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samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.

Just tell her that someone is pregnant for you and your parents have gone to assure the family that you will marry their daughter

Meanwhile stop beding them just like that if you aren't serious in settling down with one

Sex is not what you should look out for in your next relationship but character and attitude, then,
you too work on your ability to tolerate ladies and their flaws

You can't get a perfect lady but you can get something close to it.
just the same way ladies can't get a perfect man.

Or do you guys think ladies don't have choices of what they too want in a man ?

cenaman:
if that skull miner daughter his brother called a wife see this pix now she will start her jelosy again.

You are very myopic

She has her own children

Serves him right

Let him marry the corpse and complete the tradition of marrying a woman

Even she is pregnant so the child should be given a unisex name

After that let him go and face his murder charge

He brought it upon himself

Idiotic somebody

At this stage, I can confirm that, it's not with ordinary eyes

Let her God set her free from the whole embarrassment

swiz123:
And to think battalion of women are in Shiloh crying their eyes out to bear just one kid.

She should just forget about that boy cos I'm sure the man must have severed his head by now.

Useless woman

Is that the best way to sympathise with her

This one have not experienced life

Leave her let her air her opinion

This old and now forbidden tradition has never been beneficial to anyone

Families should learn to over look the properties of their dead brother

They don't even care or know if the money used in putting those things in place was jointly contributed or not

They should rather be concerned of their late brother's children welfare and education

The spirit of Stealing runs in him

Am a woman
But I have been wandering what women gained by maltreating their wards

They can't do such to their children so why doing so to a child under your care

It's just wickedness

Why this ?

A girl that you are dating
You pregnanted her
Went ahead and killed her with your own child in her womb

Haba, that's bad very bad.

The truth is whether she loves you or not,

She is not yet ready for a steady relationship

Reduce your time and attention on her

During this period call her less times, even when calls don't always pick her call.

Use that period to evaluate if the relationship worths it or not

This is absolutely wrong
Why this kind of picture

What for ?

They should have just left that guy inside there

squash47:
he couldn't even use his learned skill to defeat ordinary vigilante,what exactly did he learn in school?

The mistake he made was arguing with them

Those vigilantes are stak illiterates,
once you claim rights with them at such hour of the night, any thing can happen.

ChiefAzubuike:
This one is not even strong. And he dey call himself lawyer.

Always making mockery of yourself with your stupid comments.
Common sense you no get

The mod that banned me,
Are you satisfied now ?

Who cares

Nobody cares, if you like ban me again, I don't give a dam

Ilamina:
My brother used to hit all of us when we are rude and we used to try and fight back. .

But his a guy, he has more strength
So he usually wins

It's sad, pray I will get over such traumatic event s

It's a normal thing

He just wants to in steal discipline on the girls

But with time he will stop beating them and start using eye signals to caution them

He is just being over protective of you girls

You just use your hand plan how you are gong to scatter your home as a newly wedded couple

You don't want this , you don't want that

All you are avoiding is what makes you feel married

Then you want kids, are you now ready for the wahala children gives especially at midnight when they are sick

Their teenage age which is wahala stage for them wont you be there for them

Go ahead but don't come here to tell us how you are suspecting your wife of infidelity

Metooreal:
I don't know if this is the right place but I need help on this.

A brief of the issue- I lived with my granma in the village so I know all her siblings and relations. Recently she lost one of her elder sister at a good old age - well over a 100 years.

At the burial I was told one of her elder sisters came there without aso ebi and wore bathroom slippers (my granma's has another elder sister- she's the one who came to her immediate elder sister's burial without aso ebi and with a bathroom slippers).

She has only one son, and grand children. Her son is very poor too and the grand children are well to do but have refused to take care of this woman.

Ask me what is my own headache? They call her witch, this woman is ovee 95years. God really bless them with old age, i heard their granpa lived over 150 years.

If i send my granma money to gives her she won't, but i know she occasionally gives her food.

Secondly, if she dies, my granma will ask me for money to buy cloths and food to do burial ceremony and i have vowed not to be a part of it. I want to use that money my granma will ask then to feed her now.

I have cousins and people i can send to her but i dont want them to know and dont want the woman to know where the help is coming from. If God has spared her life till today, who are humans to call her witch? I have not seen anybody she killed or caused misfortune to.

I want to know how i can send her money monthly till God call her home please. Am so pained now.

The Aso ebi cost only 6k and no body could just maje her happy. Weep weeeeeeppppp. I never knew she don't buy and no one bought for her, i asked after her before the party and i was told she got. All for them to tell me on phone after the burial that she came looking dirty.

I need to know how to send her money without my family knowing and she herself not knowing who is sending her money. If she knows who's doing the favour, she will dance to my house in villa to greet them and ask them to greet me and fire will start so i want to remain anonymous.


Lalasticlala, mynd44, dominique, pleaae help me get a wider read and view, so I can get good information.

Take out time and go and visit her with not just money

But provisions, slippers and toiletries

Then any money you want to give her give grand ma her own first then pass her own to grandma to give to her in your presence there that moment all of you are seated

PSTEMMA1960:
Good day my fellow nairalanders...

there is a very minor issue that is about to scatter the marriage of my immediate elder sis..

we are from Imo state, last 2 yrs she got married to a yoruba man, they have been living peacefull until last week that my sister put to bed....

the man said that he wants to name the boy （Olaniyi ）and my sister beeing an Ibo woman said it won't happen over her dead body, the naming ceremony is coming up next tomorrow...

pls what should i do in a case like this?

thanks and God bless..

lalasticla
ifyalways
ishilove...

What's your sister problem

If he names his child

"olaniyi"

Which you and I knows that it's a yoruba name and it means something good in yoruba land

She should go ahead and name that same child the translation of the name in ibo land

Or better still give that child an ibo name of her choice

It is now left for her to be calling the child any of his meantioned names

That child is expected to have up to 7 names

Though I know that this question is a joke anyway, lol

Samuelgr8:
Editor’s note:

This a question from a whatsapp member. What are your thoughts,how would you advise her? Drop your comments below.


Hello ma’am,

Please I am shy. I see how you are answering marriage questions on whatsapp. I have question please. I am newly married. I got married in May this year. I know I am still very young in this marriage thing but I this s*x thing is really disturbing me.

The thing is,my husband wants to have sx every day and sometimes I am too tired. I work on the island and sometimes due to traffic,I get home late. I rush to make dinner and I just want to sleep but my husband,once its around 12 mid night,he must wake me up for sx.

Yes,another thing is,why must it be in the mid night? I ask him,he say that is when his emotion is doing him. But me,that time,sleep,deep sleep is really catching me. The only person I complained to is my mother. She encourage me to bear it that it will reduce as we get older. Honestly,I am enduring o.I will just lie down there while he is on top…waiting for him to finish so I can sleep. And he will complain that I am not responding…it is not easy ma.

I try not to complain but its affecting me and I am beginning to feel he is not sensitive to my feelings.He will say that a married man must have s*x in his house regularly to avoid temptation outside. This is why I don;t complain but.....see more



https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-does-not-get-tired-he-bothers-me-everyday/

If you can stand it go ahead but if you can't, let him have it elsewhere and pls don't be jealous about it

Only few men knows that sex is not easy for us especially if we are not turned on as at the time he wants it

Every day sex, it won't get interesting again naw,

Haba

Samuelgr8:
Editor’s note:

This a question from a whatsapp member. What are your thoughts,how would you advise her? Drop your comments below.


Hello ma’am,

Please I am shy. I see how you are answering marriage questions on whatsapp. I have question please. I am newly married. I got married in May this year. I know I am still very young in this marriage thing but I this s*x thing is really disturbing me.

The thing is,my husband wants to have sx every day and sometimes I am too tired. I work on the island and sometimes due to traffic,I get home late. I rush to make dinner and I just want to sleep but my husband,once its around 12 mid night,he must wake me up for sx.

Yes,another thing is,why must it be in the mid night? I ask him,he say that is when his emotion is doing him. But me,that time,sleep,deep sleep is really catching me. The only person I complained to is my mother. She encourage me to bear it that it will reduce as we get older. Honestly,I am enduring o.I will just lie down there while he is on top…waiting for him to finish so I can sleep. And he will complain that I am not responding…it is not easy ma.

I try not to complain but its affecting me and I am beginning to feel he is not sensitive to my feelings.He will say that a married man must have s*x in his house regularly to avoid temptation outside. This is why I don;t complain but.....see more



https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-does-not-get-tired-he-bothers-me-everyday/

If you can stand it go ahead but if you can't, let him have it elsewhere and pls don't be jealous about it

Only few men knows that sex us not easy for us especially if we are not turned on as at the time he wants it

Every day sex, it won't get interesting again naw,

Haba

Kudo to you for this concept and your creativity is splendid

Katier00:
You just shared my story. People are so wicked. They will come to you in a very gentle manner, pleading and crying but when it is time to pay, you will be the one insulting them for your kindness

Any money less than 10,000 you borrowed out to anyone

Bear in mind that you might get it and you might not get it or worst still you guys will quarell and that ends the story about the money

ChiefAlex:
Just wanna hear your sweet voice, WhatsApp me +1 (972) 236-4801

Lol,

Smart guy

anonymous1759:
You must be a Barack boy stinking mentality... Soldiers are now god's take the gun away from him and see what's left. Nonsense.

Since you see them as gods

Go and take the gun from them if them born you well

You can only rant

Whenever you see a soldier,
be bold to tell him that his only strength is the gun he is holding

Bloody civilian like you

ChiefAlex:
How would i do that, you can tell me as well

As a man that you are

I should teach you how to play your game

Hmmm, don't fall your hand

ChiefAlex:
I don sweat already

For wia?

You just dey start

She looks lovely

He must have been showing himself and am sure that is a dread hair

You can't be showing yourself before soldiers

They will tame you for that moment

All boils down to discipline and up bring

ChiefAlex:
Help me drop your number damsel

You must sweat for it

Am not an easy prey
That makes you a man