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Princeadebayo11:
She was the one that said she is not interested again

On that day she will be asked to say it again

Read my post very well

You lost the only woman who suffered withuou and you refuse to take her advice

Go and look for her as you stanlrt afresh

This time around take her advice

Meanwhile all the time you were flexing, you never established your parents

You didn't do well

Princeadebayo11:
One of my uncle did introduction this year with a girl he has been dating for almost a year and everything was successful and the bride price was paid to her father in Cash... Fast forward to last month this girl started misbehaving and complaining about my uncle not been able to pay some of her bills, this led to a serious misunderstanding. All of a sudden this girl said she is no longer interested in the marriage that her family will return the Bride price to us.
We contacted the father and he promised us that once he gets his salary, he will send the money to us. I don't know whether it's possible we can get the price back... Or it's just an audio promise

The matter is not something your uncle will talk over on the phone and he will get alert

He needs to make official visits with his family member and table his matter to them, the wife will be asked if she is still interested in the marriage

If he is lucky she says that she is no longer interested in the marriage

The bride price will be returned to him in the presence of all and that ends the marriage

But if she says she is still interested, then it's left for your uncle to continue or not

chival:
I just saw a heartbreaking cctv video of the boy's struggle in the pool before he died. He was wearing a floater, but he was upside down unfortunately and could not raise himself up. Here's a link to the video. Please watch at your discretion as the footage is bothersome. I am sharing it only as a lesson and deterrent to patents and child minders.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e0PamUCTTlo

That wasn't him

He plated his hair and that child you are talking about didn't had a low cut

Secondly, Davido swimming pool is a regular family swimming pool but that one you are talking about is for little children

Wat the video again I saw that in the morning

Ebukaboss:
what do u mean

Am done with you pls

Ebukaboss:
no am not
pls send it and let talk

Zukwanu Ike

Ebukaboss:
i said send me ur number

Na bye force?

Ebukaboss:
no
pls send me ur number

Ebuka ogini

Ebukaboss:
let her confront him

Is he a lion

ExAngel007:
A Nigerian woman has sought public advice on what to do after she found a female panty in her husband’s car.

Posting a photo of the pant on social media, the woman wrote:



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/11/nigerian-woman-seeks-public-advise-after-finding-female-panty-in-her-husbands-car.html

Politely confront him and show him

At least he will know that you saw some thing of such

Its now left for him to be more careful

Joystic:
Okay you win.. You religious folks just never let it go do you?
Thanks for your concern, really it means alot.

Thanks dear

Joystic:
You're right. Though personally I have nothing to pray for, already know all I need to do as per my want or needs, so I just get up my ass and do it. I feel no need praying for an answer I already have. Thanks though.

Pls, not to say I don't believe in Christ or I'm not spiritual. Quite the opposite, I'm always grateful for the littlest things in life.

If you have nothing to pray for,

Pray for your life and safety then

Joystic:
Thank you, I really appreciate. I don't know how to pray though.. tried a few times but couldn't make it past a few words.

I have a committed gf, she's helping a lot with the recovery process dunno how I would've done it without her.

That's nice

But you have to develop the habit of praying so that your relationship with God will be very close

Dont wait till you have to pray harder for favour from God

He knows your needs but he will appreciate you remind him through prayers

Joystic:
Thanks.
I forgot to mention the nightmares.. Going to sleep scares me, the nightmares are terrible. Some nights I could have as much as four separate, realistic and terrifying nightmares.

But overall, inbetween these things I get to feel my natural state more.. my thought processes and feelings are clearer and more accessible to me now. I'm in sync with myself, so yea its all worth it.

Congratulations on your progress

You will be fine soon

Just be steady and don't go back to it

Then back it up with prayers

You will love yourself after this, then avoid mastubation it will definitely trigger the system to react

I wish you good luck

Onyi90:
I HAD MY FIRST SEX AT 32. LAST NIGHT 31/10/2022.
I intentionally avoided physical intimacy with any lady till Last night when i decided to give it a try after partying last night and getting very high on black bullet and Bailey cream and some other drinks.
I can't say i enjoyed it, but i fired another round this morning because i woke up and my entire body was stiff, and the shapefull body was still lying on the bed naked.
The Lady is someone i met around town as I'm currently on leave from work. She's very young but up to 18 years. I can't explain how I fill now.
I actually have a wonderful lady who's far away from me. I hope to settle down with her come 2023. I intend to confess to her and ask for forgiveness, because i will be traveling to her location this week.
Our relationship has been a long distant one. Lately, we usually sex chat on Whatsapp video call.
I'm a public servant and she's a Lab technician working with a hospital too.

NB: She knows I've never had sex with any lady until last night. �
I'm also not a partying type and I don't drink too, but did all this last night �.
SHOULD I CONFESS TO HER OR JUST KEEP MUM LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED.

After all the wait, you ended up with a random girl despite you have a lady who was waiting patiently for you to break it with her

Ok, now what is your reason for telling her

She will never ever trust you again and she will definitely cheat on you to get her own turn on you

Real men don't talk anyhow

Joystic:
Guys, I laid off this drug I've been hooked on for years and I know for certain I'm never going back after a life altering experience.
Now, the thing is I've lost my enthusiasm. I can't feel excitement, my mojo is low as I'm always in a state of lethargy.

Will this pass? It's been two months and its really affecting me because people, inluding my family and girlfriends are always asking if I'm alright.

You are going through withdrawal syndrome and you will definitely be fine once your body system finish overhauling

Ebukaboss:
i think i like u

Thanks, but why

Sammy07:
Best Advice.

Thanks

Ebukaboss:
that a good advice

Thanks

Ebukaboss:
This morning me and my girlfriend went to eat at a shoprite, after the eating moment i stepped outside... I saw mum and i was shock so me and gf greeted her... She didn't anwser us when i looked straight to her eyes.... She shake her head and eye me with bad looking.... Before she comes back
pls guy tell me what she meant,even me i don't understand

She us your mum and so you have to be close to her so that you can always understand her body language

Maybe she feels the girl you went out with doesn't befit you

She is also interested in knowing who you are dating

SouthSouth1914:
You kill 2 bandits and this is news?

It's a great new, at least they have gone and the people they are terrorising will have peace in the interim

Chuky7:
My friend has been looking for a solution to his dandruff issue for some time now. he tried a few home made things none has seem to stick.

please your suggestions any product I could try. please be detailed name of product and price and if it is something with an 100% guarantee. or if you have any homemade please suggest.

thanks

For men, it's easy to solve and treat

Most men that experience dandruff keeps very low cut hair next to the hair calp

So they wash their hair regularly and that's keeps the dandruff away

Then barb your hair every two weeks

They this let's see the difference

Darlingme:
One thing I know is, when you truly love someone, you wouldn't want to deprive them on valuable things in life.

Wasting someone's time in the name of dating and endless relationship is pure wickedness.

I know there's no lay down rule for relationship and dating, as what work for Mr A, may not Work for Mr B.
The biological system of a male gender is different from that of a female which we all know.
The truth is, a woman can slay with make up to look younger than her age, but the truth is, she can't change the biological nature.
It means, a young woman who desire children, should do that before it becomes late.

Often times, I've seen write up where ladies in their thirties (30) are labeled as EVENING newspapers. I'm sure, most men who called them that name still date them offline.

My question is this:
1. Why do women allow men to date them till they reach or get close to menopause all in the name of love and waiting?
2. Why do some men date young women without marriage and watch them get close to menopause?
3. Do you think, dating should be discourage?

Dating shouldn't be discouraged

But any woman in a relationship, six months is enough to know the directions of the relationship

Once there is no signal for marriage, just leave the relationship

Besides not every relationship ends with marriage, some are best kept at that level

Some needs companionship

Rachel98:
Good day nairalanders.

Primary/secondary school management should address this issue of student's footwears and socks. White socks and sandals should be prohibited in primary/secondary school.

My niece who is in nursery class goes to school neatly dressed everyday, her socks is always as white as snow everyday but she returns home like someone who went to the farm.

Her white socks & sandals is always as if it was picked from the mud. Her uniform is always neat but her socks and sandals are always looking dirty.

She don't trek to school, their school bus normally carry her to and fro. I've complained to her teacher several times.

Since the month of May we entered raining season till date I've disposed over 11 socks and I can't even count how many socks I've bought for her since May till date.

In this 21st century who still wear white socks and sandals to school ? School management should please recommend black shoe and black socks for students.

Is not as if we have good roads in Nigeria, Our road in this country is very bad especially when it's raining season and most of us don't have washing machine, we make use of our hands to wash biko.

Today's own was out of this world, as from tomorrow she's wearing black shoe and black socks to school, let me come and see the teacher that will flog her becus she broke the school rules.

If parents are not complaining, i will complain o. I even wonder if the school management don't look at their pupils legs.

Atleast with black socks and black shoes it won't be so obvious that it's dirty and It's also easy to wash and clean. School management abeg.

You have a good point but for you to present this issue and get approval

You have to attend the school PTA meeting and table it down to the hearing of both parents and teachers who will make sense with you

Sholayeaminebir:
We've been married for 4momthhs now. We are both young, in my miidddle 20s my husband in his early 30.
My husband complains the reason he didn't ejaculated was because I wasn't feeling the sex and that I was dry. Even after I told him it might be as a result of the anti biotics I just finished taking. Pls what should I do

Women are naturally wet but they become slimey down there like a Jelly when aroused

Do you get aroused when you are with him

Does he turns you on, even when you are not engaged into sex

Let me assume that the drugs you took played a fast one on you

This time around, don't give excuses, get romantic with him and be as close as good friends let's see why you should be dry down there

He has a job to work on you, if you free yourself you will be wet and if you tighten your mind then you can't get wet neither will you get aroused

Both of you should start watching romantic movies and get into mood, that is if he is willing to solve the problem with you

Lastly, respect and obey him, if you are loyal to him, you will surrender and submit

Nicepoker:
let me inform christoff to come handle your case.

Hahaha, lol

Nicepoker:
Since you want to involve other options. That man died due to the fact that he loved the wife so much. Seeing her leave really hurts him.

I don't think so, that he died because he loves the wife and the wife left him

If he really appreciate his wife, he won't give her reasons to leave

Only him knows why he chooses death

Nicepoker:
You decided to twist the narrative to suit your optics. You are very far away from the topic.

I don't even want to be near the topic

Some men have good wives but treats them anyhow


No marriage is sweeter, they all have bitter taste

So I blame both of them for her husband death

Nicepoker:
Because of a wooman? Just look at where and how he decided to die. SMH.

That woman must have been the reason why he was still alive but because he doesn't know how to treat such woman

She has to leave him and he couldn't cope

He would have resolved the issue that made them got separated if he rraly wanted her to stay with him

Who suffer head dey sweet ?

Calvary247:
My husband has suddenly developed a new habit: he comes back home late at night which is very unusual. My husband is not that type but i don't know what came over him to start living this kind of life. And any time I try to talk to him he says no problem and that i should not worry but it's a matter of concern to me. How do I get to the root of this? I'm down emotionally.

I think he is doing it for a reason best known to him

Maybe be you have to talk with him

He may have decided to be staying out late but am sure if not for drinking then it's for a mistress

Follow him gently he may open up and if you have been troubling him at home, you have to think twice

iiifedimma:
Good morning please anywhere you see this type of comments please don't mind this fraudster he is a well known fraudster here on Nairaland creating a new account every day to keep scamming people here on Nairaland, it's a guy that is behind the account using it for a scamming business

Pls guys don't just scroll pass, pls kindly assist me i have,i have nothing left again for me and my brother to feed. We have been hungry since this week pls assist us with whatever little you have in any little way, we will be eternally grateful. May God almighty bless you and come to your aid as you have come to ours

Don't even send a penny to this unfortunate fraudster if you loved yourself

Thanks for the information

He will remain a great miserable person that's what he wishes himself

Ifakiland:
I will blame the mom....why drop a crying baby with a dad?

You did not even read the report and if you did then you will come across where she reported that she went to the toilet and left the child with his father

So look for the news report and start following the news

You will read where he use hanger to beat an infant who was disturbing his sleep