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IamPlato:
he Burnt All Her Property Yesterday Night..


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She Doesnt Lack Love At All. My Mother Loves Her So Much but I Believe She Hates her Mother... When Ever She Went Out For Days, my Mother Would Not Sleep But Keep Callin this Girl But She Will Not Pick The Call.



When Ever My Mother Begged And My Father Forgives Her, he Pulls Her Closer but She Ends Up Doing Worse

What a painful experience for the whole family

Your dad's extremists created most of the problems the entire family are having

There was no communication and family relationship if not you guys would have noticed when she started displaying madness

Your mother on her part loves her and because of that she couldn't notice on time when she started derailing

You on the other side, it's your duty to monitor your sister knowing that she is vulnerable, but because their is no cordination and couple with your father's behaviour you forgot to monitor your sister

She took advantage of you people laxity and went out to seek fir fun at early stage, by the time she fell into those bad boys hand, they took advantage of her, exposed her to drug's, exposed her to sex and innitiate her to rough life, giving her money all this made her to seek fun out side rather than staying at home

The question now is what is the way forward

Take her to a rehab
Let her be admitted
She will be off drugs for that period
She will be counsel on why she ha to stop the life she is living

If after her stay at the rehab she changes which normal take time to observe while she is there, then ask her what vocation she wants

This rehab is going to cost your family some money and let your mum bear the task because your father never helped the situation

But if you think your family can not handle such cost intensive work,

Leave her to her life
It's either she leaves and regret her life then come back home or she gets out of sight forever

Tell your mum to see her as a burnt offering and keep praying for her

To me it depends on their relationship

If your wife is economical, conservative and prudent with financial matters

Go ahead but if she is wasteful and cant manage finances

Just keep it to yourself.
After all the increase can't be up to 20% of your annual salary

Make you no go do obedient husband take an create issues for house

But plan with it rather

yungEX:
Eeeeew look at the last pic. So they can't close the woman up before they start taking pictures

What is there to close

Her face wasn't featured that's the most important place to protect

babyfaceafrica:
there is no reason for anyone couple to fornicate!!..no excuse at all..one can always leave the union when you are not pleased,but to defile and break marital vows is a no no!!!

True talk

kolnel:
Pls educate me
I’m listening

Lol

When you get married prevent it

Emaprince:
Becausr she is a hoe.

And you are the digger

Jonathan:
Kindly stay away from me

Are you afraid of me ?

Jonathan:
Women and infidelity

Men and promiscuity

kolnel:
lol

Marriage is about two people who decided to defy all odds and stay together no matter what

But when the wife starts fornicating, the marriage takes a new dimension

Marriage is over hyped

Have you ever asked yourself why do women fornicate while in marriage ?
Start with that first

p3kdudu:
@greenmonk tell me abt the project. Chat me up on facebook page @p3kdudu or Instagram @p3kdudu1 lets talk.

Look this guy

You just came out of canal

If you don't take time you will see your self in ocean

Go and wise up, besides is like you don't have mentors or people you can share experience or ideas with

You are secretive if not, all that happened to you wouldn't happen if you had told your people what you were passing through at the initial stage

Na your type woman dey put inside transparent bottle and use you as toy or puppet

You are too soft to your detriment

Wise up, learn a trade and establish yourself

If you continue trusting people, they will use you for practicals

If you no get sense develop one that's why you have brain

zombieTRACKER:
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Buy table of one million

Take enough pictures.. Paste on social media

Show people that you have arrived

Then after spending such amount of money
January you will be your own threat because what you are supposed to spend for three months was spent in 6hrs

Na person wey no get responsibility dey do that kind thing.

School fees
House rent
Extended family wahala
Feeding
Wife/girl friend /parents up keep

Mumu state, instead of them to chase object they are chasing shadow

She actually made sense in her statement and advice

But exposing those boobs, hmmm

Assuming she is well dressed people will take her serious

She actually made sense in her statement and advice

But exposing those boobs, hmmm

Every living soul is a potential victim of depression

But the ability to handle what let to your depression is what makes you a victory

No road to good life is smooth, even the rich also cry despite the money they have

When that though time comes, remember it's for a while allow it to pass and it won't come again.

Keep hope alive

Every living soul is a potential victim of depression

But the ability to handle what let to your depression is what makes you a victory

No road to good life is smooth, even the rich also cry despite the money they have

When that though time comes, remember it's for a while allow it to pass and it won't come again

His mates are making positive history
He has made negative history for his family
For life that hand will remind him his weakedness over his brother just because both of them refused to be trained properly as a man

Bayelsans and bad behaviour

Randy100:
I want you to take a stand and condemn violence in general. Stop condemning it only in men and still defend women who are violent by saying "violent women has reason." even men who beats their women has reasons too. I beleive a good woman should know when his man is angry and know how to calm him. My point is everybody has responsibility to stopping violence and you should stop saying it is the man's responsibility.

Lol
To condemn or not to condemn,
Once there is strong love and viable finance on ground
All this issue's of beating won't come up.

Randy100:
Really, so women are devoid of physical abuse and I am not even talking about emotional abuse(which they claim is their right of expression.) There are cases where men were hit by their women or even stabbed to death without any provocation. I beleive they were being gentlemen.

The moment you tell your woman I am going to beat you, the next thing she would do is to challenge you to do it and she will come too close to you so that you will beat her

Once you loose control she start shouting and before you know it neighbours have gathered

At last they will still blame you for raising your hand in her even before judging the matter

Secondly a woman can not just wake up and stab a man just like that. There must be an immediate or remote cause to it.

Till this moment the world is against any man beating a woman even you as a man

Majority of people praising the governor for free transport are those who ordinary cannot afford the transport fare

So now that you guys have arrived, how do you go back ?

Will he provide another free transportation for you guy's, No !

It boils back to the same thing

If he had given you guys a round trip, then even other states will appreciate him and his gesture

Coming home has never been an issue, the issue is, how you will transport yourself back after yuletide spending.

Well only the married ones would understand better

Whatever you are experiencing during courtship is very small to compare with their behaviour in marriage

But they are very lovely and good fellow to be with

Randy100:
Even when the lady hits you?

Guy leave that matter

What strength does a lady have, to hit a man

Why would you as a man allow it to get to that stage

Or did she just stood up and hit a man

Once she is tensed just waka pass

They attach emotions to everything they do.
That's why you see that they don't forget anything done to them especially the bad one's

themosthigh:
If I have a choice, I will choose not to go to heaven but to remain one earth forever, provided I will be a billionaire forever. Why will I want to leave earth where men serve me to go to heaven and sing praise and worship to a narcissistic and indulgent God. A wicked God who will allow his son to be crucified on the cross so that he will forgive men sins that are his own doing. Did we force him to create us with defects and sins? And the worst thing is that millions will still go to hell after Christ’s death. Which kind of Just God will burn a man forever and ever for committing few decades of sins? A sadistic being who claims to love us but wants us to love him by force, if not he will burn us. Thanks God for Lucifer who will lead us against Gods tyranny, invade heaven, sack the throne room and end the rule of Jehovah once and for all.

Vote Buhari to keep Nigeria in the hands of Lucifer and change this country for good

You are doomed already

OneCorner:
If I be police and I find am, I go first yansh diz one b4 I realease am

Always make sensible comments or you keep quiet

This is a sensitive issue and don't bring your stupidity to it

Always keep your mouth in one corner

Guys that beats ladies are people with low life

No matter the provocation, just walk away

If you listen to what comes out of ladies mouth, you will beat her till she faints

Be a gentle man and walk away, it doesn't make you less a man

Elder0001:
You lack wisdom.

You that have wisdom, use it as you like

ColdIce:
they are always forming posh
but dull in reality
it baffles me how u will cross road and put ear piece on.
def listening to a demonic song and got knocked off.
hahahahaha

You are not human,

You don't even know how your death will be, why laughing at someone's death

truthsayer009:
Just prepare another similar soup separately and put a lot of Salt, then mix the existing soup with the new one.

The Salt taste will be balance

If you try am,
Na you alone go suffer am
You think marriage is easy

You never see anything

Chai the devil has don't the worst

Death why did you snatch this guy from the is lady

Where do you want her to start from

May his soul rest in peace

The most important thing in marriage is love

You might marry an older lady and have endless peace of mind in the marriage yet have beautiful kids

You may marry a younger lady and have tough marriage of which you will want to pull out and now start looking for an older lady because you need peace

Everyone should look for what works for him

A loveless marriage is like a well prepared pot of soup without salt

She is focused

I wish her success

BakireBulmaker:
Even at old age...

When you get old you will understand better

So till then