Family › Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by frozen70(f): 11:05pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
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Family › Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by frozen70(f): 11:04pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
royalamour: Met in 2014 November. Dated for 11 months. All these while she was so homely and accommodating.
She would call to let me know about her movements even when I did not ask for.
She would apologize at any slight opportunity.
It was all rosy.
The parents kept calling and advising me not to let other ladies win me over.
They would visit or call my parents at every given opportunity and I felt "this is it".
We got married almost a year later.
The first 2 weeks of the honeymoon was smooth until the 3rd week and bam! there was disagreement about money.
She stabbed me with a knife though the cut wasn't too deep. It took me months to catch up with reality as the lady I was dating was a total different person.
That was the journey of misery and then it was nagging, disrespect and stuffs until I caught her on the phone telling her ex that she misses him and sh1ts.
I was devastated. This lady refused to apologize. She won't even listen to me whenever I asked to have a heart to heart talk with her.
I had to involve her parents and it was by force before she apologized.
She got pregnant and 9 months later she was delivered of our first son.
2 weeks later, my attention was drawn to constant beeping on her phone and when I checked, my supposed wife was discussing with another of her ex about how tight and intact her vagina was cos she gave birth through CS. And the guy used to be jealous cos he enjoyed the sex they had as she was always tight and shits.
I was devastated. I drew her attention to it and she denied feigning ignorance. It was when I showed her screenshots that she accepted and asked me to forget about it, that what has happened has happened.
She would never say sorry. So called her elder brother and he begged me and begged her to apologize, still she won't.
I reported to the mother. This didn't help matters. The aunts numbering about 4 had to beg on her behalf. I let it slide.
Things got worse and it came to a point where she would not cook. Even times when I return home from long journeys, I most times will have to go into the kitchen to sort myself.
Mum got sick and I asked that she come to us so that we can go to bigger hospital for proper check up and hell was let loose.
She stopped cooking and would only cook whenever she desires.
Time past and my life became almost miserable.
I would close from the office and won't be able to go home. I would stroll into a beer parlour and while away time till maybe 10pm and would sneak out very early even before she wakes up.
Earlier in 2016, I had empowered her with 1.2 million to start a business and one dime I didn't see as return on investment with her citing low patronage as the reason for the collapse of the business.
It was until the elder brother who was staying with us asked her for money and she refused that the dude disclosed that she made about 2.6 million from sales of items and services she rendered in the shop she denied making nothing from. She could not deny this fact but for my son I let it slide.
My wife would bring her female friend into the home and this lady even when she was engaged to a guy still go out to sleep with other guys. I asked her to stop been friends with her and she blatantly refused. She would go ahead to invite the lady into my home and rain insults on me because I don't want them together.
This final one was the calls she was making with her ex most times when I was away in the office. I noticed and she couldn't deny it. I later learnt that her cheat of a friend was the middle person that delivers messages to my wife whenever I was around.
I can't take it anymore.
I don't wanna die before my time.
I can't eat in my house anymore as she threatened to poison me and nothing will happen. This was let out in a heat of a moment while we were exchanging words.
What's the express way to divorce without complications?
NB: The dad has asked me to quit before I start to develop HBP. Hmmm at this junction, I can't guarantee you your happiness or your safety with her First of all get a small accommodation and pack out secretly, take or pack what you think and what you need from that house Make sure she will not be having anything you might wish to come back to collect Whatever you decides to leave behind consider it gone Take a break from all this wahala, look for a lawyer and start the processing of divorce, it's not automatic but you can't be planning a divorce and be leaving with your partner it's not possible While you are leaving alone, get a woman to make you happy and don't fail to explain to her the situation on ground The essence of this is to avoid you being depressed Once her rent expires, pls don't pay or renew the rent for her, meanwhile as you pack your things make sure you don't touch any thing she bought with her money and inform your landlord that the rent of that house is no longer under your care When you report her to her parents ask them to invite both of you, once she travels to her parents, use the opportunity and pack out your belonging and when you get to their families make sure you go with some people, don't go alone, Tell them in a language they will understand that you are no longer interested in the marriage and she is free to come and pack her belongs Don't ever let them know that you have pavked out or where you packed to Let that be a shock to her, just drop the keys with your trusted neighbour From their get a lawyer and pass the court invitation to her. Be firm with your words if you know that you are fed up with her. As for your child, he will survive just justify your conscience and be sending allowance to his mother and keep the prove incase there is future need for it It is now left for her to continue the life she wants to live and for you to live the life you wanted earlier Life is too shot for someone to determines another person's happiness Poo do happen, you are not the first and won't be the last GoodLuck |
Crime › Re: Man Shot Dead In Kano 17 Days After His Wedding(photos) by frozen70(f): 9:59pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
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Family › Re: Lawyer Oladapo Ogundipe With Seven Children As Lawyers (Law Family) by frozen70(f): 9:58pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
This is great achievement for him
And his children made him proud |
Romance › Re: Make Sure You Have 30 Billion In Your Account Before I Can Date You- Lady Brags by frozen70(f): 9:55pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
This is one of the ladies that are creating problems for others
Even her breast doesn't worth 10% of what she wants in a man
Anyway, she just wants to be noticed and she have achieved that |
Politics › Re: Jimi Agbaje And Jide Sanwoolu Pictured Together In Church On New Year Day (pics) by frozen70(f): 9:48pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
This is how they use their political games and make their supporters to fight and kill themselves
Then attend the same church and seat together and pray
What makes you think they are enemies?
They know what they are doing and will continue to fool those who follow them sheeply |
Crime › Re: Man Flogs Lady Who Visited Him At His Apartment, Throws Her Out. Photos by frozen70(f): 9:44pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
Arrant nonsense
So what is the meaning of what he has just done to her
She left you when you had nothing, you got someone who was willing to suffer with you,
So weren't you with a lady all these while
Weak brain |
Politics › Re: Gov Rochas Okorocha Denies Dumping APC by frozen70(f): 9:37pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
If he likes, let him be partyless, we don't care
So far he did not succeed in imposing his son in law,
He can go ahead and form his own party and mould a statue of himself as their party symbol |
Crime › Re: 2 Boys Caught With 10 Female Undies In Delta(photos) by frozen70(f): 9:34pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
Why where they allowed to be alive at this moment
OK sine you guusnleft them alive Let them tell the world the purpose of those pants in their hands |
Family › Re: After 4 Consecutive Years Of Death In Her Family, Lady Grateful For 2018 by frozen70(f): 9:28pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
God has redeemed your family, you will continue to celebrate life and good health, with good things |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Calls Out Lady In Front Of Congregation Over Her Unusual Hairstyle.Photos by frozen70(f): 9:25pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
So who do we blame for this fashion senseless fashion
The company that produces it or the fashionister that used it ? |
Properties › Re: Caretaker Sues Tenant For Disclosing Her Rent To Others by frozen70(f): 9:23pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
Afonja's you can never trust them
Always betraying people,
They are very good with eye service but this one na tenant service, she miss road |
Family › Re: Set Of Triplets Delivered In Bayelsa On New Year's Day (photos) by frozen70(f): 9:10pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
This is good news
Let these babies bring good news to people of bayelsa this year
At least for once let good news filter the air there |
Health › Re: Family Of Five Plagued With Madness In Cross River In New Photos by frozen70(f): 9:07pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
If this how government are giving attention to sensitive and critical issues like this, We would have gone far as a nation
Thanks to everyone that worked towards the reform of this family |
Crime › Re: Man Poisoned To Death By His Friends During New Year Celebration In Ibadan. by frozen70(f): 9:04pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
Them done kill am, make them go eat him body
Guy, haunt them, continue to haunt them until they come over there |
Politics › Re: New Year: Mrs. Ugwuanyi Presents Gifts To Enugu First Baby, Others by frozen70(f): 10:09pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
Hoaxey: First baby, I don't get they don't have kids IN Enugu 
OP make your Title more specific This happens every 1st of the year, in some states, if a mother gives birth by between 12am to 1am That child becomes baby of the year in as much as he is delivered in a government owned hospital The Governor's wife goes round to share gift to them |
Politics › Re: New Year: Mrs. Ugwuanyi Presents Gifts To Enugu First Baby, Others by frozen70(f): 10:09pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
Hoaxey: First baby, I don't get they don't have kids IN Enugu 
OP make your Title more specific This happens every 1st of the year, in some states, if a mother gives birth by between 12am to 1am That child becomes baby of the year in as much as he is delivered in a government owned hospital The Governor's wife goes round to sher gift to them |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Benue Governor's Rice Farm Burnt By Hersmen by frozen70(f): 9:36pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
That's their trade mark, wickedness every where they go |
Career › Re: BRT Drivers On Strike Over ‘unpaid Salary (pic) by frozen70(f): 12:03pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
If this complain is true, then the management are being insensitive and clueless to their workers
This guys are committed and faithful to their services
They should be sorted out after all they have families too.
It's too early for this in the beginning of a beautiful year |
Nairaland General › Re: What Weakness Do You Plan Overcoming In 2019? by frozen70(f): 11:57am On Jan 01, 2019 |
Hobbybear: wanking 4 times in a day. So so addicted. God pls help me! Get yourself busy and engaged Those thoughts will run away The more you want the more you exhaust what you have to enjoy in the future, by then you will have to look for a booster Remember, your health and body is the recipient of this wanking and that's what makes you a healthy person |
Nairaland General › Re: What Weakness Do You Plan Overcoming In 2019? by frozen70(f): 11:54am On Jan 01, 2019 |
[quote author= post=74346877]Is being too nice a weakness please?![/quote]Being too nice is not a weakness but your call
You have to bear in mind that the law of survival is, me first
If you are being too nice and forget to plan yourself then you are misleading and deceiving yourself
You can't give out the only thing you have just because you are being nice and want the next person beside you to have the same thing you are giving out
You can't be too nice to forget that nobody will carry your cross for you
As you like being too nice, remember that you have to be nice to yourself and plan a better and stable life. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Please Say A Prayer For those Suffering From Chronic Illness In This New Year by frozen70(f): 10:24am On Jan 01, 2019 |
God in his infinite goodness and mercies will reverse their health condition for a better health, Amen |
Christianity Etc › Re: Please Say A Prayer For those Suffering From Chronic Illness In This New Year by frozen70(f): 10:24am On Jan 01, 2019 |
God I his infinite goodness will reverse their health condition for a better health |
Christianity Etc › Re: Please Say A Prayer For those Suffering From Chronic Illness In This New Year by frozen70(f): 10:24am On Jan 01, 2019 |
God in his infinite goodness and mercies will reverse their health condition for a better health, Amen |
Christianity Etc › Re: 6 New Year Resolutions For Catholics by frozen70(f): 10:21am On Jan 01, 2019 |
sexybaby22: Thank you.
I pray to become a better Catholic and increase my devotion to my patron saint. Ordinary 9 days devotion, I won't finish to the end cuz I get my answer before the 9 days.
This January I will start and finish.
Saint Rita, Pray for Us!! Lol Since you are lucky to get your answer's before the end of your novena, that's the more reason why you will have to complete it for more to come And as my routine , once I wake up I pray my rosary before leaving the bed |
Career › Re: Why You Should Be Career Conscious As A Woman. by frozen70(f): 12:25am On Jan 01, 2019 |
Heloct: Thank you.
I guess the post is funny hence the lol.
I'm not disputing the fact that most ladies sleep their way to success. It happens. If you had read clearly, I said I've seen women that have achieved much without having to bend over. I've seen. And if they could do it, every other ladies who have self respect can also do it. It doesn't change anything. To each man his own.
Men are leaders. Good. I've seen women leaders too. It's not unusual and it's not impossible.
Attempt at generating traffic? Sighs. I do have a blog so I could put my write ups on it. I don't blog for a living. People who love how I write can visit my blog. They are under no obligation whatsoever. It's a channel to reach out and I would love to have as many readers as possible. If that's called traffic, then, I agree.
Thanks for your comment. Just leave that guy he has nothing to contribute or offer Your write up was very inspiring |
Crime › Re: Kidnappers Who Abducted Twin Sisters Before Their Wedding, Arrested. Photos by frozen70(f): 12:16am On Jan 01, 2019 |
Look at them looking horrible and evil intending
Even old men are part of this trade over there
How could you guys bring sorrow to families just to get some money through any means
Just rot in jail, you guys don't deserve freedom because you don't know the value |
Travel › Re: Petrol Tanker Crushes 5 Cars On New Year's Eve In Lagos (photos) by frozen70(f): 10:03pm On Dec 31, 2018 |
Athena4: Tanker accidents all day. That's how we roll. If your brain is licking, get it patched up Why are you typing nonsense, does it mean that you don't think before typing? |
Celebrities › Re: OAP Toolz Shares Her Pregnancy Testimony by frozen70(f): 9:59pm On Dec 31, 2018 |
husbandsnatcha: Toolz i bet u cant give birth wtout operation... 2much fat Why are you reasoning upside down, will you wish your wife such? |
Crime › Re: Woman Accuses Nurse Of Drugging Her And Stealing Her Baby In Edo. Photo by frozen70(f): 9:16pm On Dec 31, 2018 |
KingOfAllIgbos: You are crying so much you mentioned me THRICE 
Wipe the tears baby....
Cry no more  Lol It was network error |
Crime › Re: Woman Accuses Nurse Of Drugging Her And Stealing Her Baby In Edo. Photo by frozen70(f): 7:16pm On Dec 31, 2018 |
KingOfAllIgbos: Anything baby-selling and body harvesting....
Leave it to the Criminal Republic of BIAF.... Still better than skull mining, rape and ritual killing |
Crime › Re: Woman Accuses Nurse Of Drugging Her And Stealing Her Baby In Edo. Photo by frozen70(f): 7:12pm On Dec 31, 2018 |
KingOfAllIgbos: Anything baby-selling and body harvesting....
Leave it to the Criminal Republic of BIAF.... Still better than skull mining, rape and ritual killing |