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So his state of madness picks only women under wears ?

This is one of the real slay Queens

Keep deceiving yourself until you see his wedding invitations

It's today that you know that men have sweet mouth

Just boy friend and you want him to place you over his mother

Babe, stop dreaming abeg, you fit no wake up from that dream

Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?

Well you have the final say in this issue

Your mother is interested in her because she has showed her she is ready by sharing love and gift with her

Your girl friend feels you are the right man for her but have you concluded if she is the right woman for you?

If you think you want to own the world before you get married, you are holding yourself back

You lost your phone and you used her's to reach your parents,
good, if you think getting rich before getting married is easy, why have you not gotten a new phone instead of using her's even if its for few days

If you love her go ahead and plan family with her, the both of you can still use your resources the way you are using her phone to run your home and still look forward to when you will achieve your dreams

Time waits for no one

This is the beginning of his frustration,
He will remain miserable for life killing nne father

All these married men and women that gets angry and frustrated with things best known to them,

They should stop venting their angers on there children

They are not the cause of your situations, rather your situations are depriving them of their happiness

The warning is not enough

The oba should place a curse on them,
The curse will be instant madness once you steal female pants

So every family will hold their sons well

Anybody seen developing mental, it means that he has stolen pants

Good idea
She will join him in the female wing

Then he can arrange with the officials how they can be flexing

I think this is love not stupidity

Am sure the economy is affecting his inability to please Halima

She should consider the man and come back pls

He wants to kill himself over her despite the second wife still staying in the hospital for him

Next time marry one wife and experience peace

7figuresalary:
Good for him..

Same wishes goes to you because you have chosen to experience same fate

Ralphlauren:
finally, a very sensible comment.

how come there is nobody asking what led to the marital issues?

was he violent to his wife? did he beat her? did he cause injury to her or their kids?

was he hooked on drugs, alcohol or gambling?

was he having extra marital affairs?

was he financially responsible? did he take care of his responsibilities as the man of the house or did he leave his wife to bear all/the bulk of the family expenses?

it takes a lot for a woman to move out from her marital home with her kids on TWO separate occasions. his wife must have been super frustrated and tired of living with him.

You have said it all

Only few will reason with you because they don't want to hear the truth

Keep on and keeping on

It's better you are out doing what pleases you than you are inside there committing yourself to things against your faith

Alpha001:
Happy new year NL.
I am posting this here because i really need help and i know a lot of people visit this section. Please i need urgent help as i don't want to continue like this in this 2019. Don't come and start insulting me please.

My problem is that i easily get angry and my anger doesn't go away easily. Very little things make me angry. Things that are not supposed to make me angry.
I can live in a room with a person for one year or even more without saying a word to the person just because he/she angered or did something bad to me.

I'm a quiet guy. People say i'm an introvert. I always try my best to avoid trouble. I am in my mid twenties buy have never been in a relationship.

This my problem of easily getting angry and keeping malice has been troubling me. I don't like it but still can't stop it. It is affecting my relationship with my family and close friends. And how can i even go into a relationship with this issue i'm having.
I find it very difficult to completely forgive.
I always envy those who are sociable and who don't easily get angry. I always wish to be like them.

Please i need your help/advice. Please this is not a spiritual problem, so don't start telling me about deliverance.
I would appreciate if this can be moved to the front page.
Thanks.

You have tried to identify your problems, it's time to brace up and adjust yourself

You have to learn to give room for people's stupidity because it's there stupidity that brings mis understanding with you and them

Learn to tolerate, accommodate and accept people the way they are

Start mixing up with people, make new friends and exchange contracts

The earlier you start adjusting the better for you because if you continue this your solo life women will deal with you indirectly

As young as you are, to beat woman no irritate you ?

Stupid guy that can not control his anger

You think say na naija you dey, where you can flex muscle with women

Go and face it, if your documents are faulted anywhere,
Na deportation be that,
zombie

7figuresalary:
Awwwnn...I so love kids..I would've had mine but for my foolish girlfriend who always insists I wear condom....Useless girl..

*spits on her*

Lol
Do the needful and she will stop asking you to wear condom

This thing called love is as strong as a gene

They both look happy and I thank God in advance because that child will not carry that deformity

Thumbs up for the guy for sharing love with her

Why Nigeria police he went to tamper with light,

They would have just light him up after all the arrangements have been made

Jungle thieves deserves jungle justice

He is suffering from inferiority complex

What's wrong in what kuka said

Are there not more almajiris than the one's we have in Christiandom that is if there is any at all

With all the noise you are always making don't you know that those kids are stranded

Am beginning to look at this guy as civilised Shekau but same stupid mindset

You wan carry religion for head upon all your exposure in education

If any thing happens to you now, your corpse will be buried before
4 o'clock prayers

This is one of the idiots that makes people not to help others

For manipulating that old woman, he will forever remain cursed for the rest of his life

If he likes let him handover that said property

They will still use juju to kill that woman and take possession of it

Horrible

MNDY:
So therefore, men should be afraid of women? Is that what you are trying to say?

Be careful in your thinking that all men are the same and that they all fear women so you don't do nonsense and get into trouble with a wicked man. He will so frustrate you ehn.

Don't let the stories of those weak men who fell victim of women's wickedness inspire you wrongly fa

You will keep arguing until you become a victim

When a man is idle, the devil will use him as agent

Funny enough he is just a courier and he doesn't even know that those devil's agents are using him because of the pea nut he is going to collect

Serves him right

When a man is idle, the devil will use him as agent

Funny enough he is just a courier and he doesn't even know that those devil's agents are using him because of the pea nut he is going to collect

Serves him right

Nonsense

Just 6000 you want to expose your sex chat and the content to the public

Go ahead and expose it,
It's not a big deal

I don't think you are qualified yet to handle relationships with its up and down

Is that money up to what normal guys use to spend, and even have patience when toasting a lady

So if she had visited you,

You would have bleeped the hell out oh her transport fare through and flow of 12,000 and its possible you won't even dash her anything to appreciate her coming.

Best option for you,
go to your village and pick a mumu, it won't cost you any kobo to be bleeping her

Stingy nigga

You want to kill your self because of rent of one room

You better take it as a burnt offering and try elsewhere

Mtcheew

MNDY:
This fear of women y'all always propagate don't mean sh*t. You think say man no wicked too ni?

Men are wicked only when they are stranded or frustrated

It's not like that when it comes to women

Emceesaka:
We are in year 2019 but your sense is already loading year 2020. God bless you with your comment. Happy New Year

Lol, thanks dear

CreepyBlackpool:
So the person that caught him in the act didn't think of stopping him AFTER TAKING A FEW PICTURES but rather decided to let the rapist finish by videoing to the end and running to call the police


whoever took that video is either a paedophile too or enjoys child porn



*****Modified****

For the selectively blind people qouting me, I have made that part y'all keep failing to see very bold for you

The person that took the video, did the best he could do at that moment

If he stops him and the video gets licked, he will suspect the person and attack him

Right now he is confused on who video the act

He will remain in that state of confused mind through out his stay in prison

At time's I think committing succide is far better than being frustrated alive and causing havoc.

If this frustrated and miserable man had committed suicide those innocent children would have been alive today

I thought the birth of triplets on new year will herald good news from this miserable state

When a man has lost hope in life due to carelessness os circumstances he puts the blame on his children

He should be ashamed that even his wife could not live with him

Well since they claimed that he is sick, they should pls give him sniper let him join them

Idiot man

KingOfAllIgbos:
I wonder how people who commit such crimes feel.

You rape and possibly permanently scar a woman or a girl emotionally and for life yet you still sleep peacefully.

You still dress up in your finest clothes, go to Church or Mosque and shout unto "God" to bless you

Those people that falls into this categories have no human feelings and they dies miserable death most times

At time's in life we don't value or appreciate what we have until we lose it

In this lady's case,
I don't think she is pretending

That might be her nature

No matter how a woman pretends, she will flash what she is made of

He just lost peace in breaking up with this woman,

good luck to him,
He will get the opposite of her

Money doesn't guarantee a woman's happiness in marriage, but I think she was forced against her wish not to marry him

Powerexpert:
Is she holding a gun to your head?

Don't dare women

They are wiser than the serpent

royalamour:
Met in 2014 November.
Dated for 11 months. All these while she was so homely and accommodating.

She would call to let me know about her movements even when I did not ask for.

She would apologize at any slight opportunity.

It was all rosy.

The parents kept calling and advising me not to let other ladies win me over.

They would visit or call my parents at every given opportunity and I felt "this is it".

We got married almost a year later.

The first 2 weeks of the honeymoon was smooth until the 3rd week and bam! there was disagreement about money.

She stabbed me with a knife though the cut wasn't too deep. It took me months to catch up with reality as the lady I was dating was a total different person.

That was the journey of misery and then it was nagging, disrespect and stuffs until I caught her on the phone telling her ex that she misses him and sh1ts.

I was devastated. This lady refused to apologize. She won't even listen to me whenever I asked to have a heart to heart talk with her.

I had to involve her parents and it was by force before she apologized.

She got pregnant and 9 months later she was delivered of our first son.

2 weeks later, my attention was drawn to constant beeping on her phone and when I checked, my supposed wife was discussing with another of her ex about how tight and intact her vagina was cos she gave birth through CS. And the guy used to be jealous cos he enjoyed the sex they had as she was always tight and shits.

I was devastated. I drew her attention to it and she denied feigning ignorance. It was when I showed her screenshots that she accepted and asked me to forget about it, that what has happened has happened.

She would never say sorry. So called her elder brother and he begged me and begged her to apologize, still she won't.

I reported to the mother. This didn't help matters. The aunts numbering about 4 had to beg on her behalf.
I let it slide.

Things got worse and it came to a point where she would not cook. Even times when I return home from long journeys, I most times will have to go into the kitchen to sort myself.

Mum got sick and I asked that she come to us so that we can go to bigger hospital for proper check up and hell was let loose.

She stopped cooking and would only cook whenever she desires.

Time past and my life became almost miserable.

I would close from the office and won't be able to go home. I would stroll into a beer parlour and while away time till maybe 10pm and would sneak out very early even before she wakes up.

Earlier in 2016, I had empowered her with 1.2 million to start a business and one dime I didn't see as return on investment with her citing low patronage as the reason for the collapse of the business.

It was until the elder brother who was staying with us asked her for money and she refused that the dude disclosed that she made about 2.6 million from sales of items and services she rendered in the shop she denied making nothing from. She could not deny this fact but for my son I let it slide.

My wife would bring her female friend into the home and this lady even when she was engaged to a guy still go out to sleep with other guys.
I asked her to stop been friends with her and she blatantly refused. She would go ahead to invite the lady into my home and rain insults on me because I don't want them together.

This final one was the calls she was making with her ex most times when I was away in the office.
I noticed and she couldn't deny it. I later learnt that her cheat of a friend was the middle person that delivers messages to my wife whenever I was around.

I can't take it anymore.

I don't wanna die before my time.

I can't eat in my house anymore as she threatened to poison me and nothing will happen. This was let out in a heat of a moment while we were exchanging words.

What's the express way to divorce without complications?

NB: The dad has asked me to quit before I start to develop HBP.

Hmmm at this junction, I can't guarantee you your happiness or your safety with her

First of all get a small accommodation and pack out secretly, take or pack what you think and what you need from that house

Make sure she will not be having anything you might wish to come back to collect

Whatever you decides to leave behind consider it gone

Take a break from all this wahala, look for a lawyer and start the processing of divorce, it's not automatic but you can't be planning a divorce and be leaving with your partner it's not possible

While you are leaving alone, get a woman to make you happy and don't fail to explain to her the situation on ground

The essence of this is to avoid you being depressed

Once her rent expires, pls don't pay or renew the rent for her,

meanwhile as you pack your things make sure you don't touch any thing she bought with her money and inform your landlord that the rent of that house is no longer under your care

When you report her to her parents ask them to invite both of you, once she travels to her parents, use the opportunity and pack out your belonging and when you get to their families make sure you go with some people, don't go alone,

Tell them in a language they will understand that you are no longer interested in the marriage and she is free to come and pack her belongs

Don't ever let them know that you have pavked out or where you packed to

Let that be a shock to her, just drop the keys with your trusted neighbour

From their get a lawyer and pass the court invitation to her.

Be firm with your words if you know that you are fed up with her.

As for your child, he will survive just justify your conscience and be sending allowance to his mother and keep the prove incase there is future need for it

It is now left for her to continue the life she wants to live and for you to live the life you wanted earlier

Life is too shot for someone to determines another person's happiness

Poo do happen, you are not the first and won't be the last

GoodLuck