@OP, You used HER whenever u can sounds so degrading. Is she an object?

Yen, yen, yen

Yall don't get tired of recycling the same stuff. Kuku buy time machine so you can import 'yesterday years ' wife.

Yes 35 years is not the most appropriate age for a woman to get married if it can be avoided. What about her fertility window and his own tastes and preferences?

Ajibade123:
I am so disappointed that you are educated and you still take age as a big deal
so 35 years old is bad for a female to get married??

if you interested in Canada, UK, Belarus work and study visa
package check my signature to be added to the gc.

Is nor easy

ImaIma1:
Faithful husband at heart

Okurr, what are symptoms of HIV exposure? Your contraceptive broke? Or condom? The story no too gel imo

Nice suit...me likey

Ndi monitoring spirit! It's a really friendly question to project marriage break up from personal text? Dont come for me, I've removed my hearing aids

CuteMercury:
Please what happened to i am not spoilt, my husband just love me.
In your profile?
Are you single now? If yes then i will be happy to take over.
Biko no insult o, it's just a friendly question.

Dumbest comment I've read in
a long while and to think you can call yourself Shedrack is even much more annoying.

Shedrack777:
but on a serious note, this girl dey enjoy free legal orgasm for captivity o

So if he was in the country, he'd be framed for something hes innocent of.

Na real wonder woman

tartarus:
So you want her to contribute financially at home + do the house chores + carry your baby + run her Msc?? Cos she's wonder woman abi?!.
She suggested you both outsource and pay someone to clean and take care of the house chores at home but you refused cos you want a cook, a cleaner, a mother and a CEO in one woman, so what exactly is your usefulness?. Make it make sense please

You're not ready. This is 2021

Better get someone to do the chores and you both focus on making money and raising your child

You are a good man

ravensckar:
This issue is the easiest that I have come across. With a little bit of understanding, both of them will have a perfect marriage. Now, let's analyze the issue. She's educated, but you think she's unambitious. That's a lie! She just doesn't enjoy doing whatever job you're pushing her to for reasons best known to her. Bros, I'd advise you take her out for dinner one beautiful night and calmly ask her what type of job she'd like to go into. You'll be amazed. My wife is a degree holder, but prefers owning her own shop. I once forced her to work for a company, it almost killed her self-esteem. But now that she's in her preferred area, she's shining.


Secondly, on the issue of laziness. I think you just need to sit down with men and let them tell you first-hand what marriage entails. Almost all women find chores stressful. They enjoy roaming the house naked, watching television and enjoying themselves. Who wouldn't? I'll advise you play a trick on her. Whenever you return from work, tell her the usual line; 'work was stressful today, this and that happened bla bla bla'. Then, proceed to cleaning the house in her presence. Do it with a smile on your face. Trust me, her conscience will prick her. Some women are like that, words and threats won't work on them. Just appeal to their conscience. I believe your lady is a wonderful person since she isn't even pretending to be hardworking just to trick you into marrying her.


Thirdly, on the issue of pregnancy and the everyday drama that comes with it. Bros, I'll be very honest with you. The initial stage of marriage is filled with drama. Do you know why? Both of you ain't used to each other yet. You're beginning to observe the unpleasant sides of each other. Now, what's the solution to this? Take your minds off the negatives and focus on the positives. Think of the stuffs that your wife is good at and let it motivate you to want to make your marriage work. Compliment her for it, and tell her to her face that she's the best in that area. Then, watch her try to improve on her weak areas. It's a bit complex than how I've put it, I pray you find a way around it.

PS- It took my wife more than 4 years to understand that she has to tidy the house before going to shop. You can guess who was doing the cleaning for those 4 years. Lolz. Marriage hard o, but again, compared to what?

How exactly do you punish a wife?

This bolded part is most mind boggling. How exactly does she intend to neutralise the fetish

Richy4:


OP, I'm Just curious..... So if the money passed through her to your mother, the charm holding you people's progress will not work on you anymore or what?

Was there incantations or prayers said before handing the money to your mum?... Is she a prophetess, "dibia-ress or Babaaláwo-ress"
It's just amazing the bitter pill some people swallow just for peace to reign in the name of marriage

For those who dont drink or gift alcohol. Learning never ends, u know....

Bornsinner7:
Which one is requirement for born again Christians only??

All this stress just to own a pussy??

Now that the world is thriving towards gender equality.. I think they should start groom price as well

Good question

LadySarah:
how did a 3 and 6 yr old get to PRI 1 and PRI 4?

3 years old in Primary 1

You are a clown, right

aremuforlife:

Development take stages, if the previous government was able to do have of what this present government is doing, Nigeria would have move forward a bit, but nevertheless, we are still moving and hope we will be there.

Rent of 400 usd sounds low. What country?

Bvlgari:
As we all know, living overseas is very enjoyable but u must pay for those things unfailingly every month

This brings me to my question...

How much do u spend on your bills monthly overseas?

Pls note that it may vary from country to country

As for me, this is my breakdown spendings every month

1: house rent $ 400
2: grocery shopping $ 150
3: electricity $ 25
4: water $ 10
5: internet $50
6: gas $5
7: car fuel $ 50
8: kid school $ 150
7: miscellaneous $ 200

Total $ 1040 monthly

Pls kindly let use know yours because our people in Nigeria don't ever understand and they always demand and demand from us thinking there is a tree overseas that we pluck money from...and they pay their rent yearly o

May God bless our hussles

How polite can you be when responding to questions not addressed to you?? Next!

PoliteActivist:


How is that your biz She likes older guys. How old are YOU?

How old are you?

Zzor:
Sweetheart I'm on his side on this,its always wise for a lady never to date a man in her age group, a man must be stable financially before thinking marriage and he already made you understand that,the only mistake you made is dating him.Since he's not ready please look for someone who's ready and settle down with him,never let your emotions direct your thinking in marriage issues.Please let him go so as not to waste more time as you already have. Follow this tips:Cut off from a relationship that has no head way after six months to avoid stories that touch.As for me I already resolve never to date a man below 50yrs because most Nigerian men below 50 are still struggling.Such a messed up country

I use a front loader. Have you ever run statistics to determine what people use?

If you read carefully you'll see that the woman that accidentally dropped her baby in a washing machine did so , in a top loader washing machine.

KingAzubuike:

All this shalaye isn't necessary. Moreover not many people use front loader washing machine in Nigeria. What most people use here are spinners which is not dangerous. Only a very tiny fraction use the front loaders.

How does this even happen??

2010, a 10-day old baby girl died after her mother accidentally put her in a top-loading washing machine with the laundry.

U said she cooks on Sun for cash

Danhoys:
I thought I knew what dirtiness was until my cousin's sister started living with us. We gave her a room, a roof over her head until she finds her bearing.

She's an orphan, almost going to 28 years, and sells food on Sundays for cash.

But, looking at her, she's the replica of the word 'unappealing.'

Her hair is always shabby, dirty, and she never attempt to even braid it to keep it in order. Black is beautiful, but hers comes in brown patches and acne.

She doesn't even care.

We have a water closet, and she's ready to keep popping without an attempt to flush. The last time I traveled and left the home for a week, the toilet was beyond what I could comprehend.

To the point I had to do renovation, repainted the wall, and had to hire a cleaner to help wash the toilet thoroughly.

I couldn't risk catching a disease doing it myself. That was how bad it was.

After doing all these, she stopped using the toilet, but would prefer to pop in the compound with a black nylon at night.

Sometimes, she even forget to throw them away. I had woke up very early in the morning. Saw her bucket and wanted to use it, what I saw changed my day.

I saw her feces, and since then I vowed never to touched a bucket that is isn't mine.

Aside from her protruding stomach which she does little to hide, the wrapper she wears every evening have never seen water in months.

Women are supposed to be conscious of their unclothedness, but not this cousin of mine.

She can avoid all the bathrooms, and choose to bathe outside in the open at night.

Like, around 8 to 9 pm when everyone is still very much awake.

Sometimes children will bump in on her unintentionally, and the kid will run away traumatized by what he or she have seen.

I dare not go into details to recount how she prepares the food she sales, and how dirty her coolers and kitchen utensils can swim with maggots for 6 days before she finally washes them on Saturday and prepares food on Sunday for her esteemed customers.

She's not beautiful facially, nor wear makeup or earrings since it's against her belief.

Doesn't wear clothes that suit her. If she dresses like an mbeke, that wouldn't be a problem. I just don't understand her dressing at all, coupled with her dirty look.

When it comes to religion, hers is the worse, jumping from one church to the other. And worse, we hardly sleepy at midnight.

She is always in battle with demons, with her speaking of tongues that don't just sound ridiculous, but deafening and irritating.

She's just 28, and I doubt if any man has ever stopped her on the road, and I still suspect she have never laid with a man before.

She's not mentally unstable if that is what most of you might think.

She's lively, knows how to joke and hold conversations like we all do. But when it comes to her body, grooming, overall cleaningness, she's zero.

There are grades of dirtiness, but when it comes to a stage where someone now dines and wines with feces, then there is a problem somewhere.

She's shapeless and doesn't want to do anything about it despite my numerous advise. She eats junk, like...

She runs to the backyard, gets some vegetables and fry it up with some concoctions and food is ready.

I know all their foods, and the things she cooks is nothing less than a concoction. I've eat her food once and my stomach testified.

A thoroughly analysis of her personality fascinates me to some extent. Is this her personality? Something that is genetically engineered into her that she has no control over?

Can she change?

Do you think I can help her, how?

U sef see am. The wife must never accept such a spouse again. Maybe some pervert guy or a fetish guy. Shuu

purples25:
I don't understand, the wife is more beautiful. Very sad.

The sis no fine pass the wife o. God forbid for this kind spouse. This one na spouse?

How come its members of the community that spotted that it's the sis' husband. Her parents couldn't spot it?

Nigerian refugees Or potential insurgents

Only 50 mins not 50 hours

My own is why cant she spell the valentine.

N why cant your own bro who should know better do the washing himself. Hes your bro and should know your stance on stuff like this. He led her to your room ... doubt she'll have selected your room. Stopblamingwomen

Gang90:

I won't judge much on that one, it is their house and no one knew I will be coming back today, but why in heavens name won't she at least wash the bedsheet, I'm disgusted honestly,

Do u know what billionaire is. Count the zeros again before saying dbanj is a billionaire.

Queenlovely:
Your Boyfriend is not less than Dbanj because he did not buy you a Ferrari. Dbanj is a billionaire. The cost of This car is less than 1% of his net worth.

If your Boyfriend spent 5% of his net worth buying you a gift, then your boyfriend did more than Dbanj. Remember the account of the widow’s mite?

Don’t just look at the amount. Rather, look at the sacrifice. $1 million is chicken change to a billionaire.

$10,000 is a sacrifice to a working man. Go home and appreciate your Boyfriend. He did what Dbanj has not done!