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Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?

You need to sit her down and ask her what actually the problem is

She could be having some emotional disturbances affecting her

She may not be enjoying sex with you

She may not be the sex type or the type that see sex for only procreation

Only her knows her reasons

But you have to find out what actually is the cause of the problem with her tgat made her to act that way

If she says nothing, then let her know that you need it and if you are not getting it, what dies she wants you to do about it

Because, I don't know how you are going to cope with this attitude of hers

If she is still difficult about it, relax and give her time

I hope you do help her out with the baby because nursing a baby and putting the home front in order are one of the challenges new mum goes through

Help her out at home, make it a priority to get back home in time to be with the baby and bond with tgat child so tgat she can still perform her domestic work and still have the strength to attend to you at night

Help in the house chores too it's not meant for her alone

Women always know their onions and have ways of making things works for themselves

JDJ4:
A Very Big Mistake Of My Life

Hi nairalanders.

Please pardon me in case of any grammatical error. My story will be long, pls kindly bear with me and read to the finishing point. I'm ready to accept any insulting comments, it doesn't matter to me now.

I'm a 25 years old guy, not really financially buoyant but an average, money never dries in my pocket and back account as a hustler. Am currently still in part time program in university.

Now let me go straight to the point, here is my story. I started dating one beautiful girl back then in 2014, we were in love until something came up. There was a time I came home and she visited, that was the beginning of our separation, my mother warned me to stay away from her that she doesn't like her.

Honestly, I didn't know how to breakup with her without hurting her because she loved and cared for me so much. I love my mother so much and I listen to her as well. So, I started to avoid her, reducing my number of calls with her, sometimes when I visited home I won't tell her. All these to make her change her mind but all to no avail, I couldn't tell her what's up so that she won't hate my mother and make both of them enemies of each other.

She noticed my unprecedented and unusual behaviors, she asked me what has she done I only told her that I was very busy and concentrating on something. She later got fade up and started minding her own business because sometimes she would call I won't pick her calls, so she decided to let me be.

Fast forward to early this year, she went for a business trip and returned, so I decided to pay her a visit because even though we are no longer in love but we are still friends. I was hoping to visit her in her shop but she wasn't there, she told me to come to her apartment, I went there, we gist and had funs, she started making a move to me and we eventually had an unprotected sex.

I was thinking that she was a big girl and can take care of herself but after one month plus she called me and told me that she was pregnant, I was speechless and couldn't believe her, she threatened to report the case to my mother if I didn't show up and proffer solutions, my mind jumped. I hurried to her place and she showed me the pregnancy test result, we calculated the months and it was exactly the day I had sex with her, from that day till the month is exactly what was written on the paper.

To cut the story short, I got lost in thought until she waked me from my daydream, I told her straight that I wasn't ready for that, she should do something about it, so both of us agreed to terminate it, it was done successfully, I wasted much money on that moment but it didn't bother me.

So, after a while she called me and told me the sudden changes in her business that money disappeared from her hands always. She went home and complained to her dad, her dad suggested they should visit a native doctor to find out what was the problem. They visited the native doctor and he apparently exposed and told her what she did, that the pregnancy she terminated was the reason behind her misfortune. He listed all the things she will buy for cleansing and the total money involved. She called me and told me the development and demanded my own contribution (money), at that moment I didn't really have money to provide and she couldn't believe me.

Now am afraid if she will angrily expose me because she told her people that the person that got her the pregnancy is not around he traveled abroad. I haven't answered her since then because I have been busy thinking about my mistake, regretting the day I visited her, crying had I know. I returned but I didn't tell her so she won't visit me. Right now am having a double mind if I should adhere to what she told me by contributing money for the stuff, but the other hand, am asking for God's mercy upon my life, so if I should contribute money now it means I will be committing sin upon sin. I don't really know what to do now, I told her that I will visit her whenever I return to discuss with her but I haven't done that.

Presently I have a fiancee am dating now, my mother knows about her and she accepted her as well, also thinking about settling down with her when the time comes. I will hurt and loose her if what I did exposed.

Pls advice me my good people before I commit suicide and end everything, you can insult me if you like, it doesn't matter to me now, am very desperate human being now. The native doctor even told her to tell whoever that got her the pregnancy to also do his own cleansing or else he will encounter problems in life.

Should I also listen to the native doctor man or seek God's mercy, of whose report shall I believe..? Will there really be any problem, and what do I tell her now.

This is a lesson for others

Once your family doesn't welcome your girlfriend, pls let her know immediately and if possible both of you should work towards wining favour from your family or start to go separate ways

In as much as you are sleeping with a lady, her plans are different from yours and her plans are to settle down with you

I will suggest you ask her to do whatever she was ask to do for the moment and right now you don't have money to give her but you will support her business in any little way that you can

You have to plead with her and make her understand that, that means, you did not contribute to her going to a native doctor for whatever but you supported her business with a certain amount to raise her up

Once she is done, follow her to where ever she gets her stuff, as she makes her purchase, pay directly to the supplier for the items, just budget upto 50/100 depending on your strength

Then assist her to take the items to her shop, when you get there pray for her that you supported her so that her business will grow and you wish her well in all areas of her life

After that stop having anything with her and start withdrawing from her and everything about her

Don't be calling her but when she calls avoid picking her calls and when you do, be brief and end the calls. Don't give her room to start telling you her feelings for you, you don't need it

Don't give her any cash again before it will be used to pin you down

The relationship will fizzle out out

Go to prayers to cut off all you have with her

Any one that his or her family goes to herbalist homes can be diabolical

bpalace:
The status was confirmed after death of the patient he was treating

Ohhh, I see

Gbadex17:
He already attended to the patient before samples were taking for covid-19 , which came out positive

Ohhhh, what a pity

But why should a doctor treat a corona virus patient in his own hospital when he could as well direct them to NCDC

bigGBOLA:
coming from an olosho, i am not surprised

That's all you think of olosho just because you patronise them

lefulefu:
but dont u think its a waste of money if someone spends five yrs in the unversity paying huge tuition fees and when he graduates he dumps the degree.it would be better such a person learnt a hand job instead of spending long yrs stressing himself and wasting money in the university.

That's not true

Getting education helps you in somany ways even if you don't practice what you read in the university

The university helps to model you and build you ahead

You can't compare a graduate trader to an illiterate trader

The difference is Clear

dre11:
https://thenationonlineng.net/police-dismantle-roadblocks-desert-lagos-roads/

They don't want to loose their lives and their families will be suffering

BlackBigBlog:
Update On The Killing Of A Motorist Mr Amobi Igwe By A Civil Defence officer in the person of SIC Eke Richard At Toll Gate Umuikaa Junction.

By: Onwuasoanya Ugonna

The Nigerian Security and Civil defence corp has maliciously issued a press statement in defence that the motorist they murdered yesterday speed off dangerously when they tried to stop him and skidded over the barricade and brush the officer with his car which led the officer to fire him with his life-ammunition.
However, the deceased Mr Amobi Igwe from Ebonyi State was also accused not to be carrying food items whereas the evidence of his food items were still in the trunk of the car at the time of the incident amidst of this global pestilence.

How not to lie by the men of NSCDC in their rejoinder for their gross misconduct to misinform the general public and to cover-up their barbaric, ungodly, unlawful and inhuman extra-judicial killing of an innocent man leaving the deceased family in a pitiable situation.

The men of NSCDC spewed the biggest lie from the pit of hell, of what moral justification do they have to shoot unarmed civilian driving alone without any form of criminality[color=#000000].[/color]

Hitherto, the men of the NSCDC has been over exercising their powers ranging from excessive extortion from motorist and dehumanizing them.

The innocent motorist wasn't the only one plying on that road as at that time of which the lockdown law in Abia did not Ban motorist carrying food items from operating but due to the hungry-trigger devil incarnate in uniform was thirsty of blood he now have to swiftly murder the man for refusal to Roger (Bribe) him for passage.

We demand for justice.
Enough is Enough.

The civil defence and his office have no excuses for shooting and killing this man who is unarmed and was carrying food stuff

It was just a careless killing, even if the man brushed him with his car, it wasn't a good reason for him to put his finger on the trigger

bigGBOLA:
nice move , some idiots will go and attack the guy. if your husband or wife cheats on you, just destroy him or her, not the partner. please use acid next time

You need to experience something that will change your perception about people and life

Continue it's coming soon

A premature man of 27yrs

Relationship is for matured minds

themaestro08:
I just wanna talk to a nice person... Nothing beats a lovely conversation, that's all I need.

Alright

Get a friend and be very friendly with the person

A nice person is not written on the fore head but it's hidden in the heart

iykbethany:
I have just 3k and I want to cook soup that will last at least one week for a family of 12, that is me, my wife and our 10 children. My wife is 8 months pregnant and I don't want to disturb her. Please recommend the cheapest soup for a family of 12. Thanks

Share the amount of 250 for each person

For one week

In your next life, do this to your dick

The police and army have killed more people than the corana virus

SultanOfAbia:
Spending this lockdown with my mum has made me realize she's getting suckered into the most insane bullshit possible.

All those fake Facebook stories, pastor Chris,voice message of Chinese doctors, 5g, name it all. She watches these insane theory bloggers spout off their stupid bullshit and she gets scared.

I'm worried because they way she believes these fake videos even after I have debunked them she will come back with another conspiracy theory to disturb my peace..

How do I rescue her from the WhatsApp Mothers Cult..
It's making her panic and now she says she no longer trust cnn or bbc
I even found out some of her friends are the ones updating her with all these conspiracy theories.
I have 50+ unread messages on WhatsApp from her fowarding all these bullshit..

Go to the group and exit her without her knowledge

2chukwu:
We struggled to gain admission together in the university. We lived together till she suddenly became very ill and one thing led to the other and she travelled and that was the last...

Can you meet her family and tell them what you are passing through then visit her grave and tell her rest in peace and separate from you

Alternatively, be strong enough to confront her in the Dream to tell you why she is appearing to you, ask her if she had any message for her family

I once had a friend that died long ago but I wasn't aware of his death or what killed him

It's upto 9yrs its been coming once a while to my dreams on visit

Lucky for me I searched on face book and got someone from his town, whom I don't know but I asked him about the guy and he told me that he is gone since

I requested for a contact number of his brother whom I knew then, got the contact and he told me how he died through assassins

I asked after his family and children, they are in the village, I had to send 10k to them, through his brother I spoke with, though he wasn't married then that I knew him

Since the day I sent that money to the wife and children, he stopped coming to my dreams

I believe he wanted me to know that he is no more and then know what happened to him

themaestro08:
Loneliness is an awful feeling. It Hurt's badly. You have alot of things you want to talk about, but no one to talking to, its even more terrible when one has other health issues like anxiety.

Could anyone help?

What help do you need
What's putting you into anxiety

oluspicy:
A woman remembers words spoken to her, she takes them to heart whether good or bad, she responds to words.

That's why she will remember the promise you make, big or small.

That's why the words "I love you", "I miss you" and "I am sorry" are so important to her.

That's why she will cry out of joy or pain just by words spoken to her.

That's why she values conversations.

That's why she can get turned on by words alone and prefers being prepared for love making with words.

That's why as a wife, pillow talks are so important to her after making love or before you two sleep.

That's why the first word said by her child is such a big deal.

That's why if you call her by a special name like "Love", "Darling", "Sweetheart" it will hurt her to find out you call another woman by the same special name.

That's why compliments are so important to her, she feels good when her beauty is praised.

That's why she can fall in love just by words spoken to her.

That's why it's important not just what you say but the tone you use while saying it.

That"s why she will analyze a man's words and try to figure out what he means.

That's why if you promise her marriage but take off and leave her it will bruise her for she held on to your word.

That's why the vows made to her on her wedding day are a big deal.

That's why words can crash her or uplift her.

That's why one sentence can give her sleepless nights.

That's why how you end a phone call with her tells alot.

Words carry alot of weight to a woman. She can remember words spoken to her years ago. So gentleman, before you use very intimate words to her make sure you mean them, before you insult her or say something out of anger realize how much you will hurt her, before you choose to keep quiet or silent thinking you don't need to speak your mind realize how much she needs to hear from you, before you promise her anything make sure you are ready to deliver. She may long to hear you say "I love you" but don't say it just yet if you don't mean it and can't follow through with actions of love, don't cheapen those special words. Before you let her live through a new day speak love to her, give only genuine compliments. To make whatever you say special, tell it to her alone and not any other woman.

Know the consequences of your words and use your tongue responsibly. Your words to her as a man have the power to inspire her, encourage her, calm her or hurt her, confuse her and stress her.

Use your words to love her, in what you say and the tone of voice you use while saying it.

Thanks.

True talk

kayodez:
Funnily, all this young boys Sabi pass we there seniors

They just want to explore

kayodez:
Afraid wetin... No oo, he knows I'm someone that's free to relate with and me sef get street OT but ... I'm only trying afford my own into it... It shouldn't be like I'm aware of everything from the beginning. He shouldn't go and give girl Belle under my roof. U understand me ba... I'm going to sit him down and explain things to him.

Thanks for ur opinion.

Thanks too

But you are not seating him down to explain the things he already knows

You ate seating him down to give him a stern warning and be serious about it

That dirty act alone is disrespect on you

Relax yourself before you create a non existing problem

Go to any government hospital and tell them you want to do a liver function test and hypertitise test

If you do it, take it to the doctors there to interpret for you

Am very very sure nothing is wrong with you but do the test to clear any doubt

And make sure you sleep well this night because nothing is wrong with you

Don't create another panic the corana it's self is enough panic

Alao046:
Seems you aren't a virgin. The d**k does not get weaker or wider, but a p***y ? Let's not talk abt that.
Weather I am a virgin or not, I can't marry a girl that is not a virgin. Infact if by mistake I will marry a non virgin, I swear I will not pay bride price. How will I pay bride price for a prostitute

I never knew that your purpose is to keep breaking people's virginity until your dick becomes flaccid

What makes you call them prostitute, are you not the reason they are into it and you are one of their major customers

Respect yourself because you came out of a woman and will definitely pass through a woman

You can't be Inserting your sim in every phone yet you are complaining that the phones are faulty but you were able to make call with it when you needed to ejaculate

Stupid ❗❗❗

You said a dick never gets weaker, why do men take viagra ❓

Honeydenz:
Nairalanders I need your advice.

Please who knows how I can overcome my undying love for Head of fish?

Dive into the ocean and discuss that with them

Souqwaqif:
Goodmorning all, I will try to make it very brief. This lady has tried and needs urgent counselling.
She seems to be the breadwinner of the family while her husband while a way with I don't care attitude,such as not providing feeding allowances, coming home very late at night often,with no good reason,not picking calls when he travels to his village, leaving the rent almost completely for his wife to pay,not allowing his wife siblings to spend the night in his house but his own relations will do,not bothered about the wife concerns to make peace.
Recently the wife family members had a meeting with him to resolve differences but after a while he continued again and this is virtually affecting all areas of the family psychology and mental health even spiritual.

Please what is best counsel out there we can give this relation of mine,remember she has tried prayers and still praying, she has contacted a few family members of her husband but they are all in support of the man.

Your input is appreciated for sake of peace

If you will take my advice

Let her make up her mind to see herself as a single mother

Let her stream down anything that will create cost so that she can carry the family with grace of God and train her children through school

If the rent is too much for her, she should find a smaller apartment which she can pay with out affecting other things that needs financial attention

She should keep praying for Gods grace in her struggle to raise the children

She should stop reporting her husband to any body again even her own family and her husband family, there is no need again and the ones she reported, nothing came out of it

She should see herself as a woman without a husband but have children

She must make sure she doesn't get depressed because that will worsen her case

She should stop expecting penny or asking kobo from her husband, just see him as a decoration

She will just be looking at him and don't get bothered about his movements

All these will keep her safe because staying with such a man and doing the above will trigger Molestation, that's why she has to be calm

As for the husband, he will be served a hot dish very soon, you can't cheat nature

That crown the man doesn't want to wear by taking up his responsibilities, nature will crown the wife

Don't be surprise if the man starts passing through hardship, he brought it upon himself

When a man starts dodging his responsibilities and runs away from it, tell me why God should bless him ❓

A woman will marry to have a peace and a happy home, one animal will be tormenting her just because she is helpless

Nonsense ❗

jaksmillioniar:
I read a blog were a governor wife forgive her hubby twice. today shes happy enjoying as first lady swim in money.most young girls today am sorry dont have sence like our mum.dey got a small brain. too much of internet.small thing dey begin to jump up as parrot shouting divorce.
no man wish to cheat on his wife or even girlfriend. no man is happy doing it.but most we do it out of pains and furstration.
1. report him to his family.no man like DAT and with fell embarrassed like as a man he can handle is family.he will be forced to change to avoid shame.
2. report to pastor. another thing men hate is if pastor or thier church no about family life. I know of a friend DAT out of shame he left the church.because the pastor might preach against him.
3. ask urself who is really at fault? is possible u pushed d man to do DAT.most girls are in pains of not getting married and are out dere despirate for love ready to get any man. as a wife do u treat ur hubby well? are u romantic to him.how can u be married u dont call ur hubby sweet names. how can u be married u refuse to cook ur hubby food to make him happy.how can u be married u keep denying ur hubby sex.am with my college in office who complain his wife game him time table for sex.dats wrong and u are pushing him away.he will get it outside u fight him all d time refuse to wash for him and spend his money anyhow. u talk to him anyhow in front of pple. dese are one of d reason dere is problem in marriage.
4. pray for him u keep praying for ur hubby becos is not easy.
5. let him know how u feel. u need wisdom to handle it. dont just attack him.I listen to a marriage cancellor she said she know her hubby cheat. as he come back from work she gave him good food and a wonderful sex.d man was happy. she now woke him at night and told him.d man felt very bad and ashamed.dey now talk things thru.d man apologies and things went back to happy and normal way.
6.forgive him. most keep shouting divorce but if u marry another man and still face problems he will still cheat.will u keep jumping from marriage to marriage.d fact ur man cheat does not mean he does not love u.its just sex.d governor wife said it. if a girl like tacha or mercy naked d fact is 95 percent of men will cheat. but we still go back to our wife cos dey are a million times better Dan dose girl. is low self esteem DAT make a woman park out cos of DAT.
7. fight for ur marriage. ur hubby got a girlfriend DAT sex him well and 24 hours a day.why dont u do it better 25 hours a day.she cook good food why dont u cook better.u feel happy wen ur hubby comes back.

You need to reformat your brain on your thinking about marriage

You should be ashamed of other men like you that subjects their wife to domestic and emotional turture

Other sensible men are planning with their wives on how to uphold their families for greater heights

You are here teaching and advicing women on how to endure depression from their husband

Woman never do you strong thing before, wait until you marry

The same woman you sighted that forgave her husband, dis she tell you how the husband built houses for her family and sent the wife siblings abroad for greener pasture

You need to pay her a visit to hear more

Why won't she forgive her husband, what haven't the man done for her and her fathers family

Right now all her children are abroad, what again does she need if nit to give the man her mumu button

Anyway, you never marry, till then you will have your experience

VivleBriella:
Good day everyone
I've been a guest for a couple of years now, created an account to seek advice

My dear nairalanders, does it always end well marrying the Breadwinner of a family? He's the last born with 4 elder siblings but they all depend on him, yes, I knew he was the Breadwinner from day one but I thought with time, everyone else will be able to stand on their own, but it hasn't happened yet, we've dated for 3yrs now and he doesn't support me financially, I don't complain but he feels entitled to my money and when I get tired of him always asking me to lend him some money and decide to say no, he nags and tells me I'm not being supportive enough, this is driving me really crazy cause he reminded me of how unsupportive I've been to him and his family, he's driving me insane, you can't possibly put the responsibility of your family on my shoulders, that's crazy and insensitive, over the years, I've borrowed him nothing less than 500k which I know for sure he's never giving back, is it normal to be in a parasitic relationship whereby the female remains the host that's being fed on?

I'm only 24 while he's 31.

You guys are still dating not as if he is married to you and you have borrowed him such a huge amount to settle his brothers and you said he is a bread winner,

What makes you think he the bread winner or bread Baker of his family

Were you giving him such money with the hope of getting married or with the hope of getting it back and if you don't get it back then marriage is definitely going to take place

I hope you know that his family will not give him chance to marry until he is done caring for thier own families

Well if you think you want it to lead to marriage, stop borrowing him money start saving so that even if he marries you, you can face your own family and he will face his fathers family if that will be the case

Secondly bread winners don't borrow to take care of his siblings, he does that from his own pocket

At your age, you are too young to carry family responsibilities and he will eve get mad at you that you cared less about his family, what about your own family menbers, don't they need help ❓

Anyway is your choice, but use this lock down as excuses and start complaining that you don't have money, continue singing it to his hearing and start requesting for the ones you have already given him

Once you see money with him start your own family complains so that you can retrieve your money

Don't be surprise if he doesn't marry you at last probably its your good heart that made him to be with you for three years so thst he will keep obtaining from you

Nonsense ❗

How can someone that borrows from you be a bread winner
How am I sure his family knows that you are the one giving him those money or do you think he will tell them its from you

No ❗❗, he will not

kayodez:
Please, I just need ur opinions and suggestions. My younger brother came to live with me during this lockdown period and his girlfriend normally come visiting him, meanwhile our mum do tell me always to monitor him closely and do guide him always. Now, I don't even know how to tell him to stop inviting his girlfriend at least for now.

Guys, how can I explain to him to stop this act for now that won't cos disagreement? He's 21 yrs old.

Thanks

Can I ask you a question

Are you afraid of your younger brother or you can't speak out

If a very small issue like this you need us to give your courage to talk to your younger brother, so when you guys have family issues to settle you will not attend because you don't want to hurt him

Sest him down and tell him that you don't want him to bring any girl I to this house again and if you see any you will disgrace both of them

He is even your junior brother not even senior and when the girl friend is around you leave the house for them ❓

Are you that weak ❓

Assuming he is your senior, he won't even tolerate such from you

If you don't take authority now, blame yourself in the future

Gigin:
So yesterday I received a bank credit alert of #1000 (one thousand naira) from someone I do not know.

The sender probably missed up the acc.number while making the transfer.
I am willing to refund the money, but do not know how to go about it.

I also don't want to expose myself to scammers.

You don't need this publicity because the sender doesn't even have your contact number

So just thank your God

Djei:
I wanted 3 kids but settled for 4 with my wife. The last is almost 3yrs. My wife has been practicing safe period sex which has been working for us even in the spacing of our kids. The method just failed and my wife has been devastated, she has lost touch with things around her, she cries, lost appetite, suffering insomnia. I've done all I could to make her get over it and it's not working. I fear for her health. Many things are bothering her, the thought of starting afresh (she has given out all our baby things), going through pregnancy wahalla etc. Pls ur advice and words of encouragement will be highly appreciated on how to weather this storm. Thanks

She need to read this

She should calm down unless she is ready to bear the pains of getting rid of it

Her parents are in best position to calm her down since yours in not making impact on her

Her overall health is the most important thing now not even what she needs to get for the baby

Besides what she needs can be gotten by bits

She definitely need a flask but flasks are also important to the family

She needs just little baby dress as this may be her last child so she doesn't need much

If she gets too worried she may develop unhealthy complications and it will cost an unplanned extra expenses before and affect birth

After everything, pls follow her to family planning unit and be part of it

It's always good for both parents to participate

Finally, the entire family will be glad to have a little baby that will keep everyone happy and playfull at home

factormatt6:
. I take your advice to heart, thanks

You are welcome

wasbo89:
Dear Married Women,

Most times when your husband is making more money, busy and having lots of work at hand, he may not have much time for you compared to when your man doesn't have much work to do; at that time he will be available to play with you, jokes and be like Tom and Jerry in the house.

You can't blame your husband because he is too busy and travels a lot. I will say; it is your prayer that answered on him because behind every successful man, there is always a women and that's you.
The time you people have before is different now because he will need to attend to lots of things.

Please NOTE: Any man that has enough time with his wife will not be financially boyant. Pray more and allow him to go out and work so that he can make more money. All the money he gives you for foodstuff, clothes, school fees and other expenses came from his work and his busy schedules. He might be busy but he his still a responsible man compared to irresponsible one that doesn't take care of his wife and children. If you sabotage his effort and money refused to come-in, i'm sure you know what's gonna happen?

I know you, women are afraid; you don't want Young Girls to hijack your husband. My sister, nobody can hijack your husband once you didn't fail on your own responsibility. If you make your husband happy, he will continue to love you more and make life easy for you.

What's your take on this?

Whatever that made you to seat down and write this is the same thing that made you to think that women are afraid another woman will take her husband

How and why do you think women are restless because their husband doesn't stay at home for them all the time because he is working up and down to provide for them

Married couples have alot in their minds to think about, eve they have less time to play because bills upon bills are coming

A man's plan to struggle and make success is in a different lane with his tune to play with his wife so they don't jam

If a man wants to have a mistress and still make her pregnant, it's his business and he doesn't need to be begged not to do so

He knows the out come

You know when men makes money they starts misbehaving not now it's before, let him misbehave and have other women, it's his headache not hers

In this society, accommodating one wife under one roof is a tasking talk more or having another at the next community

Hhansome:
This is just senseless.

Very senseless statement