PapiSAYDOR: Thank you for caring ma. I'm 26yrs old, lost both parents when i was 8yrs old. I grew up living with members of my dad's family and of course they did all they could for me but you know it can never be the same, i was sponsored till ssce level till i was asked to start fending for myself. My life has been so hard since then having to navigate the world on my own at a young age, did different menial jobs and live in several harsh conditions. I was able to get ond cert on my own but that isn't enough to secure a good paying job. Had to continue with my menial jobs, due to all the stress I'm stating to age at a young age and my bones are getting weak. Had accident on site a while back and i couldn't go back to work now. That is why am here begging to eat as i have no other option now. You asked for help that can be permanent for me, if i can be able to secure a good paying job with my ond, that will be more than enough for or if i can find anyone to set up business for me, I'll manage it well and pay the person back, I just want to be able to survive. I have OND in accounting and i live in ibadan oyo state, i can meet anyone that want to meet me in person. Right now i just need to eat, am starving to death and i have nothing to do, am just so sad. I have nothing to sell again, I have sold everything in my room and even my android phone, this small tecno phone is all i have.
I feel for you after reading your predicament
I will send to your account
Dont expect too much because we all have needs and we need money too
But pls look for teaching job around you so that you can feed and have means of doing other things
You base in Oyo and coming down to Lagos means you to relocate but you have to be sure of where to sleep and food to eat
FhiBi: He always want me to cook for him at least once a day and bring it to his office. On Saturday and Sunday,I'll be the one to come to his place and cook dinner for him. If I default,he'll not eat anything. The thing is that he can cook but he depends on me all the time.
If he needs such services why not him discuss marriage with you and then do the needful
Because I don't even know what he wants from you
No matter how you please him, if he is not ready to settle down, you may serve him forever yet he won't marry you
Then it seems you are even easily available for his beck and call
Ok now, what has he ever done for you to establish you or put you in a place to make income
The two suspects, covered by a swarm of bees, walked into the police station on Saturday, November 5, 2022, and reported themselves as thieves.
The suspects, who have since been identified as Phillip Wekesa, 32, and Mwamba Ili, 25, could not stop screaming in pain as the bees were stinging them.
Police immediately contacted Lilian Waithera, who had on November 3 made a report at the station that her cow was missing.
After arriving at the station, Waithera positively identified the cow as hers. She confessed to having sought a witchdoctor's services to help her find the cow.
"I am told that the suspects had tried to sell the cow at the Makutano market, but did not find a buyer. That was before the bees shepherded them to the station where they surrendered the cow," she said.
In a bizarre incident, the witchdoctor was reportedly asked to reverse the spell he cast on the 'thieves', and commanded the insects into a bag he was carrying.
After performing his 'magic', the sorcerer casually walked out of the police station leaving residents aghast.
Livestock theft has been on the rise in Kirinyaga, with the area Assistant Chief Mr. Daniel Kiama Maina urging residents not to resort to witchcraft to solve the menace.
Naijatask: The mom, even lives in the same town with us.
Their house is like a 20minute journey from ours.
Send him home let heaven fall apart and let's see if your father will reject you and keep a bad child that will soon ruin your entire sister's future, he may pregnant them and that will affect both family's relationships
Your father can still assist him from his mother's house
His mother knows that he is doing such dirty things, that was why she was not surprise
Your mum too is too quiet to the detriment of her daughters
Lamanii22: Hello everyone, what is the best way to tell my brother-in-law to stop peeing in the bathroom… like even if you pee there, you can at least flush it, like it’s sickening, the stench that comes from there is unbearable… plus I wash the toilet and bathroom like 3 times in a week, it just seem as if I’m wasting my effort in making the restroom clean….
You can at least pity someone’s effort…. I like everywhere clean and someone is just ruining it for me…. Whenever there’s a urine smell immediately I enter the house I can tell he is around cause he is the only one who does that….
Another thing is, doesn’t he perceive it too? Sometimes I even feel like I am over-reacting lol… I just want ways of telling him politely without causing any trouble…
Some people behaves like pig's and there is no other ways to tell him than for you to explain to him that you will appreciate he stops urinating in the bathroom
That you will appreciate he does that in the toilet
Worst-case he will accept it or get angry with you but you have said your mind
FERNADEZISBACK: Men cheats on their wives but can't endure being cheated on. My uncle estranged his wife over rumour that she have a secrete lover at her work place without visible evidence and has begun divorce process in the court...it baffles me because this same man has been cheating on his wife openly for so long.
Probably your uncle is tired of the marriage and just needed an excuse to pull out and bring in one of his mistresses
Your uncle wife may have been tired of him too and she too is happier dating outside
But no one likes to know that their partners cheats even when they are cronic cheaters
Sisib15: Hello nairaland, So i met this man three years ago, we started talking and he told me that he's divorced, at first he doesn't want to disclose it to me that he has married before , i discovered through my search on Facebook and he said his wife packed out of his house and he has tried all means to beg her to come back but she insisted that she's not coming back even her pastor informed him to move on and he has moved on and they were married for 5 years without a child. Then he asked me out and we started dating in which we have been together for two years now, my problem is what ever i do for this man he never appreciate it, he's always complaining to an extent that i feel that he's still much interested in his previous wife. I started staying in his house because his house is very close to my work place and i started seeing alot of things that i don't like especially he like measuring me up with his wife standard whatever I do to him i don't do it well like i don't know how to dress, i don't know how to eat, i don't know how to cook and he likes judging and always wanting to correct me. I love him so much but i don't know if i can continue with this. If i cook, i don't know how to cook, if people should hurt me outside and i told him he will judge me first before listening, at times he says some demeaning things to me and tell me that he's joking with me. At times, i feel that he's pretending, recently i told him that he needs to see a therapist. My problem now is that he's asking me for marriage, i don't know if i should accept or i should stop the relationship, i am really confuse! He's 40 years old and i'm 28 years old.
You can't appreciate some one who doesn't appreciate people's efforts
In other words, an ingrate is an ingrate
If you are enjoying the relationship and you can tolerate insults from him, then be ready to carry teary etestall through your marriage with him
If you want absolute peace of mind, look for a man that loves you to the moon and back not some one you loves dearly and doesn't place you properly
How are you even sure when the first wife comes back, you will become the second wife by default
Naijatask: So, in 2019, my dad decided to take him in.
One night, I woke up from sleep and decided to go to the kitchen and get drinking water (my room is just outside the sitting room, and you'll have to pass the sitting room before reaching the kitchen).
I observed that my cousin wasn't on the bed when I woke up. I decided to take a peek into my sister's room and there he was standing, jerking off to my sister's face! She was barely 15!
The lights was on, and his grandmother (my dad's mom) who came visiting was also on the bed together with my sisters! Such audacity!
I couldn't even believe what I saw, and tiptoed back into my room and woke up my maternal uncle who was staying with us in order to be my witness.
After witnessing the act, the only response he gave me was Why is she (my sister) feigning to sleep, while he was touching her and jerking off to her face .
I was shocked and couldn't even believe his utterance. Like bro! You was supposed to help me bounce on the stupid slowpoke harassing my sister, (your niece).
He just said that and left. With the little energy left with me, I opened the door, dragged my cousin brother out and warned him never to try such act again (I initially wanted to teach him a lesson he ought to never forget in his lifetime, but I was hugely disappointed with what my uncle did).
Even though I still reported him to my parents, there wasn't any punishment meted out to him.
After that incident, I completely lost the respect I had for my uncle. Agreed he had some issues with my mom (her elder sister) back then, but why extend the hatred to her children?.
After that incident, I still occasionally catch my cousin brother in the night in the sitting room, claiming to iron out his clothes. But I still maintain my anger since it's not as if I caught him going into my sister's room.
What broke the camels back, was an incident which happened last 3 weeks ago.
One of my younger sisters (she's 13) reported to my dad in the middle of the night that he caught my cousin brother in her room, jerking off at her face while trying to remove her underwear.
All my dad did was to woke me up from sleep (saying that he wants me to be the witness), and he was preaching to the boy on how his mom, is his younger sister and that he should talk if marriage should be done for him since he can't hold his sexual desires (like man, you was supposed to call me and we smack the shit out of him together!!!).
I got angry and just left them there.
The next morning, I told my mom about the incident, and she told me that my baby sister (an 8 year old) do complain to her sometimes about sharp pains in her private part.
And this happens whenever, my cousin brother is sent to take her to the room whenever she's asleep on the sitting room couch. And also, how one of my sisters told her that he once caught him trying to lift up her skirt while she was fast asleep on the couch in the middle of the night.
Right now, I'm Justin mad at myself and angry at the same time! I feel like a loser, a pussy who can't even protect his sisters.
The bastard is still living with us, in my room, and every day, my hatred for him grows stronger.
Even when my mom told his mom, her only reply was that he's still a kid, and she should forgive him. Someone who's 17!!!! For goodness sake!.
She didn't even called him out to kneel down in front of my mom and rebuke him. Nothing was done!!!! She didn't even spoke to him about the incident.
And whenever my mom makes her displeasure known to my dad, he always says that she hates his family, bla bla bla.
How can I reduce my hatred for my cousin? Or is my hatred justified?
Right now, he has been restricted into coming into the sitting room, anything past 8pm.
But still, I'm still sure things might just go back to being the same!.
My fear right now is, I'll be going for my youth service in a few months time, which means this bastard will be with my sisters unsecured!!!!
The whole family is at risk with such dog in your family
I expected you to tell your dad that he should take this boy back to his parents before he pregnant your sisters
I wish you have enough money for transportation, take him to his mother immediately
Let the worst happen and you will reveal everything out
Youngblood007: I have a girlfriend that is schooling in ekpoma while I school in Abraka. She entered uni before me though am catching up cuz of the strike. I really love her.
The problem is we don't really talk, we could stay for over 2 weeks without hearing from the other person. When I call her, she doesn't pick but she'll call back with one excuse or another. I won't lie and said av had some backyard business in school, but those sex were plainly out of konji and I don't really talk to the girls again. My girl recently confessed that she had something to do with a guy, though she claims she didn't have sex with him. The last time I saw her was around February. She doesn't send her normal pics talk less of nudes, even when konji is squeezing my neck. Am really confused as we've been together for some time now and I can't bring myself to break up as I am very much attached to her emotionally. I need advice on what to do.
There are some things that we can't handle due to distance
Keep on checking on her don't nurse the idea that she is dating
You too am sure that you are dating with another
By the end you guys may meet to part no more, but for now still keep her as whom you have taken her to be since you love her so much
favorlite: Who will come to my rescue? I never envisage to find myself in this kind of condition before but as it stand it i am in the middle of nowhere. I am a single Mom and I have been abandoned by my Baby Daddy for another lady. All my efforts to get his family to cooperate in raising the only child between us and being responsible all proved futile including paying for the room and parlor self contain we occupy. My rent expired October 31, and the agent has been on my neck to renew my tenancy ever since. I have only been able to personally raise half of the sum which is 60,000. I have made efforts in getting all the sum but it's been one setback and another. Please help me I'm frustrated and upset with everything. I have no one please help me with your widow's mite. I'm losing my mind. Help my life for the sake of my young daughter. You can call me for verification.
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My question is, after this particular rent is solved how do you intend to solve the next rent
You need to modify your life style and living so that you don't fight yourself
Things are hard and every one has one challenge or the other
Do you have a source of income
Would you mind settling for a self contain a apartment
Since your guy have gone with another woman, stop wasting time waiting for him
Move on and rock yourself
You can drop your child with your parents and start a fresh
This time around, you make use of your ovulation calender so that you avoid a second mistake
Madampauline: Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.
He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.
I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.
I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.
I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.
She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.
I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.
Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.
Advice me please
I think you should do it for her andet her know who you are
Its too late for her to reject it
She is stranded now and needs help from any quarter
Let her know that, because her husband was a nice man, that's why you want to pay his family back with good things
She may not know that you dated him
So it an open statement
Even if she knows, she doesn't care anymore all she wants is help
zedegit: Some people don't believe in dating. They believe you should just put the ring to it if you want them. I have met one of such girls. She's actually a wife material; 100 yards.
Remember some people broke up after dating for 7 Years and you can't fully know a woman even if you date her all your life, she fit still shock you.
What is your preference? Date or outright marriage?
I still prefer dating it gives you guys a chance to understand each other, things you can't cope with, you talk about it and if it won't work out you pull out
Straight marriage doesn't give you time to study each other and once you are stucked into the marriage you may not be happy with the whole thing yet you won't leave because you don't want people to talk about it
jimmyolasun: So i will be brief and straight to the point. I'm a 33years old bachelor and i have this friend and business partner who is in his late 40s. the issue here is that his daughter have been giving me this "GREEN LIGHT" and i am scared. she is 19 and i and her parent have known each other for almost five years as her dad sometimes bring her while younger to my office whenever he needs business consultations. So i am actually very confused now as i am a typical "AGBAYA" and i suspect her mother is also backing her and the transformer behind the light. as i type, i do ignore all her lights but ummmh.... for how long?
Just respect yourself if you can
And if you can't respect yourself
Go and fall into such and stain your relationship with them
tunjilee003: I chat with a Long time friend whom I haven't met in two years,deep into our conversation,he requested for my bank account details and atm serial number he said he wants to send some money to me, he's having issues with his own account,he wants to buy something online.... I sensed foul play,I gave him a wrong ATM card details,he sent 9k to my account,after that he called if I have received any otp,I made it known to him that I've not received any otp yet (since I gave him a wrong card details)he has been calling since morning begging to send his money back to him.. his money is still with me ,9k to be precise,what should i do in this scenariowhy suddenly did he requested for my ATM details when we barely talked for the first time in two years??why didn't he use the card of those people around him? to many fraudsters out there....
You acted wisely
He probably wanted to scam you but you were wiser than him
You could have been the one being scammed
Why should someone ask for your ATM details, something that is supposed to be known to you alone
Skillsmaster: Please ignore any grammatical and typographical error.
I am planning on getting married to my fiancee. We have done our introduction. We were s to go to her village for the payment of the bride price to the father. Though her mother is in Abuja here. The mother later changed her mind that we shouldn't travel to the village due to spiritual matter. But I told my fiancee that the bride price must get to the father. She suggested that we do a court wedding and later church wedding.
Please house, is it possible to do a court wedding before paying the bride price first and also before collecting the list from the bride's family? In addition, how much do court in Abuja collect for the court wedding?
How well do you know this lady you want to marry
How come at this point they are playing hide and seek with you
Let's assume the father and mother are not in talking terms, does it mean the lady's father should not be aware, partispate in his daughter's marriage, does it mean that you too don't have elders in your family that are supposed to be the one negotiating for your marriage instead of you and you alone
Where are your parents are they aware of this manipulation
I think you need to stop all plans and involve your family properly and do the right thing before this woman and her daughter will turn you to Mumu
Love is not enough to hold marriage,
But character is the major thing
Worst case you invite the father and lodge him in the hotel if they don't want him in their house then you guys can hire a hall
But left for me You are not even aware of what you are going into
Coinwarrior: I have a wife that always put pin to her WhatsApp which is always making it impossible to check her WhatsApp messages.I want to find an ingenious way to spy what is going on in her chats.
Family › Re: . by frozen70(f): 8:56pm On Nov 03, 2022*. Modified: 8:22am On Nov 04, 2022
TheBTCinvestor: Anytime we make out I feel so used to my wife that I don't have erection when she's naked. We have a son who is 3months old. When we were lovers our sex life used to be awesome and i normally crave for sex with her now i dont. Pls what do I do? Where can I get burantashi
You don't need burantashi All you need is to work on yourself
Check your health status if you have BP or blood sugar level if you have any
kmaster007: My wife with a kid wanted to know to my ATM pin. I thought she was joking but I noticed she's serious about knowing my pin. She was saying some of are colleague at work both their wife and husband knows each other ATM incase if something happens... But me refuse ooooo... Does it makes sense at all....
Tell her nothing will happen to you
Besides you are not also interested in her own pin because you believe they are personal
Family › Re: ..... by frozen70(f): 10:47am On Nov 07, 2022
