you read my second to the last paragraph, you will see where I said that

"once she gets satisfaction from a man, she sticks to him"

Go and read it again and understand the full meaning
RomanceRe: Sleeping With Married Women by frozen70(f): 9:23am On Apr 14, 2020
iClef:
Advenuture + Emotion + Quest for Varieties.

Case closed.
Women don't quest for varieties like men

Once she can get satisfaction from you, she will stick to you
RomanceRe: Sleeping With Married Women by frozen70(f): 9:18am On Apr 14, 2020
Quality20:
It's quite known that some single girls like to date married men, whom they see as more reliable and could easily marry them as their extra wives, but on the contrary I don't know the exact reason why some married men rather than staying and dating single girls, but would rather be dating various married women.

What's the attraction in married women, who may even be pregnant or have children?
No married woman will wish to have an extra affair outside her marriage

But those that does it have their reasons

What soever, its not a good practice

But I am not in the position to judge them or condemn the act

Let the lights of love, peace and understanding shine in marriages and there won't be need for such practice
FamilyRe: Traveling to Port Harcourt by frozen70(f): 9:13am On Apr 14, 2020
Jullima:
No o. The OP is asking how much he should give the woman to disappear from his life. So you’ve to infer if the women is disappearing, she is doing so with their child. So the money also has to go to the upkeep of their child for at least 18-21 years. If she wasn’t expecting their child, I doubt the OP will care to give the woman money or feel obligated to.
Yes, he is even tired of her, when the journey just started

If he pays her to go off his life, what will happen to the child

Does he think she will ever drop that child for anyone

Never ❗❗❗
FamilyRe: Traveling to Port Harcourt by frozen70(f): 8:17am On Apr 14, 2020
Jullima:
The money is for their child (if it’s his) not the woman. No where in the OP was marriage mentioned.
I wasn't specifing on marriage

If you read very well, the child is still in the stomach, so the money is for the woman not the child yet

There is no limit to the amount she needs

If she has nothing doing at the moment he should keep taking care if her and after delivery she willget something doing to generate income

She can't keep expecting from him all the time besides, the guy doesn't really like being in that situation as he wasn't really prepared or he doesn't love the woman anymore

He should give her whatever he thinks he can afford every month without defaulting
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f): 11:32pm On Apr 13, 2020
Mypeople2:
Lady you are very correct .One very cold bottle of wine for you there..She should go and stay with her husband .Any where he goes ,she should go with him.After all, it is for better and for worse .
Lol, you are funny
FamilyRe: Traveling to Port Harcourt by frozen70(f):
Nwaotu:
I don't know if this is the right section to make this post. I got this girl pregnant. I want to settle this girl so I can move on with my life. How much should I give her? The deed has already been done but I need to move on with my life. She has completely changed since she got pregnant and very rude. In your own opinion, how much is reasonable to give her. Thanks for your input. Please no insult.
What are you giving her money for ❓

Did you guys sign any contract or had an agreement

If you have money to give and she has nothing doing, ask her what business she can do, then establish her

But before then, that she is pregnant does not mean that you must marry her, unless both of you are ready to settle down

Besides, pregnancy can make a woman behave irrational, it could be the reason she is behaving weird

Give her time to put to bed then watch her again, your focus now should be how to take care of her till she puts to bed and pay the bills

There is no amount you will give to her to forget about you

Just do your best and watch the way things are going
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f): 10:13pm On Apr 13, 2020
weslay:
Always get the full picture before jumping on issues.
True pictures like what and what ❓

What did you read that is different from the topic
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f): 10:11pm On Apr 13, 2020
Tiarababy:
Our rent expired that’s why I had to moved to my dad house and my husband is staying with his sister. We don’t have a place of our own yet , my 5 years old sister is my step mom daughter . It’s only my brother who is same mum with me
Do you stay in lagos if yes let me know

Can your husband ride okada in places like ikorodu then get a free accommodation

You really need help only if you can accept what is available
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f): 10:02pm On Apr 13, 2020
emmysoftyou:
Tiarababy pls this is the msg up here, hearken to him immediately.

I was two months into my marriage when I lost my job and my wife was 1month pregnant. Life change immediately and I decided to move on, face my challenges, i had some money in my account, i was using it to take care of my family and hospital bills. When the money turns zero, I couldn't arranged for the family, I started sourcing for income,it wasn't easy, I had so many interviews, I trekked to submits CV and all that.
Note , if my wife was not with me and I called some of my ex who're working, anything can happened..
But she stood by me , encouraged me to have hopes, she made a call to asked of money and that.
God so kind, three months before her delivery, I got first and second more paying job, then I took care of her..
Anyway, we're Igbo, and I don't want to believe only Igbo women stand with their husband without going to their parental home.. If you're Igbo, I'm disappointed.
If you're other tribes, pls go back to your husband and fight the challenges together.
Leave your father house immediately, your stepmother feels this is my husband house, you should go back.
Concerning retaliation, forget it, don't take laws into your hands, and if you have a clear evidence, crucify her by going to the police station.
Let her know, you're aware of her evil deeds against your own daughter.

God blessed you
I love your write up, both if you joined your faith to make it work

I hope she does as you advise
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f): 9:21pm On Apr 13, 2020
Tiarababy:
Our rent expired that’s why I had to moved to my dad house and my husband is staying with his sister. We don’t have a place of our own yet , my 5 years old sister is my step mom daughter . It’s only my brother who is same mum with me
OK, God will make away but be watchful, your step mum is not yet done
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f): 9:19pm On Apr 13, 2020
Biglittlelois:
Frozen70 you have mentioned me 4 times saying same thing and unnecessarily prolonging the thread, pls adjust and delete some of your comment.
Sorry not with the intention to hurt but I take correction
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f):
Tiarababy:
Am married with one kid , my husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant we are not longer living together , am back to my dad house with my step mom and 4 siblings. Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one she only cooks for herself , my dad and her children , she don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food , I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband, I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day. Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down , I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby , she was screaming in pain and when I look she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand , I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good health my brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water , I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us , I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care she acted like nothing no even a sorry to me, my dad says i should be quiet accident do happens and it’s nothing to be angry about, his words really shocked me but what can I do. What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who pur water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum. I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof , I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did , I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much , why pur hot water on a baby just because of bread , I hate her and I want to pur hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby . Should I pur hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch ?
Hmmm, leave revenge for God, in this circumstances, you are too poor and weak to fight a battle with a devil's advocate

Now the main advice

How come you allowed your husband to stay alone and deceived you to pack to your fathers house because he lost his job ❓

This is the height of your mistake and you will loose your husband to a woman before you know what is happening

He has no job, where did he get the money he sends to you ❓

Don't you know that you are supposed to stay with him and face the challenges together because of the followings

He may get a woman, who is working and ready to accomodative him and before you know it, voom his attention is gone

Your father's house is a no go area because your step mum doesn't want any of you and your dad is a weakly over her because he doesn't have a firm grip on your step mum

If you are staying with your husband, he will be forced to get something doing, even you too, because it seems that you don't have any income

You are supposed to be leaving with your sister of five years so that she will be far from that wicked step mother

What happened to your child is a sign that the worst thing will still happen to her

Just pack your things and take your little sister along to baby seat for you, whatever you and your husband sees you eat and you too start thinking of something

I just want to believe that you married early just to leave your father's house

Your husband can aswell tell a woman that he is single and the woman will allow him to be passing night with her

Dont ever trust a man especially when they are in a tight corner

A man can tell lies to get himself attached to a woman who is capable of herself


Think over it pls because you are still young to experience emotional pains

As for your step mum, just leave her, go back to your home and don't tell hubby you are coming, just pack and go there for your little child is no longer safe

If he deceives you again to go and meet his parents and leave with them, tell him that you will stay with him and suffer together

He will not like it because you are spoiling his plans, yes let it be so, stand on your feet but don't use force rather cry out your life for him
Biglittlelois:
How do you know her husband is living in their house? What if he had to leave cos he's unable to pay for rent and he's squatting with a friend? What if he told his wife to go live in her father's house so that he can hustle to get a place for themhuh
I don't support the idea

There is no way he would be living in an apartment he could nit afford the rent even when the chips are
Biglittlelois:
You can add acid to the hot water when you want to pour it on her, she is very evil for hurting the innocent child on purpose angry
There won't be any need for that, time will come when she will work on her step mother

For now, she is helpless and if she does anything funny, she goes in for it

Let her find her bearing first
Tiarababy:
My neighbour who is a doctor cleaned and covered the wound and am waiting for my husband to give me the money next week so I can take her to the hospital
You need to take action, what's the action, pack your things to your husband and let him come back to see you there without notice

You can go to hospital from there and make sure you go with your little sister if you dad permits you
SweetCunt97:
Go back to your house and manage with your husband.
That's exactly what happened, she should leave
Tiarababy:
She is so wicked to pur hot water on my innocent 10 months old baby ,am so angry I just want to pur hot water on her face to give her a scar she will never forget all her life
Trust women

Your presence in that house is a threat to her

Run for your dear life before your greatest fear will manifest
tensazangetsu20:
Better go and arrest her and get a restraining order against her. The next thing she will do is poison your baby and you won't know what happened.
Arresting her is like making things worst for tge whole families

She should leave that home to even anywhere

Her father can not take action against that woman, he us a weakly and most men does the neglect of the children from the previous marriage if they marry another wife, I don't know if it's because of her pussy or what

It's difficult for me to explain
ChoCho54:
Go and report this matter to the police immediately even if your dad would be offended. The woman would surely do more in future if you don't make it official.


It's your father's house and she's in her husband's house. Everyone should leave in piece. She has no greater claim to the house than yourself whether you are married or not.
Hmmm did you say she has no greater claim

My dear, it doesn't work that way not with a weakly father

She should leave simple

Life itself is not easy, let her go and manage things with her husband and take her little sister

Isn't it clear to you that she doesn't want anything good about those children

Tiarababy:
Our rent expired we moved out of the house that’s why I moved back to my dad and my husband is staying with his sister
Cry to your sister inlaw that your child came out of death by a wisk and you can't go back to that house again

If your sister in law is trading, follow her and go out, if she is working take the house work from her and be useful

I will rather prefer you to be a house help in your sister in laws house than being a slave or a princess in your father's house with that woman staying there

No way ❗ ❗
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f): 8:56pm On Apr 13, 2020
Tiarababy:
Am married with one kid , my husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant we are not longer living together , am back to my dad house with my step mom and 4 siblings. Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one she only cooks for herself , my dad and her children , she don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food , I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband, I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day. Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down , I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby , she was screaming in pain and when I look she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand , I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good health my brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water , I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us , I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care she acted like nothing no even a sorry to me, my dad says i should be quiet accident do happens and it’s nothing to be angry about, his words really shocked me but what can I do. What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who pur water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum. I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof , I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did , I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much , why pur hot water on a baby just because of bread , I hate her and I want to pur hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby . Should I pur hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch ?
Hmmm, leave revenge for God, in this circumstances, you are too poor and weak to fight a battle with a devil's advocate

Now the main advice

How come you allowed your husband to stay alone and deceived you to pack to your fathers house because he lost his job ❓

This is the height of your mistake and you will loose your husband to a woman before you know what is happening

He has no job, where did he get the money he sends to you ❓

Don't you know that you are supposed to stay with him and face the challenges together because of the followings

He may get a woman, who is working and ready to accomodative him and before you know it, voom his attention is gone

Your father's house is a no go area because your step mum doesn't want any of you and your dad is a weakly over her because he doesn't have a firm grip on your step mum

If you are staying with your husband, he will be forced to get something doing, even you too, because it seems that you don't have any income

You are supposed to be leaving with your sister of five years so that she will be far from that wicked step mother

What happened to your child is a sign that the worst thing will still happen to her

Just pack your things and take your little sister along to baby seat for you, whatever you and your husband sees you eat and you too start thinking of something

I just want to believe that you married early just to leave your father's house

Your husband can aswell tell a woman that he is single and the woman will allow him to be passing night with her

Dont ever trust a man especially when they are in a tight corner

A man can tell lies to get himself attached to a woman who is capable of herself


Think over it pls because you are still young to experience emotional pains

As for your step mum, just leave her, go back to your home and don't tell hubby you are coming, just pack and go there for your little child is no longer safe

If he deceives you again to go and meet his parents and leave with them, tell him that you will stay with him and suffer together

He will not like it because you are spoiling his plans, yes let it be so, stand on your feet but don't use force rather cry out your life for him
Biglittlelois:
How do you know her husband is living in their house? What if he had to leave cos he's unable to pay for rent and he's squatting with a friend? What if he told his wife to go live in her father's house so that he can hustle to get a place for themhuh
I don't support the idea

There is no way he would be living in an apartment he could nit afford the rent even when the chips are
Biglittlelois:
You can add acid to the hot water when you want to pour it on her, she is very evil for hurting the innocent child on purpose angry
There won't be any need for that, time will come when she will work on her step mother

For now, she is helpless and if she does anything funny, she goes in for it

Let her find her bearing first
Tiarababy:
My neighbour who is a doctor cleaned and covered the wound and am waiting for my husband to give me the money next week so I can take her to the hospital
You need to take action, what's the action, pack your things to your husband and let him come back to see you there without notice

You can go to hospital from there and make sure you go with your little sister if you dad permits you
SweetCunt97:
Go back to your house and manage with your husband.
That's exactly what happened, she should leave
Tiarababy:
She is so wicked to pur hot water on my innocent 10 months old baby ,am so angry I just want to pur hot water on her face to give her a scar she will never forget all her life
Trust women

Your presence in that house is a threat to her

Run for your dear life before your greatest fear will manifest
tensazangetsu20:
Better go and arrest her and get a restraining order against her. The next thing she will do is poison your baby and you won't know what happened.
Arresting her is like making things worst for tge whole families

She should leave that home to even anywhere

Her father can not take action against that woman, he us a weakly and most men does the neglect of the children from the previous marriage if they marry another wife, I don't know if it's because of her pussy or what

It's difficult for me to explain
ChoCho54:
Go and report this matter to the police immediately even if your dad would be offended. The woman would surely do more in future if you don't make it official.


It's your father's house and she's in her husband's house. Everyone should leave in piece. She has no greater claim to the house than yourself whether you are married or not.
Hmmm did you say she has no greater claim

My dear, it doesn't work that way not with a weakly father

She should leave simple

Life itself is not easy, let her go and manage things with her husband and take her little sister

Isn't it clear to you that she doesn't want anything good about those children
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f): 8:40pm On Apr 13, 2020
Tiarababy:
Am married with one kid , my husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant we are not longer living together , am back to my dad house with my step mom and 4 siblings. Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one she only cooks for herself , my dad and her children , she don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food , I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband, I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day. Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down , I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby , she was screaming in pain and when I look she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand , I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good health my brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water , I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us , I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care she acted like nothing no even a sorry to me, my dad says i should be quiet accident do happens and it’s nothing to be angry about, his words really shocked me but what can I do. What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who pur water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum. I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof , I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did , I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much , why pur hot water on a baby just because of bread , I hate her and I want to pur hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby . Should I pur hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch ?
Hmmm, leave revenge for God, in this circumstances, you are too poor and weak to fight a battle with a devil's advocate

Now the main advice

How come you allowed your husband to stay alone and deceived you to pack to your fathers house because he lost his job ❓

This is the height of your mistake and you will loose your husband to a woman before you know what is happening

He has no job, where did he get the money he sends to you ❓

Don't you know that you are supposed to stay with him and face the challenges together because of the followings

He may get a woman, who is working and ready to accomodative him and before you know it, voom his attention is gone

Your father's house is a no go area because your step mum doesn't want any of you and your dad is a weakly over her because he doesn't have a firm grip on your step mum

If you are staying with your husband, he will be forced to get something doing, even you too, because it seems that you don't have any income

You are supposed to be leaving with your sister of five years so that she will be far from that wicked step mother

What happened to your child is a sign that the worst thing will still happen to her

Just pack your things and take your little sister along to baby seat for you, whatever you and your husband sees you eat and you too start thinking of something

I just want to believe that you married early just to leave your father's house

Your husband can aswell tell a woman that he is single and the woman will allow him to be passing night with her

Dont ever trust a man especially when they are in a tight corner

A man can tell lies to get himself attached to a woman who is capable of herself


Think over it pls because you are still young to experience emotional pains

As for your step mum, just leave her, go back to your home and don't tell hubby you are coming, just pack and go there for your little child is no longer safe

If he deceives you again to go and meet his parents and leave with them, tell him that you will stay with him and suffer together

He will not like it because you are spoiling his plans, yes let it be so, stand on your feet but don't use force rather cry out your life for him
Biglittlelois:
How do you know her husband is living in their house? What if he had to leave cos he's unable to pay for rent and he's squatting with a friend? What if he told his wife to go live in her father's house so that he can hustle to get a place for themhuh
I don't support the idea

There is no way he would be living in an apartment he could nit afford the rent even when the chips are
Biglittlelois:
You can add acid to the hot water when you want to pour it on her, she is very evil for hurting the innocent child on purpose angry
There won't be any need for that, time will come when she will work on her step mother

For now, she is helpless and if she does anything funny, she goes in for it

Let her find her bearing first
Tiarababy:
My neighbour who is a doctor cleaned and covered the wound and am waiting for my husband to give me the money next week so I can take her to the hospital
You need to take action, what's the action, pack your things to your husband and let him come back to see you there without notice

You can go to hospital from there and make sure you go with your little sister if you dad permits you
SweetCunt97:
Go back to your house and manage with your husband.
That's exactly what happened, she should leave
Tiarababy:
She is so wicked to pur hot water on my innocent 10 months old baby ,am so angry I just want to pur hot water on her face to give her a scar she will never forget all her life
Trust women

Your presence in that house is a threat to her

Run for your dear life before your greatest fear will manifest
tensazangetsu20:
Better go and arrest her and get a restraining order against her. The next thing she will do is poison your baby and you won't know what happened.
Arresting her is like making things worst for tge whole families

She should leave that home to even anywhere

Her father can not take action against that woman, he us a weakly and most men does the neglect of the children from the previous marriage if they marry another wife, I don't know if it's because of her pussy or what

It's difficult for me to explain
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f):
This matter just dey vex me
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f): 8:35pm On Apr 13, 2020
Tiarababy:
Am married with one kid , my husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant we are not longer living together , am back to my dad house with my step mom and 4 siblings. Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one she only cooks for herself , my dad and her children , she don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food , I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband, I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day. Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down , I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby , she was screaming in pain and when I look she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand , I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good health my brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water , I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us , I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care she acted like nothing no even a sorry to me, my dad says i should be quiet accident do happens and it’s nothing to be angry about, his words really shocked me but what can I do. What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who pur water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum. I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof , I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did , I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much , why pur hot water on a baby just because of bread , I hate her and I want to pur hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby . Should I pur hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch ?
Hmmm, leave revenge for God, in this circumstances, you are too poor and weak to fight a battle with a devil's advocate

Now the main advice

How come you allowed your husband to stay alone and deceived you to pack to your fathers house because he lost his job ❓

This is the height of your mistake and you will loose your husband to a woman before you know what is happening

He has no job, where did he get the money he sends to you ❓

Don't you know that you are supposed to stay with him and face the challenges together because of the followings

He may get a woman, who is working and ready to accomodative him and before you know it, voom his attention is gone

Your father's house is a no go area because your step mum doesn't want any of you and your dad is a weakly over her because he doesn't have a firm grip on your step mum

If you are staying with your husband, he will be forced to get something doing, even you too, because it seems that you don't have any income

You are supposed to be leaving with your sister of five years so that she will be far from that wicked step mother

What happened to your child is a sign that the worst thing will still happen to her

Just pack your things and take your little sister along to baby seat for you, whatever you and your husband sees you eat and you too start thinking of something

I just want to believe that you married early just to leave your father's house

Your husband can aswell tell a woman that he is single and the woman will allow him to be passing night with her

Dont ever trust a man especially when they are in a tight corner

A man can tell lies to get himself attached to a woman who is capable of herself


Think over it pls because you are still young to experience emotional pains

As for your step mum, just leave her, go back to your home and don't tell hubby you are coming, just pack and go there for your little child is no longer safe

If he deceives you again to go and meet his parents and leave with them, tell him that you will stay with him and suffer together

He will not like it because you are spoiling his plans, yes let it be so, stand on your feet but don't use force rather cry out your life for him
Biglittlelois:
How do you know her husband is living in their house? What if he had to leave cos he's unable to pay for rent and he's squatting with a friend? What if he told his wife to go live in her father's house so that he can hustle to get a place for themhuh
I don't support the idea

There is no way he would be living in an apartment he could nit afford the rent even when the chips are
Biglittlelois:
You can add acid to the hot water when you want to pour it on her, she is very evil for hurting the innocent child on purpose angry
There won't be any need for that, time will come when she will work on her step mother

For now, she is helpless and if she does anything funny, she goes in for it

Let her find her bearing first
Tiarababy:
My neighbour who is a doctor cleaned and covered the wound and am waiting for my husband to give me the money next week so I can take her to the hospital
You need to take action, what's the action, pack your things to your husband and let him come back to see you there without notice

You can go to hospital from there and make sure you go with your little sister if you dad permits you
SweetCunt97:
Go back to your house and manage with your husband.
That's exactly what happened, she should leave
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f): 8:34pm On Apr 13, 2020
Tiarababy:
Am married with one kid , my husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant we are not longer living together , am back to my dad house with my step mom and 4 siblings. Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one she only cooks for herself , my dad and her children , she don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food , I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband, I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day. Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down , I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby , she was screaming in pain and when I look she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand , I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good health my brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water , I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us , I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care she acted like nothing no even a sorry to me, my dad says i should be quiet accident do happens and it’s nothing to be angry about, his words really shocked me but what can I do. What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who pur water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum. I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof , I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did , I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much , why pur hot water on a baby just because of bread , I hate her and I want to pur hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby . Should I pur hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch ?
Hmmm, leave revenge for God, in this circumstances, you are too poor and weak to fight a battle with a devil's advocate

Now the main advice

How come you allowed your husband to stay alone and deceived you to pack to your fathers house because he lost his job ❓

This is the height of your mistake and you will loose your husband to a woman before you know what is happening

He has no job, where did he get the money he sends to you ❓

Don't you know that you are supposed to stay with him and face the challenges together because of the followings

He may get a woman, who is working and ready to accomodative him and before you know it, voom his attention is gone

Your father's house is a no go area because your step mum doesn't want any of you and your dad is a weakly over her because he doesn't have a firm grip on your step mum

If you are staying with your husband, he will be forced to get something doing, even you too, because it seems that you don't have any income

You are supposed to be leaving with your sister of five years so that she will be far from that wicked step mother

What happened to your child is a sign that the worst thing will still happen to her

Just pack your things and take your little sister along to baby seat for you, whatever you and your husband sees you eat and you too start thinking of something

I just want to believe that you married early just to leave your father's house

Your husband can aswell tell a woman that he is single and the woman will allow him to be passing night with her

Dont ever trust a man especially when they are in a tight corner

A man can tell lies to get himself attached to a woman who is capable of herself


Think over it pls because you are still young to experience emotional pains

As for your step mum, just leave her, go back to your home and don't tell hubby you are coming, just pack and go there for your little child is no longer safe

If he deceives you again to go and meet his parents and leave with them, tell him that you will stay with him and suffer together

He will not like it because you are spoiling his plans, yes let it be so, stand on your feet but don't use force rather cry out your life for him
Biglittlelois:
How do you know her husband is living in their house? What if he had to leave cos he's unable to pay for rent and he's squatting with a friend? What if he told his wife to go live in her father's house so that he can hustle to get a place for themhuh
I don't support the idea

There is no way he would be living in an apartment he could nit afford the rent even when the chips are
Biglittlelois:
You can add acid to the hot water when you want to pour it on her, she is very evil for hurting the innocent child on purpose angry
There won't be any need for that, time will come when she will work on her step mother

For now, she is helpless and if she does anything funny, she goes in for it

Let her find her bearing first
Tiarababy:
My neighbour who is a doctor cleaned and covered the wound and am waiting for my husband to give me the money next week so I can take her to the hospital
You need to take action, what's the action, pack your things to your husband and let him come back to see you there without notice

You can go to hospital from there and make sure you go with your little sister if you dad permits you
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f):
Tiarababy:
Am married with one kid , my husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant we are not longer living together , am back to my dad house with my step mom and 4 siblings. Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one she only cooks for herself , my dad and her children , she don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food , I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband, I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day. Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down , I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby , she was screaming in pain and when I look she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand , I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good health my brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water , I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us , I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care she acted like nothing no even a sorry to me, my dad says i should be quiet accident do happens and it’s nothing to be angry about, his words really shocked me but what can I do. What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who pur water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum. I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof , I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did , I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much , why pur hot water on a baby just because of bread , I hate her and I want to pur hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby . Should I pur hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch ?
FamilyRe: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by frozen70(f):
Tiarababy:
Am married with one kid , my husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant we are not longer living together , am back to my dad house with my step mom and 4 siblings. Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one she only cooks for herself , my dad and her children , she don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food , I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband, I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day. Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down , I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby , she was screaming in pain and when I look she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand , I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good health my brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water , I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us , I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care she acted like nothing no even a sorry to me, my dad says i should be quiet accident do happens and it’s nothing to be angry about, his words really shocked me but what can I do. What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who pur water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum. I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof , I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did , I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much , why pur hot water on a baby just because of bread , I hate her and I want to pur hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby . Should I pur hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch ?
Hmmm, leave revenge for God, in this circumstances, you are too poor and weak to fight a battle with a devil's advocate

Now the main advice

How come you allowed your husband to stay alone and deceived you to pack to your fathers house because he lost his job ❓

This is the height of your mistake and you will loose your husband to a woman before you know what is happening

He has no job, where did he get the money he sends to you ❓

Don't you know that you are supposed to stay with him and face the challenges together because of the followings

He may get a woman, who is working and ready to accomodative him and before you know it, voom his attention is gone

Your father's house is a no go area because your step mum doesn't want any of you and your dad is a weakly over her because he doesn't have a firm grip on your step mum

If you are staying with your husband, he will be forced to get something doing, even you too, because it seems that you don't have any income

You are supposed to be leaving with your sister of five years so that she will be far from that wicked step mother

What happened to your child is a sign that the worst thing will still happen to her

Just pack your things and take your little sister along to baby seat for you, whatever you and your husband sees you eat and you too start thinking of something

I just want to believe that you married early just to leave your father's house

Your husband can aswell tell a woman that he is single and the woman will allow him to be passing night with her

Dont ever trust a man especially when they are in a tight corner

A man can tell lies to get himself attached to a woman who is capable of herself


Think over it pls because you are still young to experience emotional pains

As for your step mum, just leave her, go back to your home and don't tell hubby you are coming, just pack and go there for your little child is no longer safe

If he deceives you again to go and meet his parents and leave with them, tell him that you will stay with him and suffer together

He will not like it because you are spoiling his plans, yes let it be so, stand on your feet but don't use force rather cry out your life for him
FamilyRe: M by frozen70(f): 8:09pm On Apr 13, 2020
Truetalk3139:
Hello everyone, my Dad is 60yrs old and has been gambling before I was born, I have tried all my best to talk him out of it but he never listens and when i talk too much it turns to argument, his siblings too are chronic gamblers, now he's retired and he's still gambling with money he's supposed to use to sustain till his pension is available, he used to go and sit with boys at bet9ja house whenever he's not on duty.

How do I stop him from gambling? because he might just squander his pension on gambling if he's not stopped.
It a chronic habit he formed over time

Have you sat him down to discuss what he intends doing after retirement

If no, get close to him and discuss about it, help him to go into research and visibility studies on it

You too take your own survey about the business

When he gets his pension, convince him to take part of it and put into the business that will take part of his time away

Does he have a land or already built a house in the city where you leave, if yes good let him buy more and build for commercial

And if no, you guys can start looking for land so that his gratuity will be channelled into it if not, he will use it for gambling because his customers are aware he has retired

They will be deceiving him until he sinks the money there
FamilyRe: Please What Advice Can You Give Me by frozen70(f): 2:41pm On Apr 13, 2020
nams77:
cc: D1987 and frozen70.

When dealing with financial transactions in issues like this, it is best you transfer the cash from your account to hers. Never give her cash. The simple reason is for evidence purpose later.

Don't pay cash into her account too, always transfer from urs. If a contest comes, she can deny that you gave her any money and may even refused or delay to print her account statement. But if you transferred from your account to her, you can always print statement from your end even if she refused to print her from her account.

Some duluded women are always quick to lie that the man is a low-life bum who is not providing for his kid(s), even if the man is moving heaven and earth
Get ur evidence ready. It may come handy some day

Do a DNA test. Very important.

Thirdly, women talk shit sometimes. Try and overlook that before you kill somebori

Good luck.

Nb: another downside of paying cash is that tellers can get torn, faded or even lost. A statement can always be retrieved with the click of few buttons
That's a good one there
Car TalkRe: How Much Will It Cost Me To Clear This Benz? by frozen70(f): 10:03am On Apr 13, 2020
[quote author=aspiring44 post=88387625][/quote]Nice response

So how do you link me up to the auction agency they have In Lagos
Car TalkRe: Water Entered Into My Toyota Rav4 2005 Brain Box by frozen70(f): 9:29am On Apr 13, 2020
kaajemaina:
[b][/b][center][/center] Please I need the help of guru in the house. After major work on my car and having stayed long enough at the Mechanics workshop, I took it to Car wash but i didn't stay with them while washing. I later picked my car and packed it at home but the next after moving a short distance within my area, the car stopped and refused to start. I quickly call my Kazeem and we found that the brain box and connections terminals are already soaked with water as a result of washing the car interior with pressure washing machine. What is /are chances of reviving my Brain box and the cost of replacement.

#Oga Gazzuz
#Oga nurey and Co
Pls advise me on Rav4, I want to get one after the lockdown and am looking for an experienced owner advise to avoid mistakes

Which year brand can you suggest for me and what's the difference between 2008/2009 model
Car TalkRe: Traditional Leader Buried In His Mercedes Benz With His Hands On The Wheel (Pix) by frozen70(f): 9:25am On Apr 13, 2020
His car

His body

His wish

Hemust be obeyed by the family
Car TalkRe: . by frozen70(f): 9:04am On Apr 13, 2020
Look around your state and see what others are using

Go to taxi and kabukabu packs and make enquiries about what they do use for taxi

They are in the best position to give you best and genuine answer

What ever you are getting here is a guess
Car TalkRe: How Much Will It Cost Me To Clear This Benz? by frozen70(f): 8:54am On Apr 13, 2020
aspiring44:
580k would get it cleared .
Alright thanks but another question

Can you clear as a clearing agent

Do you know any of those companies that help to buy those auctions cars fro USA and Canada

There is one at Burma Road Apapa but I don't know how reliable they are

If I should buy from abroad, what should be my budgets from buying to shipping down to Lagos port

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