₦airaland Forum

Any man such a list is given to should just leave their daughters for them to marry

And you their daughter, for any man to fulfil those list, you girls will keep waiting or become baby mama or single parents

What a nonsense, are you girls for sale ?

Even your village people won't even meet up, that's why they too goes outside your village and town to marry from less expensive communities.
Haba

PraisePiano:
Hello guys....

I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are.
I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.

We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok”

She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.

Please what should I do?

She loves you but doesn't have your time yet

She prioritise her friends more than you

She needs time to have the kind of fun she wants

Summary, she is not yet ready for the kind of relationship you are looking forward too

What a good news

God is great

Congratulations to you and your family

okofians:
Frozen,how long have you been froze?

You wan join me ?

JasonScoolari:
Okay, I've heard you ma'am. Points taken.

You are a complete gentleman, thumbs up for you

If them like make them barn capsule not only tablets

They should do the needful because more will lick out

How can students be paying huge amounts and to keep the facility good looking will be an issue

That's bad of them.

If them like make them barn capsule not only tablets

They should do the needful because more will lick out

How can students be paying huge amounts and to keep the facility good looking will be an issue

That's bad if them.

Who recommended this kind of naked dress for this lady ?

Both the person that recommend, the person wearing it and the husband to be,

They are not yet matured

JasonScoolari:
A quick message to all the registered "Abortees" viewing this thread, desist from that act. You might not be lucky next time.


She's lucky. God bless the new born babies.

This mentality that if a woman doesn't get pregnant on time then it's her fault, don't you know that if a man sperm quality is poor a woman can't get pregnant

We have virgins who got married and was actually delayed, so where does abortion comes in?

The man should go and do his bed homework very well

You beat her because you caught her with a woman

Assuming it's a man, so you will do what?
Kill her.
Mtcheew

Sorry for that my dear sister

God will catch them and they will suffer more in Jesus name, Amen

Staceyjohnsn:
Hi,

Please I need some information.

I’m from London. My boyfriend and I were both living in London until he was deported back to Nigeria. We dated for 2 years so due to love we continued dating. We eventually got married two years later in a registry in Nigeria. I was willing to move to Nigeria permanently and forget about London completely. It was time to do the traditional marriage now, he said he’s not doing anymore. Long story short he has the marriage certificate with him in Nigeria. He said he will just tear it up and that’s that and no1 will ever believe me without the certificate that we are legally married.
Obviously I need to one day move on with my life, by Gods grace and remarry. I’m only 26, I cannot come and die because of one man. I don’t want to deal with this issue when I have someone new etc. I don’t want to comit polygamy as that is highly illegal in the UK. Personally, I cannot date another man while I’m legally married. Ko make sense.
Does anyone know how I can obtain a copy of the marriage certificate myself in order to proceed with a legal divorce?
In the UK you can look up marriages online, is there a website for Nigerian marriage information to be looked up online?
Please help me because if you understand the heartbreak I’m going through right now, you will cry for me.
I jus want to begin to legally escape this situation and move on with my life.

What is his reasons for ending the marriage

Have you asked him to give you the certificate instead of tearing it

Have you met his family over this issue's

If everything fails, just go to high court and swear an affidavit to your claims and back yourself up with it

To me, I don't see anything wrong if couples decides to watch porn together

It will help them to boost their sex skills

But let it start and end with both of them and no external practice elsewhere

When you walk early in the morning before meal or evening before meal, you walk fir fitness and its good for your health

But if you are working in an office and you are sent on an errand and you pocket the transport fare and decides to treak, that one is not good for your health oohhh

You are treaking under stress

omooba969:
What of every man?

Same with a man

Both gender needs the other

So many bad news from delta state these days

Does it mean that all the yahoo boys have been hiding in delta till this period

They should take it easy oohhh

And ladies should be more careful hence forth

Well instead of killing the infant, it's better she packaged the child and drop the child where a befitting mother will take over the child

Ladies, if you can't keep your leg's closed for the guys, get a prevention pill

You are the one's suffering it most not the guys

sluk:
But this madam don old na

Every woman needs a lover

OperaMini1:
Good day people.

IMy kids aged 8.5, and 6 years respectively, fight each other at the least provocation. They fight over who lies down where, who sits where in the car, who uses the toothpaste first, etc.

I came home yesterday and the elder (girl) had a bodily harm inflicted on her by the brother, and which is the second time she's getting a mark from him. As I write this now, they've been both grounded, since that yesterday, no watching of TV, no computer games, just sleep and wake up, eat and sleep again.

I'm not sure how long we'd do this, that's why I'm seeking suggestions on how to stop the fighting madness entirely, thanks.

Fighting is part of children activities

Seat them down and explain to them the effects of fighting themselves

Let the girl know that she is growing to be a woman and fighting is not good for her

Let the boy know that real boys don't fight with girls

Start now to keep counselling them about love and care for each other

Alexaonfleek:
When a man treats his woman well,she literally worships him.this is how it is supposed to be


Lol first time I'm commenting on a new thread

Yes, you are right about your comments, but most men don't know that if you want your wife to worship and respect you, treat her well and good

Vince77:
I was just smiling reading other people's comments. But when I got to yours the smile vanished. I went into deep thoughts. Your comment is full of STEW.

This lady's story is a proof that there are no arrangements whatsoever for the physical challenged. That is too bad.

Yes, you are right. They should be given a chance to make their own choices and pick states where they have relatives who can assist them during the whole time. The challenged can't continue to hope on an Ogechi to help out.

Better still they can be given an exemption letter.

This is the Oge(time) to make changes.

Thanks dear.

nams77:
Your position is so valid. Wish officials will take note of these

My dear, they know about it but they don't care to practise it

Does it mean that the service doesn't consider people of this kind of disability ?

Why sending them to far away for service when they could have given them the choice to serve in their choice of state

Na wa oooh

That so called teacher, is not a qualified teacher because he didn't attend any teaching college or even NCE, she doesn't have

What's so important about that assignment that she has to maltreat her.

I have no blame for the parents but I blame the so called teacher

He just made mockery of himself

You can run a test to see if you have an uncured infection

It could be sexual or toilet infection

Her husband is poor yet cheating on her at the same time depriving her the right to socialize

Marriage is good but when it becomes a problem living happily pls my sister take a bow and leave

Women should understand that, if its not working don't kill yourself leave

If anything happens to her,
the man will still cheat on her while her corpse is still in mortuary

Let the jungle justice continue and let them die like goats

In every operations, they know that they may succeed or be caught and killed

So, they expect it

alimaa:
I have a very close friend who has been like a brother to me right from our days in the university, we also worship in the same church, he was my best man when I wedded a few years ago. He got married this year and after the wedding things were not rosy for them the following month and I gave my little assistance as a friend. Around July this year his sister had a life threatening ailment and when he reached out to me I quickly responded with something meaningful. After some weeks his wife told me she was sick when we met in church, I quickly went to an ATM, made withdrawal and gave her money to buy drugs since her husband who happens to be my friend was not in town.

The irony of the whole thing now is
that my friend's wife now thinks that I am Father Christmas and now calls and sends texts requesting for money to take care of her antenatal drugs but I have refused to help because I believe it is wrong and she keeps pestering me.

Please what is your advice?

To be on a safe side, when next she calls tell her to inform her husband and let him be the one to come for the money.

You might be helping her without the notice or consent of her husband and at the end you will be accused of sleeping with her even in pregnancy

Alternatively tell her you can't really help that is if you can summon courage to do so.

They should just over look this guy

It's not as if he needs the certificate to gain employment but to fulfill that he has actually graduated

Anyway he should just leave his comfort this period to avoid further issues

samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.

I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.

Just tell her that someone is pregnant for you and your parents have gone to assure the family that you will marry their daughter

Meanwhile stop beding them just like that if you aren't serious in settling down with one

Sex is not what you should look out for in your next relationship but character and attitude, then,
you too work on your ability to tolerate ladies and their flaws

You can't get a perfect lady but you can get something close to it.
just the same way ladies can't get a perfect man.

Or do you guys think ladies don't have choices of what they too want in a man ?

cenaman:
if that skull miner daughter his brother called a wife see this pix now she will start her jelosy again.

You are very myopic

She has her own children