₦airaland Forum

sokeril:
I’ve emailed them,no response yet.

Roseodd:
Please which POS machine is the best?
How much can I get if I put 100k cash.
How much is POS machine now.
How is the interest rate like?

sokeril:
I ordered a 50000 mah from their website (36,500)and it was delivered to me on Saturday.
I followed the necessary instructions,infact I still use it yesterday night.
Got back from work today,made to charge my phone and my phone did not charged.
Changed the cable charger,thought it was the charger but still it didn’t work.
Suddenly the battery went down from 100 percent to 89 percent.
Then for some time the led indicator kept blinking continuously without stop.
I’m regretting getting this power bank already. Hope my 36k is not gone like this.

snthesis:
My childhood friend invited me to his home, he is been married for 8yrs now, with no children, we stay in different states but kept in touch, he has been suggesting a meet-up but i've been busy, finally made out time to travel (tickets on him ) during this Democracy day holiday break.

we ate, drank, gisted late through the night and caught up on old times, with his wife in company, actively engaging, and then he asked if i could get his wife pregnant , and it would be between us, his wifey was also ok with it then she stripped..., and i could see the despair in both their faces (they been through all medical procedures and its pointing towards my friend being impotent), i was the only person they could confide in and sure of keeping their secret...

Is this adultery on their part or not, especially since it is consenting from all parties. Adultery i.e "sex outside marriage", or can this be classified under surrogacy? is surrogacy Adultery?

Whendue:
In a twinkle of an eye, they've all lost their jobs

Skyview01:
Low sperm will not set in within 2 years. There is no basis for that fear. I see so many couple and children suffering because of parent's lack of planning before arrival of kids. Preparing for kids mean, you have money to enroll them in sport, take them on vacations, good food and clothing's. Your job and your husband's job are not negatively impacted with arrival of children. We have to start to plan for all these things.

Skyview01:
"Under this our harsh economy", you are supposed to plan and not to kick off.

Skyview01:
This is a big question I try to wrap my head around and not getting any answer.

I see a lot of couple stressed out financially after marriage and within six month, the wife is pregnant.

If the wife is not pregnant after six months, the parents are worried if something is wrong with the woman or the man and the couple start getting strange stares from the pastor and members of the church.

Why not have a three year family planning immediately after the wedding, this has lots of advantage, first the couple is able to recover from the wedding, secondly, they are able to save and prepare for the arrival of babies, also they are able to enjoy each other before the babies.

This is a wrong aspect of our culture i would like to see changed in our society and its affecting marriages.


Whats your thought?

Wizywiz:
mummy Oma how far....how are u today

EmekaStanley:
Thank you for your kind words

Wizywiz:
mummy abeg stop responding to some comments Biko...

saweide:
Pls something is really bothering my mind and I pray I will find good advice here.

I reside in Port-Harcourt about 1 and half years ago Iost my cousin. He died of heart attack. After his death, his wife has been getting closer to me, always calling me and visiting me and am still single. I have had failed relationships in the past. I have been so unlucky with the kind of ladies I met. They are always violent and disrespectful which I dislike so much.

But during my cousins lifetime, she was so good, cool and caring to my cousin and they never had any misunderstanding and they married for just 6 years here in Port Harcourt before he died and they never had a child due to infertility on the side of the cousin. But now everyone like friends and family knows me and scared if I should make advances to her if they won't be saying things against me or should I just forget and look for another lady to marry.

Pls i need ur serious advise. She has fallen in love with me already.

9jahotblog:
Governor Sanwo Olu Aide, Joe Igbokwe tweet on a Nigeria lady have a snake 🐍 tattoo on her chest.

What shall we call this bikonu? This generation frightens me in no uncertain terms. May God help this generation. Can I call it a generation of anything goes. They scare me to the marrows.

https://www.facebook.com/100001155348708/posts/pfbid0Bg4fePuHb8KvMUwZPWidQpGhSPfb4nXMq1xm8229abbZ5dtM7X2bhSq3oZsoRtgfl/?mibextid=cr9u03

advanceDNA:
Ojoro man...

aging better than the wife...

izonborn098:
but some of your genders are fighting for equality

izonborn098:
but some of your genders are fighting for equality

NewDelhi:
No o we have many useless mothers.. swear that you've not had sex with another man since you got married.. swear that you've not cheated on your husband

NewDelhi:
No o we have many useless mothers.. swear that you've not had sex with another man since you got married.. swear that you've not cheated on your husband

Nobodyany1:
I don't want to believe that this person is diabetic...
The person says she feels disturb after taking in sugar or high surgry products

Thomthom:
House, please I need Serious mature advice. On the 7th of June I had a quarrel with wify the Quarel was so bad that it resulted into insult upon insult from both sides.. So I decided to leave the house to stay with my colleagues first. What is making me always surprised and sad is that when I got married in 2015, after marriage, Sapa wanted to kill us both. I am a civil servants I was not paid for about 8 month during the wedding but the savings I had, what what I used to package the marriage ceremony and I was down after the marriage.. I resulted to riding my bike at night to make some money for us to feed. Please note that NOBODY REMEMBER US O. After about 3 years of of moving from Civil servant to riding bike to feed wify, another govt came in and paid all the areas we were own.. I gave all the money up for wify to start Business.. To God be the glory BOOM wify hand was good in bussinness Naira started falling in. financial pressure on me dropped. I was know even having more money with me to drink beer after work. Now her family member now AUTOMATIC remembered that they have a daughter oo all of a sudden. Her father especially started pumping money into her bussinness and waiting for his profit.. at first I saw nothing wrong but latter I realised that 40 to 50% of gains Is moving to wify family. The remaining one she will use and buy clothes for herself and kids.. Although she do ask me at times what do we need at home like property she will buy.. Now back to the Quarel, we stayed apart since on the 7th of June 2023 but we later settled on Whatsapp and apologised to each other. But still wify and Her father are insisting that I should go to my village and call my uncles, while he call his brothers in form of meeting, in other to settle us. But I told my wife that the bussines of our family is for both of us why do we need other people to settle us. She said she told her father the insult that I insulted them bla bla bla.. But I have made up my mind am not calling any uncle on this matter, But I don't know if this decision is right or wrong. This is why I need advice pls.

NewDelhi:
Lol same mothers that abandon their babies inside Bush or under bus?

Same mothers that contribute nothing to the family and leave all the responsibilities for the husband? No wonder many nigerian homes, their fathers are no more alive . Na those mother that did nothing end up living to 90 years old. All they do is tie wrapper dey collect fresh air or they carry saggy boobs up and down compound dey look for weytin no lost.

Or you've not heard of mothers fighting their sons over their late father's properties?
Mothers today are useless let nobody deceive you.

Nobodyany1:
Dear Nlanders, please how can one reduce the effect of sugar in the body or in other words, blood sugar?! Thanks...

KingAzubuike:
We keep saying happy fathers day to all the responsible fathers out there but during mothers day, you'll never hear happy mothers day to all the responsible mothers out there.

Tayorshd87:
Can I divorce a wife full of stretch mark all over her body after birth?
because presently i don't feel attracted to her anymore because anytime she is naked her arm thighs laps etc are all full of stretch mark and she added fat after birth which caused all this like am not interested again 😭😢😭

Although she be 99% wife material but 🤔

What can I do on this case cos am feeling like getting married to someone else.. 😡

farem:
This is the picture below

EmekaStanley:
When Job exclaimed, “For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me”, I never fully understood what he meant but not fully understanding it have not absolved me from making the same statement which Job himself made.

I grew up to be a man with less expectations from another, a man who looks up to God for blessings and favor but never failing to acknowledge the indispensability of mankind in the scheme of things.

I have seen the color of real sacrifice as exhibited by Jesus Christ, so also have I seen sacrifice exhibited by my father. For some reason, at a point, my greatest fear in life became the thought of losing him.

My father exhibits great wisdom, peace and good judgment. He made me. Speaking with my dad at any point in time gives me energy, zeal and renewal.

My father is the inspiration behind the books I published years ago under my pen name, Cas David (under the ‘From my father’s series’) , The books are titled, “The mystery of youthfulness’ and ‘Keys to a Youth’s bright future’ because right from my childhood, my teenage years and into adulthood, I have gotten nothing less than love, care, good admonition and guidance from my Dad.


Having a dad like mine is a one of my greatest blessings on earth.

I am privileged to have a father whose name is better than silver and gold.

As a boarding student in secondary, visiting days was always last Saturday of every month but all my JSSI days, my dad visited me every week. My dad loved me even before I could interpret what love is.

Oh…how badly I needed a centenarian dad, but life right here is unfair.

I spoke with my Dad on the 8th Of June, as usual he sounds strong and I ask, “Ama m na ahu siri gi ike?” and he replies, “Yes oo, aputala m taa, Jehova bu eze.”

That response is always like a tonic to my day. I always feel energized and motivated knowing that my greatest person on earth is alive and well.

But then on the 10th of June, I suddenly get a call that my dad is being rushed to the hospital because he is unconscious (though breathing).

He gets to the hospital, doctor attends to him. It looked like there was hope because his breathing stabilized then, the worst happened. I lost my Dad.

I was broken, I am still broken and I will be fine but never to the point of forgetting the man who gave me a piece of himself; a piece which was enough to make me a man.

I will keep up your precepts and admonition Dad, I will keep working to be a better man. I believe you will go to heaven because your life was devoid of hate, envy, avarice, jealousy and pride.

I am pained; I mean I am in my 30s and too young to lose my Dad
.
I don’t know if I could have done anything differently. But then it is what it is.

Take a bow Dad.

Rest in Power.

I love you.

ES


Seun
NLFPMOD

talented321:
Dear nairalanders, Pls i need your opinion and advice. First i am from delta state and i will be 27 by next year. i have small challenge i want to sort out, so i went into farming late last year about 4 acres of land which my uncle give to me to use for like 3years, so after the harvest i made some cash, and i have bought an acre of land though i have not paid the full money like reminder 1.5m because i don't want to put all my eggs in one basket.
Apart from that the main issue here is i have 1.5m i want to use open either bar&restaurant or bet shop betking to precise, so my question is which one should i go between the two, and will the money be enough? Pls i need advice mostly from those who have experience in this two fields,

deewhydoski:
Doctors in house, Does having sex with a 1 month old pregnant wife have effect on the baby?. I don't want to take any chance it took us a while before God answer us.

keymatt:
Afang, Egusi, Vegetable soups are the bomb 💣 😊

Shoprite
Spar supermarket








Abeg my dear Obidients where can I get high grade butter avocado pear 🍐

MSesan:
Hmm! Now I know, I am always worried any time I'm passing through the bridge if it was accident that have been broken those barricades. Wow! Hell No! It is army of thieves that use to scavenged it.

Life imprisonment straight!

naptu2:
SP Benjamin Hundeyin @BenHundeyin



https://twitter.com/BenHundeyin/status/1669991351797047301

Walkerstilldey:
I just entered 30 and experience low sex urge and low libido,is it normal