₦airaland Forum

Islie:
https://www.newtelegraphng.com/fuel-scarcity-vessels-refuse-to-discharge-products-over-cash-crisis/

How do I explain this to a stack illiterate who is a lay man of that some documents are not yet approved by NNPLC

I only tell those that ask me, that flood divided the road where tankers pass to bring fuel to Lagos

Jakemario:
I tried to withdraw money on Sunday via my ATM card,but it couldn't.,I tried my online banking,it wrote "security violation". On Tuesday,I went to the nearest Fidelity bank to know the problem,and I was told that I was ordered to be arrested on sight by Efcc Kaduna ..And I'm in Anambra state...I don't have any business with Kaduna, neither have I even scammed any body of even #50 naira..I haven't gotten any funds that I don't know about...Highest money iv received in the account is #140,000 wch is my school fees my dad sent to me....please who has ever experienced such before or knows a way forward.God bless

If you are very sure about your complain, inform your dad and both of you will have to visit the bank

You need to be properly informed about the reason for frozen

If they insist that you are needed in kaduna, go to their Lagos office and they will contact kaduna

As it is now, if you open another bank account, it will be frozen because they are linked already through BVN

Penflame:
I have a girlfriend and we love each other so much. I disvirgined her, it was not easy before I could disvirgin her but she insisted I proceed even though the pain was much for her.

After that, I observed she doesn't enjoy sex which she also complained of. As a matter of fact, she doesn't get wet easily no matter how I romance or touch her.

She doesn't cheat on me, I trust her to that extent. She just seems to have a low libido or something I don't know.

Please, how can I help her on this?

This is someone I have a plan to settle down with.
But this issue of not enjoying sex with her is giving me second thought already.

Please advice without insult.

Thanks.

Its too early to judge her sex abilities

You disvirgined her

Take your extreme time to teach her on what to do during sex

If you are knowledgeable enough about sex, then work on her

If you are the type that rushes sex then you are the problem

How fast do you expect a virgin to be on sex

Take patience and teach her what you want her to experience about sex

NBAjunior:
Last week Thursday was at a bar when some random girl walked to me and asked for my contact that she likes me as a sharp guy I gave her my contact

So decided to call her later in the night and invited her to my house which she came and we eventually had sex..

After 2 days of having sex with her I started noticing rashes on my private part and it was so itching me which I started to scratch it

I noticed the rashes started getting bigger and the itching became worse so I decided to visit the hospital and talk to a doctor


Just went to the hospital today and they gave me a tube to be rubbing on it and some antibiotics which I have started taking…

But I’m scared I might have infected my girl and don’t know how to approach her about it because we had sex on Sunday but I didn’t fvck her in the pussy cuz she is a virgin and whenever I try putting it in blood will just be coming out and I will find it increasing tight to get inside of her and she does feel so much pains..

So we decided to try anal that Sunday as I couldn’t fvck her pvssy don’t know if is possible she might be infected too I also came on her inside her assh*le..


Please Nlanders I need your thoughts on this should I speak to her about this??

You are doing anal with your virgin girl friend

You still sex a random crazy girl

I think sex is the only thing that ever makes you happy

You are just thinking of sex and sex

How do you intend to achieve success and be responsible

fineboynl:
While we were discussing he told me his wife has given birth. I was like congrats and the next thing that could come to my mind which is instinctive. I know alot of us here have quarried about such question but we all know there is nothing else to talk about other than to ask of the gender.

I ask him watin the wife born and he was slow to respond and when he finally did it was very low voice. "Na girl".


From that content I know he was not so incited and proud. Probably he wanted a male as the first child. From my location a male child is called full current while a female is called half current.

Many men wanted their first child to be male. Especially those that don't want many children.

Assuming he is sterile, he will appreciate a hermaphrodite so far it's his biological child

Remember, when a man puts in a male chromosomes he gets a male child and if it's a female chromosomes he gets a female child

Lecture him properly so that he will work on himself

Life2020:
Hi guys
please i need some mature advise.
since i was fifteen, i have been with my husband. we dated for 6 years before we got married because he's my first and only love, have always had a soft spot for him but now I'm officially tired.
Now i was born poor but i vow that i wouldn't die poor, since i finish my secondary school education, have been hustling. To God be the glory i have a good business that i make money from.
my husband and i married young and we promise to build each other. the problem is my husband, he attended the university but i didn't, our goal was that after he graduated, he will find a good job but that didn't work out. when he was in school, i started a farming business and like i said to God be the glory it has been successful.
since i had money, i asked him what business will he like to do, he said he wants to sell cars, the problem is i don't have that kind of money. car business is very expensive and i just finished building the little house we live in, i tried to explain to him and after much consideration he agreed, that yes the business is too expensive. he later decided in land selling, meaning he will buy and sell lands and also help people to sell lands. i had two small plots of land which i gave him to start up the business. at first everything was fine but i soon start to see a new side to him.
as the money was pouring in so was his pride. he started coming home late, cheating on me and being rude. when i discovered he was cheating on me, i stopped having sex with him because i don't want to get infected with any STD. i kept tolerating to save my marriage, his family told me he will change, i didn't want anybody to know about my marriage problems so i kept quite.
now the problem is, i have decided that i want to further my education, i want to study accounting, so that u can grow my business, now my husband is against this because he wants me bare more children. we already have twins, he said no that i should bare children first before going to school and if i do that i will have to delay my plans for another 4 to 5 years because i can't leave my baby because they will be too young.
second he says he wants to start having sex with me, i said nop, he should first do a full STD test. because of that we have been quarreling i don't know what type of lady he might have had sex with and what type of infection she might have carried. he should do test first then we start have sex.
thirdly he has started being emotional abusive, he insults my body and makes me feel useless, he usually tells me how other girls are looking beautiful and i look like a clown. he insults everything about me from my body to my face, my self esteem is at an all time low, i keep going to the gym and i have reduced a lot, people keep praising my beauty but my own husband see me as ugly.

I'm getting tired of this marriage and I'm planning to leave. I'm not happy, i feel ugly, he cheats on me, doesn't support my dreams. i don't want my daughters to grow up and think this is normal. i know that if i wasn't the quite type, he would have laid his hands on me. each time he insults me, i just keep quite, i say nothing because i know if i say anything he might beat me.
sometimes for 2 weeks or more, i don't see him. i have already made up my mind that next year I'm going to write jamb. i want to be educated.
please advise is it right to leave this hell called marriage because even if i stay because of my kids, it doesn't matter because he's never around. we rarely see him. it's like am a single mom

A man you raised from the ground is standing high to frustrate your life and future

So you need our permission to start taking a decision that you already know about

You have the money with you, what other power do you need to stand firm even if you are standing alone

Onepointfiveodds:
I really do not know who to talk to rn and this has been disturbing me. I am so confused rn.

Our marriage is less than a year, we are not pregnant yet and my wife sat me down to discuss the issue last week. She said i should allow her try with another man outside our marriage to see if she will be pregnant. I asked if she's asking for a divorce and she said no, she wants to try with another man while still married to me.

Why she'll come up with something like that and even had the guts to tell me still baffles me. We've gone for series of tests in a space of 7months and nothing seems to be wrong with me.

I just can't keep the discussion out of my head. I'm so scared for her rn and i dont know what to do.

If you are very sure that you are potent, tell her no but bear in mind that fir saying this boldly,

Once she becomes pregnant and put to bed, make sure you do a DNA test

What she is trying to tell you is that you are probably having a hard time weak sperm or you can't pregnant a woman

I am still wondering the kind of ladies we have these days

That word that came out of her mouth easily is supposed to be as heavy word

How am I sure she doesn't have a partner already

APC2:
Greetings nairalanders,
I need your advice regarding this issue:
I set up a new business that cost me millions of naira and I told my wife to write application letter and submit to me so that I can employ her to manage the business, she refused. She said she will not write any application letter and will not collect any appointment letter from me to work in my establishment. She just want to be in charge of the business without any formal documents.

I have told her that I will employ another person if she did not want to pass through the process of formal employment. My wife is not working and she is in 300 Level in a Federal university. She is not serious with her studies, having carry overs every semester. I'm the one sponsoring her education.

I am thinking of informing her brother that if her sister did not write application letter and pass through formal employment procedures, I will employ another lady and will not be responsible for the social needs of my wife. I will only give her money for transportation to school and not for birthdays of her friends and the unnecessary visitations she always do to relatives houses.

I can't trust my wife with any of my businesses without formal documents. She may one day claim she is the owner.

What do you think?

I think you are part of the problem she has,

She is not serious with her education because you do virtually everything for her

Don't be surprise if she ends up as a drop out, people will laugh at her and she will blame you for not completing her education because she will say that you asked her to manage your business that was why she couldn't go back to school

Someone that can not manage her studies very well, what makes you think that she can handle that business

You dont bring love and romance in to your private business, it will collapse totally

You have to let her know that she must finish her studies before anything, you don't need a half baked, as your wife and business partner

Whatever carry over she may have, by the time she repeats a year she will seat up and where she needs you to finance her to sort herself out in school, assist her

Stop sponsoring those parties of hers and the rest, you are giving her the hope that money is not the problem

What if tomorrow you are gone, how do you expect her to start handling your family affairs with this kind of attitude

Take a firm decision and get another person to handle that business, let her go and face her life in school

Josipov:
Bad idea.... I raise Local fowls, noilers and cockerels together... And they're doing well and even inter-breeding among themselves.
The locals are my hatchers

I practically do this too as the local hen are climbed by Noiler and she hatches fantastically and you get a good breed

mcdokwe:
I had some that lasted over 2years

Fantastic, that's good

Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

Honestly you have to let her know and ask her why she did that kind of thing that can spoil her marriage

If she denys bring the result out of your pocket and show her and tell her the reason why you such test

By the time she finishes her open confession and apologizes to you, you just have to forgive her and move on together

She knows a lot and she believes that you don't know how far
So let it out and let her ask for apology

Then you find out who the real father is so that you can prepare your mind for the future and whatever that comes

Crazeworld:
Hi Frozen70,

Which one did you eventually get and what's the price? I'll also appreciate your review on it

I got hisense manual and am loving it

But I got it from fouani the white people that sells the products themselves

I love LG fouani any time any day

I get peace of mind always shopping form them

Price is 44k for 20ltrs as at September

Meandmycrew:
IPhone users please share your experience about the device , does it really worth it?

For the fact that it uses one sim card slot, to me it doesn't make sense

The only sense it makes is to use it for oppression and suppression

Fira09:
SOURCE

Their Naija fathers should be sent to Sambisa

If they can't provide support for their children

They should be able to fight the terrorists

PEACEMAKER002:
This is latest price as at Tuesday 25-oct-2022

*PRICE UPDATE 24/10*

*BROILERS (BX)*
AGRITED N870.
CHI N850
ZARTECH N830.
SUPREME N840.
NUBREED N830.
FIDAN N830.
FUNTES N830.
VERTEX N830.
GS (GOLD SMILE) CHICKS N840.
AMO N840.
SAYED N840.
VALENTINE N830.
FARM SUPPORT N850.
AJILA N820.
STANDARD N820.
DOY SUPER CHICKS: N820.
PLAIN N790.

*PULLETS* *(PX)*
ZARTECH N590.
CHI N600.
SUPREME N590.
CROWN N590.
STANDARD N590.
FIDAN N590.
AGRITED N620.
FARM SUPPORT N600.

BLACK PULLET: N480.

*COCKEREL* *(CX)*
WHITE COCKEREL N90.
BLACK COCKEREL N330.

*NOILER* *(NX)*
AMO : N480.
PLAIN : N430.
SASSO : N430.
DUAL: N420.

*TURKEY POULTS*
LOCAL : N1600 (Thursdays).
FOREIGN: N3600.(Thursdays).

*_BRAHMA_* : N2600
*_Foreign Guinea fowl_ :* N1600.(Thursday only)

Pls where is your location and how do i get turkey from you as from 4 wks old

Can you share your location

AreaGovo:
All that is required is for the result to be ready from the desk of the exam's officer. The HOD will sign and send over to the school senate/DVC's office to vet, approve and sign and that is all. I don't know why this is taking like forever. It's a pure case of negligence by those involved and that is why I should sue them.

All of you in that category should sue the senate of the school
Unless there are more to it

VeevoH:
I have suffered all types of abuse from my husband for the past 6 years of our marriage.

I did my best to stay peacefully and bear in my marriage for the sake of my children.

But it is now obvious the man who swore to love and protect me wants to take my life because he knows I am an orphan who has nowhere to go and no one to run to.

He did this to me 3 days ago.

You just have to leave to anyone or anywhere you wish

Forget about what people will say

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

Keep having kids and birth them you have a chance of getting one AA and two AS

Then if you discover any one to be SS, you deal with it

ASAPFERG1:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/10/father-allegedly-beats-his-2-month-old-son-with-hanger-in-imo-for-disturbing-his-sleep-breaks-the-babys-arm-leading-to-amputation-2.html

Speechless,
My heart is already bleeding

Killbillz:
Lol.. good to know ur fine. There's nothing wrong with it I was just curious as to the story behind it tho

Ok naw

Fiscus105:
Foolish people taking control of husband, I don't pity u but poor man that devil woman had dominated, God will see ur husband through. I'm praying for him from my own end here.




......for marriage, I did that long time ago and for ur information, I'm in charge of my household just the way God wants it.

Idiot asking me I should direct it the way I want, u want me to give directive to my wife just like ur weak husband allowed you to rule over him abi? God forbid!

You are pained because God made a man to be the head
While the woman is the neck

For your information Mr married man

Any where the neck turns to that's the direction the head will face

You must deal with it, when you finish understanding the meaning of the last paragraph

Maconstruct:
Once dey approached 4 months, from my experience we kill n freeze.
Dey get too big, dia legs carry dem no more so yu see dem limping.
Some might have swelled legs, u wouldn't fancy dat

Thanks dear i will watch out for that

Killbillz:
How are u frozen70 why this moniker.. just curious

Am doing fine

Ok suggest a better moniker

kelspinall:
na chop dem be my own,their species no concern me

Pickmycall:
Give them their normal meals O.Their intestine cannot digest some strong food.Why they die in their infant age is as a result of the kind of food they eat when they are release to go and search for food.

Ok dear I have been sticked to their meal strictly an am impressed about their supper growth

Coinwarrior:
when i met this young girl,she was homely and well reserved and she loved me then.I told all my pastors about 9 pastors to help me prayed on her with about six names to make the total names I gave to them be 7 girls.All the pastors prayed on it and they all singled out this girl that is the lord’s choice. Her parent also prayed too on their side by given my name with other 5 names to their pastors and they all prayed and their pastors singled me out that I am the lord’s choice for their daughter.And this is what further made us to get married and we got married in 2020 after we did introduction by 2019 august.All through the time we were dating i love the girl and the girl loved me too and the girl has been good and faithful to me.But i ran into a discovery about my wife then why we were on the road.when we wanted to start the relationship i asked her a question that is she in a relationship currently at that time and she said she was not into any and that the one she was b4 went into water.ok I accepted to her.But one day she was sick and I was away I then called her to know her health condition and one guy picked her call and I was shocked and asked her who was he? And he said he was his boyfriend and I said boyfriend but she never told me she was in any relationship when i met her but out of my genuine love to my wife I just told the guy to not attack her becos she was still ill.Then later when she was totally ok.I sat her down and asked her who was that guy and why couldn’t she tell me the truth then.she then begged me and said she had broken up with him at that time i met her and it was her own friend that advised her not to tell me about it.And when I did my background check I saw that she was not with that guy again because she caught him having sex with her junior.But the guy kept pestering her and begging.Then later on her sister and mother called me that they really want to see me then and it was from there I further confirmed that my wife just finished dating that guy then b4 she broke up with her after she discovered his sexcapade with other younger girls.what do i want to bring out from this narration is dawned on not being totally sincere with me. I caught her there.Another area i caught her lying was when i returned from traveling and saw a new phone in my wife hand then and when i asked her she told me her dad bought it for her but i knew soonest they truth would be revealed.in the course of our relationship then I got to discovered that the old guy that she had broken up with bought her the phone then and her aunty later advised her to return the phone back when it was obvious she would marry me when the spiritual findings of their pastors came out,i overheard her aunty telling her on phone.And when i confronted her she later lied that she didn’t tell me that her father got her the phone.she said the guy gave her the phone as part of his begging to come back.That is lie no 2 I forgave her cos of my love and warned her but the guy was pained that he was unable to sleep with her when they were courting then because my wife was telling him then to wait till their wedding night because i read their long time chat they had on Facebook why they were together then.So when we eventually married...going forward i saw my wife randomly chatting guys with whom they went to secondary school with and some guys that once toasted her and i told her to stop that when she is now married.Even her pastor called her and warned her to never anything to do with those old guys again when she is now married.But one day i just checked my wife contact and I saw a particular number she saved with *Gabriel my first mistake* I was curious what that could mean.And my wife telling me she never had sex with anyone in all her previous relationship but she said she is not a virgin because one incident that happened to her while she was growing up in the north where one old man raped her when they sent her to buy bread by her parent.I didn’t believe the narrative but the same thing she told our church pastor when they asked us during one private discussion point with them.But i stumbled on one book where I saw where she wrote *my first husband Gabriel and put two numbers but I tried to call those numbers but they were not active.Then I remembered one day we were driving out together and we saw one guy and I was talk about him and my wife said she knew him very well.it was there my wife made mention of his senior brother whose name was Bro Gabriel,she said they were in the church quoir and the brother use to called her *his children mother and she use to called the brother *her children father* she told me they took themselves as husband and wife already but one day when she visited the brother the brother told her my children mother let step this thing up by having intercourse but my wife said she just stylishly find a wise way to dogdge it by telling the brother that she is coming to do the act with him he should just wait for her to tell her sister waiting to receive sth outside then she would then come in to do the thing with him.she said she has to use that wiseness because she can’t abuse or struggle with him cos the guy can do anything with her.if that is true or not I can’t say but I am looking at the meaning of *my first mistake* that is very symbolic.with that symbol,I believed she slept with that guy hence the reason why she saved his name with *first mistake*.That is another redflag I observed.Then about one week ago my wife was telling me she would change her phone pin and pattern so that those people in her shop won’t be able to swipe her phone start using it to make calls.I said it would be good and do you know my wife changed the pattern of her and she didn’t come to me to show it to me and I was waiting for her to come tell me as being open as it should be being husband and wife.I watched for 8 days and I concluded she deliberately didn’t want to let me know .I was then wondering what she could be hiding from me when she would look my phone from morning till night.But just yesterday I then confronted her and told her I don’t know the kind of wife she is that she would be hiding things from me.Then she exploded and was telling me that she used a pattern I once know.I then said she should show me the pattern and I could see it was a different pattern and I told her baby you use to lie.why is she lieing? I then told her i have some history of her lieing and I started mentioning those lie she lied that she was not in any relationship when she was in one and she just broke up when I came.I then mentioned that I saw a number on her phone that she saved with *Gabriel my first mistake *immediately she heard that ...she kept quite all through* and the next thing was she went to her phone dialed one unsaved number which happened to be Gabriel number though the number is still inactive.I then confronted her when I saw her dialed the number while she is still married to me.That made her to start telling me she is tired of this marriage and she told me I should go and bring my lawyer to divorce and she threatened that she would walk to where nobody know.And she was crying and I felt for her and started begging her again not to sad because of the love I had for her.

I took time to read this epistle of yours and when I got to the last four lines where you guffed,

That was when I concluded that your are finished

Your Mumu button no get rival

When you hear that some men are simps you are one of them

By the time she will finish with you, you will be left with nothing, totally nothing because your heart will break beyond mending

She can lie more than Chidimma/ATAGA and change words the way Chidimma is doing in the court room

You are too weak as a man

Fiscus105:
Madam, don't use the way u were brought up and probably what's happening in ur marriage for general opinion.


Provided dad is rational human being, even if dad is in abroad, he should be the one to follow, infact, a submissive wife will still consult her husband before she gives final advice for children on very serious issues.

If paraventure daddy gives wrong advice ignorantly, a virtue wife will go and meet her husband privately and discuss it with him and not calling child to give contrary counsel.

......what u are doing is that, indirectly u re usurpering leadership of the family from ur husband.

..........we should endeavor to learn how to play the rules of marriage, if we want to enjoy blissful marriage, ur type will coner child and be giving him myopic advice and tactically alleniate him from his father.

Married a good man u say no, but loverboy, when a public husband show u hell, you label ever man as bad

You are a nuisance

When you get married direct it the way you want
When your children show more attention to their mum, dis own them

larrypourl:
I have 6 I'm raising for Christmas too, they're just 4weeks and some days. Mine haven't started eating anyhow maybe because they're still young, but I don't let feed finish from their feeders. They eat 24/7. Their poo is annoying, just eat, drink and poo.

I feed mine morning and evening and I make sure they get regular water because they can drink water no be small

If you keep making sure their food can doesn't go empty

You will find it difficult to regulate their feeding

Start a feeding plan they will adjust to

The more feed the more poo, but very healthy too

obinna58:
Broilers are very fragile creature, intending to keep them long means you don't have to feed them so much, grower is ok, as long as keeping up with their medications they can live up to 2yrs. The longer they live the tasty the meat.

obinna58:
Broilers are very fragile creature, intending to keep them long means you don't have to feed them so much, grower is ok, as long as keeping up with their medications they can live up to 2yrs. The longer they live the tasty the meat.

They have actually gone through the proper medication that's why they seems to be healthy with out feeling such even at 3 months

I will stick to grower feed because if I give them finisher they are finished with excess weight

Since it's for personal use

Coinwarrior:
I got married to one young 22years for the past two years plus now but she is very untrained for me to my taste becos she always resist all my taste teaching and she loved me when I got her initially.But now she has turned into a very disrespectful girl,very sultry(she can abuse a corpse),she is very unthankful no matter what you did for her.I have provided all good things of life for her yet she doesn’t see me as anything.At any slightest disagreement she would be threatening me to leave and be raining all sorts of abuses and curses on me.And she has a problem sef...her Fallopian tubes are blocked I have been trying to adopt for us and yet she doesn’t value it .prior to discovery of her tubal blockage after hsg test.I had spent over 2mln on her case and my own sperm is good and can impregnate a girl.But i am trying to see if I can see better option for my life.pls help me o

When next she threatens to leave, dare her that she should leave

You are married and living with someone who doesn't have respect for you

What are you still doing with her

Return her to her parents then start thinking of how to breath fresh air

IntelChief:
I once heard of a dying man's advice to his sons; which was, they are free to marry ANYTHING except a lady who is a virgin. When one of his son asked why, the dying man's reply was, "because I married your mother a virgin and her accumulated troubles over the years is the primary reason why I am now on my way to my early grave"

Well, I may be wrong, but I think being a virgin is not a sufficient pre-requisite to being a good wife or even girlfriend.
All the virgins, with few exceptions that I've dated in the past turned out to be the most very annoying set of girls in the world. The only thing they seem to boast of is their virginity.

My questions are:
1. Will you marry only a virgin?
2. What is the main problem with marrying a girl who is not a virgin?

Its more beneficial to men with small size of joy stick

You under why so no need to explain

Coinwarrior:
I am very unlucky to have good girls that can make good wife.The one I currently have is so ill-mannered,ungrateful,sultry,snaky and cunny.
Pls I need suggestions of where to find good girls that can be made good wife.Help a frustrated cool headed guy with heart and heart of Gold.

Get one and nurture her the way you want her to be by directing her in a well mannered way

But you have to be prepared and responsible to achieve that

Forget about those crazy girls

They are better of for dating

If you know what you want from a girl, interms of behavior and attitude teach her

If she loves you she will be humble and obeys you by being loyal

If she doesn't love you, she will argue every thing you tells her

Davidf555:
Do you think marriage is compulsory or not?
Can one live alone without having a partner?
Let's hear your thoughts

Its your choice to live as you wish

You only know the benefits of marriage at old age when you can no longer help yourself

Your wife and children will be there, if you ever showed them love while active in your hay days and years