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obisite:
Exactly!!!

But @bold you mean oo

Lol, it's just am illustration, but he understands

Francis609:
I will be brief with the narrative . Am 33 years old engaged to be married. I live with my fiancé in a single room ( she started living with me since February due to some issues she had with her senior sister she stayed with). We both are working , we are not financially ok just managing. My mum doesn’t like my fiancé for no reason , her reasons are , 1. my fiancé is dark skinned and ugly , she said I am a man but i looks more beautiful than my fiancé , she is worrying about her giving birth to ugly kids lol , mum preferred me marrying a fair woman like her , 2. She is not from the same tribes as her , she wants me to marry a girl from her village because she doesn’t want me to end up a divorcee like her ( my mum and dad are not from the same village , they had so many issues in the marriage that led to their separations). My mum thinks marrying her will not be a very good ideas. As for me I told my mum , I love my fiancé , she is the most beautiful woman in my eyes , she is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with . My mum not happy and still disapprove of our relationships. She was not aware that my fiancé is staying with me , it was when my younger sister cane collecting money for her school fees , she met with my fiancé and has seen some of her stuffs in the room , she went back to telling my mum. She called me shouting at me , I’m stubborn like my dad , I don’t want to listen to what she is telling me about not marrying her, she will kill me , she has said a lot , no need for me to write everything on her . Then like a week later she has came to my place with my nephew only 1 year 6 months that she want to spend time with me because she misses me , according to her she was supposed to stay for a week but with this lockdown , things did not go according to plans , it will be 3 weeks on Wednesday , the space is not even big , I have been spending the day with them and when is evening I’m squatting with friends , while I leave my mum and fiancé in the house and she had been giving my fiancé lots of problems that today she has told me , she cannot stand my mum anymore and she want to leave and go and squat with her friends , I have been begging her to stay but she refused. I really feel sorry for my fiancé , I know how manipulative and controlling my mum can be , she is the type of person that can frustrate you till you commit suicide , I don’t even want to talk about what I went through living with her , I pity my fiancé , I don’t want her to go and stay with friends , she has nobody else apart from me. My mum has 5 children and a house , I just want her to go back to her house but I don’t know how to tell her without hurting her feelings. I need help, I can’t take it anymore

At this stage, you have to be very careful about your mum

She is seriously serious and you must e careful

Pls allow your fiance to go and squat with her friends

When she goes, reduce your spending at home to the extent that I'd she ask for money, tell her that your salary isn't enough for your transportation to work that since your girlfriend started dating you she has been the one assisting you and you saw her as a God sent and that the money you gave your sister for school fees she was the one that brought half of it, that she should endure and manage with you

Don't allow her to manipulate your happiness

Yemialade:
Thanks, it's just frustrating, i always end up fighting with him

I will suggest you relocate to any of your relatives who will be willing to accommodate you

But bear in mind to assist them in e every where you can at home and be so useful that your exit will cause wahala to the entire family

While you ate there, respect yourself and start thinking of what to do

In the absence of non, go for the tailoring practice, you must not practice it buy you will have the experience that will help you in your matrimonial home

Drfernandez:
My close friend said I should lend him some money and he promised to pay it back within 3 months. I know that he genuinely has a need for the money. The amount he requested is almost 1/10 of my entire savings, but I do not plans to use the money anytime soon. What will you do if you were in my shoes? Should I trust him?

You did not mention the amount involve

You didn't tell us how good and reliable he is

You don't know if he lives a modest or dirty life

One tenth of your salary is enough to use as sacrifice for the sake of your relationship

I will say give him, since it's just one tenth

But bear the following in mind, if he gets himself and give you back, good for you

If he doesn't give it back to you and is nit making any effort or feeling remorse about it, good for you too, do you know why ❓

He won't come again and if he does, don't ever give him another chance, even if it means using it to buy the last ventilator

As you are giving him, consider it a 50/50

Dreal1247:
Was the market infested before now? What is the essence of this when people have been out of the markets for over one week?

Do you know that every part of those buildings has living and dead germs on them

If you doubt, go to any market building, use white handkerchief and rubb on the wall

What you see is what you get

Mysticwebb:
Buhari from the land of the dead, sees in spirit. The man just signs everything brought to his table without reading through to make corrections. He is as lazy as those writing speeches for him. Only good in sleeping all day, bed wetting as he likes haven lost control of all his muscles and brain.

Lol, you ehhhhh

Biancah:
Why do Nigerians beg alot ? In all social media handles Nigerians like begging, if a celebrity should post anything and there are 2000 comments ,1700 of the comments would be of people pasting their account numbers.

Why do Nigerians feel entitled to someone's money. Even nairaland is not left out, account numbers are almost everywhere on nairaland.

Some were even asking S.eun for giveaway like they are entitled to his money.

Why do some Nigerians feel like they are entitled to a rich/well to do person's money?

Things are difficult, it's alot to remove shame and beg

It is still far better to beg than to scam

ghettokid1:
They are not serious.

That was a good judgement

They were just guest and their punishment is good to apologise

As for Gbadamosi, it's was the best he can get, if he was jailed or given am option of fine, it will affect his election chances as he will be regarded as ex convict

ursullalinda:
Really?.....so if a crime is committed and u participate the law excuses you because you were invited?......i dont get?

There are some certain cases where a judge is expected to use his discretion

That's exactly what he did

Kenneth10110:
Mumu that's my point if they will charge NM and Gdadamosi they should charge the rest who attended

This is how far they can go, they succeeded in getting known public figures and after that it stops there

They don't have to frustrate the peace of those in that attended the party after all they were just guest

That was why they focused their search light on the host and the public figures

ghettokid1:
They are not serious.

That was a good judgement

They were just guest and their punishment is good to apologise

As for Gbadamosi, it's was the best he can get, if he was jailed or given am option of fine, it will affect his election chances as he will be regarded as ex convict

ursullalinda:
Really?.....so if a crime is committed and u participate the law excuses you because you were invited?......i dont get?

There are some certain cases where a judge is expected to use his discretion

That's exactly what he did

ghettokid1:
They are not serious.

That was a good judgement

They were just guest and their punishment is good to apologise

As for Gbadamosi, it's was the best he can get, if he was jailed or given am option of fine, it will affect his election chances as he will be regarded as ex convict

RichDad1:
This is some charades I guess.
So what happened to the already charged and convicted Bellos?

They were the real culprit, if they didn't invite them, they wouldn't have gone

It was a good judgement as for me

massinola:
See the animals the boys caught today.

The lockdown has not been easy on guys. So after their morning training, on their way back, they branched to a nearby bush and started hunting for any available bush meat.

These two were what they caught. I don't know their names but in our dialect, it's called Avu.

Peper soup 19 loading

You guys will eat the one that will bring naija virus

Shalom3934:
Yes I do masturbate sometimes, but not all the time. It seems I masturbated 1 day before her visit?

Does it cause that poor erection or no erection at all

Ofcourse it does

If you masturbate more, your brain will recognise it more than any form of sex

When you want to do the real sex that same brain will have to reformat again by so doing the brain and the heart will be arguing which to follow the next thing the brain will do is to shut that region hence the erectile problem because there is no linking

If you love sex and really want it every other day, get a wife and if you can't get a wife for now, get your girlfriend to be on ground most times and you will not have any reason to be masturbating

Is she becomes pregnant good for both of you, it will help you guys to work marriage out

But if you continue to masturbate, over time the nerves will be weak because its not meant to be rubbed by hand but ment to slip in and out of a pusy with harm on it

mabeni:
How do I meet the parents of my fiancee that their daughter is pregnant for me? We are both in our early 30's and have planned to get married probably in 2yrs times for financial reasons but she's over 2 months pregnant now and we are keeping the baby.
My major concern here is not keeping the baby and my fiancee (I can convinently take care of them ) but how do I face her parents that I don't have money for marriage or bride price now.

Note: She's from akwa ibom

If you love and wants her

Visit them let them know that you are the one responsible for her pregnancy and you came for the family to know who you are

If they welcome you and ask you about marriage rights tell them straight that you guys haven't settled down before the pregnancy came

That they should give you a year to two years to get prepared for it

Simple and make sure the two of you have already agreed on this before embarking on the journey and let her seat and pertake in what you are going to say

Then work towards that pls

If two agrees it will work out

Karex81:
Women, nowadays men can masturbate to control their sexual urges, but will never be as sweet as doing it raw.

Thats not true

What makes you think women will beg for sex and who told you women don't masturbate

Women masturbate alot and they do that when they are feeling Hot

Men doesn't need to be hit before searching for sex, anything around an trigger a man's sex urge and so once it's triggered he has to sort himself out
Yes men masturbates but derives more satisfaction when it gets to proper penetration

ziinee:
Hi house,
I am Biola. I need a christian wife. If you are a cool headed real christian lady who has always been waiting to meet a faithful man, send me a message and let's see if there is anything more. I believe there lots of solutions in this that we just don't have a means of meeting them. As you long to find someone, someone somewhere is also eager to know you. I can't talk more about myself here. You get to find out for yourself. God can use any means, even Romans nairaland. eminimomo@yahoo.com

You must have been tired of staying with the ladies you already slept with if not why not make them to be the kind of woman and put them through Christianity

If you are not a virgin and you are seeking for this, don't be surprise at what you will get

Be serious with the ones around you and both of you can build a Christian life together

We all have different purposes for being in a relationship

Whatever your purpose, respect yourself and avoid anything that will make you beg your partner not to leave

You can't be showing unseriousness in a relationship and you expect the other party to kill his or her self

MrCaesar:
I have a very big problem with my boyfriend. The problem is that he smokes Indian hemp. He smokes so much that any few hours he doesn't smoke, he may fall sick. Meanwhile, we are practicing Christians. He had been told by different prophets that the only reason why he is not growing in life is because he smokes. I hate that habit a lot. I am finding it so hard to cope with it. I have given him several ultimatum to stop smoking, he keeps promising he will stop, but nothing is happening. I don't think he loves me genuinely because...

https://www.caesarscircuit.com/2020/03/my-boyfriend-smokes-should-i-drop-him.html?m=1

What makes you think giving an addict an ultimatum will make him stop smoking.

Just withdraw from the relationship gradually and stop telling him to quite smoking, you have said enough to him

He us an adult and have the right to destroy his life

Jimbadly:
You have erectile dysfunction.

The most popular medication for erectile dysfunction is Viagra. Must be recommended by a medical doctor.

That viagra is meant to be taken on rare cases

If you depends on it, you are doomed

Shalom3934:
GOod morning guys,

Pls I recently discovered that am having erecion issues.
The last time my babe came, we were having s*x and suddenly I lost erection and it never came back.

On another day , i tried for us to f**k her but couldn't even get any erection and if it comes small it will be so weak.

Please what type of food helps boost erection or even drugs that I should take.?

I will advise you calm down and check if you are going through anything that has affected your mental sense

Are you worried
Are you depressed
Are you having low sugar or diabetic
Do you masturbate

Well if you are negative to the questions above,

Just take vitamin E tablets, any of the imported ones then good vegetables and carrots and fruits. It could be a thing of the mind

With time lije one month you will be fine

Don't rush to have sex, relax let it come on its own

If after one month you are still in the same situation, go to your doctor

SirBobiGentle:
Some few days back I had a dream and in the dream I found myself having a very romantic date with a strange young lady I have never seen in my life before. We had a lot of fun to the point that we almost had sex but I woke up before the sex could happen and prayed about it because I hear having sex in dreams are not a good thing. Just yesterday I went somewhere and to my greatest shock, I saw this exact girl with same face and body stature just starring at me and smiling like she knew me from somewhere. I got worried because the whole thing seemed strange so I decided to ask if by chance this experience has any form of spiritual implications.

If you like her, get to know her, discuss with her and find out her spiritual background

While you ate doing all these, avoid sex, I repeat avoid sex

You can be friends for the next one year but avoid sex

The essence of avoiding sex is for you to understand if she is possessed or not

With time you will get to know more both in dreams and reality

But if you don't have any feelings for her

Just leave her let her go

realonecrilar:
I met this beautiful and boosty girl late January when I went for a visit at a friend's place.
She stays very close to my friend's house,in short I said hi to her on this very day,but she only nodded her head as a response.
I immediately called my friend out for a look, if he actually recognizes the girl,and I told my friend I have interest in this girl,and he forwarded her number to me two days after.
But then I already left for school, so we started chatting,she started showing commitments by calling most of the time, I suspected my friend have told her about my career focus and achievements ,it got cleared to me she is very interested in the relationship,so I didn't want to break the news to her that I already left for school,so that she won't see the relationship uninterested anymore but two weeks later, I told her I had left for school.
She understands,and I promised to see her few weeks later, but honesty I spent three months on campus , but she always call during those periods and I always do the calling aswell , I guess she's very interested in the relationship .
Now i'm back home , but staying at that my friend's place to see her often and often as I promised her when I was on campus.

She always visits me at my friend's place, so we started gisting and talking about life and the relationship on the other hand but I didn't demand for sex from her for good one week, I guess I was so nice since we just started seeing,though we always do some dirty things, because we always sees.
The following week that I planned to request for a sex,she started her menstrual period,I could not request for sex,and there was one particular day she came for a visit , she put on one sexy mini gown like that, but trust me, she's still on her mestrual period, I could ask her for sex,though she didn't stay very long that very day, because she told me her mum sent her an errand that she only uses the opportunity to say hello to me , I adimires her dresses and she said thank you and she left.
The following day she came to my place, and we were gisting and discussing , in a short while,we started those dirty things as usual but no sex,still on her period,at this point I Confessed to her that if not that she still on her menstrual period,I would have demeded for sex from her, because during those periods of dirty things I always make attempts to have sex with her,but she always refuses,telling me she's still on her period.
So she promised the sex after her period,and we both did the calculation when the period will ends and she added a day to it for her to rest and we both agreed.
Now she has finished her period three days ago and she's not showing up at my place again ,but only communicatig on phone,telling me she's busy nowadays.
I swear,i'm tired and Hot for her sex,trust me,I love this girl and she does too.
What should I do ?

She knows that you want sex from her it's her treasure and may give it to you or not

She wants to avoid it

Nguru55:
And make money. Women will come

omron:
There was this lady I was supposed to marry I met her 2016 and we dated till 2019 June before I met another lady her name was Betty ..Betty was more jovial ,lively fun to be with I started showing interest in her more than the former girl Christy.
I fell in love with Betty because I think we were so much compatible to my upmost surprise I got married with Betty within just few months about 5 months of meeting her.
Christy saw our wedding pics through her mutual friend status and ask me to explain.
I told her to move on with her life.
Some few months after my wedding I discovered that Betty charmed me to forget christy I saw all the charms in her bag and evidences where she tied me and her together .
I asked her and she confessed .
Now I av divorced her and I went back to my former girl and told her how it happened and ask for her forgiveness.
She said she forgive me but we can never date please house what can I do to have her back please I need good advise.thanks

If you think making money will attract more women to you, be ready to accommodate the ones that will reck you down

omron:
There was this lady I was supposed to marry I met her 2016 and we dated till 2019 June before I met another lady her name was Betty ..Betty was more jovial ,lively fun to be with I started showing interest in her more than the former girl Christy.
I fell in love with Betty because I think we were so much compatible to my upmost surprise I got married with Betty within just few months about 5 months of meeting her.
Christy saw our wedding pics through her mutual friend status and ask me to explain.
I told her to move on with her life.
Some few months after my wedding I discovered that Betty charmed me to forget christy I saw all the charms in her bag and evidences where she tied me and her together .
I asked her and she confessed .
Now I av divorced her and I went back to my former girl and told her how it happened and ask for her forgiveness.
She said she forgive me but we can never date please house what can I do to have her back please I need good advise.thanks

I don't know how true this is

But if you need advice, don't rush her, give her time e en if it will take you forever

You stabed her trust
You deflated the love she has for you
You betrayed her

She is finding it difficult to believe you again

Time, time and time is all you need to get your respectand trust back from her

Man wey get sense

Some low life Africa man will not allow his pride to permit him to change his surname, yet lives in penury

ijustdey:
https://thenationonlineng.net/23-year-old-commits-suicide-in-kogi/

Fear kogi people especially Igbra

This us how they go abroad, spoil our name and make it difficult for decent ones to stay happily there

He is in for jail no doubt

Brock202:
Thank you very much

You are welcome

dawnomike:
Are these for commercial purpose...How much do they go for and how can one make a purchase?

I think its better if as gardens and seat out chairs

TheMohican:
You will still see some Igbo people entering school at 10 years old

How is that your problem

Brock202:
She's ready to take corrections. What techniques can i use? She's good in every other aspect.

That's a good start

Sit her down on a good day, tell her your observations and tell her how you are ready to assist her in improving her intelligence

Let her know how much you care for her and if she looses you, she will not know it until she finds it difficult getting some one like you

Start by throwing challenges on her and be serious about it

If you are serious she will be committed

When you need someone to do some things for you

send her with stern warning and check her out on return

Give her task to perform, the one that involves mental thinking

These are the things she may face in future but you are building her for it

Brock202:
Hi everyone, i dont want to bore you with long talk.
I need your advise on this issue,
Me and this girl have been in a relationship for over a year now, she posses some of the features i want in my woman but she's lacking one thing which is intelligence, i always be the one to bring up a topic we can talk about, I've never meet her for advice or anything that bothers me because i know she can't proffer any solution to it, we don't use to chat on WhatsApp after saying hi and i reply, how was your day that's the end, I'm the only one that bring up issue to discuss everytime but now am tired of it, I've complained to her several times but she said she don't what to say, I've sent her some books to read but she didn't read any of them. I'm thinking of breaking up with her because i can't cope with her again and then i decide to give it a second thought that's why i put it here if there is any other tips i can use to build her up to my taste

Advise me please!

Intelligency runs in some family and others gets their own intelligent through self efforts with experience

What does she do for now

Is she ready to take corrections or arguments on everything

You see, an intelligent woman is far more preferable than a man

This is my reasons

She is the home front of the family

Most times, father's are not at home, but she will be there as a father and a mother to the children

No matter how much a man makes, if your wife is not intelligent to manage resources, you will have a financial leakage at home

The children stays more with their mother than their fathers, if she us not intelligent, she won't be able to cope where they need her assistance in home work and other aspects of learning

Marrying an intelligent woman, makes the home front easier for you, no matter if you are their or not

If a woman is intelligent, she thinks far and plans for the future

I won't tell you to leave her but the brain work load will be more on you